Cishe eminyakeni engama-20 edlule, ngabona i-quote spray efakwe eceleni kwekhefi engilithandayo. Lathi:
'Ungalinganisi impilo yakho ngokuthi uphefumula kangaki, kodwa ngalokho okususa umoya wakho.'
Ngangibhekene nesikhathi esinzima, ngise-uni futhi ngisebenza imisebenzi emibili ukuze ngikwazi ukuziphilisa, futhi kwafika kimi ukuthi bengingenza okuncane kakhulu okwenze, empeleni, kwangisusa umoya.
Lesi sicaphuno sangigqugquzela ukuthi ngenze izinguquko ezinhle kakhulu empilweni yami, ezangiholela endleleni engijabule ngokumangalisayo ukuba kuyo.
Abantu bangibuze ukuthi ngabe nginomuzwa wokuthi ngiyaphumelela yini empilweni noma cha. Ngicabanga ukuthi abanye abantu bangacabanga kanjalo, kanti abanye bangaphikisana nokukhetha engikwenzile, nokuthi ngigcine kuphi.
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Ngokwami, nginomuzwa wokuthi umqondo 'wokuwina' empilweni usho ukuthi sincintisana nabanye, kunokulandela okwethu ezihlukile, ohambweni ngazinye.
Lokho kusho ukuthi, kunezinto eziningi abantu abangazenza ukuze bathole amazinga ahlukahlukene empumelelo nokufezeka. Ake sibheke ezinye zazo, akunjalo?
1. Yeka Ukukhathalela Lokho Abanye Abakucabangayo Ngawe
Abantu abaningi kakhulu bagcina ezindleleni ezingazifezi, ngoba nje baphoqelelwa ukwenza njalo ngabanye, noma banomuzwa wokuthi 'kufanele' benze izinto ezithile ngoba kulindelwe.
Sod lokho.
Awukwazi ukuwina empilweni uma kungeyona impilo yakho oyiphilayo.
Ungabambeki emicabangweni nasekulindelweni kwabanye abantu, noma ngabe bangabazali bakho noma abalingani bakho.
Wonke umuntu unendlela yakhe azohamba ngayo, futhi ngeke ubeke umzamo oqotho endleleni ozwa uphoqeleke ukuba kuyo.
“Yiba neqiniso kuwena siqu” futhi uzojabula kakhulu futhi uphumelele kakhulu emizamweni yakho.
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2. Yenza Okuthandayo
Lokhu kulandela umhlahlandlela wangaphambili. Bangaki abantu obaziyo abacubungula imisebenzi kanye nemisebenzi abangakwazi ukuyimela ukuze ngethemba lokuthi ngelinye ilanga, ekugcineni bangathatha umhlalaphansi bese benza izinto abazithandayo?
Ingabe lokho kuzwakala kwanelisa kuwe?
Impilo imfushane, futhi abantu abaningi kakhulu basebenzisa isikhathi sabo esiningi ubukhona obuhlala njalo kunoku ukujabulela.
Uma wenza i-career entweni oyithandayo, uthela umzamo oqotho kuyo ngoba empeleni ibalulekile kuwe. Ngingakubiza ngokuthi ukuwina, angithi?
3. Hlakulela Ukuzikhuza
Akunandaba ukuthi wenzani, yalwa futhi uzinikele ngakho.
Yenza okudingeka kwenziwe ukuze ufeze izinhloso zakho, futhi zibambe ezingeni eliphezulu lokuziphatha ukwenza kwenzeke.
Uma impilo yakho ibaluleke kakhulu, yenza uhlelo oluqinile lokuzivocavoca kanye nohlelo lokudla komuntu siqu, bese unamathela kuzo.
Ngabe ufuna ukuthuthukisa imfundo yakho? Beka eceleni isikhathi se-X ngosuku ukuze usebenzise isifundo noma uhlelo obhalise kulo. Uma umatasa nezifundo zakho, yenza sengathi akukho okunye emhlabeni okukhona.
Cabanga ngabanye abantu obukela kubo futhi ongathi baphumelele empilweni. Cabanga ngezindaba zabo nohambo lwabo. Okutholayo ukuthi basebenze kanzima futhi bahlala bezikhuzile ukuze bazuze abakwenzile.
4. Dala Izinjongo Zangempela Ukufeza Okufunayo
Mhlawumbe uke wahlangabezana nezinhloso ze-SMART phambilini, kepha ake sibe nokuqabuleka okufushane lapha.
Lesi sichasiselo simele:
- Ngokuqondile
- Iyalinganiswa
- Kuzuzwe
- Kuyiqiniso
- Ngesikhathi esifanele
Kuhle ukuba nemigomo ongayifinyelela, kepha uma ufuna ukuyifinyelela, bese uhamba ngayo ngendlela ye-SMART.
indlela yokufunda ukwethemba abantu
Isibonelo, uma inhloso yakho ukuthenga indlu, yenza isethi yezinyathelo nezinhloso ezingakusiza wonge ngokwanele ukukhokha kwakho phansi nge-X date.
Uma ungathanda ukufunda ikhono elisha, bese uzenzela uhlelo lokuzijwayeza amahora we-X ngesonto, kumaphrojekthi athile.
Ngokwenza njalo, unendlela yokukala intuthuko yakho bese ubhala impumelelo yakho.
Le migomo emincane, enengqondo ibaluleke kakhulu ekugcineni ukhuthazeka.
Futhi uzokwazi kanjani ukuthi uzowina nini empilweni uma ungazi ukuthi ukuwina kubukeka kanjani kuwe - imigomo ingakusiza ngalokho.
5. Funda Ukuzivumelanisa Nezimo
Kukhona isisho esihamba okufana nalokhu: 'Uma ufuna ukuhlekisa uNkulunkulu, mtshele ngezinhlelo zakho.'
Impilo yaziwa ngokushintsha lapho isigqoko sikhona, futhi lokho kungadala abantu ingcindezi enkulu, idrama, nokuhlukumezeka.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, lapho silindele ukuthi izinto zenzeke ngendlela ethile bese zingenzeki, noma kuvela okuthile okuphonsa umhlaba wethu omncane ohlanzekile ezinxushunxushwini, singawa kancane.
Ukhiye ukuhlala uguquguquka ngokwanele ukuzivumelanisa nanoma yisiphi isimo.
Lwela izinhloso, kepha lungela ukushintsha indlela lapho kudingeka khona - ngokuyisisekelo njengokuthatha umzila ohlukile lapho uya khona.
Unganamatheli kakhulu emiphumeleni ethile, kodwa zama ukwazisa uhambo, nokufunda okwenzekayo ngenkathi ufika lapho.
6. Isinyathelo Ngaphandle Kwendawo Yakho Yokududuza
Uke wayizwa le nkulumo 'Indawo yokududuza iyindawo enhle, kepha akukho lutho oluye lukhule lapho'?
Kungazwakala kukuncane, kodwa empeleni kuyiqiniso impela. Izindawo zokududuza ziyaduduza futhi zithokomele, kepha zingasivumela nokuthi sime futhi sikhule singanaki.
Abantu badinga izimo ezintsha ukubaphonsela inselelo, ngoba kungokunqoba izinselelo kuphela lapho singakhula khona impela.
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Uma wake wanakekela ingadi, uzokwazi ukuthi izitshalo zidinga ingcindezi ukuze zikhule kahle. Ingcindezi eningi kakhulu izobalimaza noma ibabulale (kakhulu njengabantu), kepha okuncane nje, okwanele, kukhuthaza ukukhula okunamandla nokuvuna okuningi.
Uma uthola ukuthi unethuba lokukhula, ufunde, noma uhlole okuthile okusha, kodwa wesaba ukukuzama ngoba kuhlukile noma kuyesabeka, ubone ukuthi unesibindi sokwenza noma kunjalo.
Ngokungangabazeki uzofunda okuningi ngokuzama, futhi okungenani ngeke usebenzise impilo yakho yonke uzibuza ukuthi ngabe kwenzekeni ukube ubuthathe ithuba.
Cabanga ngempilo njenge-raffle - awukwazi ukuwina uma ungathengi ithikithi.
7. Ungalokothi Uyeke Ukufunda
Noma ngabe ukhulisa amakhono akho noma ungene esihlokweni esisha osithandayo, uzothola ukuthi ukufunda izinto ezintsha njalo kugcina ingqondo yakho ibukhali nezinzwa zakho zishesha.
Abantu bangaba ngamakhosi ngokuphelele kubuciko babo, kepha amasu amasha, izinto zokwakha, kanye nemibono iyaqhubeka ivela nsuku zonke.
Lapho siyeka ukufunda, siyama. Futhi okubi kakhulu kunalokho, singazikhukhumeza futhi sinamathele ezindleleni zethu.
Othile kungenzeka ukuthi wazuza ingcebo nodumo ngokwenza okuthile ngendlela ethile amashumi eminyaka, kepha kuthiwani uma bengenza kangcono, kalula, ngokushintsha inqubo eyodwa encane?
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Njengebhonasi eyengeziwe, ukufunda izinto ezintsha - izilimi ezintsha ikakhulukazi! - kusiza ukudala izindlela ezintsha nezintsha ebuchosheni bakho… ezingabambezela (noma zigweme) izimo zokuwohloka kwengqondo ezifana ne-Alzheimer's kanye ne-dementia.
8. Zama Ukubona Okuhle Kuyo Yonke Into
Manje, lokhu akusho ukuthi ube nethemba elingabekezeleleki ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Izinto ziya esihogweni kaninginingi, futhi ukungavumi ngezimo ezixakile akusizi muntu.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela lapho ubhekene nesimo 'se-ugh', kunokuzama ukusipholisha bese uphikelela ngokuthi kulungile, empeleni, konke kuhamba kahle, hahahah - lokho ithemba lobuthi .
Lapho kuvela izimo ezingemnandi, zamukele, zisebenze ngazo zonke izindlela, bese uzama ukubona ukubheka phezulu uma kukhona.
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Ngiyayibona inyanga.
Yebo, iqiniso lokuthi isibaya sishisiwe bekuyinto engekho. Kepha okubhekwayo ukuthi ukubuka manje sekumangalisa ngokuphelele.
Vuma ukuthi sonke isimo esisodwa yithuba lokuqwashisa nokukhula komuntu siqu, futhi kaningi kunokuthile ongakubonga.
Uma ufuna ukuwina, kwesinye isikhathi kufanele bheka ngokunqoba esimweni sakho samanje.
9. Nciphisa ukucindezeleka kwangaphandle ngangokunokwenzeka
Lokhu kungazwakala njenge-no-brainer, kepha abantu abaningi benza izimpilo zabo zibe nzima kakhulu kunesidingo ngokungasusi izingcindezi ezingadingekile.
Kwesinye isikhathi, okufaka isandla ekucindezelekeni komuntu kungaba ngumuntu ochitha amandla akho njalo.
Izici ezingeziwe zingaba omakhelwane abacasulayo, amadreyini angadingeki ezimali zakho, okulindelwe abanye abantu kuwe, nokuzibophezela okulingene ongazizwa ngempela.
Zama ukuqeda noma yini engadingeki , futhi wenze impilo yakho ibe lula ngangokunokwenzeka.
p> Ziqhelelane nezithunzela zomzwelo ezingokomzwelo. Phuma edolobheni uma uhlaselwa njalo ngama-siren, imisindo, nephunga elikukhathaza futhi likwehlule. Khansela okubhaliselwe kwakho kokuzijabulisa uma ungazisebenzisi ngokugcwele.
Ngokuyisisekelo, nquma konke okungakuletheli injabulo, noma okungakufezi.
Uma ukuwina empilweni kusho ukuhamba endleleni othola ukuthi iyanelisa, kulula kakhulu ukukwenza lokho uma ungasindwa okungenasidingo imithwalo.
10. Phila Ngokuvamile, Kodwa Ungaziphiki
Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi ukuze baphumelele, badinga ukungaziphathi kahle. Ngokuyinhloko, ukonga yonke imali, noma ukuchitha kuphela izinto ezibaluleke impela.
Yize ukusebenza ngokohlelo lokusebenzisa imali kungumbono omuhle, kubalulekile futhi ukujabulela impilo yakho.
Ukutshala imali enqabeni yabantu abadala esezingeni lakho egcekeni lakho kungahle kungabi wukutshala imali okuhlakaniphile, kepha izingubo ozithandayo, ukudla okumnandi, nohambo olukugqugquzela kungaletha injabulo enkulu emhlabeni wakho.
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Zama ukungasebenzisi imali ongenayo, ngoba akekho umuntu othanda ukuphikisana nenzalo ekhubazekile esikweletini sekhadi lesikweletu. Beka eceleni imali encane kuyo yonke inkokhelo oyitholayo, bese ubeka lezo zimali ezintweni ezikwenza umomotheke.
Tshala imali kuwe, nasezintweni ezikuthokozisayo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, le mpilo enhle yayihloselwe ukujatshulelwa, akunjalo?
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Wonke umuntu uzoba nombono wakhe wokuthi 'ukuwina' empilweni kubukeka kanjani.
Umuntu ngamunye unezinto eziseqhulwini kuye, izinhloso zokuphila, kanye nemiqondo yokuthi impumelelo isho ukuthini.
Kumuntu oyedwa, ukuwina kuzosho ukuhlala engcebweni ecebile, ngezingubo ezibizayo nezimoto futhi yini.
Komunye umuntu, impumelelo ingasho impilo enokuthula, elula yokweneliseka okunokuthula egumbini lezintaba.
Akunandaba ukuthi umqondo wakho wokuwina ungaba yini, kuhlale kunamathuba okukhula nokuzithuthukisa.
Ungalokothi ukhathalele ukuthi yiziphi izinto eziza kuqala futhi ezifunwa abanye abantu. Zama ukungaziqhathanisi nabanye, kepha unqume ukuthi injabulo nempumelelo kusho ukuthini kuwe. Ngemva kwakho konke, awukwazi ukunqoba empilweni yomunye umuntu ungawina kweyakho kuphela.
Sethemba ukuthi ezinye zalezi zeluleko zingasiza!
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