Isifiso senjabulo empilweni luhambo olunzima olugcwele ingozi nemithwalo yemfanelo.
Ekufuneni kwethu injabulo, ekufuneni lokho esikufunayo empilweni, kulula kakhulu ukuzizwa sibhajwe yizifiso zethu, impumelelo, ukwehluleka, kanye nezibopho.
Kwesinye isikhathi lezi zinto sithweswa zona ngamabutho angaphandle. Ngezinye izikhathi kuyizinto esizibophezela zona ukufinyelela izinhloso zethu.
Inhloso yokungazizwa ubhajwe yimpilo kufanele ibe seqhulwini lomqondo wawo wonke umuntu, ngoba kunezindlela eziningi kakhulu eziya empilweni ejabulisayo, ephumelelayo okungasikho isizathu esihle sokungalweli okuthile okunempilo.
Unempilo, hhayi 'okungcono.'
Ngoba okungcono kungaba yigama elingalungile uma ucabanga ukuthi utshani buluhlaza ngaphesheya kocingo, weqa uthango, bese uthola ukuthi utshani buluhlaza kuphela ngoba buyimbumbulu.
Kungakho kubalulekile ukuthi usebenzele lezi zinto engqondweni yakho, uzenzele eyakho indlela, futhi uzikhulule emizweni yokubanjiswa empilweni yakho.
Ukwenza kanjani lokho?
1. Phila ngaphansi kwamandla akho.
Ukumaketha nokukhangisa ikakhulu kugqugquzela lesi sinyathelo esingapheli sokufuna injabulo.
Okushiwo ukuthi udinga ukuthola imali ethe xaxa ukuze uthenge indlu enkulu, uthenge imoto engcono, uthathe imali mboleko yokuya esikoleni sakho samaphupho, uthenge la magama izingubo zokugqoka, uthenge ama-electronics amasha amahle yize okuthengile ngonyaka odlule kusasebenza kahle kulungile!
Iyaqhubeka iyaqhubeka iyaqhubeka.
Ukuphila ngaphansi kwamandla akho kukunikeza inkululeko abantu abahlale bephishekela izinto abangenayo.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, usadinga ukusebenza lawo mahora ukwenza lezo zinkokhelo zesikweletu ukuze izinto zakho zingabuyiselwa.
Kukhona igama abanye abantu abalisebenzisayo ekuzuzeni imali ephezulu, imisebenzi yokuzidela ephezulu ebizwa ngokuthi, 'ozankosi begolide.'
Benza imali eningi, kepha baboshwa yileyo mali ukuze bahambisane nendlela yokuphila kulelo zinga leholo.
Lolo ugibe ongalugwema ngokuphila ngaphansi kwamandla akho.
ukuthandana nomuntu onokuzenyeza
ezimbili. Yamukela umthwalo wemfanelo ngezinqumo zakho nezenzo zakho.
Akekho ozokusindisa ezinqumweni zakho.
Akekho omunye ozoba nendaba nenhlalakahle yakho nempilo yakho ngendlela ozoyikhathalela ngayo.
Ngisho nabantu abanothando, abazinikele kakhulu basenenqwaba yemithwalo yemfanelo yabo nempilo okufanele bayinakekele.
Baningi kakhulu abantu abachitha isikhathi sabo bekhononda ngendlela impilo yabo esabeka ngayo ngenkathi benza okuncane ukuze bangenzi ngcono isikhundla sabo.
Yebo, kwesinye isikhathi kwenzeka izinto ezimbi empilweni esingakwazi ukuzikhethela.
Esingakwenza nje ukuthatha ukushaywa, sizame ukuhamba nakho, sithole indlela yokuphulukisa kukho, futhi siqhubeke siphokophele phambili.
Kepha, kunezikhathi eziningi lapho sinokhetho olungasikhulula esimweni esibi empilweni.
Kungenzeka ukuthi asikuthandi ukukhetha esikunikwayo, kepha kusengukukhetha.
Abantu abachitha isikhathi sabo besola wonke umuntu nakho konke okunye ngoba impilo yabo eyimbi ivame ukuzama ukugwema ukuzibuka esibukweni.
Kepha kufanele sizibuke esibukweni kwesinye isikhathi, ngoba akekho omunye umuntu ongasenzela lo msebenzi.
3. Lwela indlela yokuphila enempilo.
Indlela yokuphila enempilo ikhokha izinzuzo ezindaweni eziningi zempilo yakho.
Ukungaphili impilo enempilo kuzoba nomthelela omubi kwikhwalithi yakho yemicabango, imizwa, nempilo.
Izinto ezilula njengokunciphisa lokho ukudla okungenampilo okufaka emzimbeni wakho, ukuzivocavoca umzimba njalo, nokuthola inani elifanele lokulala kungathuthukisa kakhulu ukucabanga kwakho nombono wakho.
Ukulala kuyisisekelo sempilo enempilo. Kusefayili ye- izigaba ezijulile zokulala ukuthi ubuchopho bethu bukhiqiza amakhemikhali asiza ukugcina imizwa yethu nokulinganisela usuku lonke.
Uma ungalali ngokwanele noma ngokufanele, imizwa yakho nemizwelo yakho izokuhlupheka ngakho.
Ukudla neziphuzo kungamandla okwenza uqhubeke. Ziyondlekile emqondweni wakho futhi zikugcina unamandla ngosuku lwakho.
Ushintsho olulula ongalwenza ukuphuza ushukela omncane, iziphuzo ezine-caffeine namanzi amaningi. Lolo shintsho oluncane lunganikeza ukuthuthuka okukhulu empilweni yakho engokwengqondo nengokomzimba.
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4. Yamukela ushintsho lapho uthola ukuthi isimo asisakusebenzeli.
Impilo ephilwa kahle izoba ngeyokukhula noshintsho.
Akuyona into ongayigwema uma uzama ukuphila impilo enhle, enenzuzo.
Uzobe wenza izinguquko kumbono wakho, usebenzela impilo yakho engokwengqondo nengokomzwelo, futhi uzothola ukuthi udlula izimo ezithile nabantu.
Ukuphuma esimeni kunzima. Abangane abasakhulayo nomndeni kunzima kakhulu.
Lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele uqale ukugijima futhi ushiye wonke umuntu nakho konke ngemuva.
Okudingayo ukubheka ukuthi ngabe izimo nabantu abasempilweni yakho banezelwa okunengqondo.
Uzozizwa ubambekile uma abangani bakho banjalo abantu abanobuthi abenza kabi. Bangagcina ngokukudonsela emuva phansi futhi banciphise intuthuko yakho.
Akuwona wonke umuntu ofuna ukuthuthuka. Akuwona wonke umuntu ofuna ukuzama noma ukucabanga ukuthi angaba yinkinga.
Abanye abantu banelisekile ngokubhukuda osizini lwabo ngoba lukhululekile futhi ushintsho luyesabeka .
Uzodinga ukwamukela ushintsho futhi ubheke phambili kumathuba okulethela wona uma ufuna ukuzikhulula ekuzizwa ubhajwe.
5. Funda ukwala kubantu nasezimeni.
Ukukwazi ukuthi 'cha' kuyikhono elibalulekile lokulithuthukisa.
Kuhlale kunokuthile okwenzekayo, umuntu uhlala edinga usizo, kuhlale kunezibopho nezinto okufanele zifezwe.
Ungumuntu oyedwa kuphela emhlabeni ogcwele izenzo nokwenzekayo. Uma ungakwenzi funda ukuthi cha , uzozithola usuvalelwa yimithwalo yemfanelo engahle ingakulungeli wena nempilo yakho.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu bazokusebenzisa ngokunenzuzo ukungakwazi kwakho ukuthi cha.
Bazokuphendukela ngoba bayazi ukuthi uzothi yebo futhi bangakusebenzisa lokho kuwe ukuze ubambele ngaphezulu emahlombe akho.
Kufanele ube nguwe ovimbela abantu ukuthi basebenzise umusa wakho noma ukuzimisela kwakho ukusiza, uma kungenjalo uzozithola uthwele imithwalo eminingi okungeyona eyakho.
Kulungile ngokuphelele futhi kunempilo ukuthi cha.
Eqinisweni, ukuphela kwendlela yokuvimbela ukuba ungabambeka ngaphansi kwenqwaba yemithwalo yemfanelo okungeyona eyakho.
6. Yenza izinto eziningi ezikuthokozisayo.
Yini ekujabulisa?
Ingabe kuyinto yendabuko? Okuthile okuxakile? Okuthile ozizwa ukwahlulelwa, njengokuthi ubungeke ukwenze noma ungafanele ukwenze?
Uma nje kungalimazi muntu, kwenze noma yikanjani.
ngenzenjani ngentombi enamanga
Abantu bayathanda ukukhipha isinqumo ngokungazenzi ngendlela abacabanga ukuthi ilungile, kepha bangobani ukwahlulela nempilo yakho?
Unelungelo lokulandela injabulo nokwenza izinto ezikuthokozisayo.
Ukunikela ngesikhathi namandla kulezo zinto yingxenye ebalulekile yokuzinakekela.
Impilo igcwele ukunganaki nokuzikhethela. Kwesinye isikhathi, i-monotony ingazizwa yimbi kakhulu kunokunganaki, ngoba kungashiya umbono wokuthi izinto zizoma ndawonye.
Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uthathe isikhathi sokuhlola, wenze izinto ezikuthokozisayo, futhi uphile ngendlela enengqondo kuwe nangombono wakho womhlaba.
Lokho kungahle kungalingani nesikhunta esikholelwa ezintweni okulindelwe abantu abakuzungezile noma umphakathi kuwe - futhi lokho kulungile.
Injabulo yakho nenkululeko akuzona ezezwe lonke ukwahlulela.
7.jova ukuzenzela okuthile nobuciko empilweni yakho.
Abantu abayona imishini ehlonyiselwe ukubhekana nohlelo oluqinile, olunensimbi lwezinto okufanele zenziwe kuze kube usuku lokufa kwabo.
Kwesinye isikhathi umuzwa wokuvaleleka awuhlobene nokuthi uvalelekile empeleni, kepha umbono wokubambeka ngenxa yesizungu sempilo.
Ungazithola usesimweni esijwayelekile uma usebenza umsebenzi ojwayelekile ngezikweletu okufanele uzikhokhe, imilomo yokondla, kanye nezibopho.
Kodwa ingabe yilolo hlobo lomuntu onguye?
Iningi labantu alikho.
Iningi labantu lidinga isasasa elithile, ubuhlakani, futhi ukuzenzekela ezimpilweni zabo.
Thola izindlela zokufuna okunye kwalokhu.
Akudingi ukuba yinkimbinkimbi noma kubize. Thatha uhambo lokuhambahamba epaki lendawo, hamba uyoshayela, udale okuthile ngenxa yendalo.
Yenza lezi zigemegeme ezincane zibe yingxenye ejwayelekile yohlelo lwakho lwamasonto onke ukuze unikeze ingqondo yakho ithuba lokuthola okuncane kokuphila 'okunesibopho.'
8. Funa usizo lochwepheshe kochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo abaqinisekisiwe.
Kunezizathu eziningi umuntu angazizwa ebhajwe empilweni. Izizathu kungenzeka zingabi yinto elula futhi elula ukuzulazula.
Ukuzizwa ubhajwe empilweni kungakhomba nokudangala noma ezinye izinkinga zempilo yengqondo umuntu abhekene nazo.
Kungaba kuhle ukukhuluma nengcweti eqinisekisiwe yezempilo yengqondo mayelana nokuthi uzizwa kanjani nokuthi kwenzekani empilweni yakho uma uthola ukuthi unenkinga enzima yokunyakazisa umuzwa wokubanjwa.
Impilo ayidingi ukuzizwa sengathi iyisicefe nomsebenzi wasekhaya - kodwa nakanjani kungathatha isikhathi nomzamo ogxile ekubuyiseleni imizwa emibi ngemikhuba enempilo nempilo ekunika amandla, kunokuzwa njengomthwalo.
Ngabe awunaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ungayibalekela kanjani impilo yakho yamanje? Khuluma nomqeqeshi wempilo namuhla ongakudlulisa kule nqubo. Mane uchofoze lapha ukuxhuma nenye.
