Ngabe kubonakala sengathi impilo yakho ayiyi ndawo?
Ngabe kubonakala sengathi konke okwenzayo ukusebenza, ukudla, ukulala, ukuphinda?
Ngabe unesithukuthezi wedwa?
Awuwedwa. Cishe wonke umuntu uzizwa kanjena ngesinye isikhathi ebhajwe esimweni sokufana nokunganaki.
Kepha unayo ngaphakathi kwakho ukushintsha lokhu. Ungathola inkomba entsha empilweni bese uyithatha.
Ngale ndlela.
1. Zazise ukuthi usuhambe ibanga elingakanani.
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokulwa nomcabango wokuthi impilo yakho ayiyi ndawo ukuthola empeleni ukuthi sele ufinyelele kude kangakanani.
Bheka emuva kokwedlule - hhayi nje okwedlule nje, kepha eminyakeni eyedlule - futhi uzobona ukuthi impilo oyiphilayo manje yehlukile kunakuqala.
Isiphetho kuphela ongasithola ukuthi impilo yakho ibingami ndawonye ngokuphelele, ibimile, ingashintshiwe. Uya endaweni ethile. Uyathuthuka, uyashintsha, uyakhula.
Noma impilo yakho izwa sengathi iyaphindeka njengamanje, ngeke kube njalo kuze kube phakade.
Uyabona, impilo ijwayele ukuba uchungechunge lwezikhathi ezinde zokuzinza ezifakwa ngezikhathi ezithile ngoshintsho olufushane.
Njengengane, uya esikoleni iminyaka eminingi ukuze lokho kuqina kuphele ngokuzumayo. Ungahle uye ekolishi nasenyuvesi lapho izinto zehluke kakhulu, noma uqonde ngqo ezweni lomsebenzi lapho impilo ihluke kakhulu namanje.
Ungahlala emsebenzini owodwa isikhathi eside, kepha maningi amathuba okuthi uzoba nenani lemisebenzi kule minyaka edlule. Lezi zinguquko kusimo kanye / noma enkampanini ziza phakathi kwezikhathi lapho kungenzeki lutho oluningi empilweni yakho yomsebenzi.
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Bese kuba nezindaba zothando, ezothando nezomndeni. Ozakwethu abasha, ubudlelwano obude, izikhathi zokungashadi, ukushada, ukuhlala ndawonye, ukuba nezingane… konke lokhu kuyizimpawu zokuthi impilo yakho iphokophele kwenye indawo.
Ukuthi nje iminyaka ingadlula kungenzeki kulezi zinguquko ezinkulu empilweni. Yilapho-ke ongazizwa sengathi impilo yakho ayiyi ndawo.
2. Buza ukuthi ufuna impilo yakho ibukeke kanjani.
Manje njengoba usubheke emuva esikhathini esedlule, bhekisisa ikusasa bese ucabanga impilo ozojabula futhi wenelise ngayo ingxenye enkulu.
Ukuphi? Unobani? Unamuphi umsebenzi? Uchitha isikhathi sakho kuphi? Uyisebenzisela ini imali yakho?
Mhlawumbe uhlala edolobheni elikhulu, uhlala nomlingani wesikhathi eside, usebenza umsebenzi owuthandayo, uchitha izimpelasonto zakho udlala imidlalo noma ugxile kwezobuciko namasiko, wonga imali ukuze uye emaholidini nohambo olujwayelekile.
Noma mhlawumbe impilo yakho ekahle ibukeka yehluke kancane.
Hlala ucabangisise ngempilo ezayo. Ufuna ibukeke kanjani?
Kodwa ungangeni ogibeni lokucabanga ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi impilo kufanele ibukeke kanjani ngokuya ngokulindelwe abanye noma umphakathi wonkana. Uma ufuna ukwenza okuthile okwehluke ngokweqile ‘kokujwayelekile’ bese ukwenze - le impilo yakho, phela.
Futhi ungacabangi ukuthi awukwazi ukuguqula lo mbono wekusasa lakho njengoba uqhubeka nokuthuthukisa umkhombandlela empilweni yakho. Akukho okuhlala kufana - hhayi umhlaba, hhayi umnotho, hhayi wena, hhayi okufunayo nezifiso zakho.
Hlala uguquguquka futhi uvulekele amathuba avelayo noma imibono eyahlukene ngempilo ohlangabezana nayo.
3. Buza ukuthi yini okushodayo empilweni yakho.
Ngekusasa engqondweni, sekuyisikhathi sokubheka isimo sakho samanje bese uthola ukuthi yini oyintulayo njengamanje.
Yini ongenelisekile ngayo? Yini ekudumaze kangaka ngempilo yakho kule minyaka embalwa edlule? Kungani ubona sengathi impilo yakho ayiyi ndawo?
Ngabe unesithukuthezi ngakho konke?
Ingabe ukuthola kukhathaza kakhulu?
Ingabe ubuhlobo bakho nabanye sebonakele?
Ingabe imisebenzi yakho yokuzilibazisa ayisakuletheli injabulo?
Le ndlela ingazizwa ingeyinhle neze, kepha ukubheka ukuthi ungubani njengamanje kubalulekile uma ufisa ukwenza ngcono isimo sakho.
4. Zibekele imigomo ethile.
Ngomfanekiso ocacile wokuthi ukuphi nokuthi ufisa ukuba kuphi, sekuyisikhathi sokuvala lelo gebe.
Futhi lelo bhuloho lakhiwe lizungeze imigomo.
Izinjongo zikusiza ukuthi usuke ku-A uye ku-B. Uhlinzeka ngohlaka lwezinguquko ofisa ukuzenza empilweni.
Ngakho-ke thatha leyompilo yesikhathi esizayo obuyicabange kahle ephuzwini lesibili bese uyiguqula ibe yinhloso enkulu, yesikhathi eside.
Ufuna ukuthenga ifulethi edolobheni. Lowo umgomo.
Ufuna ukuba ebudlelwaneni obunempilo nothando. Lowo umgomo.
Isici ngasinye esikhulu saleyo mpilo siba ngumgomo wesikhathi eside.
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Kepha lapho igebe phakathi kwalapho ukhona manje nokuthi ufuna ukuba kuphi likhulu, awukwazi ukuligxumela kanye.
Yilapho izinhloso zesikhathi esiphakathi nezinhloso zesikhashana zingena khona.
Cabanga ngalawa njengamatshe okunyathela okufanele uhambe ngawo, ngamunye ngamunye, uze ufinyelele emgomweni omkhulu ekugcineni kwendlela.
Ufuna lowo msebenzi wamaphupho owuthandayo futhi okhokha kahle? Kungadingeka ukuthi uthole iziqu ezengeziwe, uthole ulwazi olwanele, usebenze imisebenzi eminingana ehlobene ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuze uthole ukuqonda okuphelele ngomkhakha. Ungahle udinge nokuthuthela lapho kunemisebenzi eminingi khona.
Ufuna ukuthenga indlu? Lokho kuzobandakanya ukongela idiphozi okungasho ukubuyela emuva nabazali bakho isikhashana. Ungazibophezela ekongeni inani le-X ngenyanga okungahle kubandakanye ukuzidela okuthile ngokuya ngempilo yakho yezenhlalo nezindleko ezihlobene nayo. Kungase kudingeke ukuthi uqale esigabeni esiphansi, esishibhile sesitebhisi sezindlu ngaphambi kokusebenza ufike endaweni oyifunayo, lapho ufuna khona.
Noma yini oyibonayo esikhathini esizayo, yehlukanisa ibe yiziqeshana ezincane, ezingosayizi ongasebenza kuzo kancane kancane.
Izinjongo zingenye yezinto ezingasiza ekulweni nempilo engayi ndawo. Bachaza ngokwezwi nezwi ukuthi impilo yakho iyaphi, noma okungenani inkomba onethemba lokuyihambela.
5. Hlakulela imikhuba emihle ekusiza ufinyelele ezinhlosweni zakho.
Okuncane kakhulu kunezinjongo ezincane kunazo zonke imikhuba. Yizinto ozenza usuku nosuku, imvamisa ungazi.
Futhi iqiniso lokuthi uzenza kaningi yikho okwenza babe ithuluzi elinamandla kangako ekufinyeleleni imigomo yakho nasekushintsheni impilo yakho. Kungumphumela ohlangene wezenzo eziningi eziningi ezincane eziphenduka zibe yimiphumela emikhulu kangaka.
Ake sithi enye yezinhloso zakho zesikhathi eside ukulahlekelwa yi-50lb ngoba uyazi ukuthi ukhuluphele ngokweqile futhi ufisa ukuba nomzimba onempilo.
Manje ake sithi omunye wemikhuba yakho yamanje ukucosha umthamo wamashipsi noma ushokoledi noma nini lapho ugcwalisa uphethiloli. Uma ungakwazi ukushintsha lowo mkhuba ukuze uthathe i-apula, iwolintshi, noma ubhanana esikhundleni salokho, uzobe uthatha izinyathelo eziningi eziqonde enhlosweni yakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Uma inhloso yakho ukuhlangana nabantu abasha futhi wakhe abangane abasha, ungakha umkhuba wokukhumbula igama lomuntu bese ubingelela usebenzisa yena. Ngaleyo ndlela, bazocabanga kahle ngawe futhi amathuba okuthi babe umngane anda.
Bheka impilo yakho yansuku zonke bese ukhomba yonke imikhuba yakho emikhulu. Bese ubona ukuthi kukhona okunye kwalokhu okudinga ukulungiswa noma ukususwa ukuze ube sethubeni elingcono lokufinyelela izinhloso zakho ezinkulu zokuphila.
Ukubeka imikhuba efanelekile kungakusiza ukuthi wakhe futhi ugcine umfutho ngoba wenziwa njalo njalo. Ngakho ungakubukeli phansi ukubaluleka kwazo.
6. Bonga ngezinto ezinhle empilweni yakho.
Ngisho noma kubonakala sengathi impilo yakho ayiyi ndawo, ngokungangabazeki kuzoba khona izinto ngayo oyithandayo.
Ungahle ungazazi ngokugcwele lezo zinto njengamanje, kepha uma ungafunda ukuzibonga ngokweqiniso, kuzokusiza uzizwe unethemba ngempilo yakho.
Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kuzoba nezikhathi ezinde lapho kungashintshi lutho empilweni yakho, kanti ngenkathi ushintsho lungajabulisa futhi luqabule, kubalulekile ukuthi ungakunaki izinto ezilula empilweni .
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Ukubonga njalo kugcina imizwa yokushoda nokulangazelela kutholakale. Esikhundleni sokubona konke ongenakho nempilo engayi ndawo, ubona zonke izinto ezinhle ozenzayo unempilo egcwaliseka ngendlela yayo.
Ngakho-ke bheka ngokucophelela uzizwe futhi ubonise ukubonga ngawo wonke amathuba.
7. Phila impilo okwamanje.
Ngalesi sikhathi ngesikhathi, kungenzeka ukuthi uzimisele ngokuphila impilo ehlukile - ethokozisa kakhulu futhi ijabulise kunale oyiphilayo manje.
Kodwa lokhu kulungiswa kusho ukuthi awukutholi ngokugcwele konke okwenzekayo njengamanje, konke okuzungezile.
Le mindset nokugxila kubamba ubungqabavu besikhathi samanje. Kufiphaza izinzwa zakho futhi kwenza konke kubonakale kungamangalisi kancane futhi kuthe xaxa… meh!
Iqiniso ukuthi, impilo ephilwa okwamanje ayidingi ukuya ndawo. Kwanele.
Awusakhathazeki ngokuthi kufanele ‘wenzeni’ ngempilo yakho ngoba ukugoge ngokuphelele ukukuphila.
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8. Yeka ukuqhathanisa impilo yakho neyabanye.
Ungazizwa sengathi umile nokuthi impilo yakho ayiyi ndawo ngoba kunabantu abaseduze kwakho abaphila impilo yabo ihamba ngokushesha okukhulu.
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Kungenzeka ukuthi bahlangana, baqala imisebenzi emisha, bahambisa indlu, bayashada, baba nezingane, noma enye into ngokuphelele - konke ngenkathi impilo yakho ingashintshi nakancane.
Kungazwakala sengathi ushiywe ngemuva.
Kepha kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi izinguquko ezinkulu ziza phakathi kwezikhathi ezinde zokuzinza. Ngakho-ke uma umuntu edlula ezimeni eziningi ezishintsha impilo njengamanje, maningi amathuba okuthi izinto zizobalungela kungekudala.
Futhi ngenxa yokuthi impilo yakho ixazululwe manje, akusho ukuthi izinguquko ezinkulu azikho endleleni yabo - ikakhulukazi manje njengoba usubeke imigomo eqinile.
Ngakho-ke, ngicela uyeke ukuqhathanisa impilo yakho neyabanye.
Impilo akuyona umjaho impilo uhambo. Futhi uhambo lwakho luzokuyisa ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene ohambweni lomngani wakho, ingane yakini, osebenza naye, nabo bonke abanye abantu.
Lolo hambo kwesinye isikhathi luhamba ngokushesha futhi kwesinye isikhathi luhamba kancane, kepha ijubane alisebenzi. Ezinye izinto ziyaphuthuma, kepha izinto eziningi aziphuthumi, futhi okuningi kusakuthokozela kakhulu ngejubane lokuphumula noma kunjalo.
9. Yekela ukuzifakela ingcindezi.
Ungazizwa sengathi impilo yakho ayiyi ndawo ngoba ukholwa ukuthi kufanele ube nenjongo ecacile futhi esobala umuzwa walokho okufanele ngabe uyakwenza nokuthi kufanele ngabe uphila kanjani.
Njengabanye abantu abaningi, ungachitha isikhathi esiningi ucabanga iyini injongo yokuphila .
Kepha inkinga enkulu ngalokhu kuseshwa okuqhubekayo kwemigomo ethile eqondisayo ukuthi kukufaka ngaphansi kwengcindezi enkulu.
Uma ukholwa ukuthi impilo inephuzu elithile kuyo, nakanjani uzizwe sengathi impilo yakho entula noma ngabe yiliphi lelo phuzu.
Ngubani othi kufanele uzuze i-X, Y, noma i-Z ukuze impilo yakho isho okuthile?
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Uma uzizwa sengathi impilo yakho iyefana futhi hhayi lokhu obekulindele, yinto eyodwa leyo. Kungenye into ngokuphelele ukuba nokulindela okuhle kwempilo eshintsha njalo egcwele into ethile engaqondakali ebizwa ngenhloso.
Njengoba sesitholile, akunjalo ukuthi impilo isebenza kanjani.
Ngakho-ke zithobe kuwe futhi uyeke ukufuna impilo yokuphila okwanelisa ingunaphakade futhi engalokothi ibe buthuntu.
10. Thatha umthwalo ngempilo yakho.
E-flipside yokungazifaki ingcindezi kuwe kubalulekile ukuthatha umthwalo ngempilo yakho.
Ngenkathi ungakwazi ukulawula impilo yakho yonke, ungalawula okuningi.
Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu unakho ukulawula okuthile ekuphenduleni kwakho ngokomzwelo ezimweni ozithola ukuzo - kufaka phakathi isimo sokuzwa sengathi impilo yakho ayiyi ndawo.
Lowo ngumzwelo ongabekelwa inselelo, futhi amanye amaphuzu akule ndatshana kufanele akusize ukwenza lokho.
Ungaba nesibopho sokubeka imizamo yokufeza lezo zinhloso esikhulume ngazo phambilini.
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Ukuzibophezela kubalulekile futhi kunika amandla. Lapho ubona ukuthi unezwi elikhulu emphumeleni wesimo nasempilweni yakho ebanzi, uthola umqondo wamandla asezandleni zakho.
Lokho kungaqale kube nzima okwesikhashana, kepha futhi kuyakhuthaza ngoba uyabona ukuthi awuseyena umgibeli empilweni yakho.
Ukuzibophezela kusho ukuvela empilweni nokuba ngumlingisi ngaphakathi kwayo, hhayi nje isibukeli esibukela kude. Unendima, unezwi, unethonya elidlulela ngale kwebhamu lakho.
Ubalulekile. Impilo yakho nokuthi uyihola kanjani kubalulekile. Kuqonde lokhu futhi uzothola indlela yokwenza izinguquko empilweni yakho ezizokuyisa lapho ufisa ukuba khona.
11. Sebenza nomqeqeshi wokuphila.
Kuningi okufanele kugaywe kulesi sihloko nezinyathelo eziningi okufanele uzithathe. Kungazizwa kunzima kancane ukuqala uhambo.
Kodwa akudingeki ukwenze wedwa. Ungahle uthande ukucabanga ngomlingani oziphendulela - umngani noma ilunga lomndeni naye onomgomo asebenzela lapho ongasiza khona ukulekelelana futhi niduduzane uma omunye wenu nobabili nisusa iso ebholeni.
Ngenye indlela, ungabheka ukuxhumana nomqeqeshi wempilo onobuchwepheshe nesipiliyoni sokukusiza ukuthi ubone ukuthi iyiphi indlela ofisa ukuyithatha bese ikuqondisa ngayo.
Bazokwenza ukuthi uziphendulele ngenkathi uqinisekisa nokuthi uhamba ngejubane elifanele wena nasendaweni onethezeke kuyo.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi le yinto ongathanda ukuyilandela, chofoza lapha ukuthola umqeqeshi wempilo eduze kwakho, noma ongasebenza nawe kusuka enduduzo yekhaya lakho.
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