Proactive (adj): ukuthatha isenzo ngokubanga ushintsho hhayi ukusabela kuphela ekushintsheni lapho kwenzeka.
Sivame ukutshelwa ukuthi ukwenza okuthile kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuphila.
Ukuthi kufanele sithathe inkunzi ngezimpondo futhi ngaleyo ndlela sikhuphuke ngaphezu kokuphikisana siye ezingeni elisha lempumelelo, emsebenzini wethu nasempilweni yethu yangasese.
Uma uke wafunda isitolo esidayisa kakhulu sikaStephen Covey Imikhuba engu-7 Yabantu Abasebenza Kakhulu , uzokwazi ukuthi 'umkhuba' wokuqala ngu Yiba Nenkuthalo, Ungasebenzi.
Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi umqondo wokwenza umsebenzi unikeze elinye ibuzzword yobudala bethu: ukunikezwa amandla .
Lokhu kunengqondo ngokuphelele ngoba akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzizwe unamandla uma usabela nje kumicimbi.
Kumele ube esihlalweni sokushayela ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi unamandla okuthonya impilo yakho.
NjengoSteve Backley, umbhali we Umpetha Kithi Sonke: Imithetho eyi-12 Yokuphumelela , wabhala:
Kunezinhlobo ezintathu zabantu kulo mhlaba. Okokuqala, kunabantu abenza izinto zenzeke. Bese kuba khona abantu ababuka izinto zenzeka. Okokugcina, kunabantu ababuza ukuthi kwenzekeni? Ufuna ukuba muphi?
Ngokusobala, luhlobo lokuqala lomuntu olubonisa ukusebenza okusebenzayo.
Futhi lona kanye iqiniso lokuthi uchofoze kule ndatshana likhombisa ukuthi unentshisekelo yokufunda kabanzi ngaleli khwalithi engashintsha impilo.
Ungathanda ukuba ngumuntu owenza izinto zenzeke.
Futhi kungani kungenjalo? Ukwenza okuthile ngokungangabazeki ikhwalithi ekhangayo ukuba nayo.
isisindo se-brock lesnar nokuphakama
Masivume, uma ucabanga ngabantu obathandayo kakhulu, kungenzeka ukuthi akusibo labo abasabela ekuguqukeni lapho kwenzeka, noma labo abagingqika nje ngezibhakela bezibuza ukuthi kwenzekeni…
… Yilabo abalawulayo futhi abenza izinto ngenkuthalo abagqamile.
Kuthiwani ngokuba ngomunye walabo bantu?
Ngokuqondiswa okuwusizo okuncane, akunzima kangako ukushintsha umqondo wakho.
Esikhundleni sokuba umuntu ongenzi lutho othatha noma yini impilo ekuphonsela yona, ungaba umhlanganyeli osebenzayo kuma-ups and down, okungenzeka ube namandla okulawula nokuwaqondisa ngendlela evumayo kuwe.
Kepha kuthiwani uma lokho kungesilo uhlobo lwakho lobuntu oluhlelwe ngaphambilini?
Kuthiwani uma ucabanga ukuthi untula imibono noma isinyathelo sokuba yilowo muntu osebenzayo ofunwa kangaka, ikakhulukazi kwezamabhizinisi?
Futhi kuthiwani uma unomuzwa wokuthi impilo yakho ngaphandle komsebenzi ingakwenza ngokusebenza ngokwengeziwe?
Kuthiwani uma ukulungiselelwa kwakho okuzenzakalelayo kungukuvuma ukwamukela isimo esikhona, ukumane usabele kusikhuthazi lapho kudingeka khona?
Yebo, uma manje usukulungele ukugqashula emjikelezweni wokuba ngumamukeli onganyakazi, kunezindaba ezimnandi: ukwenza okuthile akusona isipho esiyindida esingaba naso noma cha.
Wonke umuntu unamandla okuba uhlobo lomuntu owenza izinto zenzeke.
Empeleni ukucabanga okujwayelekile esingakuthuthukisa futhi sikuqinise ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Kepha okokuqala, ake sicacise okuthile…
Kuyini Ukuziphatha Okusebenzayo?
Kungashiwo ukuthi ukwenza okuthile kusho ukuba nekhono lokubheka emuva kusuka esikhathini esizayo ngamehlo engqondo yakho, ubone ukuthi isinyathelo esisebenzayo manje sizoyithinta kanjani imiphumela yesikhathi esizayo.
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uSharon K Parker uyiphula kahle indlela izici ezibalulekile zokwenza okuthile :
1. Kuyilindelo - kufaka phakathi ukwenza ngaphambi kwesikhathi sesimo esizayo, kunokumane usabele.
Isibonelo, umnikazi wefektri angaqasha abasebenzi abasha futhi athenge imishini emisha ngokulindela ukwanda kwebhizinisi elisha.
2. Iqonde ekushintsheni - kusho ukulawula nokudala ukuthi kwenzeke okuthile, kunokuzivumelanisa nesimo noma ukulinda ukuthi kwenzeke okuthile.
Isibonelo, umhlaziyi wezokukhangisa angasebenza nabasebenzi be-IT ukwenza ngokuzenzakalela umbiko wansuku zonke obalulekile kepha odla isikhathi.
3. Kuyazithathela - lowo muntu akadingi ukuthi acelwe ukuthi enze okuthile, futhi abadingi nemiyalo eningiliziwe.
Isibonelo, isisebenzi esisha asilindi ukuthi sinikezwe impendulo ngokusebenza kwaso, kepha sisebenza ngokufuna ngamandla.
ngibona sengathi angisiyena owakithi
Izindlela Ezi-8 Zokusebenza Kakhulu
Sinalolu lwazi emqondweni, manje ake sicabangele ukuthi ungahamba kanjani ngokuguqula umqondo wakho ususebenze uye ekusebenzeni okusebenzayo:
1. Buyisela emuva ukulawula.
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuthatha umthwalo wezenzo zakho.
Nazi ezinye izindlela ongahamba ngazo ngokwenza lokho:
Zibuze imibuzo embalwa yokucinga.
Ufunani ngempela empilweni?
Yini oyiphuphayo okukude neqiniso lakho lamanje?
Ngabe ubona kanjani impilo yakho 'ephelele' ibumba?
Izimpilo zethu zigcwele ukukhetha.
Isikhathi sokubuyisa izintambo ngokwenza izinqumo ezisebenzayo ukuqeda izinto ezikwehlisayo.
Ziphi izimbobo ezikhanyayo empilweni yakho?
Ngabe udinga imali ethe xaxa?
Noma yinjabulo nokuhleka okungekho?
Ingabe usemsebenzini lapho ungaziswa khona?
Musa ukugingqika nje ngezibhakela ezilethwa uFate. Lawula impilo yakho futhi uzoqala ukujabulela umuzwa wokunikwa amandla okulethayo.
Ungakwazi ukukwenza? Yebo ungakwenza!
Kodwa kufanele Zethembe .
Sekuyisikhathi sokwenza izinguquko, ukulahla imikhuba emibi, nokukufaka emihle.
Isinyathelo ngasinye esihle osithathayo sizokwakha ukuzethemba kwakho futhi sikusondeze eduze nezinhloso zakho.
Ngeke kwenzeke ngobusuku obubodwa, kodwa qhubeka uphokophele phambili uzofika lapho.
2. Yamukela ukuthi amaphutha ngeke agwemeke.
Enye yezinto ebamba abaningi bethu ekuthatheni isinyathelo ukwesaba ukwenza amaphutha.
Ngaphambi kokuthi ukwamukele ngempela ukwenza okusebenzayo, ukuguquka kwengqondo kuyadingeka.
Kuyadingeka ukwamukela umbono wokuthi kulungile ukwenza amaphutha.
Amaphutha ayiqiniso lokuphila futhi amelela ithuba elihle ngempela lokufunda nokukhula.
Ukubamba lo mqondo kuzokuvimbela ekutheni ubhajwe enkingeni, ungakwazi ukudlulela phambili ngenxa yokwesaba ukwehluleka ngandlela thile.
Njengombhali, umeluleki nomqeqeshi wempilo uCraig D Lounsbrough ukubeka:
Ukuwa akukhona ukwehluleka. Ukwehluleka akusoze kwawa ngoba angikaze ngivuke kwasekuqaleni.
ngidinga izingcaphuno zokuthula kwengqondo
Impela, ungadinga ukuchitha isikhathi uxazulula iphutha, kepha uma leso sikhathi sesedlule futhi usudlulile emuva emzileni , kubalulekile ukuzibuza ukuthi yini ongayifunda ezinkingeni.
Cabanga ukuthi ubungenza kanjani izinto ngokuhlukile nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nalesi simo esikhathini esizayo ngomphumela omuhle ngokwengeziwe.
Sebenzisa isipiliyoni njengethuba lokukhula nokufunda.
3. Yiba nekhambi.
Enye ingxenye ebalulekile yokushintshela ingqondo yakho isebenze ifaka phakathi ukushintsha indlela ozibheka ngayo izinkinga.
Uma uzivumela ukubeka izinkinga phakathi nendawo, nakanjani uzozibona njengezithiyo ezingenakunqotshwa, ezingezinhle.
Shintsha lokho ngokuzungezile, noma kunjalo, ngokugxila ezixazululweni ezingaba khona, futhi izimpendulo kungenzeka ukuthi zivele.
Kukhona isisho esithi into efana nokuthi: 'Azikho izinto ezinjengezinkinga, amathuba nje.'
Gcina lokho engqondweni yakho futhi ngeke uhambe kabi.
4. Funa abantu ababambekayo.
Yize kunguwe kuphela ongathatha izinyathelo ezidingekayo ukuze usebenze ngokwengeziwe, kubalulekile ukuzungeza nabantu abanenkuthalo efanayo.
Bheka nxazonke zakho. Uma abangani bakho noma osebenza nabo bevilapha, bengakhi, noma behlulwa, zenzele umusa ngokuhlehla kulabo budlelwano.
Lokho akulula kangako ngomndeni, kodwa usengathatha izinyathelo ezinhle.
Ungabona labo abanesimo sokushaya phansi futhi wenze isifungo sokungazivumeli ukuthi uthonywe ukunganaki kwabo.
Uma uzosebenza ngokwengeziwe, udinga umbuthano wabantu abaseduze kwakho abazokukhuthaza ukuthi uphumelele.
Uzoqonda ukuthi lokhu kusebenza kanjani uma uke wadlala ithenisi, ngokwesibonelo, nomuntu ongumdlali ongcono kunawe.
Uzobona ukuthi uwukhuphule kanjani umdlalo wakho ngokwemvelo.
Futhi-ke, okuphindayo kwenzeka lapho udlala nomuntu onekhono eliphansi: owakho umdlalo uvame ukuba mubi kakhulu.
Kunjalo nasempilweni
Manje njengoba usohambweni lokwamukela ukwenza okuthile, yenza umzamo wokuzungeza ngabantu abaqhutshwa, nabagqugquzelekile, futhi uzokwazi nokukhuthazeka.
5. Musa ukujuluka ngezinto ongeke ukwazi ukuzilawula.
Kulula ukusindwa ebusweni bezinto ezingaphandle kolawulo lwakho.
Kepha, iqiniso ukuthi kuzohlala kunezinto ongeke uzishintshe ngokuzimisela, noma ngabe uthanda kangakanani.
Ungamoshi amandla akho ezintweni ezinjalo zizokushiya uzizwe ukhungathekile.
Esikhundleni salokho, yenza imisebenzi owaziyo ukuthi ungaphumelela ukuyenza.
Uma umlingani wakho, ngokwesibonelo, ekhuluphele futhi engafanele, awukwazi ukumenza anciphise isisindo.
Kodwa-ke, ungalawula ukuthengwa kokudla, ukhethe izinketho ezinempilo, futhi uphakamise imisebenzi emnandi ngempelasonto ebandakanya ukuzivocavoca umzimba.
6. Ungahlali eceleni.
Kwanele ukuhlala emuva nokuba ngumqapheli nje.
Yamukela indlela yakho entsha yokusebenza ngokubamba iqhaza ngenkuthalo noma kuphi nanoma nini lapho ungakhona.
Emsebenzini, ungalaleli nje imibono eyenziwe ngabanye, zama ukunikela ngeziphakamiso zakho.
Zama ukuthatha izinyathelo ezisebenzayo zokubandakanyeka enqubweni yokwenza izinqumo kunokuhlala phansi ulinde ukutshelwa okufanele ukwenze.
Indlela yokuhlaba umxhwele akukhona nje ukuqedela umsebenzi kahle lapho ucelwa ukuthi wenze njalo, kepha ukuqhamuka neziphakamiso zokuyakha kangcono kakhulu.
Ekhaya, zama ukuza nezinhlelo zakho zemisebenzi yomndeni noma ukuphunyuka okuhle kwezothando nezithandwa zakho. Bazokubonga ngakho!
7. Unganikeli ngama-gremlins amabi.
Kuzoba nezikhathi lapho uzizwa ukhungathekile noma ukhathazekile, ikakhulukazi njengomuntu omusha kumdlalo wokuba usebenze.
Kubalulekile ukuthi ungazivumeli ubhajwe kumjikelezo omubi ngokuthambekela kokucabanga ngokweqile ngezinto.
Esikhundleni salokho, zama ukushintsha ukugxila kwakho enkingeni enkulu bese uhambisa amandla akho esikhathini esifushane ukuze wenze imisebenzi emincane, engeyona enzima.
Ngisho nemisebenzi ejwayelekile njengokushanela igceke noma ukuhlenga igumbi elinokuxakaniseka, lapho kunobufakazi obucacile bokusebenza kwakho kanzima nokusebenza, kungakunika umuzwa wokuzuza okuthile.
Le misebenzi izosiza ukuqeda izinkathazo, ikwenze uzizwe ukhiqiza futhi unethemba.
Uma ususethe kabusha ikhampasi yakho engokomzwelo, uzokwazi ukubuyela esihlalweni sokushayela bese uqhubeka nomsebenzi wokuqala.
8. Gubha impumelelo yakho.
Qiniseka ukuthi uthatha isikhathi sokuziklomelisa ngomsebenzi owenziwe kahle lapho uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala, uthathe isikhathi, futhi wenza okuthile okuhle kwenzeke.
Yize kubalulekile ukufunda kulawo maqhuqhuva angenakugwemeka emgwaqeni, kubalulekile futhi ukubungaza impumelelo yakho, emikhulu nemincane, njengoba ulawula impilo yakho ngokusebenza kakhulu.
Ngakho-ke, usukulungele ukusebenza kuqala, hhayi ukuvuselela?
Cabanga ngalesi sicaphuno esivela kuCraig D Lounsbrough ngaphambi kokuba uphendule lowo mbuzo:
Ngingalinda impilo ukuthi ingibumbe nganoma iyiphi indlela ekhetha ngayo. Noma ngingakwazi ukubumba ukwenza impilo noma yini engiyikhethayo.
Okusemqoka wukuthi eyakho impilo.
kungani abantu bebahle kimi
Nguwe kuphela onamandla okwenza impilo enhle.
Akekho omunye umuntu ozokwenzela yona.
Kepha ukuze usebenze kahle, kuzodingeka uhleleke futhi ukhuthazwe, futhi lokho kudinga ukuzikhuza.
Imivuzo izowufanele umzamo, kepha, ngoba ukuhola impilo esebenza ngokwengeziwe kuzoguqula ikhaya lakho, impilo yakho nobungcweti bakho kube ngcono.
Ukuzethemba kwakho kuzokhula, futhi uzozizwa unamandla, ujabule, futhi ugculisekile.
Ngabe awunaso isiqiniseko sokuthi uyiphatha kanjani impilo yakho futhi usebenze? Khuluma nomqeqeshi wempilo namuhla ongakudlulisa kule nqubo. Mane uchofoze lapha ukuxhuma nenye.
Ungahle uthande:
- Isizathu Sangempela Sokuba Ukwesabe Ukwehluleka (Nalokho Ongakwenza Ngalokho)
- Izindlela Ezi-30 Ezilula Zokwenza Impilo Yakho Ithuthuke
- Izinto Eziza Kuqala Ekuphileni Okufanele Njalo Kuze Kuqala
- Izizathu Ezi-4 Zokuthi Izinto Ezimbi Ziqhubeke Zenzeka Kuwe (+ Izindlela Ezi-7 Zokubhekana Nazo)
- Izinhlobo Ezi-10 Zokugqugquzela Ongazisebenzisa Ukufeza Izinhloso Zakho
- Imibono Yezinselele Yezinsuku ezingama-30 ezingama-30 zokukhuthaza ukukhula kwakho komuntu siqu
