Ukwethembeka ngeke kuvumele umona, inzondo, nokungahambi kahle kungene emcabangweni wethu wasobala. - IBainbridge Colby
Ukwethembeka kuyinto enamandla. Ngisho negama ngokwalo lingashukumisela abantu ukuba bavuse imizwa ephakeme kakhulu. Lapho sibona impilo njengendaba, sifuna abalingiswa abaseduze nabathandekayo kithi babe yilabo esingabethemba.
Ngakho-ke, uma sizibona njengoFrodo, sifuna uSamwise. Uma siyiBatman, sifuna uRobin.
UKirk wayenoSpock. UT’Challa wayeno-Okoye. USnoopy wayeneWoodstock. UBond wayeneMoneypenny. Hhayi ukubheka eceleni, kepha imiphefumulo ethembekile, nethembekile.
Ukwethembeka, ngokwesichazamazwi ngasinye, kungumuzwa oqinile wokusekelwa noma wokuthembeka.
Ukwethembeka, emiphefumulweni eminingi, ukwazi ukuthi othile unentshisekelo enhle enhliziyweni yakho, noma (omunye angasho ikakhulukazi) lapho lezo zithakazelo ziphikisana nalokho ocabanga ukuthi uyakufisa kodwa akunjalo ngempela.
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Ebudlelwaneni bezothando, ukwethembeka kudlula kude ukwethembeka, noma ukuhambisana (uma umuntu elinganisa ukuhambisana nempilo ende).
Lapho umuntu oyedwa azi, ngaphandle kwamaphutha nezinyathelo ezingezinhle, ukuthi omunye uthembekile ngokweqiniso, bangahlala bengabangane (uma sebephulukisiwe) noma bengasekho othandweni.
Cabanga ngakho njengomunye umuntu ophethe ucezu lwakho nawe wakho, futhi akekho noyedwa kini - noma ngabe kwenzekani - angavumela ingozi ize kulezo zingcezu.
Kukhona inani elifanele lokuzidela ngobuqotho okuvame ukungamangaliswa, njengoba kufanele. Ukwethembeka akufuni ukuqashelwa okusobala. Ukwethembeka kweqiniso kuyisivumelwano sokuthula se inhlonipho . Kukwazi ukuthi ayikho into umuntu osondelene naye ayishoyo noma ayenze kuwe engekho othandweni.
Ubuqotho bubonakaliswa kanjani ebudlelwaneni?
Ukwethembeka
Into yami yonke ukwethembeka. Ukwethembeka ngaphezu kwezwi lobukhosi kuyisibopho. - Fetty Wap
Umlingani oqotho uzothembeka kuwe, noma ngabe kulimaza omunye wenu noma nobabili ukwenza njalo. Lokhu akukhona ukuthembeka 'okunesihluku', ukwethembeka komphefumulo.
Lapho umlingani wakho azi ukuthi okuphuma emlonyeni wakho kunamandla anele okuhambisa izintaba uma bekufanele, umuzwa wokuvikeleka nokwethembeka ebudlelwaneni kuxhomeke edwaleni oluqinile impela.
TO umuntu ongathembekile uthembekile kuphela emangeni okumele bawagcine.
ukuthi uzothini kumuntu okukhaphele
Zinikele Wena
Nginobuqotho obungena egazini lami, lapho ngivalela othile noma okuthile, awukwazi ukungisusa kukho ngoba ngikwenza kahle lokho. Lokho kubungani, lokho kuyisivumelwano, lokho kungukuzinikela. Unganginiki iphepha - ngingathola ummeli ofanayo owalidweba ukuze aliphule. Kepha uma ungixhawula, lokho okwempilo. - UJerry Lewis
Ebudlelwaneni, ukwethembeka kusho ukuthi 'uzothatha isikhathi sami nami ngizothatha isikhathi sakho.' Kusho ukunikela ngokukhululeka kwakho ukufeza izidingo omunye umuntu angaze azi ukuthi banazo noma bangaze bakhulume ngisho nezwi.
Kusho ukuthi 'ngizinikela kuwe' ngesenzo hhayi nje sokholo, kepha kunesisekelo esikhulu ngezenzo : ubufakazi bokuthembeka yikhwalithi yokwelashwa okutholakele, ngoba ukwethembeka njengegama kwehla ngokushesha futhi kalula kubantu abaningi abanethemba lokukusebenzisa njengesiphazamiso emaphutheni abo.
Igxathu eliya phezulu
Ukwethembeka nokuzinikela kuholela ekubeni nesibindi. Isibindi siholela emoyeni wokuzidela. Umoya wokuzidela udala ukwethembela emandleni othando. - UMorihei Ueshiba
USamwise wayengelona iqhawe. Engqondweni yakhe, wayengumlimi wasengadini olula waseHobbit owayenothando futhi ekholelwa kumngani wakhe uFrodo ukuthi kwakungekho mbuzo ukuthi wayengeke ahambe naye ohambweni oluyingozi lanoma yiluphi uhlobo.
Kunezikhathi lapho kumele sime eceleni - noma ngisho phambi kothile - ukuze sibavikele lapho bekhathazekile noma bebuthakathaka. Uma lokhu kwenziwa ngaphandle kokungabaza noma ukufunwa ngokweqile kwempindiselo, unobudlelwano lapho ukwethembeka kuyigugu eliyinhloko.
Ngeke kudingeke ukuthi ubhekane nenguqulo yakho yokuhamba nomuntu uye eMount Doom, kepha ukwethembeka kusho ukunyukela othile, ukubamela lapho kudingeka khona, futhi ubavumele emahlombe akho ukubazisa uthando nokusekelwa okufanele bakulindele wena.
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Umhlatshelo
Noma ngubani owake wangazizwa ngempela ngomsebenzi womcabango akasoze anikeza ukwethembeka kumqondo owodwa, uhlelo lwezinkolelo, inkolo yenkolo noma iqembu. - UHoward Jacobson
Ukwethembeka akubona ubumpumputhe. Akukhona ngokuba sohlangothini olunamandla kakhulu noma olunqobayo.
Imayelana nokunikela.
Imayelana nokuvuleleka emathubeni okuxhumeka kweqiniso, ngokungafani naleyo yemfashini ubuqotho obuningi bunamathele kuyo.
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Ukuthola Umusa
Uzwe ukwethembeka esikuzwayo ukungajabuli - umuzwa wokuthi lapho sikhona ngempela. - UGraham Greene
Ukuze uthembeke, kufanele wazi ukuthi ungakuthola kanjani ukwethembeka.
Ukwethembeka empeleni kwenza abantu abaningi bangakhululeki. Banomuzwa wokuthi umuntu othembekile kubo ubeka umthwalo wokuziphatha okuthile kubo. Esikhundleni sokubhekana nalokhu kungakhululeki, bayazivalela kude nokuzizwa befanelekile.
Empeleni, baba lusizi futhi bathemba ukuthi abanye bangase babe nosizi kulolo sizi, kepha ukwethembeka akusho ukunamathela ukuze ubone ukuthi usizi ludlala kanjani.
Ukwethembeka kuguquka kamnandi ebudlelwaneni obugcwaliseka ngokuphelele. Njengokuthembela emhlabeni wangaphandle kuguquka futhi kuguquke, ukuthembeka okusondelene nakho kuthola izimo ezintsha zokuhlala njalo.
Kungumusa ukukwazi ukugeleza nalezi zifundazwe futhi udanse nazo, kunokuba ukhutshwe yizo.
Ukwethembeka Kwezocansi Nokomzwelo
Ngoba ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto Uthando lusho ubumnandi neqiniso, futhi ulinganisa yebo, ukwethembeka kothandiweyo nasezwini lakho. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu anginakulokotha ngingene ezindabeni eziphakeme kangaka. - UMarie de France
Kunokunambitheka okuningi okuhlukahlukene kobudlelwano phakathi kwabantu, ikakhulukazi enkundleni yezocansi.
Umuntu oyedwa, isithembu, isithembu - bonke banamaphuzu okuthembeka, futhi indlela engcono kakhulu yokwethembeka ngaphakathi ngakunye ukukhuluma ngokwethembeka.
Ngisho nokwethembeka okungokomzwelo kudinga ukuxoxwa ngakho kulo mbuso, ngoba ubudlelwano obubodwa bungavuleleka kakhulu lapho kuhlangana khona ngokomzimba, kepha bube umugqa wemizwa yokulangazelela okunamathiselwe .
wazi kanjani ukuthi ufunani
Omunye angakubheka kwamukeleke ngokuphelele ukuba nabangane abaningi abasondelene nabathandanayo bangaphandle ngangokunokwenzeka, inqobo nje uma bengabonke mhlongo .
Isihluthulelo sokugcina ubuqotho ngokobulili nangokomzwelo ukuthi ukuxhumana . Kanye imingcele kuyaxoxwa, izidingo zokwethembeka ziyaqala ukusebenza.
Amandla Okuthi Cha
Wonke umuntu ufuna ukwethembeka, ukungaguquguquki, kanye nomuntu ongeke ayeke. Kepha wonke umuntu uyakhohlwa ukuthi ukuthola lowo muntu, kufanele ube yilowo muntu. - ahlukahlukene
Ukwethembeka ebudlelwaneni bakho kuzodinga leli gama kaningi. Cha ekulingweni kwenhliziyo, inyama, ukuzithokozisa, noma ngezikhathi zezinto ozithandayo.
Njengoba umuntu othembeke ngokweqiniso engeyena nje u-yebo-bot kwabanye noma kubo uqobo, inani lamandla elifanele likhonjiswa yilabo abangafuna ngokufanele ingubo yomngani / isithandwa / isifuba esithembekile.
'Cha' akulula, ngoba kwesinye isikhathi umvuzo osheshayo uyaphazamisa. Kodwa-ke, futhi akulula ukuntengantengisa umuntu oqotho ngempela emiklomelweni esheshayo, esheshayo.
Umuntu oqotho uyazi ukuthi impilo iyindaba, mhlawumbe i-epic, mhlawumbe isondelene, kodwa kufanelekile ukuhamba noSpock, uSamwise, noma uDora Milaje noma ababili.
Ngamanye amagama, bayakwazi lokho ngo uthi cha kokuphazamisayo, bathi yebo kumngane oqotho futhi omuhle, futhi abangane abanjalo bakubiza kabili isisindo sabo segolide.
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