Izindlela Ezi-5 Ezihlakaniphile Zokuphatha Abantu Abangajulile Abanciphisa Izinketho Zakho Zokuphila

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Ukuzungezwa ngabantu abesekayo kungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuba nempilo nenjabulo. Ngokungenakugwenywa, nokho, uzobhekana nabantu abahlukahlukene ababukela phansi ukukhetha kwakho ngempilo futhi bakubeke phansi.

Ungahle weneliseke ngokuphelele ngempilo yakho, kepha kuzohlala kukhona umuntu okutshela ukuthi wenze okuningi, ube ngcono, futhi uziphushele phambili.



Lezi zinhlobo ezingajulile zazi okuncane nge- ukuthula kwangaphakathi nokuthula okuvela ukubonga nge lokho osunayo. Esikhundleni salokho, babukela phansi labo ababona “behlala” empilweni.

Nawa amathiphu ama-5 awusizo wokukusiza uhlale upholile futhi ubhekane nokunganaki kwawo…

1. Thola Isitolo

Izinto zokuqala kuqala, udinga ukufunda ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nokunganaki nokucindezeleka, ngoba nakanjani uzokuthola ezigabeni ezahlukahlukene zempilo yakho.

Ukuba nendawo yokudala yezingxabano zakho kungasiza kakhulu - iphephabhuku , zivivinye, noma uthathe izitsha zobumba… noma yini ekusebenzelayo!

Noma ngabe ujabule kangakanani ngezinketho zakho, kuzoba khona umuntu ocathama emthunzini, olungele ukukubeka phansi. Lokhu kungakhungathekisa kakhulu futhi imvamisa sivumela le mizwa ukuthi iphele isikhathi eside kakhulu.

Ukuthola indlela yokukhipha le mizwa emibi, kunalokho uyivumele ekugcineni iqhume, kubaluleke kakhulu enhlalakahleni yakho.

Zijwayeze ukwenza izinto ezikwenza uzizwe kahle, ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba.

Ukuba nalezi zinto zokuzilibazisa kukubeka kahle empilweni ngokujwayelekile, futhi futhi kungaba yindlela yokubhekana ngqo uma kwenzeka uhlangabezana nezikhathi ezinzima.

Ungahle ungakwazi ukuthethisa abantu abathile ngokukubeka phansi, kepha ungakhipha lonke ulaka lwakho esikhwameni se-punch ejimini.

2. Gxila

Kungakhathaza lapho abanye abantu behlala bebuza izinqumo zakho futhi begxeka ngokweqile, futhi kungaholela enkingeni ethile yobunikazi.

Lokhu kuyinto ejwayelekile, ungethuki! Noma ngabe ukhululekile kangakanani ngezinqumo zakho, ukubuzwa imibuzo ephindaphindwayo kuzokukwenza uzibuze ngokwakho.

Yenza uhlu lwezinto ozithandayo ngempilo yakho, noma ngabe lokho ukungashadi futhi uzimele (ungabi nesizungu futhi ungathandwa!), uyazisebenza kanye nomphathi wakho (hhayi ubuvila!), Noma umzali ohlala ekhaya (hhayi umuntu onikelwe!)

Abantu abangajulile uzokhetha ukubona uhlangothi olubi lwezici ezithile zempilo yakho, futhi kukuwe ukuthi uhlale unethemba.

Ukuba nohlu olusizayo lwezinto ozithandayo ngempilo yakho kuzokwenza kube lula kakhulu ukuphatha ukugxekwa kwabanye abantu.

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Awudingi ukuthethelela izinketho zakho kunoma ngubani, kodwa uhlobo lwabantu abakululazayo nalo luzokushiya wedwa uma sebebona ukuthi balwa impi yokuhlulwa.

Uma uqiniseka ngokwengeziwe ngokwenzayo, mancane amathuba okuthi baqhubeke nokukugxeka.

3. Yekelani

Khumbula ukuthi ukhululekile futhi wanelisekile kangakanani (noma ukuthi usebenza kanzima kangakanani ukwenza impilo yakho ibe ngcono uma ungekho kokuqukethwe okungu-100%) futhi uyeke imibono engemihle yabanye abantu.

Lokhu kungaba yinselelo yangempela kwesinye isikhathi, kunjalo, kepha ingxenye yokuphila impilo yakho enhle ayikhathazwa yimibono yabanye abantu ngawe.

Kungabonakala kungenakwenzeka, ikakhulukazi uma umuntu okugxekayo kungumuntu ombona njalo. Uma kungumphathi wakho noma osebenza naye, hlela umuntu ngamunye bese ubeka imingcele ecacile yokuziphatha okufanele, bese uqhubeka.

Awudingi ukuba sematheni okwamukelwa kokunganaki okungaka, futhi kuzogcina kukwenza ube lusizi futhi ucindezeleke. Yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuthi ungangeni esimweni sokukhohlisa, ngoba lokhu kungagcina kuphela kabi.

Manje yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokuyeka ukunganaki bese uqhubeka. Ngenkathi abanye abantu bazohlala benombono ngalokho okwenzayo ngempilo yakho - kungaba yilungu lomndeni noma umuntu ovela emsebenzini - empeleni akulona ibhizinisi labo ngaphandle kokuthi kuyabathinta.

Ukukhetha kwakho ukuba nezingane, noma ukungabi nabo, ukuhamba, noma ukuqala ibhizinisi lakho yinto okhetha ukuyenza ngempilo yakho, futhi ayidingi ukwahlulelwa noma ukubekwa phansi ngabanye abantu.

Vumela ukunganaki okuzungezile futhi wamukele ukuthi abanye abantu bayohlala benomona omncane, bethukuthele, noma ngokudelela !

Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):

4. Yiba Nozwela

Lokhu kungazwakala kukuxakile, uma unikezwe ukuthi abantu babukela phansi ukukhetha kwakho empilweni bangazizwa njengokuhlaselwa komuntu uqobo!

Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi imibono yabanye abantu ngawe imvamisa iyinkomba yokuthi bazizwa kanjani ngabo.

Abantu abagxeka impilo yakho mhlawumbe abajabule ngezimpilo zabo, ngakho-ke lokhu kungenzeka kube yisibonakaliso (noma ukukhuluma ngokwengqondo, a ukuqagela ukungaqiniseki kwabo.

Bangaze bacasuke nempilo yakho, bese bekhetha ukuyigxeka kunokwamukela ukuthi abajabule ngempilo yabo.

Dedela okungasakusebenzeli, futhi wenze okusemandleni akho ukuthi uqhubekele phambili kubantu ababonakala behlose ukukwenza uzizwe kabi ngenxa nje yalokho.

Ukuba nozwela kulezi zimo kungaba nzima impela, ikakhulukazi lapho uxakwe futhi wanyuselwa endaweni yokwephuka!

Zama ukuza nezimpendulo ezilungile kusengaphambili ukuze uzilungiselele kakhudlwana - kungaba lula ukuphuma lapho ucasulwa.

Yiba nokuthile okunomusa ongakusho futhi wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukusiza lowo muntu uma kuba sobala ukuthi kukhona okwenzekayo ngemuva kokuhlaselwa kwakhe.

Kuwumsebenzi onzima, kodwa yiba umuntu omkhulu futhi yiba nozwelo kulabo abaseduze kwakho .

5. Cabanga

Uma abantu abagxeka impilo yakho kangaka besondele kuwe, kungakuhle uthathe lokho abakushoyo ebhodini. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi laba bantu ngempela bakufisela okuhle, kungenzeka ukuthi bamane nje babonisa ukukhathazeka okufanele.

Okubalulekile ukuthi ujabulile ngempilo yakho, nangokukhetha okwenzayo.

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Uma ucabanga ukuthi othile osondelene nawe uzama ukwakha ngokwakha kwakhe ukugxeka, kubhale phansi, uqiniseke ukuthi bayakuqonda ukuthi kungenzeka bakwenze uzizwe kabi ngendlela abazwakalisa ngayo ukukhathazeka kwabo, futhi uthathe isikhathi sokucabangisisa.

Imibono ehlukene ingaba wusizo - awusebenzi badinga ukuqinisekiswa noma ukuvunywa kwabanye , kodwa kufanelekile ukuthi ucabangele eminye imibono lapho uthemba ukuthi abakhulumi izinto naphezu kokweqile.

Qiniseka ukuthi abantu abakhuluma nawe bayakuqonda ukuthi abakushoyo kungahlangabezana ngendlela engeyinhle, nokuthi uzimisele ukugwema noma yikuphi ubuthi noma ingxabano.

Ukuba nomngane oseduze noma ilungu lomndeni elidlala ummeli kasathane nawe kungaba yindlela enhle yokushaya imibono ngapha nangapha futhi kungaba nomphumela omuhle impela.

Noma ngabe ikuphi ukukhetha okwenzile, noma okwenzayo, kungokwakho. Yize ububele nokunakekela kuyizici ezibaluleke kakhulu ebuntwini bakho, nawe kudingeka ube nobugovu lapho kudingeka.

Funda uku zenzele izinqumo futhi waneliseke ngazo, noma usebenze ngokuzikhandla ubheke esimweni esingcono kuwe.

Abanye abantu bazohlala bethola indlela yokukubeka phansi bakwenze uzizwe kabi ngendlela ophila ngayo impilo yakho. Lokhu akulona ibhizinisi labo (ngaphandle kokuthi wenza okuthile okucasulayo ngendlela eyethusayo!) Futhi abanalungelo lokwenza uzizwe ungafaneleki noma uyisiwula.

Akunandaba ukuthi kanjani walala emuva futhi wakhululeka ungukuthi, noma ngabe unganeliseka kangakanani ngempilo yakho, kunzima ukungakhali ngezinye izikhathi.

Abantu abangajulile bazovame ukwenza okusemandleni abo ukuthi bahlale bekuhlohla futhi bakwenze uqine, imvamisa benethemba lokuthola impendulo enkulu kuwe.

Ungazithukutheleli uma lokhu kwenzeka, ungumuntu kuphela, ngemuva kwakho konke, kodwa zama ukuba nezinqubo ezithile zokubhekana nalezi zimo.