Ukuvelela akuzi lula kuwo wonke umuntu. Kwesinye isikhathi kunzima ngokwanele ukuthola amandla anele ukuphuma embhedeni, ingasaphathwa eyokuvula umzila omusha obheke empumelelweni oyifunayo.
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ukuvelela kuyinto engafundwa futhi ihlonywe. Kuyinto ongayondla futhi uyikhulise ngaphakathi kwakho njengoba ubheke phambili kunoma yiziphi izinhloso ofuna ukuzizuza.
Kunemfihlo eyodwa encane ongase ungayiqapheli ngokuziqhenya nabantu abafuna ukuvelela. Futhi leyo mfihlo yilokho abantu abanesifiso sokuvelela abanamabhongo we-100% wesikhathi.
Bathola ubuhlungu benhliziyo, izingqinamba, nokwehluleka. Izinhlelo zabo akuhlali zivela ukuthi babethemba kanjani, noma impumelelo ibukeka yehlukile kunalokho ababekucabanga.
Abantu abanesifiso sokuvelela abaphelele, imishini engaphutha eyazi kahle ukuthi ifunani kanye nendlela ekahle yokukufeza. Eqinisweni, abantu abaningi banombono wokuthi bafuna ukuba kuphi, kepha thola indlela eya lapho.
Kafushane, abantu abafuna isikhundla ngabantu abafana nawe.
Akunasizathu sokuthi kungani ungeke usebenzise amasu afanayo ukwakha nokufeza izinhloso ozifunayo ngempilo yakho. Kufanele nje ufunde ukuthi ungasungula kanjani isifiso sokwakha uhlobo lwempilo oyifunayo.
1. Thola isisusa sakho.
Kungani wenza lokhu okwenzayo? Kungani ufuna ukuvelela?
Ngabe ufuna impilo engcono? Imali eningi? Ubudlelwano obungcono? Waba nekhono?
Yisiphi isisusa esikhulu esikwenza ufune ukuvelela ngokwengeziwe? Yichaze ngokusobala.
Ungakuthola kuwusizo ukukubhala phansi bese ukubeka endaweni ethile lapho ungabona kalula njengesikhumbuzo sokuthi kungani unikela ngesikhathi sakho samahhala nakulo mgomo.
Ngaleyo ndlela, lapho uqala ukuntengantenga noma ungazizwa uthanda ukusebenza, ungaba nesikhumbuzo esicacile sokuthi kungani udinga.
2. Zibekele imigomo.
Indlela yokuphila egxile emgomweni iyindlela enhle yokwakha ukuvelela nokuthola impumelelo oyifunayo.
Imvamisa kuqala ngomgomo omkhulu ongabukeka njengesisusa sakho:
'Ngifuna ukudla okunempilo nokuzivocavoca umzimba ngokwengeziwe.'
'Ngifuna umsebenzi oholela kangcono.'
Ngifuna ukujabula ngokwengeziwe. ”
Leyo nhloso enkulu, enkulu kakhulu izosiza ekwaziseni nasekugcwaliseni izinhloso ezincane ezizokuyisa lapho. Ungaqala enkingeni bese ubuyisela emuva kabusha izixazululo zokwenza lezi zinhloso ezincane.
Uyazi ukuthi ufuna ukudla okunempilo nokuzivocavoca umzimba ukuthi yiziphi izinhloso ezincane ezikusiza ukwenza lokho? Ungafunda ngokudla okunempilo, ukuthi ungadla kanjani okunempilo, futhi uhlakulele inqubo yokuzivocavoca umzimba.
Futhi uma ungeke ukwazi ukuzenzela lezo zinto wedwa, kungakuhle ukubheka isazi sokudla okunempilo noma umqeqeshi womuntu siqu onganikeza lolo lwazi ongenalo.
Inhloso ngayinye encane ozibekela yona futhi uyifeze izokusondeza ekufezeni umgomo wakho omkhulu.
Ukuphumelela okuncane futhi kusiza ekunikezeni lokho kukhuphuka okuncane kwamakhemikhali azizwa kahle owathola lapho uphumelela kokuthile. Umbuthano onobuhle osiza ukukwenza ufune ukuvelela kancane kancane ngesikhathi.
3. Thatha isinyathelo.
Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokwenza ucwaningo oluthile nokwenza izinhlelo ngaphambi kokuthi uqale ukulandela ukuvelela kwakho.
Kuba yinkinga lapho uqala ukunikela ngamandla amaningi ekuhleleni kunokusebenza empeleni enhlosweni yakho.
Abanye abantu baphinde babhekane 'nokukhubazeka kokuhlaziywa,' lapho umuntu ebhekana noma ethola izinqumo eziningi kakhulu angakwazi ukwenza isinqumo. Abazi ukuthi yikuphi okulungile, ngakho-ke bayakugwema ukwenza noma yisiphi isinqumo.
Indlela yokugqashula kulesi sikhundla ukufika emsebenzini. Into ukuthi, awusoze wakwazi ukwazi yonke imiphumela engaba khona nezinkinga ozohlangabezana nazo. Ukuphela kwendlela ozokuthola ngayo lokhu ukwenza lowo msebenzi, ukubhekana nezinkinga, nokufuna izixazululo.
Yenza ucwaningo lwakho, yenza uhlelo, bese uqala ukusebenza. Uma uhlangabezana nezinkinga, funa izixazululo zalezo zinkinga. Uma kungabonakali isixazululo, kuzodingeka ukuthi ushaye futhi ushintshe inkambo yakho ukuze uvumelane nalolu lwazi olutholile.
Izithiyo, izixazululo, nokusebenza kahle akuyona into okufanele yesabe. Yindlela izinto eziningi zokubaluleka ezenziwa ngayo.
Mane ukhumbule ukuthi ukuvelela akulutho ngaphandle kwesenzo.
4. Tshala imali kuwe.
Ukutshala imali kuwe kuhlale kuwukutshala imali okuhle. Lokho wukuthi, ukuthuthukisa ulwazi lwakho noma amakhono ngokusebenzisa imidiya, ukwenza amakilasi, noma ukuqeqeshwa.
Abantu abafisa ukuvelela bazohlala bechitha imali kulezi zinto bephephile ngokwazi ukuthi bazobuyisa imali ethe xaxa ezansi nomugqa.
indlela yokwakha kabusha ukwethembana ebudlelwaneni ngemuva kwamanga
Noma uthola ukuthi ulwazi aluzange lusize ngokushesha esimeni sakho samanje, lungabonakala lubalulekile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi noma lungaqhakambisa okungafanele ngabe uyakwenza.
Ukwazi ukuthi iyiphi indlela ongayithatha kungenza kube lula kakhulu ukwenza umsebenzi ozosiza ukuvusa nokufeza isifiso sakho.
Ukwazi izindlela hhayi ukuthatha kubaluleke kakhulu ngoba kungakusindisa iminyaka yokusebenza engagcinanga ngendlela obucabanga ngayo.
5. Hlakulela ukubekezela nokugxila.
Ukubekezela kubalulekile ekwakheni nasekugcwaliseni isifiso. Kuthatha isikhathi ukusebenzela ukufinyelela imigomo ozibekele yona.
Mhlawumbe udinga i-degree ukuze ungene emgqeni womsebenzi ofuna ukuwenza. Mhlawumbe ufuna ukunciphisa isisindo esiningi bese ungena esimweni. Mhlawumbe ufuna ukuba phezulu emkhakheni womsebenzi wakho.
Azikho kulezi zifiso ezinhle ezenzeka ngobusuku obubodwa. Futhi kunzima kakhulu ukukufeza uma ungagxilile kulowo mgomo.
Ungafeza izinto eziningi ngokuhamba usuka emgomweni uye emgomweni, isifiso sokuvelela. Kepha ukuze ufinyelele leyo migomo emikhulu, udinga ukugcina izinga elithile lokugxila ukuze uqhubeke nokwenza lo msebenzi futhi wenze izinqumo ezifanele ngenkathi uwuphishekela.
Ukubekezela nokugxila kudinga ukwakhiwa njengoba kuyizithako ezibalulekile ekuveleleni.
6. Thatha izingozi ezibaliwe.
Abantu abanesifiso sokufuna ukwenza izinto ezinkulu imvamisa kudingeka bacabange ngaphandle kwebhokisi abazithola bekulo.
Futhi ungalenzi iphutha, sonke sisezibhokisini zohlobo oluthile. Kungaba yibhokisi abazali bakho ababefuna ukukufaka ngenkani lapho ukhula. Kungaba yibhokisi ozifaka kulo ngokuzitshela ukuthi awukwenele kulokhu noma awukufanele lokho.
Abantu abanesifiso sokuvelela abanakukwazi ukutholakala ngala mabhokisi. Bangathola izikhathi zokungabaza, kodwa basalandela inhloso yabo yokuvelela noma kanjani ngoba yilokho abanqume ukuthi bafuna bona ngokwabo.
Gqashula. Thatha izingozi, kodwa thatha izingozi ezibaliwe.
Yini okufanele uzuze? Yini okufanele ulahlekelwe? Ngabe uzimisele ukukhokha inani lempumelelo ofuna ukuzama ukuzithathela yona? Kuhlala kunentengo ehambisana nempumelelo.
7. Faka imicabango engemihle ngemicabango emihle.
Imicabango nemizwa engemihle ivame ukuba namandla kunokuhle. Kulula impela ukuthwalwa yizo zonke izinkinga, izindleko ezihambisanayo, nomsebenzi ohambisana nokuvelela.
Abantu abanesifiso sokuvelela bazizwa lezo zinto, futhi bamane bakhethe ukuwahlela kabusha ngokwengeziwe ngokwengeziwe.
Akusikho ukuthi, 'Lokhu kuzongibiza kakhulu.' “Konke engidinga ukukwenza ukudlula kulokhu, futhi ngisondele enjongweni yami.”
Akusikho ukuthi, 'Angikulungele ukwenza lokhu.' Kungu 'Ngidinga ukuthola usizo ukuxazulula le nkinga.'
Akusikho ukuthi, 'Abanye abantu bangcono kunami.' Ngu 'Ngidinga ukuthola ukuthi yini engisebenzelayo.'
Izinkinga zingokoqobo kubantu. Awudingi ukuba nombono omuhle ongamanga, kepha awukwazi ukungabi nethemba futhi ulindele ukwakhela ukufisa kwakho. Ngeke kudlule ukungabi namandla.
Futhi gwema abantu ababi abafuna nje imizamo yakho nezinhloso zakho. Bazolulaza isifiso sakho nempumelelo ngaphansi kwesembozo sokuthi 'ukuba wusizo' nokuthi 'ube ngokoqobo.'
8. Ukwamukela ukwehluleka.
Ukwehluleka kuyingxenye yempumelelo. Isihluthulelo sokusinda ukwehluleka ukuqonda lawo magama ayisihlanu bese uwawamukela ngakho konke okubalulekile.
Uma uhluleka, kusho ukuthi uzame okuthile, futhi akuphumelelanga. Ngakho-ke, wafunda okuthile okwakungasebenzi futhi kwaba nokuhlakanipha okusha ongakusebenzisa manje enkingeni yakho.
Wonke umuntu wehluleka ezintweni. Yilokho okwenzayo ngalokho kwehluleka okubhebhethekisa noma okuqeda isifiso.
Yamukela, yifunde, thanda ukwehluleka kwakho. Akudingeki uyithande, kodwa kufanele uyithande ngoba ingeyakho.
Yini ongayenza ngayo? Ungakugxila kanjani ekwehlulekeni ukukusondeza kufinyelela kumgomo wakho?
Kungenzeka kungabonakali ngokushesha, kepha kunethuba elihle lokuthi amaseli empumelelo yakho ahlanganiswe nalokho kwehluleka.
Abantu abanesifiso sokuvelela basebenzisa ukwehluleka kwabo ukusiza ukukhulisa impumelelo yabo.
9. Qhubeka wenze umsebenzi, noma ngabe awufuni.
Abantu abanesifiso sokuvelela benza lo msebenzi. Benza umsebenzi noma bengafuni ngempela.
Yebo, lowo mbhede ukhululekile, futhi ukulala kancane emini emahoreni amabili kuzwakala kumnandi, kepha unezinhloso okufanele uzifeze.
Akukho lutho olutholwayo lapho uphumule ekutholeni okuhle, futhi umhlaba wonke uvutha phambili ngaphandle kwakho.
Lokho akusho ukuthi zisebenze uze ufe noma ungalokothi uthathe amakhefu. Kusho ukuthi udinga ukugwema ukuchitha isikhathi esilinganiselwe onaso osukwini lwakho.
Kuzofanele unciphise ukubheka ngokweqile iNetflix, ukulala isikhathi eside, uzilahlekele kumidlalo yevidiyo, noma lapho kukhona lapho uchitha khona isikhathi sakho.
Qiniseka ukuthi usisebenzisa kahle isikhathi sakho. Ukuzitika ngokweqile ngokuphumula nokungcebeleka ngeke kukusize ube nesifiso sokuvelela.
Lokho kufaka phakathi ukucabanga nokwenza amaphupho amaningi kakhulu ngalokho osebenzela kukho. Okuncane kulungile. Okuningi kumane kuyisiphazamiso nokumosha isikhathi emgwaqeni wakho wokuvelela nempumelelo.
Ngabe awunaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ungaba kanjani nesifiso sokuvelela? Khuluma nomqeqeshi wempilo namuhla ongakudlulisa kule nqubo. Mane uchofoze lapha ukuxhuma nenye.
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