Thina ngempela uncoma ukuthi uzame lokhu ukuluthwa okulula okuqondisiwe njengoba kungaphumelela kakhulu ekusizeni uzizwe uzizwa kahle ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa.
Uma uwuhlobo lomuntu owesaba izinsuku zokuzalwa kunokuba ubheke phambili kuzo…
… Awuwedwa.
Eqinisweni, lokhu kusabela kuvame kakhulu kangangokuba empeleni kubizwa ngokuthi 'ama-blues okuzalwa.'
Esikhundleni sokwenza izinhlelo ezimnandi, ungazithola udangele futhi ukhathazekile ngengqophamlando ezayo, futhi wesaba noma yiluphi uhlobo lokugubha ngakho.
Lokho kuphendula kusebenza ngokuphelele, kunjalo, kepha futhi kungakhipha ngempela.
Uma ungathanda ukushintsha amagiya bese uqala ukujabula kakhulu ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa, lokho kuhle: ukugxila kokuhle kungasiza kakhulu futhi kuphulukise ngezizathu eziningi.
Ake sibheke ezinye zezizathu zokuthi kungani ungazonda izinsuku zokuzalwa, nokuthi ungashaya kanjani ama-blues ahambisana nazo.
1. Ucindezelekile ngokuguga.
Lapho ngihlanganisa iminyaka engu-30, ngathola ikhadi elivela kumngane wami elalithi: “ Siyakuhalalisela ngokusondela konyaka ekufeni. '
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Nginamahlaya amahle, ngakho-ke ngakwazi ukuwahleka, kepha kwafaka isidambisi sesikhashana ngalolo suku.
Ngeke sazi ukuthi sesishiye isikhathi esingakanani, futhi izinsuku zokuzalwa ziyizikhumbuzo zemvelo edlulayo yokuphila.
Abanye abantu bacindezeleka ngempela ngezinsuku zokuzalwa ngoba bayazi kahle inqubo yabo yokuguga. Umphakathi wethu ugxila ebuhleni bobusha, ubungqabavu, nesithembiso, futhi zonke izinsuku zokuzalwa zibonakala zisithatha isinyathelo esisodwa ekuboneni kwethu ubungqabavu.
Kulabo ababeka ukubaluleka okukhulu ekubukekeni nasemakhonweni abo omzimba, lokhu kungalimaza ngokuphelele.
Lokho kusho ukuthi, ukuguga kuyingxenye yempilo, futhi kungcono ukwenza ukuthula nalokho kunokukhathazeka nokucasulwa okungenakugwemeka.
Ongakwenza ngalokhu:
Esikhundleni sokugxila ekutheni zingaki izinsuku ezidlule empilweni yakho, zama ukuhlala ukhona futhi uzinze.
Cabanga ngazo zonke izinto ezimangalisayo osuhlangabezane nazo kuze kube manje, nokuthi zonke izinsuku kuyithuba lokujabulela ubuhle obedlulele.
Akekho kithi owaziyo ukuthi sisele nezinsuku ezingaki. Noma ngabe uhlanganisa iminyaka engama-25, 40, 70, noma engu-100, usuku ngalunye luyisipho.
Sicela uzame ukuhlala lapha namanje, futhi ubonge yonke into encane ngomdlandla omkhulu ngangokunokwenzeka.
Phuza ijusi lewolintshi lasekuseni engilazini ye-champagne. Gqoka lezo zimpahla zangaphansi ezimangazayo ezixega ngemuva kwedilowa, zisephepheni lazo lokusonga.
Qhekeka uvule lelo bhodlela lewayini obelilondolozela umcimbi okhethekile, ngoba uyazi ini? Zonke izinsuku ziyisenzakalo esikhethekile, usuku lokuzalwa noma cha.
2. Awuthandi ukuba yisikhungo sokunakwa.
Uma uyisingenisi, ngokuzumayo uzungezwe ngabasebenzi abalindile becula 'usuku lokuzalwa oluhle' kuwe phezulu emaphashini abo kungakhathaza ngokuphelele.
Kuyafana nokwenza uthishanhloko wakho enze isimemezelo nge-P.A. system, noma umphathi wakho ememezela kuwo wonke umuntu ukuthi usuku lwakho olukhethekile.
Lokhu kuyaqondakala ngokuphelele, futhi akufanele uzizwe uphoqeleke ukuthi ubambe iqhaza esimweni esenza uzizwe ungakhululekile!
Ongakwenza ngalokhu:
Kwenze kucace ngokuphelele kubaqashi bakho, osebenza nabo, abangani, nasemalungwini omndeni ukuthi awuzizwa kahle ngamaqembu angalindele, ucula izingcingo, noma yini enye abangase beze nayo.
Kucace bha ngeqiniso lokuthi lo ngumngcele oqinile okungafanele weqewe.
Futhi, gwema ukwazisa omunye umuntu ukuthi usuku lwakho lokuzalwa luphi. Uma bebuza, vuka noma ube nobuciko. 'Ngazalwa ngosuku lapho inyanga yaqabula isibhakabhaka okokuqala' noma okuthile. Uma becela isibonakaliso sakho sezinkanyezi ukuzama ukusithola? 'Impisi ye-Unicorn.'
Ungala futhi / ugweme izimo zenhlalo isonto langaphambi nangemva kosuku lwakho lokuzalwa ukuze kwenzeke noma ngubani anqume ukuqhubeka enze okuthile okuxakile.
3. Uzizwa sengathi awuzange ufeze okwanele ngonyaka odlule.
Abantu abaningi bazibekela imigomo yonyaka othile - njengokwenza Izinqumo Zonyaka Omusha - futhi bazimisele ukunamathela kubo lokhu isikhathi.
Kepha impilo iyenzeka, futhi lezo zinhloso zingabekwa emuva, njengoba kuqala izinto ezintsha.
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Lapho usuku lokuzalwa komuntu luzungeza, kuyisikhumbuzo esicijile sokuthi sonke isikhathi sesidlulile, futhi asikakufezi lokho ebesikufuna. Singahle singaklwebhi ebusweni.
Ongakwenza ngalokhu:
Lokhu kukhuphuka kwami kweVirgo kusukuma isikhashana, kodwa ngokuthembeka? Yenza uhlu.
Bhala phansi zonke izinto ezinhle ezenzeke kuwe ngonyaka odlule.
Ungalokothi ukhathalele izinto ozifezile (noma ukhululeke ukwengeza lezo nazo), kepha gxila kakhulu kokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle oke waba nakho.
Cabanga ukuphuma nakho konke ngendlela ibhodi lokubona , uma lokho kukukhanga. Ngokuzimisela, phuma omaka bese ubenyezela futhi wenze lokhu kube nobuciko obukhulu.
Manje, bhala / udwebe zonke izinto ezinhle ezikwenze wamomotheka.
Izincwadi ozifundayo, ama-movie owathandile, izidlo ezinhle ozilungisile.
Ngabe uthole izincomo ezinhle ezivela kubantu? Bhala lokho phansi.
Wenze abangane abasha? Nakhoke.
Akungabazeki ukuthi ube nokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle kakhulu kusukela osukwini lwakho lokuzalwa oludlule, futhi manje yisikhathi sokubazisa ngempela. Ukubonga kungasiza kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni imizwa yakho kanye nombono jikelele!
Ngakho-ke kuthiwani uma ungafezekisanga lokhu noma leyo nhloso usazuze iLOTI, futhi okwenzile yilokho okubaluleke kakhulu.
4. Uzizwa unesizungu futhi ungathandwa.
Kubantu abalwa nobungane nezinye izibopho zomuntu siqu eziseduze, ukuhlaselwa kwemikhonzo engenasisekelo kungadala ukugcwala kosizi nokudangala.
Abantu abangawenzi mzamo wokuhlala bexhumana nezinye izinsuku ezingama-364 zonyaka bavele bayishayele nge-pithy isigwebo kuFacebook, futhi lokho ukuphela kwayo.
Abanye abantu bangathanda impela uma abangane abaseduze abambalwa bebakhipha ukuyodla isidlo sakusihlwa, noma benze omunye umsebenzi wobumnandi ndawonye. Kepha uma kungekho muntu owenza umzamo, akekho noyedwa othumela ikhadi, lokho kungenza umuntu azizwe enesizungu futhi engathandwa.
Kungaba kubi kakhulu uma othile ezenzela amapulani ezinsuku zokuzalwa futhi kungaveli muntu. Lokho kudlulela ngalé kokudumazeka kokulimazayo, nokululazayo.
Ongakwenza ngalokhu:
Thatha noma yiziphi izinyathelo ezidingekayo ukwenza lolu suku lube mayelana wena .
Bhuka izinsuku ezimbalwa emsebenzini, hlala ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi, mhlawumbe uye e-spa noma wenze i-retreat yokuzindla.
Thenga ukudla okuthandayo, cisha ifoni yakho, uchithe isikhathi nezilwane ezifuywayo, ama-movie amahle, ushokoledi oshisayo… noma yini ekujabulisa kakhulu.
Ungathembeli kwabanye abantu ukuthi bakulethele injabulo namuhla. Esikhundleni salokho, zibeke eqhulwini bese ugcwalisa usuku lwakho ngokukhanya nokuzinakekela.
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5. Uzizwa unesibopho sokugubha, noma ngabe awufuni.
Kuyacasula ngempela lapho abanye abantu belindele ukuthi uziphathe ngendlela ethile kanti awufuni nakancane.
Izinsuku zokuzalwa zinesihluku kulokhu, ngoba abantu abaningi bathokozela ezabo, futhi banethemba lokuthi nawe uzokujabulela.
Uma ungazimisele ngokuphuma konke ngemibuthano ekhazimulayo nophuzo oludakayo, abangane bakho namalungu omndeni wakho bangakunika ubunzima ngakho.
Kuhle ukuthi baveze ukuthokozela kwabo kwabanye futhi bafuna ukwenza izinto ezithandekayo… kepha uma izinhlelo zakho zokuzalwa zigxile ekudleni ama-popcorn ebhavini nokuzitika ngokweqile ngokubuka umbukiso weNetflix, kufanele bakuhloniphe lokho.
Ongakwenza ngalokhu:
Uma umbuthano oxokozelayo uyinto oyesabayo, yichaze kuqala ngokwenza kucace kwabanye ukuthi ufuna ukuchitha usuku lwakho lokuzalwa uwedwa kulo nyaka.
Uma kufanele bakunikeze noma yiluphi usizi ngakho, ungahamba konke ngokomoya bese uthi usebenzisa lokhu njengethuba lokuzindla nokuxhumana nomuntu ophakeme noma okuthile.
Wamukelekile ukwenza lokho, kunjalo, kodwa futhi ukhuthazwa ngokugcwele ukuthi wenze noma iziphi izaba ozidingayo ukuze ugxile ekuzinakekeleni esikhundleni se-karaoke nesibhamu.
6. Uyadabukisa ukuthi izifiso zosuku lokuzalwa olwedlule azifezekanga.
Abanye abantu banenhlanhla yokuthi izifiso zabo zokuzalwa zigcwaliseke. Abanye… hhayi kangako.
Abantu abaningi banethemba lokuthi umlingo wosuku lokuzalwa uzosiza ukuveza izifiso zabo zibe ngokoqobo, futhi kuyadumaza ngempela lapho lezo zifiso zehluleka ukufezeka.
… Ikakhulu uma kwenzeka unyaka nonyaka.
Ongakwenza ngalokhu:
Yeka ukulangazelela, qala ukushisa.
Nakulokhu futhi, esikhundleni sokungenzi lutho futhi unethemba lokuthi amandla athile omlingo azosiza ekwenzeni amaphupho akho afezeke, thatha isinyathelo ukuze usebenze.
Unamandla amakhulu nekhono ezandleni zakho: kuhlanganise konke, sebenza ngokwengeziwe , futhi uziqalele kunoma yini okusho kakhulu kuwe!
Ungumbhali wendaba yakho, futhi zonke izinhloso zakho, amaphupho akho, njll kusezandleni zakho ukukufinyelela, noma ukukufeza.
Khipha leyo magazini futhi bese ubhala phansi uhlelo lwezinyathelo ze-SMART:
S pecific - Impela yini ongathanda ukuyifinyelela.
UM kulula - Gcina iphephabhuku noma uhlelo lokusebenza lwe-SmartPhone ukufaka imizamo futhi ikugcine usendleleni.
TO kutholakalayo - Kwenze kube ngokoqobo, bese udala izinyathelo ezincane, ezifinyelelekayo zokusiza ukufika lapho.
R elevant - Qiniseka ukuthi lokhu kuyinjongo oyifunayo ngempela, futhi ingafinyelela ngokoqobo.
T ime-based - Setha umnqamulajuqu ozowulwela, ngoba lokhu kuzokugqugquzela
Noma ngabe yini ongathanda ukuyifinyelela, ungakwenza. Kuzothatha isikhathi, nomzamo, kepha unakho ngamandla akho ukukuthola.
Siyakholelwa kuwe.
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