Izinto eziyi-12 Abesilisa Abazifunela Owesifazane (Futhi Ngokuqinisekile Bafuna Kumfazi)

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Ngakho-ke, ufuna ukungena ngaphakathi kwengqondo yendoda bese uthola ukuthi ifunani ngempela kowesifazane.



Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ubheka ini lapho esilinganisela ukuthi owesifazane angaba yintombi yini…

… Noma amandla omfazi.



Kuyiqiniso ukuthi okufunwa yindoda ebudlelwaneni akufani nalokho okufunwa owesifazane, kepha kuvame ukwehluka okucashile futhi.

Uma usukulungele ukuthola izimfanelo abafana abaningi abazithandayo entombazaneni, qhubeka ufunde.

1. Unozwelo.

Kuyiqiniso ukuthi iningi lamadoda liyasokola ukukhombisa imizwa yawo ethambile, ikakhulukazi emphakathini.

Yingakho belangazelela owesifazane obanika imvume yokuba sengozini ngokukhombisa uzwelo nokuqonda.

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Badinga ukwazi ukuthi lapho bezizwa bedabukile noma bephansi, owesifazane wabo ngeke nje amukele le mizwa, kepha uzonikeza indawo evulekile nenothando abazoyiveza kuyo.

Bafuna indawo ephephile lapho bezosondelana khona ngokomzwelo, ngoba mhlawumbe abanayo enye.

Lokhu kungasho ukumgona, ukumlalela, noma ukumtshela ukuthi kulungile ukukhala.

Kungenzeka ukuthi wakuthola lokhu kunina esemncane, kepha amathuba ukuthi le ngxenye yobudlelwano bomama nendodana yaphela ngesikhathi sokuthomba futhi ayikaze ibuye ngempela.

Futhi ngenkathi kungafanele uzame ukwamukela indima yokuba ngumama ebudlelwaneni bakho, ububele nokuqonda kuyinto azoyazisa kakhulu.

2. Uyamukela.

Abesilisa bafuna ukuzwa ukuthi bangaba yibo uqobo, noma ngabe lokho akuhambisani ngaso sonke isikhathi nomfanekiso womuntu ophelele.

Umphakathi ubeka okuningi okulindelwe kumuntu wesilisa - ukuba yindoda, ukuqhutshwa, umsindo, ukuncintisana… kepha amadoda awahlali enjalo.

Ngakho-ke bafuna ukuthola owesifazane ngaphandle kwemibono ebekiwe ngaphambili yokuthi umuntu kufanele abe yini.

Bafuna ukuzizwa bamukelekile ngalokho abayikho, hhayi ukuthi omunye umuntu ufuna babe ngubani.

Futhi lokhu kufaka amaphutha onawo wonke umuntu wesilisa (nowesifazane walolo daba).

Lokhu kuhlangana nephuzu langaphambilini lokuthi indoda ifuna ukuzizwa yamukelekile lapho isinamandla kanye nangezikhathi 'zobuthakathaka.'

3. Uyabonga.

Abesilisa bafuna ukuzizwa bewusizo kubantu besifazane. Bafuna ukuzizwa bedingeka.

Kuyingxenye yamagugu okhokho babo njengabazingeli besizwe abahlinzeka imindeni yabo.

Bafuna owesifazane ozobonisa ukwazisa kwakhe ngezinto abazenzayo ukuze, empeleni, bazizwe bewusizo futhi bedingeka.

Ukubonga okuncane noma ukubamba okufuziselayo emhlane ukuqinisekisa indoda ngokwenza okuthile okuhle kuhamba ibanga elide.

Kepha kubalulekile ukuthi ungawushayi mkhuba umthelela wokubonga okunjalo ngokumthethisa ngezinto angazenzi - noma izinto azenza ngokuhlukile ngendlela ongathanda ukuthi zenziwe ngayo.

Lokhu kusebenza kuphela ukwenza indoda izizwe isetshenziswa Ngaphansi esikhundleni sokusebenzisa Okugcwele .

Futhi lapho indoda izizwa ingenamsebenzi futhi ingathandwa, cishe ngeke ihlale isikhathi eside kakhulu.

ukudlala kanzima ukuthola indoda

Thola izindlela zokuxoxa ngezinto ngaphandle kokukhomba umunwe wecala. Yebo, qinisela lapho kudingeka, kodwa zama ukungancengi.

4. Uyangeseka.

Lapho owesilisa enomgomo, iphupho, noma isifiso, ufuna ukwazi ukuthi owesifazane osempilweni yakhe uyamsekela.

Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi uzimisele ukulalela imibono yakhe futhi ube nethemba ngayo.

Futhi, yebo, lokhu kwesinye isikhathi kuyosho ukumvumela enze amaphutha. Kodwa leyo yingxenye yempilo.

Vele, uma isinqumo sizothinta impilo yakho ngendlela enkulu, unalo iqhaza odabeni. Asiphakamisi ukuthi umvumele ukuthi enze i-carte blanche ukuze enze lokho akuthandayo.

Kepha owesilisa uzozizwa enamandla ngokwengeziwe ukuba abe ngokwakhe futhi aveze imizwa yakhe uma azi ukuthi ukhona ukumeseka.

Ngemuva kwakho konke, ngemuva kwayo yonke indoda enkulu, kukhona owesifazane omkhulu kakhulu.

Futhi ukwesekwa akugcini kokuhle. Ifinyelela lapho umuntu edonsa kanzima noma ebhekene nesithiyo.

Futhi-ke, kufanele ube khona ukuze amsize, ngokwengxenye ukuze ududuze futhi ngokwengxenye unikeze usizo olusebenzayo uma ukwazi.

5. Uzimele.

Kuvamile kakhulu ukuthi owesifazane afune ukuhlala esondelene nendoda yabo nokuthi owesilisa adinge isikhala esincane.

Lapho owesifazane ezama ukuhlala esondele ngaso sonke isikhathi, owesilisa angazizwa ecinizekile futhi ubone owesifazane njengonamathelayo loba oswelayo.

Yingakho owesilisa emazisa kakhulu owesifazane onempilo yakhe ukuze abe nesikhathi sakhe.

Cishe uke wezwa igama elithi 'isikhathi somgede' lapho ubhekisa kumuntu ohamba ayokwenza izinto afuna ukuzenza.

Indoda ingathanda ukuthi ube nokulingana lapho uzinikeza khona inkululeko yokuchitha isikhathi wedwa noma nabangane noma nomndeni.

Lokhu kumsiza azizwe sengathi unenkululeko futhi.

Wayenempilo ngaphambi kokuba ahlangane nawe futhi ufuna ukwazi ukuthi usenakho okunye kwalokhu kuphila, noma engenakho konke.

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Kuyamsiza futhi ukuthi ezwe ingcindezi encane yokuba ngumthombo wakho wedwa wothando nenjabulo. Ngemuva kwakho konke lokho, lokho impela kuwumthwalo okufanele uwuthwale.

Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):

6. Ufuna ukuthula.

Kuliqiniso impela ukuthi abesifazane bathambekele kakhulu ekuzibandakanyeni nasekuqhubekiseni umdlalo weshashalazi kunabesilisa.

Ngakho-ke, akumele kusimangaze ukufunda ukuthi amadoda akhetha owesifazane okwazi ukugcina ukuthula ngaphezu kokukuphula.

Lokhu akusebenzi ebudlelwaneni kuphela, kodwa nasempilweni yakhe ebanzi futhi.

Uma udweshu ludlangile phakathi kwakhe nabangane bakhe, osebenza nabo, noma umndeni, lokho kuxabana nokuzizwa kabi kuzodlulela ebudlelwaneni.

Owesifazane ongamgcina epholile lapho abanye abaseduze kwakhe belahlekelwa okwabo, owesifazane okwazi ukulamula izimpikiswano futhi abuyise abantu ndawonye, ​​owesifazane ongasuki esibayeni entweni encane kunazo zonke…

… Lowo ngowesifazane umuntu wesilisa azofuna ukumazi.

Asikuphakamisi ukuthi ungalokothi ume ngokuqinile noma ulondoloze imingcele eqinile - akudingeki ube yisicabha sokugcina ukuthula.

Kepha ukwazi ukudedela amagqubu, bona okungcono kakhulu kubantu, futhi ubeke phambili ukuthula kwangaphakathi isidingo sokulunga bonke bangasiza ubudlelwano buqhubeke kahle.

7. Uyakwazi ukuxhumana nezidingo zakhe nalokho akufunayo.

Abanye besifazane bantula ukuzethemba futhi balwa kanzima nokusho abakudingayo noma abakufunayo endodeni yabo.

Lokhu kungaholela ekutheni izidingo zakhe zingagcwaliseki futhi ekugcineni kugcine kuye ukucasukela umlingani wakhe .

Ngemuva kwakho konke, amadoda awabona abafundi bezingqondo. Futhi, ngokudabukisayo, abesilisa abakwazi ukufunda phakathi kwemigqa.

Abesilisa bakhetha imilayezo eyeqile kunemikhondo ecashile.

Kungakho owesilisa efuna owesifazane okwazi ukuxhumana nezifiso zakhe ngokucacile.

Kwenza izinto zibe lula kakhulu futhi kunganciphisa amathuba okudideka kanye / noma owesifazane azizwe engathandwa.

umehluko phakathi kothando nokwenza ucansi

Lapho iziteshi zokuxhumana zivulekile, zombili izinhlangothi zizizwa zikwazi ukuveza imizwa yazo, zizwakala ngokwengeziwe, futhi zinethemba elikhulu ngokusebenzisana abanakho.

8. Uyathatha isinqumo.

Ekhuluma ngezidingo nalokho okufunayo, indoda ifuna owesifazane owazi kahle kahle ukuthi yini eyakhe.

Abesifazane bavame ukudwetshwa njengezidalwa ezinganqikazi ezingazi ngempela ukuthi zifunani.

Futhi yize lokhu kungeke kube yiqiniso kubo bonke abesifazane, kunjalo ngabaningi.

Kepha ngokunganqikazi (noma ngokugcizelela ukuthi 'awunandaba'), ubeka leso sinqumo ungahlosile ezandleni zendoda empilweni yakho.

Ngokushesha, le ndoda inesibopho sokunquma ukuthi wenzani ngezimpelasonto, ukuthi iyiphi i-movie oyibonayo, iyiphi indawo yokudlela oya kuyo.

Ungacabanga ukuthi lokhu kubavumela ukuthi benze noma yini ebenza bajabule, kanti konke lokho kuyabenza bakhathazeke ngokuthi badinga ukukhetha okuthile uzoba jabula nge.

Yize kungekho muntu okufanele enze izinqumo ngaso sonke isikhathi, umsebenzi wokukhetha phakathi kwezinketho ezahlukahlukene kufanele kwabelwane ngawo.

Ngakho-ke uma unombono ngesinqumo, ungesabi ukusisho.

9. Unothando.

Abesilisa balangazelela ukuthandwa cishe njengabesifazane, futhi kuyasiza impela ukunqoba inhliziyo yowesilisa uma owesifazane ejabule ukuba nguyena ozokhombisa.

Ungamangala ukuthi kungasho ukuthini kumuntu wesilisa ukuthi umgaxe ngezingalo bese umsondeza eduze.

Ungathatha isandla sakhe ngenkathi uhamba, uphulule intamo yakhe ngenkathi uhleli eceleni kwakhe kusofa, noma umange ngokungalindelekile.

Abesilisa kwesinye isikhathi bazizwa bengakhululekile ukwenza lezi zinto ngokwabo - futhi, yebo, lelo yiphutha labo abangabhekana nalo - ngakho bayathanda lapho owesifazane ekugqugquzela.

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, indoda izoba ngcono kuyo, kepha badinga usizo oluncane ekuqaleni - ngokoqobo kwesinye isikhathi.

10. Uqinisile.

Kunokuthile okukhangayo ngomuntu wesifazane ongasizwa isidingo sokugqoka imaski noma ukufihla izingxenye zakhe kude.

Owesifazane onokuzethemba kokuba nje uqobo futhi wamukele ukuthi abanye abantu kungenzeka bangamthandi.

Uyazi ukuthi kuzoba nabantu abazokwenza yenza njengaye nokuthi labo bantu bazothanda i- kwangempela wakhe.

Kumuntu, lokhu kuqiniseka kuyaqabula. Lapho owesifazane enalolu hlobo lokuzethemba, akagcini indoda iqagele ukuthi ingubani ngempela.

Ubeka amakhadi akhe phezu kwetafula ukuthi awathathe noma awashiye.

Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uveze okuningi kakhulu maduzane - ngemuva kwakho konke, imfihlakalo ethile ingaba yinto enhle ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuthandana.

Okushoyo ukuthi lokho akubonayo kungokoqobo futhi awusabi ukuthi akubone.

11. Uyahlonipha.

Inhlonipho ihamba ngazo zombili izindlela, kanti ngenkathi okuningi kubhaliwe ngayo amadoda ahlonipha abesifazane , indoda izolindela inhlonipho efanayo emuva.

Lokhu kuhamba ngendlela akhuluma ngayo naye, indlela aziphatha ngayo kuye, nenhlonipho ayikhombisa yena noma engekho.

Lapho owesilisa nowesifazane bekhombisa inhlonipho ephezulu efanayo, bazozizwa belingana, njengengxenye yeqembu.

Uma inhlonipho ikhonjiswa, itshela umamukeli ukuthi kufanele bahlonishwe futhi lokhu kuqinisekiswa kubaluleke kakhulu kowesilisa njengoba kubalulekile kowesifazane.

12. Unamagugu afanayo.

Amagugu omuntu ayisisekelo lapho akhe khona izimpilo zakhe.

nginquma ukuchama ingquza yakho

Ngakho-ke akunakushiwo ukuthi indoda izofuna owesifazane ohlanganyela amanani amaningi afanayo njengaye.

Ngemuva kwakho konke, kunzima ukwakha impilo ndawonye uma ngamunye enesisekelo esihlukile. Isakhiwo nje ngeke sizwakale.

Lawa magugu angahlanganisa izinto ezifana nombono wakho wezepolitiki, ukuma kwakho ngenkolo nendima eyidlalayo, nenkolelo yakho uma kukhulunywa ngamalungelo abantu.

Uma unamanani nemibono efanayo, kuyasiza ukwakha ubudlelwano obunobunye futhi kususwe eminye yemithombo evamile yezingxabano.

Kungenzeka ukuthi ufunda lokhu futhi ucabanga ukuthi eziningi zalezi zimfanelo ziyasebenza kulokho owesifazane akufunayo kowesilisa futhi.

Futhi uzobe uqinisile.

Izinto eziningi owesilisa azithola zikhanga kowesifazane ziyizinto ezifanayo owesifazane azithola zikhanga kowesilisa.

Ngiyethemba, nokho, ngokufunda lolu hlu, usubonile umehluko ongahlelekile wokuthi kungani lezi zinto zibalulekile.

Futhi kufanele okungenani kube nezinto ezimbalwa ezisebenza ngqo ngqo kulokho umuntu akufunayo kowesifazane, ukuze ukwazi ukusebenza kulezi zinto.

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