Ngemuva kweminyaka ethile, abaningi bethu basuka ekuhleleni izinto ezingapheli nabangane bethu siye ekuhlanganyeleni 'isiphuzo esisheshayo' phakathi kwezinto eziyizigidi nezinye ezintweni zethu ezimatasa.
Noma ngabe kuhlelela umuntu ogcina ingane noma ukwenza imisebenzi yethu ngokujikisa, iningi lethu likuthola kunzima ukuzibophezela ezinhlelweni.
Ngakho-ke, kunokuba uvume ukuhlangana 'okujwayelekile,' kungani ungahleleli okuthile okujabulisa kakhulu nomngani wakho omkhulu?
Kungenzeka ukuthi unamathele ezinhlelweni uma zithakazelisa, futhi sinemibono emihle yemisebenzi ye-bestie…
1. Hamba Uyothenga - Kodwa Hhayi Uhlobo Olujwayelekile
Ukwelashwa kokuthengisa kungaba mnandi, kepha kungani ungashintshi izinto kancane bese uhlola izitolo zasendaweni / ezokusiza endaweni?
Izinhlobonhlobo ezinikezwayo kulezi zitolo zinkulu futhi kungaba kuhle ngempela ukuthola izingcezu nezingcezu eziyingqayizivele - noma ngabe yizimpahla, ifenisha, noma izinto ezincane zokuhlobisa zekhaya lakho.
Ngaphezu, ishibhile futhi inemvelo enhle kakhulu.
2. Thola okuningi kwedolobha lakho
Kungenzeka ukuthi uhlala endaweni efanayo impilo yakho yonke, kepha kungakanani okwenzayo ngempela uyazi?
Hhayi njengoba ucabanga, ngokungangabazeki.
Ngakho-ke kungani ungahambi ezindaweni ezithile ezahlukahlukene zedolobha lakho noma idolobha? Uzothola izindawo ezithakazelisayo ongakaze uzibone ngaphambili.
Lokho kungahle kube yizitolo ezincanyana (idolobha ngalinye linamanye), amapaki amancane amahle, noma ukubukwa okumangalisayo ongakaze ube nakho ngaphambili (ikakhulukazi uma uhlala endaweni ethile enamagquma).
3. Yenza Usuku Lomnyuziyamu
Uma ulandela okuthile okujabulisayo nokukhululekile, kungani ungathathi uhambo lokuya kumnyuziyamu wendawo?
Ukudlala izivakashi edolobheni langakini kuyathakazelisa ngokumangazayo, futhi nakanjani kuzoba nombukiso ngesikhathi esithile ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezizayo enizowujabulela nobabili nomngani wakho.
Thola isikhuthazo samasiko, jabulela ucezu olukhulu lwekhekhe endaweni yokudlela yasemnyuziyamu, futhi ujabulele ukuzijabulisa esikoleni esidala nomngane wakho omkhulu.
4. Volontiya Ndawonye
Manje, ukuvolontiya nomngani kungazwakala njengokuthile okwenziwe ngabazali bakho njengomuntu osemusha, kodwa kuyindlela ejabulisa kakhulu kulezi zinsuku.
Kukhona ezinye izinketho zokuzithandela ezinhle ezifaneleke kakhulu kubantu abadala! Kungani ungabheki izikhathi zeSUP (stand-up paddle boarding) ezikukhuthaza ukuthi uqoqe udoti emanzini ngasikhathi sinye? Ukuhlanzwa kwamabhishi kuya ngokuya kwanda manje.
Thola umsebenzi okhanga kini nobabili futhi ujabulele ukuhlangana ngenkathi wenza okuthile okuhle emphakathini kanye / noma kwiplanethi.
Uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi ungabheka kuphi, hlola amakhasi asendaweni omphakathi we-Facebook noma uthintane nomkhandlu wakho. Izitolo zendawo zingaba namaflaya futhi noma yimaphi amathilomu omphakathi noma amakolishi azokwazi ngohlelo oluthokozisayo lokuzithandela endaweni.
5. Yiba Matasa Ekhishini
Uma ungumuntu othanda izinto ekhishini, mema umngani wakho ukuthi azopheka ndawonye.
Ukudla kwakusihlwa nomngane wakho kuvame ukubhekisa ekubambeni i-takeaway elula noma ukuphuma uye endaweni yokudlela. Ngenkathi zombili izinketho ezinhle, ukupheka ekhaya kungaba yindlela enhle, ebandayo yokuzihlalela kunendlela yakho yokudla ekhona.
Esikhundleni sokujaha futhi ucindezele ukubhuka, pheka komunye wemizi yakho futhi usebenzise lesi sikhathi usebenzise ingxoxo nokubopha.
Dlulisa amehlo ku-Instagram ndawonye ukuze uthole ugqozi lokudla futhi ujabulele umculo omnandi (nengilazi yewayini!) Ngenkathi upheka. Kulula.
6. Thatha Isigaba Sokunambitha Iwayini
Ukudla kusiholela ngokuphelele ewayinini, kunjalo. Esikhundleni sokuphuma uyofuna ingilazi yeSauvignon kanye ngesonto, cabanga ukubhukha ekilasini lokunambitha iwayini.
Zivame ukubiza futhi kugcwele abanye abantu abafuna ukuzama okuthile okuhluke kancane.
Uma uyisidlo, funa kusihlwa sokubhangqa kokudla newayini futhi uzofunda konke ngokufana nokunambitheka. Uma udla oketshezi, khetha isigaba esikufundisa ngemvelaphi yewayini ngalinye bese uthola okuthandayo okuthandwa kakhulu.
Kunoma ikuphi, uzothola ithuba lokuzama okuthile okusha futhi ube nokugigitheka.
7. Noma i-Cocktail Masterclass
Encwadini yezikhathi zokunambitha, ama-masterclass e-cocktail ayindlela enhle!
Amabha nezindawo zokudlela eziningi zinikeza amakilasi angabizi, ngakho-ke hamba ne-bestie yakho noma uthole lonke iqembu lapho.
Uzofunda ngokubhangqa kotshwala, ukukala, futhi - okujabulisayo - kuyazamazama.
Uzoba ne-bartender ye-cocktail nawe ohamba ngama-cocktails akudala kanye nanoma yikuphi okukhethekile kwangaphakathi, ngakho-ke uqinisekiswe kahle ukuthi ufunde okuthile okusha.
Kuvame ukuba mnandi kakhulu futhi kube yisilima, futhi kunamathuba amaningi okuhlolwa kokunambitha.
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8. Head Ukuze Iqembu Yoga
Uma ulandela okuthile okuphelele, zibekisele isigaba se-yoga.
Iningi lamajimu linikeza okungenani ikilasi elilodwa le-yoga ngesonto, noma ungathola isitudiyo sendawo se-yoga sokuthola okuthile okwenzelwe izidingo zakho.
Akunandaba ukuthi akekho noyedwa kini owake wazilolonga ngaphambilini, noma uma ungathinti ngokulambisa izinzwane zakho, njengoba amakilasi amaningi evulekele abaqalayo kanye namabhande okunwebeka komuntu!
I-Yoga ingaba yindlela enhle yokuphumula futhi uphumule noma inganikela ngokuzivocavoca amandla amakhulu kuya ngesitayela osithandayo.
Nquma ukuthi ufuna ukuthola ini ekilasini bese ubamba ama-leggings akho…
9. Fundani Ikhono Elisha Ndawonye
Ukufunda ikhono elisha kuyindlela enhle yokusondelana nothile, noma ngabe useduze kangakanani.
Bheka noma yimaphi amakhasi e-Facebook endawo ohlala kuyo noma funa amakilasi omphakathi online.
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Uma kukhona ikolishi lobuciko lapho uhlala khona, kungenzeka baqhube amakilasi nezifundo.
Ukudweba impilo kungaba mnandi, amakilasi e-ceramics ayindlela enhle yokuphumula nokuziveza, futhi kuzoba nohlobo oluthile lwezigaba zomdanso uma lokho kukujabulisa.
Awudingi ukuzibophezela ezifundweni zamasonto onke, kepha ukufunda okuthile okusha ndawonye kuyindlela enhle yokujabulela inkampani yomunye nomunye ngenkathi uhlangana nabanye abantu.
10. Bhuka Usuku Lokuhlangenwe Nakho
Amawebhusayithi afana neGroupon asebenzelana 'nokuhlangenwe nakho' ngaso sonke isikhathi. Le yimisebenzi ejwayelekile ongeke ucabange ukuyenza uma uhlela ukuhlangana nomngani.
Shintsha ikhofi nekhekhe lakho ntambama ye ukuhleba (ukushaya uzungeze ezindlini ezinkulu, ezinentwasahlobo), zama ukuhamba-karting , noma uvivinye ibhalansi yakho ku- izintambo eziphakeme .
Impela, ingahle ibize kancane kunama-hangout wakho ajwayelekile, kepha kuyifanele imali ye-adventure eyodwa!
11. Hlulela Kwabakhulu Abangaphandle
Ngokuya ngesimo sezulu, ukuphuma ngaphandle kwendalo kuyindlela enhle yokusebenzisa isikhathi sakho.
Ukuhamba kwezwe elide nomngani kuyindlela enhle yokunciphisa ukucindezeleka futhi kungenzeka ukuthi uzizwe uzizwa uphefumulelwe kakhulu.
Kukhona okuthile ngokuba semvelweni okusisiza ukuthi sizizwe sikhululekile futhi kaningi sizithola sabelana ngokwengeziwe.
Ukuphuma nokuhamba kahle kuphelele uma wena noma umngane wakho nizizwa niphansi muva nje.
Kuhle ukwenza umzimba wakho unyakaze futhi ukhumbuze umngani wakho, kanye nawe, ukuthi uyaphila!
Uma udinga isikhathi esithile sekhwalithi ne-bestie yakho, shaya umzila futhi ujabulele usuku lomoya ohlanzekile, ukusetha kabusha, nokwenza lawo ma-endorphin aqhubeke.
12. Kungenzeka Kumabhayisikili
Ngenkathi ucabanga ukuya ngaphandle, cabanga ukubamba ibhayisikili lakho.
isizini esibi kakhulu sehhovisi
Uma ufisa ukuhamba ibanga elide kunemizila yokuhamba intaba ingakuthatha, ukuhamba ngebhayisikili kuyindlela enhle yokuhlola okwengeziwe ngaphandle.
Zivocavoce isonto lonke bese uzijabulisa nomngane wakho ngenkathi uhamba ngezinyawo.
Ukuhamba ngebhayisikili kuhle njengoba kulula impela ukukhetha umzila wanoma iliphi izinga lokuzikhandla osebenza kulo.
Ngemizila emisha yezintaba ingajabulisa. Uma ulandela okuthile okulula okukuvumela ukuthi ukhulume nomngane wakho ngenkathi uhamba ngebhayisikili, funa okuthile okususelwa emgwaqeni noma olunamagquma amancane.
Ungakwazi ukupakisha ipikinikini ukuze ujabulele ngesikhathi sekhefu noma uhlele ukumisa endaweni yokushicilela yezwe endleleni.
Ukuhlela i-adventure yakho encane kuyisigamu sobumnandi, ngakho-ke chitha isikhathi esithile ubheka amamephu nemizila ngaphambi kokufika emgwaqeni.
13. Hlela A Sleepover
Ama-Sleepovers akuma-20s akho no-30s mhlawumbe abandakanya iwayini eliningi kakhulu, i-SATC, nokuhleba kunalokho abekwenza kwentsha yakho, yingakho kungaba mnandi kakhulu.
Awudingi i-TV kadoti notshwala ukuze ujabule, kunjalo. Kumnandi ngoshokoledi oshisayo, okudala ibhayisikobho noma i-documentary ethokozisayo, bese uchitha isikhathi esithile sekhwalithi nomngane wakho omkhulu.
Oda i-pizza bese ugoqa! Lolu hlobo lomsebenzi lungasiza impela ekuqiniseni noma yibuphi ubungane obudonsa kanzima.
Yenza umthetho wokuthi ungahloli amafoni akho njalo ngemizuzu engu-2 futhi unethezeke ngokuba seduze komunye nomunye futhi.
Kulula ukuhlukaniseka kwesinye isikhathi, ngakho-ke ubusuku lapho ukuphazamiseka okuwukuphela kwe-movie eyisilima noma ukunquma ukuthi iyiphi i-ayisikhilimu oyithandayo kuyindlela enhle yokuphinda uxhume.
14. Phonsa Idili Lesidlo
Ngobusuku obunzima kakhulu, kungani ungaphonseli iqembu lesidlo sakusihlwa?
Mema abanye abangane bakho futhi ube nokuhlanganiswa kwangempela kwamaqembu wobungani. Uma wena njengawo wonke umuntu olapho, nakanjani bazoba nokuthile abafana ngakho nomunye!
Phakathi kwakho nomngani wakho, chitha isikhathi unquma ukuthi ngubani ozothenga, ozopheka, nokuthi ngubani ozohlola iPinterest ngokukhuthazeka kwamakhadi wendawo nokuhlobisa kwetafula le-DIY.
Gqoka futhi ujabule wenze umzamo. Ingxenye yobumnandi ukuhlelela kanti enye ingxenye ihlezi egumbini eligcwele abangane obathandayo futhi bajabulela nje ukuhleka kwabo, izindaba kanye nenkampani yabo.
15. Thambisa
Izinsuku ze-Spa zingcono kakhulu, masibe neqiniso. Ukuqoqwa ngamafutha, izifihla-buso zodaka, kanye ne-lotion enephunga elihle kuphakeme kakhulu kuhlu lwezifiso zabantu.
Bheka ku-inthanethi ukuthola amadili endaweni yangakini - amanye ama-gyms anama-spa amahle asendlini, futhi amahhotela ngokuvamile avumela izivakashi zosuku ukuthi zifinyelele kuma-spas azo.
Uma ungafuni ukusakazeka, kepha ufuna okuthile okuncane kunesifihla-buso sasekhaya, ungavakashela ama-spas amaningi futhi usebenzise nje izindawo zawo zamachibi.
Ungahle ungatholi ukwelashwa okufakiwe nalokhu okunikezwayo, kepha uthola ukuthi uhlala embhedeni opholile kanye nabashibilika bezizwa njengabasebukhosini.
Vele, ama-spas asekhaya angaba mnandi kakhulu nabangani bakho abaseduze futhi - bamba ama-nail varnishes, uwoyela kakhukhunathi, nanoma yini enye enuka kamnandi futhi ujabule.
16. Sisizane Ngokulawulwa Kwempilo
Lokhu akuhambelani kahle ne-vibe ejwayelekile ebesiyifuna, kodwa sizwe ukuthi kubalulekile ukufaka noma kunjalo.
Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu, futhi enomvuzo kakhulu, izingxenye zokuba ngabangane abakhulu ukwenzelana.
Kungenzeka kungabi yi ‘ kumnandi ’ yemisebenzi, kodwa kungenye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu ongazenzela umuntu omkhathalelayo - i-life admin.
Yize amaqembu e-cocktail nokushibilika esibhakabhakeni kungasendle futhi kujabulisa, kwesinye isikhathi udinga nje ukuba lapho.
Uma umngani wakho efuna umsebenzi, zinike isikhathi sokubasiza nge-CV yabo. Uma bedlula ukuhlukana , kube yihlombe abakhala kulo.
Uma behambisa indlu, thatha ibhodlela lewayini nxazonke futhi ubasize ukupakisha.
Ukuguqula imisebenzi elula, kepha evame ukuba yinselele, ibe yimisebenzi yobumnandi nomngani yilokho okumayelana nakho.
