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Siphila emphakathini lapho izinto ezibonakalayo zithatha impilo yethu. Sinamathele kumafoni nakumathebulethi ethu, sibeka amakhaya ethu ngezindlela zakamuva, futhi sigqoka ngokugqoka okokugqoka nakwizesekeli noma ngabe zenziwe efektri efanayo nezilinganiso ezingekho emthethweni.
Kepha kunokuhlehla okwandayo kokulwa nezinto ezibonakalayo, futhi kungaleso ongafuna ukukulalela. Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani kufanele uzame ukugwema ukuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo, njengoba laba abangu-12 abalandelayo bephakathi kwezibaluleke kakhulu. Zifunde bese uthola ukuthi kungani kungafanele uthande izinto ezibonakalayo, ukuqala namuhla.
1. Izinti Zamagoli Zihamba Njalo
Inkinga yokuqala ngokuphila impilo yokuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo ukuthi, noma ngabe ucebe kangakanani nanoma yiliphi izinga lokunethezeka ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo olifinyelelayo, ungahlala njalo unyukela emikhiqizweni emikhulu kakhulu.
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Lokhu kwenzeka ngoba ingqondo yomuntu iyakwazi ukuzivumelanisa nezimo futhi noma yiziphi izinto ezintsha zifakwa ngokushesha ekujwayeleni. Ngokuyinhloko babuna ngemuva ngemuva nje kokuzithola.
Lokhu kwaziwa njenge-treadmill of consumption - akukho okuthengiwe okuzokusondeza enjabulweni, kuzomane kusheshise umshini wokunyathelisa ukuphoqa ukuthi uthenge izinto ezibiza kakhulu.
2. Ukwaneliseka Okulindelwe Ngokuvamile Kuphakeme Kunokwaneliseka Kwangempela
Kaningi uzocabanga ngokuthenga into bese ulindela okukhulu kokweneliseka kwakho, bese uthola ukwaneliseka okuphansi kakhulu ngemuva kokuyithenga.
Le ifomu lokudideka kwengqondo, lapho isimo sakho sento sishintsha khona lapho ususiphethe. Lapho ingasasebenzi njengengxenye yenganekwane yesikhathi esizayo, futhi lapho ubona amaqiniso abandayo, anzima ngokuba lusizo kwakho kuwe, isikhalazo sayo siyancipha ngokushesha.
Lokhu ngokwengxenye kuphathelene nokuhamba phambili kwamagoli okukhulunywe ngawo ngenhla, kepha kunenye into edlalwayo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi uzoba nayo leyo nto, kungenzeka ukuthi ibe sesimeni esingenangqondo esingenazinkathazo nezingcindezi zomhlaba wangempela. Lapho uhlangabezana nento leyo kumongo wempilo yakho ebanzi, yehluleka ukufeza okulindelwe.
3. Abantu Abathanda Izinto Ngokuvamile Abajabuli Ngokuvamile
Kunokucwaninga okuningi laphaya (iGoogle uma ufuna ukukufunda) okuphakamisa ukuthi abantu abathanda izinto ezibonakalayo ngokuvamile baba nemizwa engemihle kakhulu futhi babe nemibono embalwa emihle. Bajwayele ukuba nezinkinga zokukhathazeka, ukudangala kanye nezifo ezihlobene nazo.
Empeleni-ke, ukuphishekela ukuzuza ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo empeleni kuyafana nokuphila okungajabulisi kangako esikhathini esizayo.
4. Yakho Yiba Nokubonga Okuncane Empilweni Yakho
Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokuthenga izinto ezintsha nezinokumba eqolo siholela abantu abathanda izinto ezibonakalayo ukuthi balahlekelwe ukubonga. Bakhathazeka ngokweqile ‘ngento’ elandelayo, baze behluleke ukubona umcebo ‘wezinto’ asebenazo ezibazungezile.
Ngoba bazisa into ngayinye ngapansi, balwela ukubonga ukuchuma okubavumele ukuthi bayithenge kwasekuqaleni.
Lokhu kushoda kokubonga kungasakazeka ezimpilweni zabo zonke kubudlelwano babo nabanye, imisebenzi yabo, kanye nolwazi lwabo olujwayelekile lokuphila.
5. Izimpahla Eziningi Zisetshenziswa Kakhulu
Elinye lamahlazo amakhulu emhlabeni wanamuhla ukuthi kuncane kangakanani esikusebenzisa okuningi kwempahla yethu. Yize ingacaciswanga ngabathandi bezinto ezibonakalayo, ihlobene kakhulu nezifiso nemikhuba yabo ethile.
Lapho unezinto eziningi, kuncane okwazi ukuzisebenzisela ukusetshenziswa kwazo okuphezulu. Ngamanye amagama, ukuthenga izinto eziningi nokuningi kukuvimbela ekusebenziseni - ingasaphathwa eyokujabulela - izinto osunazo, ngenxa yokuthi unamandla alinganiselwe ongawathola.
6. Imfuhlumfuhlu Iyacindezela
Akunakuphikwa ukuthi lapho ujwayele ukuthenga ngokwengeziwe, imfucuza eyengeziwe uzojwayela ukuyithola. Noma kungabonakali njalo, uma unamakhabethe, ophahleni, kanye nezingubo zokugqoka ezigcwele izinto, ungahle uhlupheke kakhulu.
Imfuhlumfuhlu ithinta ubuchopho bakho ngezindlela eziningi , futhi ayikho neyodwa yazo ezuzisayo, ngakho-ke ungahle uthande ukuqhela ekuthandeni izinto ezibonakalayo ngenxa yalesi sizathu kuphela.
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
- Izindlela Ezi-7 I-Scarcity Mindset Ikubambezela Emuva (Futhi I-Mindset Eningi Iyakudlulisela Kanjani Phambili)
- Izeluleko Ezi-3 Ezilula Zokuqalisa Ngokuphila Okuncane
- Izindlela ezi-5 Ubuncane Buhle Empilweni Yakho Yengqondo
- Izimpawu eziyi-15 zeTelltale Osebenzisana Nomuntu Ongajulile
- Izinto Ezi-7 Ekuphileni Ozithathayo Ngokunikezwa
7. Izinto zokwakha azikwazi ukukuthuthukisa njengomuntu
Lapho sihlola noma yini ezimpilweni zethu, kufanele sikwenze lokho ngokubuka kokuthuthuka. Kufanele sibuze ukuthi ngabe kuyayithuthukisa yini impilo yethu yomzimba nengqondo, nokuthi futhi kuyasithuthukisa yini thina bantu - ngokuziphatha nangokuzibophezela.
Ngezinto nezinto, kunzima ukubona, ngaphezu kwezimfuneko eziyisisekelo zempilo entofontofo, ukuthi zingasithuthukisa kanjani isimo sakho noma wena njengomuntu.
8. Ukuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo kwehlisa ubudlelwano futhi kudale isizungu
Sinamandla amakhulu engqondo kuphela, futhi lapho lokho kuthathwa ngokulungiswa emhlabeni wezinto ezibonakalayo, kusibangela ukuthi sinciphise inani esilibeka ebuhlotsheni bomuntu siqu.
Ucwaningo olulodwa uze waphakamisa nokuthi kunokuxhumana okujikelezayo phakathi kokuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo nokuba nesizungu, lapho ngakunye kubhebhethekisa omunye. Ngamanye amagama, njengoba ugxila kakhulu ekuzuzeni ingcebo yezinto ezibonakalayo, maningi amathuba okuthi uhlangabezana nesizungu .
9. Ukuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo kuqhuba umona
Lapho wonke amathemba namaphupho akho kugxile ekubeni nezinto ezithile - indlu enkulu, imoto ebizayo, amagajethi wakamuva - cishe uzoba isisulu sesinye sezono eziyisikhombisa ezibulalayo: umona.
Njengoba uqala ukuhamba emibuthanweni yabantu abathanda izinto ngokulinganayo, amaphupho akho kuzodingeka ancintisane namaqiniso abanye. Futhi noma ngabe ucebe kangakanani, kuyohlale kukhona ocebile kunawe.
Ngokungenakugwenywa, uzobheka laba bantu ngamehlo aluhlaza ngomona futhi lokhu kuvusa kuphela umuzwa wakho wokuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo. Ngokufana nokuhamba phambili kwamagoli okukhulunywe ngenhla, uzohlala ukwazi ukuziqhathanisa nomuntu onomcebo omkhulu nokuphila okunezikhwepha, okusho ukuthi awusoze waneliseka.
10. Ngeke Ubuke Emuva Ezintweni Oziphethe
Njengoba ukhula - futhi ngisho naseminyakeni ephakathi - mancane kakhulu amathuba okuthi ubheke emuva empilweni yakho kuze kube manje bese ukhumbula izinto ezibonakalayo esezifikile nezadlula.
Awusoze wahlala ngokumamatheka ebusweni bakho lapho ukhumbula izingubo zikanokusho owake wazigqoka noma i-smartphone enqenqemeni eyake yanamathisela isandla sakho. Lezi akuzona izinto izinkumbulo ezenziwe ngazo.
11. Abantu Ngeke Bakukhumbule Ngezinto Zakho
Lapho konke sekudlulile futhi usudlulile kulo mhlaba uye kunoma yini elandelayo, ngeke kube yingcebo yakho ebonakalayo abantu abayishoyo uma bekhuluma ngempilo yakho.
Kuzoba uhlobo lomuntu owawuyikho, ubumnandi ababenabo nawe, izikhathi ezingalibaleki owabelane ngazo. Kuzoba yisibonelo osibekela labo abaseduze kwakho nokuhle okwenzile ngesikhathi sakho kule planethi.
12. Okuhlangenwe Nakho Kunikeza Injabulo Eyengeziwe Kunezinto Onazo
Amaphuzu amabili adlule womabili aholela kulesi sizathu sokugcina sokungafuni ukuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo. Ososayensi manje sebenesiqiniseko sokuthi, kubantu abaningi, ukusebenzisa imali kokuhlangenwe nakho kuzoletha injabulo enkulu yesikhathi eside kunokuyichitha ezintweni onazo.
Okuhlangenwe nakho yilokho okubheka emuva lapho ukhula futhi kuyilokho abantu abazokukhumbula ngawe lapho ungasekho. Okuhlangenwe nakho kuba yingxenye yendaba yakho yokuphila kuyakuguqula ukuthi ungubani, kuqinisa ubudlelwano, kukhuthaza ukubambisana, kukunikeza injabulo okungekho lutho olubonakalayo olungakunikeza.
Okuhlangenwe nakho akuzi nentengo yentengo enamathiselwe kubo ngeke ikubize lutho, noma ingakubiza kakhulu, kepha imizwa yangempela oyithola ngaleso sikhathi ayifanisi. Lokhu kusho ukuthi awukho umona futhi akukho okuhlangenwe nakho okuhamba phambili kwamagoli kumane kuyilokho abayikho.
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Ngabe ufisa sengathi ngabe wawungathandi izinto ezibonakalayo? Ngabe le ndatshana ikuqinisekisile lokho obusukwazi kakade enhliziyweni yakho? Shiya amazwana bese usazise ukuthi ucabangani.
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