Izinto eziyi-11 Ongazenza Ukuze Uyeke Ukuzizwa Unesithukuthezi Ngokuphila

Umqondo wokuphila ube mfushane uvame ukusundelwa njengesizathu sokwamukela lokhu manje, ukwamukela noma yini umuntu okumele ayenze ukuthola injabulo yakhe kulo mzuzu wamanje.

Thatha lesi silinganiso esivela kuPaulo Coelho ngokwesibonelo:

Ngelinye ilanga uzovuka futhi ngeke sisaba khona isikhathi sokwenza izinto obukade uzifuna. Kwenze manje.

Kodwa ingabe impilo imfushane ngempela?

Kuyiqiniso ukuthi impilo inganqanyulwa ngenxa yenhlekelele, ukugula, noma izimo ezingalindelekile ezikushaya ungazelele, kodwa impilo ngeke ibe mfushane kubantu abaningi.

Kuzoba isikhathi eside.

Iminyaka emide.

Uma ulandela indlela yendabuko yokuphila, uzoya esikoleni iminyaka eminingi yokuqala engama-20 yempilo yakho, mhlawumbe ngaphezulu.

Ngemuva kwalokho, uzongena emakethe yomsebenzi lapho uzosebenza khona mhlawumbe uthenge indlu, ukhulise umndeni, futhi wongele umhlalaphansi iminyaka engama-30 noma engama-40.

Futhi-ke ngethemba lokuthi uthathe umhlalaphansi, uphile iminyaka yakho yesiliva negolide ngokuthula nangokunethezeka ngenxa yomsebenzi owufakile phakathi nempilo yakho.

Okungenani, lokho kufanele kube uhlelo - impilo ayihlali isebenza ngendlela esiyihlela ngayo.

Kodwa noma kunjalo, leso yisikhathi eside ukuthi konke kuhamba ngokuhamba kohlelo noma cha.

Ukwenza into efanayo kaninginingi, usuku nosuku, isonto nesonto, inyanga nenyanga, unyaka nonyaka kuba nesidina.

Abantu badinga okwehlukile empilweni yabo, ngisho nalabo abanethezekile ngokuqagela, nobukhona obuhlelekile.

Ukuntuleka kokuhlukahluka kushiya abantu bezizwa benesithukuthezi futhi kungagcina kudale ukuwohloka kokuningi noma kuzo zonke izici zempilo yabo.

Lo mbhalo uzongena ujule kulesi sithukuthezi esikhohlisayo. Izobheka ukuthi izizwa kanjani, ukuthi ibangelwa yini nokuthi ingakunqoba kanjani.

Ngakho-ke ake singene ngqo, angithi?

Ngabe kunjani ukuzizwa unesithukuthezi ngempilo?

Isithukuthezi sempilo asifani nesithukuthezi sakho se-run-of-the-mill.

Lapho impilo izwa iyisicefe, uvuka ekuseni uye ezweni elingenambala, ubuhle, noma ukuvuselela.

Uzizwa ungenasiqondisi. Uyakhubeka usuku lonke, wenze izinto umphakathi ofuna ukuthi uzenze, bese ulala ubuthongo obunenkathazo, obungenakuphumula.

Ngisho nangempelasonto - imvamisa indawo yokuphumula elunywa yizwi lesonto elisebenzayo - ayikuniki injabulo.

Yonke ingxenye yakho ifuna impilo yakho iguquke, kodwa awukwazi ukuthola ukuthi ufuna iguquke kanjani, futhi awukwazi ukuziletha ukuyishintsha.

Uyazi nje ukuthi kufanele i… ngandlela thile.

Kuze kube yileso sikhathi, uyizinkuni zokukhukhuleka, untanta olwandle lwempilo, uvele uqhume emisakazweni.

Ungaba nokuphila abanye abakufisela umona - ubudlelwano obuqinile, umsebenzi omuhle, izingane ezijabulayo, indlu enhle, izinto zikanokusho - kodwa usale usafuna.

Ungathandwa ngabaningi futhi unabanye abathembele kuwe, nokho uzizwa ukuthi kufanele kube nokuningi empilweni kunalokhu.

Futhi lo muzwa awunqunyelwe kuphela engqondweni ...

Isizungu ngempilo singena emzimbeni wakho futhi. Lokhu kungaholela ekhanda, ukuqina kwemisipha, izinkinga zokugaya, kanye nokuntuleka kwamandla phakathi kwezinye izinto.

Lokhu kungukuzizwa okuyiqiniso, okuchoboza umphefumulo.

Ngabe lesi sithukuthezi siyefana nokudangala?

Impendulo emfushane ithi: hhayi njalo.

Ungasithola lesi sithukuthezi esijulile ngaphandle kokuthi ucindezeleke ngomqondo wokutholwa.

Futhi ungahlushwa ukudangala futhi ungabi nesithukuthezi ngokuphelele nangokuphila kwakho kwansuku zonke.

Kukhona ukuhlangana phakathi kwala maqembu womabili kanye kungaba nokuxhumana phakathi kwesithukuthezi nokudangala.

Kepha ukudangala kungaba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu, ngakho-ke uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi ucindezelekile, kufanelekile ukukhuluma nodokotela noma uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo.

Iyiphi indima edlalwa ubuchwepheshe ekusidiniseni?

Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi, yize kunenqwaba yezinketho ezitholakalayo kithi zokuzijabulisa, sisazithola sinesithukuthezi futhi singazihlanganisi.

Siphatha okokufaka ephaketheni lethu okusinika ukufinyelela kokuzijabulisa okusheshayo kanye nolwazi oluhlangene lwesintu.

Kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi sibe nesithukuthezi kangako ngalokho ezandleni zethu?

Ukweqisa ngokweqile kungumnikeli. Inani elingapheli lezinketho zokuzijabulisa lingazenza zonke zibonakale zintula futhi zicefe.

Ngemuva kwesikhashana, sizithola sihlala kusofa wethu, siphenya ngokuxhumana nomphakathi noma sizama ukuthola into elandelayo ukuzitika ngokweqile esikhundleni sokuphuma nokuzibandakanya nempilo.

Okuhlangenwe nakho okuningi kwe-inthanethi kusekelwe ekuzithokoziseni okusheshayo. Ngenxa yalokhu, ubude besikhathi sokunaka buyancipha.

Lokhu kwenza kube nzima ukuzibandakanya emisebenzini enzima kakhulu enganikeza incazelo, injabulo, noma ukuzijabulisa kwangempela. Kuthatha isikhathi ukwenza noma yimuphi umsebenzi.

Kumele Iba nesineke okwanele ukwakha nokulandela izinto esizifunayo, noma ngabe lowo ngumsebenzi, umndeni, noma impilo enenjongo.

Kungani kubaluleke kangaka ukuba nokuphila okunenjongo?

Umqondo wokungeneliseki okungapheli ukuthi umuntu unjalo njalo ngingajabule ngendlela impilo yabo eqhubeka ngayo noma umkhondo wabo wamanje.

Asikwazi ukuphunyuka kuzo zonke izibonelo zansuku zonke zokuzimela. Akekho umuntu othanda ukuma olayini, achithe isikhathi sakhe ehlezi ezimotweni, noma azame ukwenza sengathi unentshisekelo emihlanganweni engenamqondo.

Kepha lezi kwesinye isikhathi ziyingxenye edingekayo yokuhamba empilweni.

Iqiniso elibi ukuthi, akekho umuntu oyohlale ejabula ngaso sonke isikhathi. Lokho ukulindela okungenangqondo okuzoholela osizini olwengeziwe nokunganeliseki.

Ukungeneliseki okungapheli kwenzeka lapho umuntu enganelisekanga nakho konke ukuphila kwakhe.

Mhlawumbe umuntu uphile impilo ethulile, eshaya umsebenzi ongenamsebenzi eya emsebenzini ongenanjongo, ubungani obungajulile nobungani obungajulile, ubudlelwano obungenalutho nobudlelwano obungenalutho.

Banobunzima bokuthola injabulo kunoma yini ngoba konke kuzwakala engajulile futhi akusizi ngalutho.

Lokho kwehlisa amandla kungakhuthaza imikhuba eminingi engenampilo kanye nokugula - kufaka phakathi ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa notshwala, ukudangala nokukhathazeka.

Kwesinye isikhathi kuba ngenye indlela, lapho ukucindezeleka empeleni kuyimbangela yokungazizwa ukujabula noma injabulo empilweni yomuntu.

Leyo mizwa engenalutho ingenza umuntu ahlanganyele kuyo ukuzilimaza ukuzama nje ukwehlukanisa isicefe sempilo yabo.

Mhlawumbe badiliza ubudlelwane phansi ngoba abajabule noma bacekela phansi ezinye izindawo zempilo yabo ukudala umdlalo othile.

Lokho akusho ukuthi sonke isikhathi sokuphumula noma ukubhoreka kuyinto embi. Akunjalo.

Umuntu kufanele azinike isikhathi sokuphumula futhi alulame ngaphambi kokuba angene kokunye ukuzilibazisa, ibhizinisi noma ukuzijabulisa. Uma ungakwenzi, uzibeka engcupheni yokuzishisa futhi uzithole usubuya ekuqaleni. Ukuzibamba kubalulekile.

Kusho ukuthini ukuba nokuphila okunenjongo kuwe?

Umqondo wokuphila okunenjongo yilowo onikeza ukwaneliseka komuntu siqu, umuzwa wokufeza okuthile, nezinga elithile lentokozo.

Ngokuphikisana nemithombo yezokuxhumana kanye nemibono yezwi, umuntu kufanele aqaphele ukuqhuma kwentokozo nencazelo. Lezi ezimbili azihlangani ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Njengesibonelo, mhlawumbe kukhona usonhlalakahle ogxile kakhulu ekuzameni ukusiza amaklayenti abo athuthukise izimpilo zabo.

Lokho kungaletha okukhulu ukufeza nokwaneliseka, kepha kunzima ukubuka abantu behlupheka usuku nosuku.

Kungamangaza ukucabanga ukuthi umuntu angathola injabulo yakhe emzabalazweni nohlangothi olumnyama lwempilo, kepha abanye abantu bayakwenza. Abanye abantu bayachuma kuyo.

Abanye bakhetha ukungqubuzana nokulwela okuthile okusho okuthile kubo, ukuba yingxenye yento enkulu kunabo. Futhi lokho kubanikeza ukwaneliseka okuthile nenjabulo ethile, kepha kungaba ubuwula ukulindela.

Ukucwiliswa futhi ubuke ukuhlupheka njalo kungenza umuntu acindezeleke kalula uma engakwazi ukuzihlukanisa futhi azinakekele kahle.

Abantu bathola incazelo ngezindlela ezahlukene.

Kwabanye, kuzobe kusebenza umsebenzi abajabule futhi abajabule ngokuba nawo. Abanye bangathola incazelo yabo ekuhlakuleleni nasekukhuliseni umndeni onothando.

Abanye bangayithola ngokusebenzela abanye noma abasengozini. Abaculi bangayithola ekudalweni. Ososayensi bangakuthola lapho kutholakala. Kukhona inani elingenamkhawulo lemizila, yonke esebenza ngezinga elithile.

Ayikho indlela ebekiwe, yobunye eya enjabulweni, incazelo, futhi ukuzwa ukwaneliseka ngempilo . Indlela yakho izoba uhlukile kuwe .

Kungabelana ngokufana nabanye abantu, kepha kuzoba ngumgomo wakho ukuthola ukuthi iyiphi indlela eyenza umqondo kuwe futhi uyilandele.

izinto okufanele uzenze lapho uwedwa ekhaya

Lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele uhambe wedwa noma ukuthi akekho umuntu ongakusiza endleleni yakho, ukuthi nje akufanele ulindele ukuthi omunye umuntu azokwazi ukukunikeza nje iphakethe elicocekile elinomnsalo ngaphezulu. Akunakwenzeka lokho.

Ngikuthola kanjani okuzonikeza injongo nenjabulo empilweni yami?

Yenza izinto.

Kulula kanjalo nje.

Kuzwakala sengathi kwakhiwe, kepha okuwukuphela kwendlela ongathola ngayo ngempela ukuthi yini enikeza injabulo, ukwaneliseka, nenjongo empilweni yakho ukuzibandakanya empilweni nokwenza izinto.

'Kodwa uma ngingalithandi?'

Lapho-ke awukwenzi. Futhi uqhubekela kokunye into.

Noma wenza izinto ongazithandi noma ongazijabuleli neze, wandisa ulwazi lwakho nombono womhlaba, okukunika amandla okuxhumana nabantu abaningi futhi wenze ukuqonda okungcono kwalokho okwenzayo nokungakuthandi.

Amathuba amahle kakhulu uzokwenza izinto ezimbalwa ongazithandi ngaphambi kokuthola izinto ezizwakalayo ozenzayo.

Noma mhlawumbe ngeke! Mhlawumbe uzozama into entsha bese uyithola inikeza ukwaneliseka nokugcwaliseka.

'Kodwa anginayo imali yokuyithenga!'

Akudingeki ukuthi kubize. Akudingeki ukuthi uhambe uhambo olunga- $ 5,000 ukuya epharadesi elithile elishisayo ukuze uzithole.

Thola ikhadi lomtapo wolwazi, funda noma ulalele ezinye zezincwadi. Yenza umsebenzi othile wokuzithandela nalabo abahluphekile noma izilwane. Yiba umeluleki kothile obheke ukuthola indlela yakhe. Thatha izifundo zobuciko esikhungweni somphakathi wasendaweni.

Lezi zinto zonke izindlela ezingabizi kakhulu zokukhula njengomuntu nokuzwa izinto ezintsha ngaphandle kokuthatha ama-selfie eMachu Picchu noma ukuxhashazwa abaculi nabathengisi basemgwaqweni eCairo.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukwenza izinto. Noma yini ingcono kunalutho. Uma kungakusebenzeli, shintsha izinto ozenzayo bese uzama okuthile okusha.

Kuthiwani ngokulindela komphakathi kimi?

Ama-idealists, abadwebi, ongqondongqondo abakhululekile bangazithola sebenesithukuthezi futhi bevaleleke kwesinye isikhathi ngesakhiwo esinzima sokuhambisana nomphakathi.

Inkinga ibhebhethekiswa ingcindezi yezenhlalo yontanga namaqembu akhe ukuze ingene ebhokisini okulula ukuliqonda, nelikhululekile.

Ibhokisi liyindawo enethezekile kwabanye abantu. Kunabantu laphaya abajabule ngokwedlula ukwamukela umbono wendabuko walokho umphakathi okulindele kubo ngoba unikeza indlela ecacile, leyo abakholelwa ukuthi izobanikeza injabulo nokwaneliseka.

Inkinga ukuthi akubona bonke abantu abangena kulelo bhokisi.

Okubi kakhulu, umphakathi uthanda ukunqwabelanisa amahloni, ukugxeka, nokuhlekisa nganoma ngubani onquma ukugqama esixukwini abuze isimo esikhona.

Iqiniso elibuhlungu ukuthi lokhu akunakwenzeka ukuthi kuguquke. I- imimoya yamahhala yezwe badinga ukukwazi ukugwema okulindelwe ngobutha nokugxekwa okungadingekile uma benethemba lokuthola inhloso yabo nokweneliseka empilweni, ngoba indlela eshayiwe ayenzelwe bona.

Mhlawumbe bahloselwe ukwenza okuningi. Mhlawumbe zihloselwe ukuletha ukukhanya ezindaweni ezimnyama, zikhuthaze ukucabanga kwamahhala, futhi zisize ukudiliza imigoqo yezenhlalo ethinta kabi abanye abantu.

Umoya wokukhululeka kungenzeka ume futhi ubune endaweni yengcindezelo, ehlelekile njengabaphathi bezinkampani noma njengomzali ohlala ekhaya.

Bangakwazi ukwenza lezi zinto? Impela. Abantu bangenza izinto eziningi ezingafanelekile. Ingabe kufanele? Yebo, lowo ngumbuzo ongaphendulwa yilowo muntu kuphela.

Noma bekwenza, bazodinga ukuthi bakwazi ukuguqula ubuciko babo nomoya wabo uma befuna ukuhlala benentshisekelo futhi behileleke empilweni.

Lokho kungasho iholide laminyaka yonke endaweni ethile ethokozisayo, amakilasi obuciko noma omdanso, noma okuthile okuzogqugquzela umnyombo womoya wabo futhi kunikeze ukukhuthazeka kobuhlakani.

Yini esingayenza ukuqeda isithukuthezi sempilo?

Ngaphambi kokuthi uthole izindlela ezifanele kakhulu zokulwa nesithukuthezi sakho, kufanele uhlole izimbangela zako.

Ingabe umane ube nesithukuthezi ngokuzimela wedwa kwempilo yakho? Ngoba unesizungu? Ngoba awuzizwa unenselelo?

Ingabe impilo yakho iyisicefe ngoba abantu abasempilweni yakho bakubhorekile? Ingabe akukho lutho ekusaseni lakho ongajabula ngalo?

Ingabe uzizwa uvinjelwe yizimo ezingakwazi ukulawula impilo yakho?

Ngabe unayo inqolobane yamandla namandla okungenakutholakala edinga ukuphuma?

Ngabe uphila impilo eyiqiniso, uzama ukuba ngumuntu ongekho?

Lapho ungena ngokwengeziwe ngezimbangela zesithukuthezi sakho ngempilo, lapho ungaphuma khona futhi uhlanganyele nakho kungabhekiswa kakhulu kuwe.

Nazi izinto ezimbalwa ongazama ngazo ukunciphisa isithukuthezi sakho.

1. Bamba iqhaza emsebenzini wokuzithandela noma wesikhashana nenhlangano.

Umsebenzi wokuzithandela uyindlela enhle kakhulu yokuphuma, ukuhlangana nabantu abasha, nokunikela okuthile okuhle emhlabeni.

Kunezinhlangano eziningi ezidinga yonke into kusuka kwabasebenzi abayitoho kuya kwabanekhono. Ungahle ukwazi ngisho nokubeka amakhono nolwazi lwakho lobuchwepheshe ukusebenzela injongo ethile.

Enye inketho ukwenza Joyina inhlangano yobungcweti ehlobene nensimu yakho. Akusizi nje kuphela ekuqedeni isithukuthezi nokuzidla wedwa, kepha ukuxhumana nabantu abasha ongakwazi ukwakha ubudlelwano bobuchwepheshe nabo.

2. Funda isethi entsha yamakhono.

Kunezindlela eziningi zokwenza mayelana nokuthuthukisa isethi entsha yamakhono. I-intanethi igcwele amavidiyo nemihlahlandlela yokuthi ungaqala kanjani emisebenzini ehlukile.

Ungase futhi uthathe isinqumo sokuthi ukubuyela ekolishi uyothatha ezinye izifundo kuwumqondo omuhle.

Izifundo zasekolishi zinikeza ukwakheka, ukuholwa, nokufinyelela kumuntu onolwazi ngekhono ofunda ngalo.

Ikolishi eliku-inthanethi lingenza kube lula ukuya emakilasini uma unempilo ematasa.

3. Thuthukisa ubungani obusha ezindaweni zenhlalo.

Ubathola kuphi abangane abasha? Kungenzeka kube khona imisebenzi yasendaweni ukuqhubeka lapho ungahlangana khona nabanye abantu abasendaweni yangakini noma amaqembu wokuzilibazisa afaka ukuhlangana okuvamile.

Abantu benkolo bangafuna ukuya ezinsizakalweni ezijwayelekile noma emisebenzini eyenzelwa indawo yabo yokukhonza.

Amaqembu ezokuxhumana asendaweni angaba futhi yindawo enhle yokuthola imisebenzi noma ukuhlangana.

4. Ukuhambela endaweni ongakaze ube kuyo.

Ukuhamba akudingi ukuthi ube kude futhi ube kude ukuze usize ukuletha injabulo empilweni yakho.

Kungaba lula njengokuphuma edolobheni uye emsebenzini othile lapho ungaba nesikhathi esihle futhi uphumule.

Mhlawumbe ikhonsathi ephuma edolobheni nobusuku ehhotela?

Uhambo oluya epaki likazwelonke noma olunye ukhanga lwemvelo?

Noma mhlawumbe wonga imali bese ushaya ibanga elithile ngokuqhubeka koshintsho olukhulu lwendawo.

Ngisho nohambo olude lomgwaqo kungaba ikhefu elihle kusuka empilweni yomuntu yansuku zonke.

5. Funa umsebenzi omusha noma ushintshe imisebenzi.

Akujwayelekile ukuthi abantu bagcine sebenesithukuthezi ngokukhetha kwabo umsebenzi noma umsebenzi.

Bangaze bathole nokuthi bakhethe kabi ngomsebenzi abawudingayo futhi badinga ukubheka ezinye izindlela.

Ukukhetha ukuyeka umsebenzi kanye / noma ukuguqula izindlela zomsebenzi akukaze kube lula, kepha kungadingeka ukuthola injabulo nokuthula okwengeziwe empilweni yakho.

Abanye bamane badinga kakhulu isikhathi noma amandla angokomzwelo. Abanye bangahle bangakunikezeli ukukhuthazeka okwanele noma bakunikeze igumbi lokukhula olifunayo ngempela.

Uma ungeneme noma wanelisekile ngomsebenzi wakho, kungaba yisikhathi sokuqala ukufuna ushintsho.

6. Yiba nomdlandla nokuzivocavoca umzimba.

Umsebenzi nokuzivocavoca kunenzuzo enkulu empilweni yomuntu ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Odokotela babiza impilo yokuhlala phansi ukubhema okusha maqondana nezingozi zezempilo.

Futhi ngemisebenzi eminingi eyenzeka ngemuva kwedeski ingxenye enkulu yosuku, akumangazi ukuthi abantu baqala ukudangala ngempilo yabo.

Abantu badinga ukuzivocavoca umzimba ukuze basize ukukhulisa amakhemikhali amahle akhiqizwa ngumzimba wakho uma wenza leyo misebenzi.

Qala okuncane bese uzibekela izinhloso zokuphuma uphinde usebenze. Futhi uma usuvele usebenza, setha izinhloso ezinamandla - njengokuqedela imarathon noma ukuthuthukisa amakhono akho.

7. Dala ubuciko obuthile.

Abadwebi bomhlaba bavame ukuqhutshwa ukudala ngandlela thile. Kunabantu abaningi abaphuma emigwaqweni ngenxa yemibono yabanye noma ngoba impilo imane ibenqabe isikhathi esifanele.

Umculi oyekile ukudala kufanele acabange ukubuyela kukho. Ubuciko busiza ukuguqula ingqondo yokudala futhi buhlinzekele nge- umuzwa wokuziqhenya kanye nokufeza emsebenzini womuntu.

Joyina umphakathi ophilayo wabaculi abasebenzisa indlela efanayo futhi basebenze ekuthuthukiseni nasekuqedeleni imisebenzi yakho.

Akudingeki ukuba ube mkhulu kuyo. Bambalwa kakhulu abantu abanjalo. Okubalulekile ukwamukela ubuciko bakho uma bukulethela injabulo.

8. Chitha isikhathi sekhwalithi esithe xaxa nabathandekayo bakho futhi usike abantu abanobuthi.

Kuyiqiniso elaziwayo ukuthi ukuchitha isikhathi esisezingeni eliphakeme kakhulu nabathandekayo bakho kubangela ukuthi ingqondo ikhiqize amakhemikhali amaningi azwakala kahle njengama-endorphin.

Kulula kakhulu ukuvumela ubungani nobudlelwano bomuntu buhambe ngendlela impilo ematasa ngayo wonke umuntu.

Umuntu kufanele azame ukugcina lobo budlelwano buphelele ngokwenza umzamo wokuhlala ethintana nabangane kanye nomndeni wakhe.

Lokho kuvame ukusho ukuya emibuthanweni nasezintweni ongazizwa uthanda noma ofuna ukuya kuzo.

Kukhona intambo ejwayelekile yokungafuni ukuba senhlalakahle noma ukukhathala kakhulu ukuba ungabamba iqhaza, kepha uma uwela kulelo phethini, impilo izokushiya ngemuva.

Iya ezintweni lapho umenyiwe, noma zama ukwenza iphathi yakho uma ungenakho okuningi okwenzekayo.

Futhi cabanga ukusika abantu abanobuthi empilweni yakho uma kukhona. Ziwumgogodla ojulile wenjabulo yomuntu nokuthula kwengqondo.

9. Thola injongo noma imbangela enkulu kunawe.

Abantu bayathanda ukuba yilungu . Bathanda nokufaka isandla entweni enkulu kunabo.

Ukuthola injongo noma imbangela yokuzivumelanisa wena namakhono akho nakho kunganikeza umuzwa wokuziqhenya nenjabulo ekwenzeni umehluko emhlabeni.

Lokho kungazwakala kulula ukushiwo kunokukwenza, kepha empeleni kukhona ukunyakaza okuningi namaqembu laphaya azama ukukwenza yenza izinguquko ezinhle emhlabeni ongaba yingxenye ye-.

10. Zibekele bese ulandela imigomo ezokunika umuzwa wokufeza okuthile.

Ukusetha izinjongo kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuzithuthukisa nokuzizwa sengathi umuntu ufeza izinto ezithile empilweni yakhe.

Kulula ukukhukhuleka ngaphandle kwenhloso noma ukuqondiswa, kepha ukwenza kanjalo kukuncisha amandla okuzizwa sengathi ukhethe okuthile obufuna ukukwenza futhi ukufeze, umuzwa onganikeza ukushaya okuhle kwe-dopamine uma ususa ohlwini lwakho lwezinto okufanele uzenze bese uthola umfutho.

Kunezindlela eziningi zokusetha imigomo, kepha imvamisa umuntu angafuna ukubeka imigomo emifushane, emaphakathi, nesikhathi eside ngempilo yabo.

Zingahle zihlobane nempilo yakho, umsebenzi wakho, impilo yakho, noma ukuzilibazisa kwakho.

11. Yeka ukwenza izinto ezingakujabulisi noma ezikulethela injabulo.

Phambilini sikhulume ngokuzama izinto ezintsha ukuthola lezo ezikulethela injabulo nenjongo.

Kepha kuthiwani ngazo zonke izinto ozenzayo njengamanje ungenzi ukuletha noma iyiphi yaleyo mizwa?

Cabanga ukubamisa.

Lokhu akusho ukuthi ungazibalekela zonke izibopho zakho zamanje. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma unabanye abathembele kuwe ukuthi ubondle futhi / noma ubanakekele, kufanele ufeze lezo zibopho.

Kepha bheka impilo yakho nezinto ozenzayo bese uzibuze ukuthi ngabe zisho okuthile kuwe.

Mhlawumbe uthenga ngoba nje uyothenga.

Noma ubuka izindaba njalo ebusuku ukuze ugcwalise isikhathi.

Noma mhlawumbe uzijabulisa kakhulu njalo ngoLwesihlanu ebusuku ngoba nje bonke abangane bakho bayakwenza futhi ubulokhu ukwenzile.

Uma okuthile kungasazizwa kufanele isikhathi sakho, ungakwenzi.

Uyacelwa uqaphele: kubalulekile ukuthi ukhulume nongoti ukuze ubone ukuthi ngabe unenkinga yokudangala ngaphambi kokuba uyeke izinto okungenzeka ukuthi zakulethela injabulo. Njengoba kushiwo ekuqaleni kwendatshana, ukucindezeleka kungaba yisizathu sokuthi uzizwe unesithukuthezi futhi ungajabuli.