Indlela oziveza ngayo emhlabeni kufanele kube yisinqumo sakho, futhi noma yiziphi izinguquko kulokho kufanele zivele kuwe!
Khumbula ukuthi awudingi ukuziguqula kunoma ngubani ofanele ukuba naye empilweni yakho.
KODWA, uma ubheka ukwenza ushintsho futhi ufuna ukuzizwa futhi ubukeke ungowesifazane ngokwengeziwe, sinezeluleko ezinhle.
Ezinye ziphathelene nokubukeka kwakho, kanti ezinye ziphathelene nesimo sakho sengqondo nendlela osondela ngayo ezintweni.
Linga ubone ukuthi yini okukusebenzelayo - futhi ujabule endleleni!
1. Sebenzela ukuzethemba kwakho.
Kubantu abaningi, ukuba ngowesifazane kumayelana nokuzethemba nokuqiniseka ngawe.
Ubuntombi bungaba lula njengokuzamukela ukuthi ungubani njengowesifazane.
Yamukela okwenza ube ngowesifazane. Ingabe izinwele zakho, izindebe, amajika? Ingabe indlela yakho ethambile ezintweni noma ubumnene bakho okwenza uzizwe ungowesifazane?
Noma yini evusa lowo muzwa yinto okufanele uyihlole ngokuqhubekayo!
Siqondise eziningi zalezi zeluleko kwabesifazane abakuthola kunzima ngempela ukuzibona njengabesifazane, nganoma yisiphi isizathu.
unesisindo esingakanani umngcwabi
Uma lokho kuzwakala njengawe, indlela enhle yokusebenzela ukuzethemba kwakho ukuthi funa abanye besifazane ababukeka ucabanga ukuthi ubukeka kanjani.
Uma unezinwele ezimfushane, ngokwesibonelo, futhi ungazizwa ungowesifazane ngazo, funa abesifazane abathile abadumile abanezinwele ezimfishane.
Uma umude kakhulu futhi uzizwa sengathi lokho kukuvimba ukuba ube ngowesifazane onomdlandla, funa owesifazane omude odumile!
Uyabona ukuthi siyaphi nalokhu - noma ngabe yini ingqondo esekhanda lakho (“Ngimkhulu kakhulu / ngibhincile / nginesifuba esicwebezelayo / ngimude njll.”), Kuzoba khona umuntu onaleso sici oshukumisayo futhi kubukeka kumangalisa futhi kungowesifazane.
Imayelana nokuthola abantu ongabheka kubo futhi ukubone lokho akukho sici somzimba esingakuvimba ekubeni yintombazane!
Ukusebenza ekuzethembeni kwakho kanjena kungakusiza ukuthi uthole ukuxhumana okuningi nohlangothi lwakho lwabesifazane.
2. Cela usizo.
Khuluma nabathandekayo obathembayo mayelana nokuthi uzizwa kanjani.
Ukuvula ngokungazizwa njengowesifazane njengowesifazane kungaba nzima kakhulu! Yilokho esihloselwe ukuba yikho ngokwemvelo, akunjalo?
Bangase bamangale ngoba mhlawumbe bazokubona ungowesifazane kakhulu, kodwa bayokujabulela ukukusiza uma kukwenza uzizwe ungcono.
Buza ukuthi yini abacabanga ukuthi ikwenza ube ngowesifazane - bhala phansi lezi zinto ukuze ubabuke emuva noma kunini lapho uzizwa ungowesilisa noma ungathandeki njll.
Bangakhuluma ngezinwele zakho ezinde - ngakho-ke zibhale phansi futhi ungesabi ukuzishiya phansi noma uzame ukuzigoqa / ukuziqondisa, ukuthenga ezinye iziqeshana ezintsha ukubukisa ngazo futhi uvumele wonke umuntu abone ukuthi zithandeka futhi zingezabesifazane .
Bangase bathi yisibalo sakho esisheshayo, ngakho-ke sibonise. Khumbula ukuthi abangani bakho bakutshele ukuthi ubukeka umnandi futhi umuhle kanjani futhi ujabulele ukuzizwa njengowesifazane oqinile, ozethembayo!
3. Cabanga ukuthi kungani lokhu kubalulekile kuwe.
Enye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokushintsha indlela oziphethe ngayo ukubeka imigomo ecacile.
Cabanga ngokuthi kungani ufuna ukwenza ushintsho futhi ugcine lokho engqondweni. Kuzokusiza ukuthi uhlale uthembekile kuwe njengoba uthola izindlela zokuzizwa nokwenza okwabesifazane ngokwengeziwe.
Kungenzeka ngoba uzizwa ungavikelekile ngendlela obukeka ngayo futhi ucabanga ukuthi uzozethemba ngokwengeziwe uma ubungabonakala njengowesifazane ngokwengeziwe.
Kungenzeka ngoba othile uphakamise ukuthi ungowesilisa impela futhi ufuna ukusuka kulokho.
Noma ngabe yini, yenze ngengqondo futhi ugcine lokho engqondweni njengoba uzama izinto ezahlukahlukene - futhi uqhubeke ubuyela ekutheni ngabe izinguquko zikusiza yini ukuthi uxhumane nawe njengowesifazane ngokwengeziwe.
4. Zama ikhabethe elisha.
Ukuzama izingubo ezihlukile kungaba yindlela enhle yokuzama ukukhipha izici ezahlukahlukene zobuntu bakho.
Asisho ukuthi udinga ukugqoka izingubo nezicathulo eziphakeme ngaso sonke isikhathi, nganoma iyiphi indlela.
Kepha, izingubo ezahlukahlukene zingavusa imizwa ehlukene ngaphakathi kwethu futhi leyo mizwa ivezwe futhi ihunyushwe yilabo abasizungezile.
Zama ukuphrinta okwengeziwe 'okunjenge-ladyl' - lokhu kuhle uma ulwela ngempela ukuzibona ungowesifazane.
ungayeka kanjani ukulawula kanye nomona
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungowesifazane ongacabangi wango-2010 kumagazini, isibonelo, kungenzeka ukuthi ugqoke imidwebo ethile enesinqe, okuthile okumnandi noma okubomvana.
Manje, umqondo wobufazi usushintshile kancane kusukela lapho, kepha ukugqoka kanjena kungakusiza uzizwe ufana nalowo wesifazane one-stereotypical - lokhu kuyasiza kakhulu uma ukuthola kunzima ukuzibona njengomunye.
Lapho unethezeka ngokwengeziwe ngombono wokuthi wena kukhona owesifazane nawe kukhona ngowesifazane, ngokushesha uzothola isitayela sakho, isitayela esisha nendlela yokuveza lokho.
Kwabesifazane abathile, ukugqoka izingubo kubenza bazizwe bethandana kakhulu, ngakho-ke bakhipha i-sexy vibe bese babonwa kanjalo.
Ungase uthole ukuthi ukugqoka izingubo ezingenamhlane kukwenza uzizwe unothando futhi uzethemba, ngakho-ke uzobonakala kanjalo.
Ngokulinganayo, ama-jumpers angakwenza uzizwe lelo zinga lokuzethemba, okuzokwenza ukuthi ubonakale uzethemba kakhulu futhi wamukela ubulili bakho besifazane!
Thola okukusebenzela kangcono futhi ungesabi ukudlala ngokuzungezile.
5. Vuselela izinwele zakho / izimonyo.
Futhi, izinguquko zangaphandle zingathinta indlela ozizwa ngayo ngaphakathi.
Uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi yini ezokusiza ukwamukela uhlangothi lwakho lobufazi, buza umphathi wezinwele zakho amathiphu athile.
Bayazi ukuthi bangabheka kanjani ubuso ngokufanele futhi bazokusiza ukuthi uthole ukuthi yini ezogcizelela kangcono amehlo akho noma umugqa womhlathi.
Lokhu kungakusiza ukwamukela izici ezahlukahlukene zobuntu bakho okungenzeka ubungakaze uzicabange ngaphambili.
Bangakusiza ukufeza noma ikuphi ukubukeka okucwaningile futhi bakusize uthole isitayela esintofontofo nesinikeza ngempela i-glam, vibe yesifazane.
Ungazama futhi ukwenza ukwakheka kwakho ngokuhlukile - uGoogle owesifazane ombona njengowesifazane kakhulu futhi ubone ukuthi abukeka kanjani.
Bangase bafake i-lipstick eningi, okungaba yinto ocabanga ukuthi ibenza babukeke njengabesifazane futhi ungazizama.
Ukuphindaphinda okubonwa ngumphakathi 'njengowesifazane' kungakusiza uzizwe sengathi uyakufezekisa nawe.
Uma uzama ukuzihlanganisa nohlobo olujwayelekile lwenhliziyo kancane, ungabona ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngakho.
Ukusuka lapho, lapho-ke ungazitholela izindlela zakho zokuveza ubufazi bakho.
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6. Xhumana ne-vixen yakho yangaphakathi!
Isici esikhulu sobufazi inkanuko. Lokho akubona ubulili, ngasese, kepha kumayelana nokuba nesilingo nokuheha, ukuba nemfihlakalo yabesifazane.
Lokho kungazwakala kungenangqondo namamayela ayisigidi kude nokuthi uzizwa kanjani njengamanje, kepha kufanelekile ukukuhlola.
Iphunga livusa inkanuko, ngakho-ke dlala ngamakha ubone ukuthi yini ekwenza uzizwe ukhululekile.
Ungazama izinto eziningi ezahlukahlukene - gqoka izingubo zangaphansi ezi-sexy ngaphansi kwezingubo zakho zomsebenzi bese ubona ukuthi uzethemba kangakanani.
Futhi ungesabi ukuba ngothando olukhulu ngobusuku obude bese ubona ukuthi ungakukhanga kanjani!
Ukuba ngowesifazane kumayelana nokwamukela ukuthi ungubani futhi ujabule ngakho, ngakho ungesabi ukuzama, udlale ngakho, futhi ubone ukuthi yini ezwa okuhle.
7. Zibambe njengentokazi.
Ukuma kwakho kusho okuningi ngawe, futhi kungakhombisa nokuthi ungowesifazane kanjani noma owesilisa.
Uma uvame ukuzithola usalala noma usakazeka kakhulu, ungahle unikeze i-vibe yesilisa.
Kungazwakala kuyisilima, kepha noma leli nani elincane lomzimba lingakhombisa ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngawe nokuthi ungowesifazane kanjani.
Uma ufuna ukuvela njengowesifazane ngokwengeziwe, zama ukuhlala ngokuncanyana - weqa imilenze noma amaqakala, hlala uqonde bese uzibamba ngomusa.
Lokhu akukhona ukuthi uzenze ube mncane noma uzifihle, kumayelana nokuphrojusa leyo vibe eqinile yabesifazane - emnandi, inhle futhi inhle.
8. Hamba ngezinyawo.
Futhi, indlela esihamba ngayo isho okuningi ngendlela esizizwa ngayo ngathi.
Uma ungumuntu ovame ukuba namahloni futhi ukhubeke kancane ubhekise ikhanda phansi, awunikeli ngokubonakala kowesifazane oqinile ophethe ikusasa lakhe!
Zama ukuzithwala ngomusa owengeziwe, ikhanda phezulu, hamba ngenhloso, futhi ubonise umhlaba ukuthi ngubani umphathi.
Ingxenye yokuba ngowesifazane wesifazane ukuzethemba ezinqumweni zakho, ngakho-ke hamba sengathi usemishini futhi ungesabi ukuthatha isikhala esithile wenze umnyango.
9. Khuluma inkulumo.
Singene emininingwaneni ethile ngokusebenzisa ukukhuluma komzimba wakho ukuzibandakanya nohlangothi lwakho lwabesifazane, kodwa kuthiwani ngolimi olukhulunywayo?
Asisho ukuthi ngaso leso sikhathi kufanele ube yigiggly cloud of perfume and simpling lisps, kodwa indlela okhuluma ngayo nokuzwakala ngayo isho okuningi ngawe, ngakho-ke kufanele ucabange ngakho!
Ungazama amathoni wezwi ahlukile bese ubona ukuthi yini okusebenzelayo - akudingeki ukuthi kube nokuxokozela nokuphakama, kepha uma izwi lakho eliphansi liyinto ekwenza uzizwe ungowesilisa, ungazama amathoni alula.
Sebenzisa amagama amaningi abesifazane, yenza imisho yakho ibe yinde kancane futhi ungesabi umsindo wezwi lakho!
10. Cabanga ngendlela osebenzisana ngayo nabanye.
Abesifazane abaningi abalwela ukuzizwa njengabesifazane abazi ngempela ukuthi kufanele benze kanjani, ikakhulukazi eduze kwabantu ababathola beheha.
Uma uzizwa ungowesilisa impela futhi ufuna ukunakwa yindoda, ngokwesibonelo, ungazizwa unamahloni kakhulu noma unsexy noma uyindoda.
Lokhu kungokwemvelo futhi abesifazane abaningi bazizwa ngale ndlela, kepha kunezindlela ongakushintsha ngazo lokhu futhi usebenzele ukuzethemba kwakho!
Futhi, lokhu akukona ngokushintsha ukuthi ungubani. Imayelana nokuthola indlela ehlukile yokuyethula.
Amadoda amaningi athanda abesifazane abanesibindi futhi abathandanayo, ngakho-ke ungesabi ukuzama ukuthinta okuthambile.
Uma uphume ngosuku, ngokwesibonelo, ungathinta kancane ingalo yabo lapho ukhuluma nabo, noma uhlale eduze kwabo ukuze uguge ngamadolo.
okufanele ukwenze lapho ukhumbula isoka lakho kakhulu kuba buhlungu
Izinto ezincane ezifana nalezi zikhombisa ukuthi uyaxhumana nezinkanuko zakho nobufazi, futhi indoda onayo izoqala ukukubona ngaleyo ndlela nangaphezulu.
Uma lokho kuzwakala kunzima kakhulu futhi kuyinqaba, izame nomngane oseduze kuqala! Zingahle zingashaywa umoya futhi ngokungazelelwe zifune ukukuqabula, kodwa kuzokusiza ukuthi uphumule ekuthintekeni ngokucasulayo uma konke lokhu kukusha kakhulu kuwe.
11. Ungesabi ukuba sexy.
Abesifazane abaningi abalwela ukuzwa noma ukwenza njengabesifazane bayakwesaba kakhulu ukuthandana.
Abafuni ukubonwa njengabantu abaziphethe kabi noma benze sengathi ubulili babo ukuphela kwento yabo.
Ukuba ngowesifazane kumayelana nokuthola ibhalansi - ungaba mncane futhi uhlakaniphe, ube mnandi futhi ube muhle, ube mnandi futhi uhlekise.
Ukuxhumana nohlangothi lwakho lwezocansi akusho ukuthi ufakwa ngokushesha ebhokisini futhi ube nobukhulu obubodwa ebuntwini bakho!
Thola i-flirty encane, gqoka okuthile okugqamile, futhi ungesabi ukudlala ngakho konke.
Futhi, abantu abaningi bahumusha ubufazi ngokuzethemba nokukhululwa kwabesifazane abenza abakufunayo, ngakho-ke yenza okuzwakala kukuhle futhi ukujabulele.
12. Fake it until you make it.
Kungaba nzima impela ukwazi ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngezinto ngezinye izikhathi, kepha kufanelekile ukuzenzisa ekuqaleni.
Uma ukwazi ukukholisa abanye ukuthi uhambisana nelipstick ebomvu egqamile, uzoqala ukuzikholisa.
Uma wenza ukuzethemba futhi uvule obala ngothando, abantu bazocabanga ukuthi unjalo nje futhi uzoqala ukuba ngaleyo ndlela.
Ukuzijwayeza kwenza kuphelele, ngakho-ke qhubeka uma kuzwakala kukuhle!
Uzosebenza ngokulingana nobuntu bakho nokuthi yini ezizwa ingakhululekile kakhulu ukwenza isikhathi eside.
Njengoba wenza lokhu, uzothola izingcezu ezintsha zesiqu sakho obezifihla sonke lesi sikhathi, futhi uzozitholela izingcezwana zakho ezingabesifazane ngempela…
Ngakho-ke, kunezindlela eziningi zokuveza ubufazi bakho bangaphakathi futhi uxhumane kakhulu nalolo hlangothi lobuntu bakho.
Khumbula ukuthi kungani ufuna ukwenza lokhu futhi kuzokwenza yonke inqubo ibe mnandi kakhulu.
Isihluthulelo ukuzijabulisa! Ukwamukela izingxenye zakho ezahlukahlukene kuyajabulisa futhi kuyinto ongahle uzizwe uqinisekile ngayo, ngakho-ke ungazami kakhulu ekuhlolweni okuncane okungasebenzi.
Qhubeka, qhubeka udlale futhi uqhubeke nokwenza okuzwakala kukuhle…
