Thola usizo lochwepheshe ukukholisa intombi yakho ukuthi muhle. ukuxoxa online nothile njengamanje.
Amantombazane amaningi akuthola kunzima ukukholelwa enconyweni yabalingani babo.
Kungaba nezizathu ezahlukahlukene zalokhu, iningi lazo okuzoba nzima ukuziqonda uma ungazibonanga ngokwakho.
Uma ulwela ukuthi intombi yakho noma umlingani wakho akukholwe uma umtshela ukuthi muhle, nanka amanye amathiphu wokukusiza.
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Kungani engakukholwa.
Ziningi kakhulu izinto ezidlala ekutheni umuntu akwazi ukwethemba lokho akutshelwayo, ikakhulukazi ebudlelwaneni bezothando.
Uma umlingani wakho ephikelela enqaba ukuncoma kwakho noma ekuxosha, kungaba ngesizathu esisodwa.
Kungenzeka ukuthi bake baxhashazwa esikhathini esidlule futhi benomuzwa ophansi wokuzihlonipha.
Bangakuthola kunzima impela ukukholelwa izinto ezinhle ozishoyo ngabo ngoba bajwayele ukuzwa izinto ezingezinhle.
Abanye besifazane bakuthola kunzima ukukholelwa ukuthi bahle ngoba umuntu oyedwa noma ngaphezulu bake, ngesikhathi esithile, basho okuthile okunyantisayo ngabo futhi osekube yindaba abayikholelwayo!
Kuyadabukisa, kepha kwesinye isikhathi, njengendlela yokuzivikela, abesifazane bakhetha ukukholelwa izinto ezimbi ngoba kulula kunokukholelwa izinto ezinhle futhi ulimale uma lezo zinto ezinhle bese zihoxiswa noma ziphikiswa.
Isibonelo, ubungamtshela ukuthi muhle ngelinye ilanga bese kuthi, empini, umtshele ukuthi mubi.
Uma engakaze akholwe ukuthi muhle futhi ubehlale ezitshela ukuthi mubi, kuzolimala kancane lapho wena bese usho.
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Kuyindlela yokuthi intombazane izivikele ekulahlweni noma ekwesabeni ukulinyazwa.
Ngokuyinhloko, babeka ibhlokhi lengqondo ukuze bavikele noma yibuphi ubuhlungu besikhathi esizayo noma ukwaliwa.
Ngenye indlela, kungenzeka ukuthi abakaze banconywe ngaphambilini.
Bangakuthola kubanga amahloni futhi bangazi ngempela ukuthi bangazamukela kanjani izinto ezinhle ozishoyo.
Kungenzeka bangafuni ukuthi ngiyabonga uma kwenzeka kubenza babonakale benamakhanda amakhulu, ngakho-ke esikhundleni salokho bazokucindezela ukuncoma.
Uma ungakujwayele ukutshelwa izinto ezinhle, ungahle ungafuni ukuzikholwa ngokuzumayo uma kwenzeka zikwenza ubonakale uyindlala!
Njengalokhu, abanye besifazane bazokwenqaba ukwamukela ukunconywa ngethemba lokuthi bazobonakala benesizotha noma bethobekile.
Esinye isizathu sokuthi kungani owesifazane engakholelwa ukunconywa yingoba bake baba nobudlelwano obuhlukumezayo esikhathini esedlule okuthinte amandla abo okuthembela.
Bangakuthola kunzima ukuyeka ukuqapha noma bakholelwe ukuthi izinto zilungile futhi zinempilo. Bakhathazekile ngokuthi konke kuzojika, noma kunyamalale, futhi bangakuthola kunzima ukucubungula ngokugcwele lokho obatshela khona.
Lokhu kungaba yibuphi ubuhlobo, kusuka kwabasondelene / abathandanayo nobudlelwano babo nabazali babo.
Kungaba nzima ukwethemba uma ukhule ubekwa phansi noma wenziwe wazizwa sengathi awunalutho.
Ungamtshela kanjani mathupha?
Bona ukuthi yini okusebenza kahle njengoba uya - kungahle kube umdlalo wokuqagela ongaqala ngawo!
Angase angathandi ukunconywa emphakathini, noma kungamenza azizwe ethembeke kakhudlwana uma ezizwa engavikelekile uma ephakathi kwabantu.
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Lokhu, phakathi kwezinto eziningi, kuyinto ozodinga ukuyithola njengoba ubudlelwano bakho buthuthuka.
Ukuba sebudlelwaneni ngokwengxenye kumayelana ukuthola ukuthi yini esebenzela omunye nomunye , ngakho-ke vele ubekezele ngenqubo.
Uma ngabe ebudlelwaneni obuhlukumezayo noma enezinkinga zokuthembana, angahle adinge nje isikhathi esithile ukuze azijwayeze ukuthi unjani nokuthi uziphatha kanjani.
Ungaphoqeleli - uma ebukeka engakhululekile, thatha isinyathelo emuva. Kwesinye isikhathi, sijabula kakhulu ukwabelana nothando lwethu nokwazisa ngomuntu size simcindezele ngempela kuye!
Lokhu kungasebenza kahle uma besezingeni elifanayo nawe, kodwa kulabo abalwela ukuthatha izincomo, kungazizwa njengokuncane kakhulu, noma kungazizwa bengaqotho.
Kalula ekuncomeni, kodwa kugcine kuyiqiniso - awudingi ukuba ne-sappy ngokweqile noma wenze isenzo esikhulu, kungaba nje ukuncoma okuncane, okuhle njalo kaningi.
Mtshele ukuthi uyayithanda isitayela sakhe sezinwele, qaphela ukuthi ugqoke nini okusha, mtshele ukuthi uyakuthokozisa.
Lezi zonke izindlela ezincane zokusho ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi muhle ngaphandle kokukusho ngokuqondile.
Lokhu kuvula indlela yokuba avulekele ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngaye futhi kuyindlela enhle yokumenza azi ukuthi umthola ekhanga futhi ekujabulela ukuba naye.
Lapho usethule izincomo ezimbalwa, ungaqala ukuveza ngempela indlela ozizwa ngayo futhi ubone ukuthi uphendula kanjani.
Khumbula ukuthi awudingi njalo ukusho amagama athi 'Umuhle' ukumtshela ukuthi ucabanga lokho!
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
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- Izindlela ezingama-39 ezinhle nezithandwayo zokumangaza intombi yakho
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- Uma Uzizwa Ungathi Awumfanele Ngokwanele Omunye Umuntu, Funda Lokhu
- Ungakwamukela Kanjani Ukuncoma: Izindlela Ezi-8 Ezinhle Zokuphendula
Ungamkhumbuza kanjani ngombhalo?
Izikhumbuzo ezincane ngombhalo zingaba yindlela enhle yokusiza umlingani wakho akhululeke ngokwengeziwe ngezincomo.
Ungadluli ngokweqile njengoba lokho kungazizwa kungamanga ngempela futhi ucishe kube sengathi ukusho ngenxa yakho.
Esikhundleni salokho, kwenze kube ngokwakho - uma egqoke ingubo ethile oyithandayo, mthumele umqhafazo ngemuva kwalokho usho ukuthi wayebukeka kahle kangakanani ngenkathi umbona phambilini.
Mtshele ukuthi uyamkhumbula futhi ulangazelela ukumbona futhi.
Imibhalo emincane njalo ivame ukuba ngcono futhi izomsiza aqale ukuzizwa ethembeke kakhudlwana.
Bazomnika nokholo olwengeziwe nokwethembela kini nobudlelwano benu.
Lokhu kuzomvumela ukuthi aqale ukukholwa izinto ozishoyo, njengoba ezokwazi ukuthi kunesisekelo esiqinile esivele sikhona.
Izinto ezincane zenza umehluko omkhulu ekutheni singazizwa kanjani, ngakho-ke thumela ama-GIF amahle ezilwane ezinamehlo enhliziyo yothando lapho ekuthumela i-selfie - Kungani kungenjalo?!
Kulungile ukuthi ube yisilima ngayo usazokwazi ukuthi uzama ukuthini futhi angakuthola kulula ukucubungula nokukholwa.
Kwesinye isikhathi sicabanga ukuthi kufanele sichaze izinto ngendlela ephelele noma wenze izinto zizizwe zishisa ngokuthumela izigaba ze-lovey-dovey goo - lokhu empeleni akunjalo futhi empeleni kungamenza azizwe engakhululekile neze!
Esikhundleni salokho, dlala ngakho - ukuthola umuntu ekhangayo futhi ukuba naye kujabulisa kakhulu, ngakho-ke thumela imiyalezo engenangqondo, evusa inkanuko futhi uzijabulise ngayo.
Ungasho ezinye izinto ngombhalo, njengokuthi 'Bengisho ngempela engikushilo namhlanje ekuseni, ubukeka umangalisa kuleyongubo.'
Kuyindlela nje encane yokuqinisekisa ukuncoma osumnike kona futhi kuzokwenza kucace bha ukuthi ubuqonde - ukhulume okuthile ngenhloso futhi kuzomkhumbuza ngomzamo owenzayo ukumenza zizwe kamnandi.
Kuthiwani uma ekulahla?
Yonke le nqubo kufanele ibe yinto eholwa nguye. Lokho kubalulekile ukukhumbula lapho ekhetha ukungazamukeli izinto ezinhle ozisho kuye / ngaye.
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Kungakhathaza lapho othile engazikholelwa izinto ezinhle esibatshela zona, futhi kungasidabukisa ukuthi abacabangi ukuthi bayakufanelekela lokho kuncoma!
Kodwa-ke, ukwehluleka kwakhe noma ukwesaba kwakhe ukuzamukela lezi zincomo kuzoba yinto evela kuye, kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kwangaphambilini noma ubudlelwane bangaphambilini.
Njengoba unjalo, awukwazi ngempela ukuthi ungasiza kanjani. Uzodinga ukuzitholela yena lokho futhi aqhubekele phambili ngejubane lakhe.
Ungazama ukumeseka, kepha futhi udinga ukumnika isikhala sokusebenzela ukuthi ungakhululeka kanjani ngokuncome - kusuka kuwe noma omunye umuntu.
Kubalulekile ukumvumela ukuthi acubungule lolu hlobo lwento ukusiza ukwenza ubudlelwano bakho buhle futhi buhambe phambili buye phambili.
Ukulungiswa okusheshayo akusizi kakhulu njengoba zingabheki izingqinamba eziyisisekelo okungenzeka ukuthi ubhekene nazo.
Kungaba yinkohliso ukwamukela, kepha kuzoholela ebudlelwaneni obuqine kakhulu obuya phambili uma ethatha isikhathi esithile ukuze asebenze ngemizwa yakhe nangezinkinga zakhe.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi kukhona 'okungalungile' ngaye nhlobo! Ukuthi angafuna ukucabanga ngokuthi kungani kunzima ukwamukela ukutshelwa ukuthi muhle.
Ungakusho kanjani ngaphandle kwamagama?
Uma ekuthola kunzima ukukukholelwa uma uthi muhle, zama ukukukhombisa futhi.
Kungaba nzima kuye ukuzwa amagama ngqo, yingakho ukuthinta okuncane kungaba yindlela elula yokuveza imizwa yakho.
Ukusondelana ngokomzimba kungaba yindlela enhle yokuxhumana nokuthi umthola ekhanga kangakanani.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi uzokwenqaba ukutshelwa ukuthi muhle, zama ukumbonisa futhi ubone ukuthi lokho kusebenza kanjani - umange, umange, uziqhenye ngokumbamba ngesandla esidlangalaleni.
Lezi zinto ezincane zizomsiza abone ukuthi unentshisekelo yangempela futhi uyamkhathalela ukuthi ubaluleke kakhulu nokuthi ufuna ukukhombisa ukuthi umkhulu kangakanani.
Yenza izinto ezincane ukumjabulisa, njengokuthenga izimbali, ukumlethela ikhofi, ukumuphekela, ukuhlela ubusuku be-movie naye wakhe ifilimu eyintandokazi.
Lezi zonke izindlela zoku khombisa ukuthi uyamkhathalela futhi uyakwazisa ukuba naye empilweni yakho - lapho ekhululeka ngokwengeziwe ngalolu hlobo lwento, uzoba ntofontofo ngokwengeziwe lapho wenza lokho bese uqala ukumtshela ukuthi muhle.
Ungakwenza kanjani lokhu kuqhubeke.
Futhi, awudingi ukwenza noma yikuphi ukuthinta okukhulu! Kulungile ukwenza nje lokho okuzwakala kulungile njengoba uqhubeka.
Khumbula ukuthi ngenxa nje yokuthi manje angakhululeka ngokwengeziwe ngezincomo, awudingi ukumqhumisa ngazo!
Ukuncoma kungashesha kube umkhuba kunokuthile okwenziwe ngenhloso, futhi lokhu akuyona indlela okufanele kube ngayo.
Qiniseka ukuthi uyazi ukuthi usho ngokulenza lifanele - kulokho akugqoke ngalolo suku, entweni enhle ayenzile, noma kokuthile okuhlekisayo akushoyo.
Le yindlela enhle yokwenza ukuthi izwakale ingokoqobo kuye hhayi ngamagama angenalutho nje!
Vele uzame ukuqhubeka nokwenza okusemandleni akho ukusho, futhi ubonise, ukuthi uyamkhathalela futhi ucabanga ukuthi muhle.
Uzokuzwa futhi akubone futhi uzokwenza konke okusemandleni ukukukholelwa.
Yiba nesineke futhi uqhubeke nayo, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ivela endaweni yangempela ukuthi ukwenzela ukumenza azizwe kahle futhi hhayi nje njengesibonakaliso esikhulu sendlela ozizwa ngayo ngaso sonke isikhathi, njengoba lokho kungamcindezela.
Lokho kusho ukukwenza ngezindlela azizwa ekhululekile ngazo futhi uzama okusemandleni akho ukuhlala lowo muzwa ngaso sonke isikhathi ngezenzo zakho.
Ngabe awunaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ungayitshela kanjani intombi yakho noma umlingani wakho ukuthi muhle futhi ayenze ikukholwe? Xoxa ku-inthanethi kuchwepheshe wezobudlelwano ovela ku-Relationship Hero ongakusiza ukuthola izinto. Kalula.
