Yini ongayisho kumuntu ukumenza azizwe kahle ngaye?
Ungamncoma kanjani umfana ngendlela eyiqiniso nephumelelayo?
Yilokho esizobheka kukho kulesi sihloko.
Ngakho ake singene ngqo.
Chofoza lapha ukweqa uqonde kokuncoma okungcono okungama-40 kwabesilisa.
Ungamncoma Kanjani Umfana: Izinto Ezi-8 Okufanele Uzikhumbule
Lapho uncoma owesilisa - noma ngabe yisoka lakho, umphathi wakho, noma umngani wakho - kuzoba nomphumela omuhle kakhulu uma ulandela lezi zeluleko.
1. Kwenze kube yiqiniso futhi kube qotho.
Uma kukhulunywa ngokuncoma, abantu bavame ukusho lapho umuntu engathembeki ngokuphelele.
Futhi ukuthola ukuncoma okungelona iqiniso kungahle kube nomphumela ohlukile kumfana kunalokho othemba ukukufeza.
Ngakho-ke ungayenzi ihaba imininingwane, ungahlekisi, futhi nakanjani ungaqambi amanga.
Abafana bayathanda ukuzwa izinto abangazikholelwa. Kufanele kube neqiniso elithile ngemuva kokuncoma futhi kufanele lilethwe ngendlela eyiqiniso futhi eqotho.
2. Kwenze kucace.
Ukuncoma okujwayelekile kulungile, kepha ukumenza ame futhi azise okushilo, yisho okuthile okuqondile.
“Ubukeka umuhle,” akuyona into embi ongayisho, kodwa, “Ubukeka umuhle kakhulu kulelohembe elinombala,” liphumelela kakhulu.
ungamtshela kanjani umngani wakho ukuthi uyamthanda
Inika indoda okuthile okufanele igxile kukho. Uma konke okwenzayo ukusho ukuthi ubukeka emuhle kanjani, ngeke azi ukuthi uthanda ini ngokukhethekile.
3. Gxila kulokho aziqhenya ngakho.
Uma wazi ukuthi umfana wenza umzamo othile kokuthile, ukubheja okuhle ukuthi angathanda ukuzwa amagama amnandi ngakho.
Imvamisa lokhu kuzoba yisici sokubukeka kwakhe, njengokuqina komzimba wakhe noma isitayela sakhe.
Kepha futhi kungaba yinto ehlobene nethalente noma isici anaso aziqhenyayo ngaso, njengamakhono akhe okupheka noma amahlaya asheshayo.
4. Kodwa ncoma namanye amaphuzu akhe amahle.
Kungaba okuthokozisayo kakhulu ukuzwa amagama amahle mayelana nesici esithile sethu esingaqiniseki ngaso - noma into esingakaze siyicabangele kwasekuqaleni.
Lezi zinhlobo zokuncoma zinganikeza ukukhuphula okukhulu ukuzethemba komuntu.
Bazomqinisekisa ukuthi uyathandwa hhayi kuphela ngenxa yezimfanelo zakhe ezinhle kakhulu, kodwa nangomuntu ophelele.
Vele uqiniseke ukuthi ugcine ithiphu lokuqala bese wenza ukuncoma kwakho kube yiqiniso futhi kube qotho.
5. Bheka ukuthi ukwenza uzizwe kanjani.
Uma uncoma isoka lakho noma umyeni wakho, kungasiza ngempela ukusho ukuthi ukwenza uzizwe kanjani.
Amadoda amaningi athanda ukuzizwa edingeka, futhi ukunconywa okulungile kungasiza ngalokhu.
Ungathi, “Ngiyayithanda indlela o…” noma, “Ngizizwa kanjalo… nawe,” noma, “Ungenza ngizizwe kanjalo…”
Lezi zinhlobo zokuncoma zikhombisa umfana umthelela abanawo kuwe, ozobanikeza zonke izinhlobo zemizwa emihle ngabo.
6. Ukuncoma okungalindelekile kuhle.
Ngokuqinisekile kukhona ibhalansi okufanele ishaywe phakathi kokuncoma okumbalwa nokuningi kakhulu.
Bambalwa kakhulu futhi angazizwa sengathi awunandaba ngokwanele. Ziningi kakhulu futhi kungenzeka angazikholwa.
Enye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuqinisekisa ukuthi uyakholelwa kuwukwenza imibono yakho ingalindelekile.
Lapho ezwa okuthile okuhle ngaye kungazelelwe, kuzofinyelela kujule kakhulu kunalokho uma usho izinto ezinhle kulezo zimo ezisobala.
Mbambe ngonembeza othi “Unomomotheka onomusa,” futhi inhliziyo yakhe izoncibilika.
7. Nquma ukuthi uzokuletha kanjani ukuncoma.
Ngokuvamile, ukuncoma okwenziwe mathupha kuphumelela kakhulu.
Uyakwazi-ke ukufunda isimo sobuso bakho, ukukhuluma komzimba wakho, nokunye okungaqondile.
Amoyizele ambuke emehlweni uma usho njalo. Lokhu kuzomenza abone ukuthi amazwi akho ayiqiniso.
Uma ungakwazi ukukwenza mathupha, umbhalo ungasebenza futhi, kanjalo nencwadi evela enhliziyweni.
Ngemibhalo, ungafisa ukugwema ukuncoma komzimba. Ngemuva kwakho konke, mancane amathuba okuthi ube nomphumela ofanayo uma ungekho naye.
Esikhundleni salokho, faka imininingwane ethile engxoxweni yakho.
Mhlawumbe ukutshela ngekhasimende elinzima ayelisebenza emsebenzini - ungamncoma ngokubekezela kwakhe.
Noma mhlawumbe usho ukuthi umsiza kanjani umngani wakhe ngephrojekthi ye-DIY - ungasho ukuthi unomusa noma unesandla kangakanani, noma ukuthi ungumngane omkhulu kangakanani.
Encwadini, ungaphuma ekuncomeni ngokomzimba ngokwengeziwe.
Masibhekane nakho, uma umbhalela okuthile okubaluleke kakhulu, mhlawumbe kunesizathu esizwakalayo (isb. Usuku lokuzalwa kwakhe, usuku lwakho lokugubha usuku, uSuku Lobaba, noma mhlawumbe ngoba ukude manje).
Kulezi zikhathi, incwadi noma umyalezo ekhadini ungafaka izincomo eziningi ezihlobene nazo zonke izinto ozithandayo ngaye.
8. Ungadobi ukuze uthole ukuncoma emuva.
Ukuncoma kuyizinkulumo zokuncoma. Akuzona izingwegwe ongadoba ngazo amagama amnandi ngawe.
Uma okuwukuphela kwesizathu sokuthi ufuna ukuncoma umfana kungenxa yokuthi naye uyakuncoma, ngeke kube qotho kangako, akunjalo?
Isho yena yedwa. Impela, ungathola umuzwa ofudumele kuwo, kodwa lokho kumane kungumkhiqizo omnandi. Inhloso yakho yangempela kufanele kube ukumenza azizwe emuhle ngaye.
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Manje njengoba wazi ukuthi ungamncoma kanjani umfana, ake sihlole ezinye zezincomo ezinhle kakhulu ongamnika zona.
Ukuncoma ngokubukeka kwakhe.
1. Izinwele zakho zinjalo manje - ikakhulukazi uma izinwele zakhe ziyingxenye enkulu yesitayela sakhe.
2. Leloyahembe likhipha okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka emehlweni akho - isebenza ngamehlo aluhlaza, futhi, kepha hhayi nsundu kangako.
3. Ngiyazithanda intshebe / izinhlanga / amadevu akho, kukwenza ubukeke uyindoda eyindoda - amadoda athanda ukuvela njengamadoda.
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4. Isikhumba sakho sibukeka sisihle - ngoba amadoda anokungavikeleki kwesikhumba futhi, uyazi.
5. Ubungagqoka noma yini bese uyenza ibukeke kahle - abanye abantu bafanelana nazo zonke izitayela.
6. Wow, ungakutshela ngempela ukuthi ufake umfutho ejimini, lezo zingalo zakho ziyahlaba umxhwele - noma ama-pecs noma amaphakethe ayisithupha…
7. Ukumamatheka kwakho kuyinto eyamukela kakhulu engake ngayibona - abanye abantu banokumamatheka okuhle ngokwemvelo.
8. Unuka okumangazayo - kulungile, ngakho-ke hhayi ngqo ngokubukeka kwakhe, kepha kusemthanjeni ofanayo.
9. Ngiyayithanda indlela oziphatha ngayo - kubafana abama bude futhi bagcina amakhanda abo ephakeme.
10. Yilokho tattoo epholile - bese ubuza ukuthi yini ebenze bathola lowo mklamo othile.
Ukuncoma ngobuntu bakhe.
1. Unesimo sengqondo esihle kanjalo futhi sikhanga kakhulu - uhlala ebheka ohlangothini oluqhakazile lwempilo?
2. Uzimisele futhi unentshisekelo yokwenza okuthile empilweni yakho futhi ngiyazi ukuthi akukho lutho oluzokuvimba - akuqabuli yini ukubona umfana enokuvuka okuncane?
3. Ukhululekile nje uma ungubani, engikuthandayo - kubafana abanokuzethemba okuphezulu.
4. Unomqondo ovulekile ngezinto - kuyisici esihle ukuba naso.
5. Awesabi ukuthatha ingozi bese uphumela ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokunethezeka - enhle impela kosomabhizinisi.
6. Awunasibindi nje, akukho okubonakala kukuphazamisa - nguyena owayezongena emgodini wezinyoka ngaphandle kokucwayiza?
7. Uyahlekisa, angazi ukuthi ukwenza kanjani - kumuntu ohleka ngempela empilweni yakho.
8. Uxhumana kakhulu nemizwa yakho - owesilisa ongesabi ukukhombisa uhlangothi lwakhe olubucayi.
ungavumeli kanjani ukuthi amagama abantu afike kuwe
Ungumuntu omnandi kakhulu ukuba seduze kwakho - wenza umcimbi u-pop no-sizzle ngokubonisa nje?
10. Ungumuntu ophana kakhulu engimaziyo - ingabe ungumuphi kukho konke akwenzayo?
Ukuncoma ngezenzo zakhe.
1. Indlela enisingathe ngayo leso simo yayincomeka ngempela - uma egcinwe epholile ngaphansi kwezimo ezinzima.
2. Ungumlaleli omkhulu, futhi ngiyakwazisa kakhulu lokho kuwe - uyakwazi ukuvala umlomo wakhe avule nezindlebe? Akubona bonke abafana abakwaziyo.
3. Ngiyazi ukuthi ngingathembela kuwe ukuthola izeluleko ezizwakalayo kunoma yisiphi isimo - uya kuye ngokuhlakanipha kwakhe lapho ungazi ukuthi wenzeni?
4. Ngiyaziqhenya ngokuthi [ufaka okuthile akwenzile ukuzithuthukisa nempilo yakhe - isb. wayeka ukubhema, wenza ibhizinisi lakho laba yimpumelelo] - ngoba ufuna ukwazi ukuthi uyaziqhenya ngaye.
5. Hawu, wenze umsebenzi omuhle ngempela we [faka into ayenze kahle, isb. ukuhlobisa igumbi, ukupheka ukudla] - kuhle ukwazi ukuthi imizamo yakhe iyaziswa.
6. Ungiphatha ngokukhulu ukunakekela nenhlonipho, ukwedlula noma iyiphi indoda engake ngahlangana nayo - ingabe unaka zonke izidingo zakho?
7. Umangalisa kakhulu ngezingane, ungubaba omkhulu - uma engubaba (ngokwemvelo noma ngenye indlela), lokhu kuzosho lukhulu kakhulu kuye.
8. Ngiyayithanda indlela ozama ngayo ukuba nethonya elihle kukho konke nakubo bonke abakuzungezile - uhlala efuna izindlela zokwenza umhlaba ube yindawo engcono?
9. Ngiyabonga ngokwenza umzamo onjalo, uyazi ukuthi ungenza kanjani ukuthi umuntu azizwe ethandwa - lapho esefike emaphethelweni omhlaba ukuyokwenzela okuhle.
10. Ngiyayesaba indlela oyifaka ngayo [ukufaka i-feat ebonakalayo yomzimba - isb. bagijime leyo marathon, banekhono nge-basketball] - unamandla, ukukhuthazela, noma ithalente ngokomzimba?
“Ungenza ngizwe kanjalo…” izincomo zokumnika.
1. Ngizizwa ngiphephe kakhulu uma nginani - uma ekuvikela futhi ekunakekela.
2. Ungenza ngizizwe sengathi ngikuhambo olukhulu kakhulu - lapho impilo naye ingakaze ibe yisicefe.
3. Ngiyayithanda indlela engingaba ngayo nje ngakini - lapho ekwamukela ngokuphelele konke oyikho.
4. Uyazi ukuthi ungenza kanjani ukuthi intombazane izizwe ihle - ukuncoma umfana omuhle ekunikezeni izincomo.
5. Kunokuthile ngawe okungenza ngifune ukukubamba ngikuqabule - uma emuhle kangaka futhi ekhangayo.
6. Ungenza ngizizwe sengathi ngingafinyelela noma yini - lapho umfana ekuxhasa ngaso sonke isikhathi.
7. Ngizizwa ngikhululekile eduze kwakho - lapho azi ukuthi angakusiza kanjani ukuthi ukhohlwe izinkathazo zakho bese ubanda nje.
8. Nginenhlanhla enkulu yokuba nawe empilweni yami - kumfana onethonya elihle kuwe.
9. Ngizizwa ngigqugquzelwe kakhulu nguwe - uma eyisibonelo kuwe ngezinto azenzayo.
10. Ngihlale nginesithakazelo esikhulu kuwe - uma isho izinto ezithokozisayo futhi ixoxa izindaba ezimnandi.
Ngabe awunaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ungayincoma kanjani le ndoda empilweni yakho? Xoxa ku-inthanethi kuchwepheshe wezobudlelwano ovela ku-Relationship Hero ongakusiza ukuthola izinto. Kalula.
