Ungamenza Kanjani Umuntu Azizwe Ebalulekile, Ekhethekile, Futhi Ethandwa

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Ufuna ukwenza umuntu azizwe ethandwa.



Ufuna ukubenza bazizwe bekhethekile, bethandwa, futhi befunwa.

Ufuna ukubakhombisa ukuthi babaluleke kangakanani kuwe.



Ungakwenza kanjani ngakho? Yebo, kufanele nje…

1. Batshele

Cha, ngokungathi sína, wagcina nini ukutshela lo muntu ukuthi ubathanda futhi ubakhathalele kangakanani?

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Kuyinto enhle kabi ukuzwa kumuntu futhi ingenza umuntu ngokushesha azizwe sengathi ubalulekile.

Akudingeki ukuthi kube yi-mushy ngempela uma uthola ukuthi lolu hlobo lwento alujabulisi.

Kungaba lula njengokuthi, 'Ngiyabonga kakhulu ukuba nawe empilweni yami,' noma, 'Ungumngane / umama / isoka elihle kangaka.'

2. Bahage

Ama-Hugs awasoze aphuma emfashini.

Ukuhagana okuhle kungatshela othile kabanzi ukuthi uzizwa kanjani kunezinkondlo ezinkulu zenhliziyo noma izingoma zothando.

Uma ugona umuntu othile - umange kahle isikhathi eside - wabelana ngomzuzwana woxhumano olukhethekile.

Ithi, 'Ubaluleke kakhulu kimi futhi ngiyakwazisa wena nakho konke oyikho njengomuntu.'

3. Zincome

Lokhu kuyinkohliso ngoba awufuni ukudlula ngokweqile, kepha ukunika abathandekayo bakho ukuncoma kwangempela kuyindlela enhle yokubenza bazizwe bekhethekile.

Akudingeki kube nsuku zonke, kepha kuhlala kuthandeka lapho othile eqaphela ukuthi wenze umzamo noma unqunyiwe.

Zama ukubanikeza lowo muzwa ofudumele ongafinyeleleki owutholayo lapho othile elalelisisa futhi ethokozela okuthile okwenzile.

Qiniseka ukuthi uyigcina ingeyangempela, noma kunjalo - uma umuntu ekuncoma kakhulu, iqala ukuzwakala sengathi ayiqondile ngempela.

Qiniseka ukuthi uthembekile futhi awusho nje okuthile ngenxa yakho (abantu bazobona ngalokho ngokushesha!). Awufuni bacabange ukuthi uwena kokuba mbumbulu .

4. Khombisa Ngezenzo Zakho

Kwesinye isikhathi, isenzo singahamba ibanga elide impela maqondana nokukhombisa umuntu ukuthi abaluleke kangakanani kuwe.

Izipho ezicatshangelwe kahle ziyindlela enhle yokwenza umuntu azizwe ekhethekile. Ungakhathazeki, awudingi ukugqekeza ibhange ngaleli!

Ngokulalela okushiwo ngabathandekayo bakho futhi wenze inothi lezinto ezibalulekile (njengamaswidi abawathandayo noma iqiniso lokuthi basanda kulahlekelwa ishaja yabo yefoni), ungakwazi kubamangaze ngokuthile zidinga ngempela noma lokho kuzozijabulisa nje.

Wake waba nokufika kokuthatha noma esitolo uletha ngokungalindelekile endlini yakho? Uma ungakakwenzi, singakuqinisekisa ukuthi kungenye yemizwa emihle kakhulu!

Mangaza omunye wabathandekayo bakho ngoku-oda ukudla ukuthi kulethwe ekhaya labo. Uma besanda kuthumela ku-Facebook ukuthi bahluphekile futhi bahlala bodwa, ngena ocingweni lwakho u-ode i-pizza endlini yabo.

(Hlola ngokungenabufakazi ukuthi basekhaya ngokuthumela imiyalezo ukubuza ukuthi benzani - awufuni neze ukuthi kudliwe i-pizza…)

Akuzona zonke izipho okufanele zibize imali, kunjalo. Indlela enhle yokwenza umuntu azizwe ethandwa ukuthatha isikhathi sokwenza okuthile ngesandla.

Cabanga ngalokho onekhono lakho ngempela futhi uphathe othandekayo wakho ekhadini elenziwe ngezandla, amakhukhi abhakwe ekhaya, noma isikhafu obalukelile.

Ukwazi ukuthi ubeka inhliziyo yakho nomphefumulo wakho kwisipho sabo kuzokwazisa lowo okhethekile ukuthi ubathanda kangakanani futhi ubazisa kangakanani.

Ukuxuba amateyipu kungenzeka kuphume kancane emfashinini, kepha ukudala uhlu lwadlalwayo olubandayo lomuntu odlula esikhathini esinzima kukhombisa uzwelo nokusekelwa.

Thatha isikhathi sokuhamba ibanga elingaphezulu futhi wenze umuntu azizwe ekhethekile ngempela.

5. Faka Amahora

Thatha isikhathi sokubazisa ngempela labo abaseduze kwakho.

Lokhu kungaba ukubeka ngokomzimba isikhathi ukuhlangana nabo njalo.

Kungaba ukubeka isikhumbuzi ocingweni lwakho masonto onke noma ukuze ushayele abazali bakho.

Kungase futhi kusho ukubekezela ngempela lapho othandekayo ebhekene nesikhathi esinzima - noma ngabe lokhu kusho ukuhlala nabo ubayeke basho into efanayo kaninginingi.

Qiniseka ukuthi abantu ababalulekile bayazi ukuthi uyakwazisa ukuba nakho empilweni yakho, nokuthi awusabi ukukubeka kuqala kunezinye izinto.

Kungacasula ngempela lapho umuntu omkhathalelayo ‘ematasa kakhulu’ ukukubona, futhi kungakwenza uzizwe ungathandwa futhi unqatshiwe.

Khumbula leyo mizwa futhi wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukugwema ukwenza labo obakhathalelayo bazizwe ngaleyo ndlela! Uma kwenzeka okuthile futhi ugcina usenza omunye umuntu azizwe enjalo, yenza konke okusemandleni ukulungisa izinto futhi umqinisekise ukuthi uyamkhathalela ngempela.

6.Boleka Indlebe Ulalele

Kwesinye isikhathi ukulalela kwanele. Uma umuntu omthandayo ebhekene nesikhathi esinzima, zama ukumane ubasize - kuzokwenza umehluko omkhulu ekutheni bazizwa kanjani.

Shayela ucingo ubatshele ukuthi ukhululekile ukulalela uma befuna ukukhala noma ukugquma. Bavakashele njalo uma behlala eduzane futhi ubavumele bakuthululele zonke izinkathazo zabo kuwe.

Uma bengabhekene nesikhathi esinzima, lalela noma kunjalo! Ukuthatha iqhaza empilweni yomuntu othandekayo kuyindlela enhle yokukubonisa ukuthi uyakhathala, futhi ukulalela noma yini eyenzekayo ngabo kuyingxenye ebalulekile yalokho.

7. Khombisa Intshisekelo

Lokhu kusebenza eceleni kokulalela okwenzekayo, kepha kukuyisa kwelinye izinga. Ngokusabela kulokho okutshelwayo, ukhombisa ukuthi unentshisekelo nokuthi uyakhathala.

Umuntu onentshisekelo kulokho okwenzayo ukukwenza uzizwe ukhethekile ngempela, futhi ukuba nomuntu ozokwabelana naye ngezindaba zakho kuhlala kukwenza uzizwe uthandwa futhi unakekelwa.

Buza ngokuzilibazisa kwabo kwakamuva, noma iklabhu abasuke bayijoyinile, noma ngomsebenzi wabo. Buza ngezinto 'ezimbi' futhi - bazodinga umuntu abazokhuluma naye ngakho, futhi kuyindlela yokubonisa ukuthi ukhona ngabo.

Abanye abantu bayazigodla ukukhuluma ngezinto ‘ezingezinhle’ ngoba bekhathazekile ukuthi kuzobaxoshela abanye kude. Ngokukhombisa ukuthi unentshisekelo kuzo zonke izici zempilo yabo, bazokwazi ukuthi babaluleke kangakanani kuwe.

8. Landela Up

Ukuchitha isikhathi nabantu obakhathalelayo kuyisisekelo esihle, kepha kulula ukuthatha isinyathelo esingeziwe bese usilandela.

Izinto ezincane zenza umehluko omkhulu, ngakho-ke qala ukuqaphela okuqhamuka ezimpilweni zabathandekayo bakho.

Setha isikhumbuzi kukhalenda yakho sosuku lwangaphambi kosuku lokuqala lomngane wakho emsebenzini wabo omusha - wazi ukuthi unakekela ngokwanele ukukhumbula futhi bese ubathumela umqhafazo ukuze ubafisele inhlanhla kuzobenza bazizwe bebalulekile.

Ukuthumela umlayezo ngemuva kokuhlangana nomuntu omthandayo kungenye indlela enhle yokubonisa ukuthi unakekela kangakanani. Ingabe kukhona ukuzwa okuhle kunokuya ekhaya ngemuva kwekhofi nomngane nokuthola umlayezo othi 'Bekumnandi ukukubona, asiphinde futhi kungekudala!'?

9. Hlala Ungaguquguquki

Noma ngubani angenza umzamo wezinsuku ezimbalwa noma amasonto ambalwa. Ukumthanda ngokweqiniso umuntu kusho ukungaguquguquki, ngakho zama ukugcina ubungani bakho noma ubudlelwane bakho buqinile ngangokunokwenzeka.

Ukuba ngu- umngani omuhle noma uzakwethu akayona nje mayelana nokulalela, yize lokho kubalulekile - kumayelana nokuba nokwethenjelwa.

Enye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokukhombisa umuntu omthandayo ukuthi ube khona ngamandla empilweni yakhe. Ukwazi ukuthi bangafika kuwe nganoma yisiphi isikhathi kuzobenza bazizwe bethandwa futhi bethandwa.

Namanje awuqiniseki ukuthi ungenza kanjani umuntu azizwe ekhethekile noma ethandwa noma efunwa? Xoxa ku-inthanethi kuchwepheshe wezobudlelwano ovela ku-Relationship Hero ongakusiza ukuthola izinto. Kalula.

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