Uma ungenabo noma ubambisene nabangane abaseduze, yini ongayenza ukuze uthole lolo xhumano lomphakathi olulangazelelayo? Qhubeka ufundele eminye imibono.
Kudala izinsuku lapho abangane bakho abakhulu kwakungabantu ababehlala ngaphesheya komgwaqo kuwe, noma ababefunda ibanga elifanayo esikoleni sakho. Uma ungeyena umuntu owahlala waqina kubantu obazi kusukela useyingane, maningi amathuba okuthi ungahle ulahlekelwe emnyangweni womngani oseduze.
Lokhu kuvame kakhulu manje njengoba abantu abaningi besebenza kude: ngaphandle kobudlelwano obungathuthuka nabasebenza nabo, isizungu nokuhlukaniswa kumane kuyaqina.
Lokho kusho ukuthi ukwenza abangane njengomuntu omdala kunzima kakhulu kunezingane, futhi kungaba nzima ukungena endaweni entsha yokuxhumana, ikakhulukazi uma uthuthele edolobheni elisha futhi uzama ukuthola ukuthi ukuphi ukuhambisana neningi.
Ngezansi kunemisebenzi yomphakathi ongayihlola wedwa, ukuze uthole ukuxhumana okudingeka kakhulu.
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1. Iminyuziyamu kanye neGalari
Ingabe ungumlandeli wobuciko, isiko, nomlando? Iminyuziyamu nezindawo zemibukiso yobuciko zinemicimbi yokuvula imibukiso yazo ekhethekile cishe masonto onke. Lawa ngamathuba amahle okuxoxa nabanye abantu endaweni enengcindezi encane: uyazi ukuthi bakhona ngoba bayabuthanda nobuciko (noma noma iyiphi inkathi yemigqa yomlando ekhonjiswayo), futhi ngenxa yalokho, ayikho ingcindezi yokukhuluma ngayo ngokwakho ngokushesha. Ungaxoxa ngokukhonjiswayo, futhi ngokunokwenzeka uzoqhubeka nokugijimela kubantu abafanayo emicimbini ezayo.
Ngokuvamile kukhona newayini noshizi nokunye okunjalo okudluliswayo, ukuze ukwazi ukudla okulula ngenkathi uzijabulisa. Kuyithuba elihle futhi lokuthi abafundi abahlwempu basebenzise ngokugcwele, njengoba ungondliwa ngenkathi uthatha umbukiso omangalisayo.
2. I-Ghost Walks (noma Ukuzingela…)
Uma unokuhlelwa kwangaphambili kwazo zonke izinto ezingaphezu kwemvelo, bheka izindawo zokuhamba noma ezinye izinkambo ezenzeka endaweni yangakini! Cishe wonke amadolobha emhlabeni anezakhiwo ezimbalwa ezizungezile ozozihlola, futhi uma unentshisekelo yokutshuza ungene ezimweni ezinokuphazamiseka, ungaqiniseka ukuthi nabanye abaseduze nabo banjalo.
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Uma kwenzeka ukuthi ube yisidalwa esizimisele ngokwengeziwe, ungahlangana neqembu elizingela izipoki noma elenza uphenyo. Esikhundleni sokuhamba uzungeze izindawo ezingahle zihlangatshezwe noma ezingatholwa futhi zilalele inkulumo yomqondisi wezokuvakasha mayelana nokuthi ubani ofele lapho, la maqembu abamba iqhaza elibonakalayo futhi azame ukufuna abantu abavela endaweni ethile. Ngokuya ngokuthi uhlala kuphi, ungathola ukuhlola izinqaba noma amahhotela alahliwe, bese usebenzisa imishini epholile ukuthatha ukufundwa kwamandla nokuqopha amazwi angenamzimba.
Ibhonasi: ukwesaba kwakho okwabiwe kungadonselwa izinhloso zokubopha endaweni yokudlela noma ikhefi ngemuva komcimbi.
3. Amaqembu Omphakathi
Imiphakathi eminingi iba nemibuthano njalo lapho ungahlala khona nomakhelwane futhi ubambe iqhaza ezintweni ezithinta indawo yangakini. Lokhu kungaba yimisebenzi yengadi yomphakathi, imicimbi yokupha, imincintiswano yezemidlalo, nokuhlangana okushintshanayo.
Iningi lethu alihlangene futhi alazi ngisho nomakhelwane bethu abaseduze, ingasaphathwa eyabanye abantu phansi komgwaqo, ngakho-ke leli yithuba elihle lokwazi abantu abasha abaseduze.
Isici esisodwa esihle kakhulu ngalolu hlobo lomsebenzi wezenhlalo ukuthi ungahlala useduze nekhaya, futhi uma udinga ukuhamba nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, ngeke kukuthathe isikhathi eside ukubuyela endlini yakho. Lokhu kuhle ikakhulukazi kubantu abahlushwa ukukhathazeka komphakathi, noma abanezinkinga zezempilo noma ukuhamba okulinganiselwe.
4. Amakilasi
Amakilasi okupheka angakusiza ukuthi uhlangane nabantu abanezintshisekelo ezifanayo zokupheka, kanti amakilasi wokudala azokusiza ucije amakhono akho ngenkathi uxhumana nalabo abangabelana ngokuncika kwakho. Amaningi ala maqembu nawo angokokuzalwa, ngakho-ke ungaxhumana nabantu bayo yonke iminyaka nezizinda ezahlukahlukene.
Ngabe umuntu engisebenza naye unothando kimi
Ungazinqumela wena ukuthi kungakanani ukuxhumana komuntu siqu ongakuthanda nabanye abantu abakuzungezile: kwesinye isikhathi kuhle ukuba nje phambi kwabanye ngenkathi wenza okwakho, uyazi?
Uma ufuna ukuxhumana nabantu ngokwengeziwe, ukuthatha isigaba solimi kuyindlela enhle, njengoba kuzofanele usebenzise amakhono akho okufunda nokukhuluma nomlingani wakho.
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
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- Indlela Isizungu Esikubulala Ngayo Kancane Kancane
- Ama-Hacks Wokuzithemba Komuntu Ongaqondakali Komphakathi
- Izinkinga Zempilo Ezi-13 Zabesifazane Abathulile Ngokwemvelo
- Izilinganiso ezingama-30 Zokugubha Izethulo, Izimbali Zasemuva Nezimpisi Ezizodwa
5. Umsebenzi Wokuzithandela
Labo abangazange bahlanganyele emsebenzini wokuzithandela bazomangala ngokuthokozisa ngokuthi kungagcwaliseka kanjani emazingeni angenakubalwa. Ngokubamba iqhaza emathubeni okuvolontiya, uzobe ungenzi okuhle kuphela emphakathini wakho, uzohlangana nabantu abanamagugu afanayo ngenkathi wenza umehluko wangempela emhlabeni.
Njengokuhlanganisa okungeziwe, ukuvolontiya kunganciphisa ukucindezeleka . Uma ugxile ekwenzeni izinto zibe ngcono kulabo abaseduze kwakho, omaye bakho bahlala esihlalweni esingemuva ukubasiza.
Kunamathuba amaningi wokuvolontiya nomaphi lapho uya khona, ngakho-ke ungaqiniseka ukuthola okukufanele kakhulu. Uma uzwana kahle nabantu abadala, ungavolontiya ekhaya labathatha umhlalaphansi. Uthanda izilwane? Bhalisela ukuhamba ngezinja endaweni yokukhosela yangakini ukuze ubambe amachwane ngenkathi ubanikeza ukuzivocavoca okudingeka kakhulu. Amakhishi esobho cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi adinga usizo olwengeziwe ukondla abantu abangenamakhaya, futhi imicimbi yokupha imali yokupha ngesihle ngokuvamile idinga zonke izinhlobo zabasizi ukubenza baphumelele.
6. Ukugembula ku-inthanethi
Lokhu kungabonakala njengokuphikisana nalokho abantu abaningi abakuthatha njengokwezenhlalo, kodwa bakukholwe noma cha, ukudlala iMMORPG (lowo umdlalo wokudlala indima wabadlali abaningi ku-inthanethi kimi nakimi) kungaba ngumsebenzi omuhle kakhulu wezenhlalo. Emidlalweni efana neWorld of Warcraft noma i-Guild Wars, ungahlangana nabanye, ujoyine amaqembu, futhi usebenzise isu lokuxoxa ngaphezulu kwehedisethi uma uzizwa uthanda ukukhuluma ngamazwi.
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Ngokujoyina elinye lala maqembu ezinhlangano, ungahlakulela okuthile okufana neqembu labazalwane / nodade: kusobala ukuthi wabelana ngalesi sithakazelo, futhi ninomhlane womunye nomunye. UBalthazar the Cleric angakukuvusa kwabafileyo ngemuva kokuthi i-orc ikudubule ngebhawodi le-crossbow esweni lakho, futhi ungakujabulela ukunamathisela i-wyrm kabili ukuze usindise iNkosi uVladimir98!
Ukugembula kanjena futhi kuyindlela enhle yezethulo ebezingaba nobunzima ekwakheni izibopho ezintsha nabanye. Lapho usukhululekile ukuhlangana nalabo abaseqenjini lakho, ungaba nethuba lokuhlangana mathupha emhlanganweni, uma lokho kukuthakazelisa.
7. Amaqembu we-Meetup
Uma usedolobheni elinabantu abangaphezu kwekhulu kulo, kungenzeka ukuthi kube namaqembu e-Meetup aseduze. Ngokuhlola ezinye zazo, ungathola abanye ongaxoxa nabo ngamaqhinga angaphandle, amasu okunitha, ushizi ongenisiwe, i-anime cosplaying… noma yini.
Vele wenze i- sesha ku-inthanethi futhi ulungiselele ukumangazwa amaqembu ezenhlalo akhona nxazonke zakho. Ngemuva kwalokho, konke okudingeka ukwenze ukubhalisa, bese ubonakala! Kungenzeka ube nokuqhuma okuphelele, futhi ungabheka phambili ku-meetup elandelayo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ungakha nobungane obuhle, besikhathi eside nabanye.
Ukhiye wokuzibandakanya emicimbini yomphakathi ukubuka lezo ezihambisana nalokho okuthandayo, esikhundleni sokuzama ukuzifaka kokunye ocabanga ukuthi kufanele ubheke kukho ngoba kubonakala kupholile. Kakade, ubungane obuseduze esibakhelayo buvame ukuba nalabo abanezintshisekelo ezifanayo nathi, izindinganiso zethu, amahlaya ethu, nokunye okunjalo.
Ukuxhumana kwangempela kwenzeka lapho sithembekile, futhi lolo hlobo lobuqotho lwenzeka kuphela lapho singawisa izindonga zethu ze-ego futhi sibe yiqiniso ngalokho esikuthandayo. Uma lokho okuthandayo kwenzeka kungamaphrojekthi we-Doctor Who-themed knitting kanye ne-fusion cuisine yase-Thai-Hungarian, uzamazamisa lezo zinkanuko! Bazoba khona abanye ababelana ngothando olunjalo, futhi labo… labo ngabantu bakho.
Hambani niyozijabulisa.
