Ungadlala Kanjani Kanzima Ukuthola: Amaqhinga ayi-8 Angeke Awabeke Phansi

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Ukudlala kanzima ukuthola kugcwele ubuhlakani nobuqili futhi akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuphuma, yingakho sihlanganise amathiphu ethu aphezulu ayi-8 ukuze sibagcine bejaha…

1. Yigcine idlala.

Iphuzu lonke le- ukudlala okunzima ukukuthola ukuthi wena nochwepheshe bakho nobabili niyazijabulisa ukudlala umdlalo omncane.

Futhi dlala kuhloselwe ukuba nenhliziyo elula!

Kwenze kube yi-flirty, thumela imiyalezo emnandi noma ama-emoji futhi ube yisilima ngayo.

Ungathumela imibhalo emincane yokugcona. Mhlawumbe thumela isithombe sengubo enhle ozoyigqoka ngosuku lwakho olulandelayo bese ubashiya babheke phambili ukukubona ukuyo.

Kodwa-ke ukhetha ukukwenza, qiniseka ukuthi kuyathandeka kini nobabili.

Impela, ungawagcona noma uwavimbeze kancane, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi awulimazi imizwa yabo endleleni!

Kufanele bashiywe ukufuna isikhathi sakho nokunaka kwakho, hhayi edinga it.

2. Zenzele wena kuqala.

Lokhu kuyinto ezokusiza impela ngenkathi usathandana, kepha futhi kungasiza kubo .

Uma unezinhlelo nabangane futhi ungafuni ukuba sefonini yakho, batshele.

Thumela umqhafazo wakho uthi kunokuthile okuthokozisayo okwenzekayo ngakho-ke ngeke kube sefonini yakho amahora ambalwa.

Lokhu kuyabakhombisa ukuthi usunempilo yomphakathi ngale kokumthumelela imiyalezo nje, okuzokwenza uthandeke nakakhulu.

Kusebenza njengesikhumbuzo ku wena ukuthi awudingi ukutholakala ngaso sonke isikhathi (into iningi lethu elinecala layo ezinsukwini zokuqala zobudlelwano!), Futhi ubazise ukuthi yini okufanele balindele ukuya phambili.

Kuyindlela enhle yokubenza bajabule uma wenza kanjalo bese uthumela umbhalo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, futhi kubeka okulindelwe kini nobabili ukuthi anilona uhlobo lomuntu lokulinda ngocingo lwakho usuku lonke!

3. Kala imingcele yabo.

Ngakho-ke, ukhiye lapha ukuthola ukulinganisela phakathi kokubabungaza nokugcina ukuqagela.

Kuyafaneleka ukulinganisa ukuthi bazizwa kanjani nokuthi balindeleni ngaphambi kokuba udlale lo mdlalo!

Ungathola ukuthi bazophatheka kabi noma bakhungatheke ngokweqiniso uma ungathumeli imiyalezo izinsuku ezimbalwa.

Uma kunjalo, zama ukugwema lokhu njengoba ungafuni ukulimaza imizwa yabo.

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Wenza lokhu ngoba uyabathanda futhi ufuna ukubazi kangcono, ngemuva kwakho konke.

Kungenzeka ukuthi amahora ambalwa anele ukuwagcina ekujaha, lapho ungadlala khona ngalokho.

Ukudlala kanzima ukuthola akusho ukuvimba ngokuphelele lo muntu ekutheni angakwazi ukufinyelela kuwe ...

… Kusho nje ukuthi ubagcina befuna okuthe xaxa kuwe - kodwa hhayi ngenxa yokuzithemba kwabo, ukuzihlonipha kwabo, noma intshisekelo yakho kuwe!

4. Kugcine kulinganisela.

Kungaba lula impela ukucabanga ukuthi ukudlala kanzima ukuthola kusho ukuthi omunye umuntu kufanele enze wonke umzamo.

Impela, kumnandi ukufunwa nokujahwa, kodwa hhayi uma omunye umuntu egcina ecabanga ukuthi lolu uhlobo lwakho lobuntu!

Uma kubonakala sengathi umdlalo futhi uqhubeka wenza umzamo nabo, wenza kahle.

Uma uhlala ubashiya befunda, bavale izingxoxo, noma ubanikeze isass ethe xaxa, bangaqala ukubuza uhlobo lomuntu oyilo ngempela.

Awufuni ukunikeza umbono wokuthi awusoze waba nentshisekelo kubo - akekho umuntu ofuna ukuzizwa ngaleyo ndlela kumuntu abathandana naye noma asebudlelwaneni naye.

Esikhundleni salokho, yenza umzamo, ubanake futhi ungalindeli ukuthi baziphonse ngo-100% ekutholeni impendulo evela kuwe.

Akulungile kunoma ngubani kini futhi kungaholela ekutheni bakucasukele ngakho futhi bangafuni ukuphola nawe - nakanjani akuyona imiphumela ehlosiwe!

5. ngokomzimba ukudlala kanzima ukuze uthole.

Uma ufuna ukuqhubeka nokwazi ukuchoboza kwakho futhi ufuna ukwakha ukungezwani (uhlobo oluhle!) Phakathi kwenu nobabili, zama ukubambelela ekutholeni umzimba isikhashana.

Lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele ungabandeli futhi ube nobutha ngabo, kodwa ukuthi ungavele ubagcone kancane kunokulala nabo zisuka.

Vumela lokho kulindela kukhule ngokubanikeza ukuqabula okunezihlathi ekupheleni kobusuku, noma ukubazisa ukuthi uke wacabanga ngokulala nabo.

Lokhu kuzobanikeza nje ngokwanele ukuzizwa sengathi unentshisekelo kuzo, kodwa kuzobagcina befuna okwengeziwe.

Bazoqhubeka nokujaha, baqhubeke bekwazi, futhi, ngesikhathi lapho nilala ndawonye, ​​kungenzeka ukuthi senizibophezele ngokwazana kakhudlwana noma kunjalo.

Izinto ezincane njengokuthinta ingalo yabo noma idolo labo kungagcina ukushisa phakathi kwenu nobabili ngaphandle kokuthi nilale ndawonye.

Ukulindela mhlawumbe kuzoba mnandi kini nobabili, ngakho-ke dlalani ngakho futhi nibone ukuthi yini ezwakala kamnandi.

Vele, ngeke bakusukele nje ukuze bezokwazi ukulala nawe, kodwa kuhle ukubagcina benentshisekelo futhi bazijabulise kancane nabo endleleni.

6. Banikeze isikhala ukuze bakukhumbule.

Uma usuthandane amasonto ambalwa futhi ufuna ukudlala kanzima ukuthola, qiniseka ukuthi uzinika isikhathi sakho njalo.

indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthi uxolo ngokulahlekelwa kwakho

Kungaba lula impela ukubambeka ezigabeni zokuqala zokuphola futhi ugcine usisebenzisa sonke isikhathi sakho sindawonye!

Kepha, ukuwagcina ezinzwaneni futhi ekujaha, engeza ibanga elincane ekuxubeni njalo.

Mhlawumbe yenza izinhlelo zempelasonto ezingazibandakanyi.

Akukhona ukuthi awufuni ukubabona, kunikeza nje isikhathi esithile sokubona ukuthi kungcono babe nawe!

Lesi sikhathi ngokuhlukana intando abenze bakukhumbule futhi ngifuna ukuba seduze kwakho ngisho nangokwengeziwe.

Ngokudlala kanzima ukuze uthole kanjena, bazokujaha futhi bajabule ngempela ukuphinde bakubone futhi.

Isikhathi esihlukanisiwe sizonenza nobabili nisazise isikhathi eninaso yenza chitha ndawonye futhi kuzoyenza izwakale ikhetheke kakhulu futhi ingcwele.

Futhi, kuninika ukuphefumula okuncane ukwenza into yakho futhi ugxile ezimpilweni zakho ezihlukene - okubaluleke kakhulu kubo bonke ubudlelwano futhi kuzokusiza ukwakha isisekelo esiqinile ndawonye, ​​kunokuba nengozi yokwakha okuthembekile.

7. Zigcine umatasa.

Abantu bathanda lokho abangakwazi ukuba nakho, ngakho-ke ungesabi ukwenqaba izinhlelo noma ukuzenza nabanye abantu.

Kuyasilinga kakhulu ukusula amakhalenda ethu lapho sithandana nomuntu omusha, nokuzihlanganisa ngokusisebenzisa sonke isikhathi sethu nabo.

Uma ufuna ukubenza bathande futhi badlale kanzima ukuze bathole, qiniseka ukuthi uhlala umatasa.

Kulukhuni nakakhulu ukuthi ubambe noma uphine (ngaphakathi kwesizathu!), Kulapho befuna ukukubona khona.

Bazophinde bazizwe bekhethekile uma bengumuntu owenza umzamo wokumbona yize umatasa kakhulu - lapho wenza izibonelelo futhi uthola isikhathi samahhala sokubabona, bazozizwa bebalulekile kuwe.

Lokhu kuzobanikeza ukuzethemba okuncane futhi kuzobenza babe nesifiso esikhulu sokuqhubeka bekubona

Kunoma ikuphi, ngokungatholakali kancane, ngokungazelelwe uheha kakhulu kubo.

Lungela ukusukelwa…

8. Yazi ukuthi kufanele ume nini.

Ukudlala kanzima ukuthola konke kuhle futhi kuhle uma kusebenza - kepha kuthiwani uma kunomphumela ophambene?

Abanye abantu bangadideka ubuntu bakho obushisayo nobubandayo, noma bangazizwa sengathi udlala imidlalo eminingi kakhulu.

Uma i-crush yakho icabanga ukuthi awuzimisele ukuzibophezela ngoba ubaphazamisa kancane, bangahlehle bacabange ukuthi awukakulungeli ukuthandana.

Awufuni bacabange ukuthi abasoze bakwazi ukukubamba ngocingo.

Iningi labantu lifuna umlingani elingathembela kuye, hhayi umuntu othatha izinsuku ezi-3 ukuphendula umbhalo olula othi ‘Sawubona’.

Uma unentshisekelo, kwenze kucace lokho ngaphambi kokudlala noma yimiphi imidlalo!

Ngenkathi wena ungahle wazi umongo wezenzo zakho, bona ungavele ucabange ukuthi ushintshe umqondo wakho, noma awufuni ubudlelwano obuthinta ukuthintana ngokomzimba, isibonelo.

Ukudlala kanzima ukuthola kufanele kube yinto ejabulisayo nejabulisayo, hhayi indlela yokuthi uvivinye ukuthi umuntu uzizwa kanjani ngawe…

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Ngakho-ke, njengoba kuvela, ukudlala kanzima ukuze uthole umdlalo omuhle kakhulu wokuqhekeka!

Khumbula ukuba ngumuntu wakho wangempela ngangokunokwenzeka - ufuna bakuthande lokho oyikho, ngemuva kwakho konke, hhayi uhlobo lokuzenzisa lwakho ozama ukuluveza.

Yize kukuhle futhi kunempilo ukuba nezinhlelo ezibandakanya bona, futhi kulungile ukuziqhelelanisa kancane ukubenza bakusukele, qiniseka ukuthi i-crush yakho iyazi ukuthi kukhona empeleni unentshisekelo kubo.

Abanye abantu bazovele badele kunokuba bazame kakhudlwana, ngakho-ke kala ukuthi ukuphuka kwakho kunjani, funda lapho weqe imingcele yabo, bese uzama ukugcina izinto zimnandi futhi zinenhliziyo elula.

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