Kukhona inani elithile lamahora ngosuku.
Futhi kunezinsuku ezithile kuphela ngeviki, amasonto ngenyanga, nezinyanga ngonyaka.
Kuningi esingafisa ukuthi singenza isikhathi sime ndawonye, sigcina ngokuqhubeka njalo.
Lokho kusho ukuthi sidinga ukwenza izinqumo eziqondayo mayelana nokuthi sisisebenzisa kanjani isikhathi esinaso.
Abaningi bethu bathanda ukucabanga ukuthi singafaka ilitha ebhodweni lokupenda, njengoba umama esho njalo, bese ucindezela konke okukukho.
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Kepha, ekugcineni kosuku, sonke kufanele senze izinqumo mayelana nokuthi yini okufanele siyibeke eqhulwini empilweni.
Uma ufunda lokhu, kungenzeka ukuthi usesikhathini esithile empilweni lapho ekugcineni usubonile ukuthi isikhathi siyimpahla ekhawulelwe futhi eyigugu…
… Futhi awunasiqiniseko sokuthi yini okufanele ize kuqala ohlwini lwakho.
Okubekwa eqhulwini yiwo wonke umuntu kuzohluka kancane. Kepha uma ungaqiniseki ngokuphelele ukuthi ungaqala kuphi, ungathola lezi ziphakamiso zilusizo.
Funda ngazo bese ukhetha ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Lapho-ke, njengoba uqhubekela phambili, zama ukuzibuza ukuthi ngabe izinqumo ozenzayo ziyabonisa yini lezi zinto eziza kuqala.
Ungamangala ukuthi impendulo ithi cha.
1. Umndeni
Lokhu kungahle kube yinto emfushane, kepha umndeni kufanele uze kuqala.
Kepha lokho akusho ukuthi lokhu kuzoba umndeni wakho wokuzalwa. Kunemindeni yazo zonke izinhlobo nobukhulu, futhi yonke ibaluleke ngokufana.
Abantu obathatha njengomndeni wakho kufanele babe yinto ephambili empilweni yakho, njalo.
Izinkumbulo ozenza nabo kuzoba yizinto ozibheka njengakho konke okunye.
Yima ngakubo lapho izinto ziba nzima.
2. Ubungani
Abanye abantu babheka abangane babo abaseduze njengengxenye yomndeni wabo. Kepha noma ngabe unenhlanhla yokuba nomndeni oqinile, owakho ubungani obuhle kufanele kubaluleke ngendlela efanayo nakuwe.
Sijwayele ukulindela ukuthi ubungani bukwazi ukuzondla bona, kepha uma sifuna ukuthi buchume, kufanele sibeke cishe amandla amaningi kubo njengobudlelwano bethu bezothando.
Abangani ngabantu esifunda kubo, esihleka nabo, bese siphendukela kubo ukuze sithole ukwesekwa nezeluleko lapho izinto seziba nzima.
Ngaphandle kwabo, impilo ibingaba mpofu kakhulu.
Kepha konke kulula kakhulu ukuhlukana, ngakho-ke isidingo sokubeka phambili phambili ukugcinwa kobungani.
3. Umphakathi
Akekho owesilisa noma owesifazane oyisiqhingi.
Kanye nabangane nomndeni, sidinga ukuzizwa ngathi siyingxenye yento ethile.
Sidinga ukwakha ubudlelwano emiphakathini.
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Lokhu kungaba yimiphakathi yasendaweni, esuselwa endaweni noma intshisekelo eyabiwe. Kepha kulezi zinsuku, singakwazi futhi ukuhlakulela imiphakathi yedijithali emangalisayo, esekelayo.
Empeleni, yize ngibahlukanise kathathu, ubuhlobo nabantu bethu okufanele sibubeke phambili.
4. Ezempilo
Okubalulekile njengobudlelwano, ayikho leyo nto ezoba nendaba uma ungaphilile engqondweni nasemzimbeni.
Udinga ukubeka phambili impilo yakho. Ngaphandle kwayo, ngeke ube nalutho nhlobo.
Lalela umzimba wakho bese unaka izimpawu eziyisixwayiso ezikunikeza zona.
Inike ukudla ekudingayo nenhlonipho ekufanele.
Zivocavoce, welule, ulale, uvuse ingqondo yakho, udle kahle, futhi ukhumbule, konke ngokulinganisela.
Kanye nempilo yakho engokwenyama, ungakhohlwa ukubeka phambili impilo yakho engokwengqondo nengokomzwelo.
Awukwazi ukuthi uphilile uma uthola umzimba wemodeli yokubhukuda kodwa ungazinzile ngokomzwelo.
5. Ezokuphepha
Imali uqobo lwayo akumele ize kuqala empilweni. Kepha iqiniso lokuthi umphakathi wethu usebenza kanjani kusho ukuthi sidinga inani elithile lemali ukuze sizizwe sivikelekile.
Ngakho-ke, izimali zakho zidinga ukuthi zibekwe eqhulwini njengezindlela zokuthola izinga lokuphepha.
Vele ungavumeli ukuthi kube ukugxila kwakho kuphela.
Akufanele usebenzise sonke isikhathi sakho usebenza ukondla umndeni wakho uma lokho kusho ukuthi awusoze waba nesikhathi sokutholakalela ukuba nabo.
Abanye bethu bakulangazelela ukuphepha nokuzinza ngaphezu kwabanye, kepha noma ngabe uchuma kangakanani ngokuzibeka engcupheni, noma ukuthi uyingozi kangakanani, udinga isisekelo esiqinile ukuze uzizwe ulinganisela futhi uphephile.
6. Intuthuko
Isikhathi sokuma kwethu yisikhathi lapho singena enkingeni, futhi umsele awusoze waba yindawo enhle ukuba kuyo.
Nganginalo mbono lapho ngiseyingane ukuthi lapho ngiqeda isikole, ngangazi konke engangidinga ukukwazi, futhi impilo yayiyobe ihamba ngomkhumbi ocacile kusuka lapho kuye phambili.
Kepha, lapho sesifikile ebudaleni, siyabona ukuthi lokho bekungeke kube kude neqiniso.
Kuvela ukuthi akukho okungaba yisicefe ngaphezu kokungafundi lutho olusha.
Yize kungahle kungadingeki ukuthi sibhekane nanoma yiziphi izivivinyo ezijwayelekile, sidinga ukukhuthazwa kolwazi olusha.
Imibono yethu, imibono yethu kanye nokugcina ulwazi kufanele kukhule njalo futhi kuguquke.
Uma kwenzeka uzizwa ukubhoreka ngempilo , mhlawumbe udinga inselelo entsha yengqondo.
Cabanga ukuthi ungawakhulisa kanjani amakhono amasha noma uqale ukufunda izinto ezintsha, noma ngabe uzifundise wena noma ngenkambo ehlelekile.
Kwenze kube phambili ukuhlala ufunda okuthile okusha, noma ngabe yiluphi uhlobo oluthathayo, futhi impilo ayisoze yaba yisicefe.
7. Ubumnandi
Asizange sibekwe kulo mhlaba ukuthi sihlupheke.
Empeleni, nginesiqiniseko sokuthi sonke sigcine lapha njengomphumela wokushaywa okuthile okungakholeki, nokuthi alukho uhlelo olukhulu.
Noma ngabe uyini umbono wakho ngalokho, ngicabanga ukuthi sonke singavuma ukuthi kuncane kakhulu iphuzu empilweni uma singenzi njalo Kujabulele .
Ngakho-ke, yenza ukujabulela zonke izinsuku kube yinto eza kuqala.
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Impela, kuzoba nezikhathi lapho usebenza kanzima kanzima, nezikhathi lapho uphansi, kepha zama ukubona ubuhle kuzo zonke izinsuku, futhi ungathathi impilo ngokungathi sína kakhulu .
Khohlwa yilokho okubalulekile futhi ugxile ekwenzeni izinto ozijabulelayo nabantu obathandayo abaseduze kwakho.
Yenza izinkumbulo ezikuhlekisa noma nini lapho ucabanga ngazo. Ungazizwa ukuthi udinga yenza njengomuntu okhulile ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ungakhohlwa ukuphupha, bese uzama ukuguqula amanye alawo maphupho abe yiqiniso.
Mamatheka, hleka, futhi, ngenkathi wazi zonke izinkinga emhlabeni futhi wenza okuncane ukuze uzixazulule, ungakhohlwa ukugxila kuzo zonke izimangaliso.
Kungabonakala sengathi eziyisikhombisa ziningi kakhulu eziza kuqala ekuphileni, kepha iqiniso ukuthi konke lokhu kuyaphelelisana kahle.
Zonke zondla impilo yakho ephelele nenjabulo kanye neyabantu ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Bamba impilo ngezandla zombili, qhubeka uye phambili, futhi ubathande kakhulu abantu abaseduze kwakho.
Yenza lezi zinto futhi ungeke uhambe kabi kakhulu.
Ngabe awunaso isiqiniseko sokuthi yini okufanele ize kuqala kuwe? Khuluma nomqeqeshi wempilo namuhla ongakusiza ukuthola okwakho. Mane uchofoze lapha ukuxhuma nenye.
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