I-Introversion isici sonke esisikhombisa ngezinga elithile noma elinye, kepha ngenkathi abantu abaningi bekuthola ngezikhathi ezithile kuphela, kukhona abanye abachitha iningi lempilo yabo njengabangenisi abaphuma nabangaphandle.
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Laba bantu abahlangani nomhlaba ngendlela efanayo nawo wonke umuntu bavame ukukhombisa indlela yokuziphatha ethize yonke egxilile kubuntu babo obukhethekile.
La maphuzu alandelayo ayi-15 ahlanganisa izici ezijwayeleke kakhulu zezethulo maqondana nokuxhumana kwazo nomhlaba nabantu / nezinto ezikulo.
1. Basethubeni lokuba ngongoti entweni eyodwa, kunojeke wayo yonke imisebenzi.
Ama-introverts enza kahle ngokugxila ekhonweni elilodwa noma ekuzivocavoca umzimba kuze kube bayakwazi. Lokhu kubenza bakwazi ukugqama ezintweni abazithandayo njengokudlala izinsimbi zomculo, ukupenda, namasu omlingo.
Kuyaqabukela kakhulu ukuthola isingeniso esinamakhono ejwayelekile - uhlobo lomuntu okwazi ukufaka umshini wokuwasha izitsha, apheke isidlo sakusihlwa esimnandi, aphinde agqokise ingubo ibe isitayela esisha, konke ngaphandle kwemiyalelo.
2. Bakhetha ukuziveza ngokubhala.
I-introvert ikwazi ngokuphelele ukukhuluma ngesihloko esinikeziwe, kepha bakhetha kakhulu ukubhala imicabango yabo phansi.
Imvamisa zitholakala ngepeni nephepha kumuntu wazo futhi maningi amathuba okuba zisebenzise imibhalo nama-imeyili lapho zixhumana nabanye.
3. Bayakuzonda ukukhuluma nocingo.
Wona kanye umcabango wocingo oluzayo ungathumela isingeniso ekuncibilika ngokomzimba. Abakwazi ukumela le ndlela yokuxhumana futhi bayigweme ngenkuthalo lapho kungenzeka khona.
Bazama ukungaluphenduli ucingo ngaphandle kwalapho luphuthuma futhi bazokuyeka ukwenza izingcingo kuze kube umzuzu wokugcina.
4. Bacabanga kahle ngaphambi kokuba bakhulume / bathayiphe.
Noma ngabe yiziphi izindlela zokuxhumana, izethulo zivame ukukhombisa ukuqaphela futhi zivame ukuzindla ngamaphuzu azo ngokucophelela ngaphambi kokuzenza. Lokhu kungasho ukuthi izingxoxo zihlangana njengoketshezi oluncane, ikakhulukazi phakathi kokungeniswa okungaphezu kokukodwa.
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5. Zijabulela izingxoxo ezijulile, kepha ziyesaba inkulumo encane.
Izingxoxo ngezindaba ezingasho lutho ziyayikhokhisa intela introvert futhi zingathanda kakhulu ukuxoxa ngazo izihloko ezijulile, ezinengqondo ngokwengeziwe , nemizwa yabo ngabo.
Lesi ngesinye sezizathu eziyinhloko abangakuthandi ukuhlangana nabantu abasha, ngoba izimo ezinjalo zidinga into ethile ye-chitchat. Okufanayo kusebenza ngezingcingo, ukuxhumana nabantu, kanye neminye imicimbi yokuzijabulisa.
6. Bazimisele ukubheka isithombe esikhulu ngaphambi kokufinyelela eziphethweni / ezinqumweni.
Izethulo zivame ukuba nazo impela izingqondo ezivulekile futhi bathambekele ekuzameni ukubona izinto kuzo zonke izinhlangothi ngaphambi kokufika esiphethweni sabo. Kunjalo ongqondongqondo abajulile ngeke iphazanyiswe kalula yimpikiswano eyodwa kuze kube yilapho wonke amaphuzu wokubuka ezwakele futhi kwaxoxwa ngawo.
Bathanda nokubona isithombe esikhulu ukwedlula impilo yabo. Lokhu kuvame ukusho ukubeka okuhle komphakathi ngaphambi kwenzuzo yomuntu lapho kunenketho ongayikhetha.
7. Bayazibamba uma besesixukwini.
Engafisi ukuba yisikhungo sokunakwa, isingeniso sizoziyela ngaphakathi futhi sifune ukonga amandla futhi sigweme ukubhekana ngeziqu zamehlo lapho sisesixukwini.
Eqinisweni, bafuna ukuziqhelelanisa nabo kwasekuqaleni, benqabe izimemo emaphathini bethanda ukuba yedwa nokuba nenkampani yeqembu elincane abangane abahle .
8. Bangaphumelela njengabadlali, kepha bagweme ukugqama.
Baningi abalingisi abahle, abalingisi, abaculi nabadlali abangahle bazibeke njengabangenisi futhi ukuba yibo ngokuqinisekile akuvimbeli ithalente elinjalo ukuthi likhanye.
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Ngokuvamile, noma kunjalo, umdlali owethuliwe uzofuna ukugwema ukunakwa nokuxhumana okulandelayo ngangokunokwenzeka.
9. Benza umsebenzi wabo ongcono ngokwabo.
Ezweni elisondela kakhulu ekubambisaneni ngobuningi, izethulo zivame ukuthola ubuhlakani bazo obukhulu lapho zisebenza zodwa. Bathanda ukungena futhi babhekane nezinkinga besebenzisa wonke amandla abo esikhundleni sokuxhumana nabanye okusebenzela ukukhipha iningi lale mandla.
Bakhetha amahhovisi athule, ahlukanisiwe kuya ezinhlelweni ezinkulu ezivulekile futhi bavame ukutholakala benama-headphone ukuvimba zonke izinto zangaphandle.
10. Ziyaphazamiseka kalula, kepha kuyaqabukela zibhoreke.
Esinye sezizathu izethulo ezithanda ukuzifihla lapho zisebenza kungenxa yokuthi zinomkhuba wokuphazanyiswa yizo zonke izinhlobo zezinto.
Kepha abaphazanyiswa ngoba banesithukuthezi ngokwenzayo, kepha ngoba banesifiso esinganeliseki sokufunda izinto ezintsha.
Kungenxa yokuthi zivuselelwa yizihloko eziningi ezahlukahlukene kangangokuba ziphazamiseka kwasekuqaleni.
11. Baneso elihle kakhulu ngemininingwane.
Isingeniso sivame ukubona izinto abanye abaningi abangazilahleka. Banokumangalisa iso lemininingwane emincane kakhulu futhi babona okuningi ngobunzima obungapheli bomhlaba ngenxa yalokhu.
Benza abahlaziyi abakhulu kuzo zonke izizinda zempilo - ibhizinisi, ezombusazwe, kanye nomphakathi - futhi bangabona amaphethini, izitayela nencazelo kudatha lapho abanye bebona khona ukufiphala kwezibalo.
12. Badonselwa ezindleleni zomsebenzi wokudala, ezihlala zodwa.
Ngenkathi abanye beba ngabahlaziyi okuxoxwe ngabo ngenhla, izethulo eziningi zithola ukungena emisebenzini equkethe into ethile yokudala. Idizayini, ubuciko, ukubhala, ngisho nesayensi, kudweba izethulo eziningi kunabakhiphi ngenxa yenkululeko enkulu yomuntu ngamunye nokucabanga okucacile okudingekayo.
Ngenxa yesifiso sabo sokuba nobuciko kwezobuciko, bavame ukuba nekhono kakhulu kulokho abakwenzayo futhi abaningi bazenzela amabhizinisi amancane. Noma kufanele bathathe abasebenzi, ngokujwayelekile bazofuna ukugcina indawo yabo yokusebenza eyedwa enehhovisi elihlukile noma isikhala esivaliwe.
13. Bazithola besondele ekuphumeni lapho besezimweni ezingakhululeki.
Lapho izethulo zizithola sezimweni ezingazithandi - njengezindawo eziminyene - zizofuna ngomqondo ongokwemvelo isikhundla esiseduzane nemizila yokuphunyuka engaba khona.
Bayakugwema ukubiyelwa abanye abantu noma izinto ezithile futhi bathande ukuba nohlelo olucacile emakhanda abo lokuthi bazogcina kanjani beqe ngokuphelele kulesi simo.
Yingakho izethulo zivame ukutholakala zimile noma zihleli eduze nomnyango emaphathini noma zibhukha izihlalo ezisezindaweni zebhayisikobho.
14. Bazizwa izindawo zabo ezizungezile ngokuhlukile.
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Ama-introverts ahlangabezane nezimo ezibonakala zinomvuzo njengabantu abaningi abazitholi ukushesha okufanayo noma umuzwa okhungathekisayo oxhumene nezwe elibazungezile ngqo.
Bavame ukuhlala ngaphakathi kwamakhanda abo kancane futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi izinto ezinjengamaphathi, amakhonsathi omculo, nemicimbi yezemidlalo azibaniki umsindo ofanayo ongazizwa yi-extrovert.
Banethuba lokuthola umvuzo encwadini enhle, ukugeza okuphumuzayo, noma ukuhamba ehlathini - imisebenzi abanye abantu abangayithatha kalula.
15. Uma amandla abo eseqediwe, bacishe bavale.
Lapho i-introvert isiphelile amandla ayo, izama ukuyeka ngokoqobo ukwenza noma yini. Abazami ukuphusha ukudinwa ayikho into efana nomoya wesibili wabo.
Lapho bedinga ukuphumula nokuphumula, lokho cishe yikho konke abakwaziyo ukukwenza. Abakwazi ukukhokhisa amabhethri abo ngenkampani yabanye isiphuzo samandla ngeke siwasike badinga ukuba nesikhathi esithile sokuthula, bebodwa, ngaphandle kokuvuselelwa.
