Izizathu ezi-5 zokuba Uxhumano Olukhulu Lokomoya Nomuntu

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Abantu abaningi bakhuluma ngokuba nobuhlobo obungokomoya obuqinile nothile, kepha lokhu kusho ukuthini, ncamashi?

Iningi lethu likuthole ukuheha okukhulu kwabanye, kepha uma kungukuxhumana okungokomoya okujulile, lokho kukhanga kubonakala ngathi kuyasishaya ingqondo, umzimba, nomphefumulo… hhayi umzimba nje kuphela.



Kukhona ukujwayela okusheshayo, ukuqonda, kanye nesidingo sokushayela ukuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nomphefumulo okhanyayo ongene ezweni lethu.

Ngakho-ke kuvela kuphi lokhu kuxhumana, futhi kusebenza yiphi injongo?

“Ngiyakwazi endaweni ethile.”

Cishe sonke sihlangabezane nokuxhumana nomuntu omusha obezwa sengathi siphinde sihlangane nomngani wakudala.

Uma lokhu kwenzeke kuwe, khona-ke uzokwazi kahle ukuthi ngiqonde ukuthini.

Lo muntu omusha ujwayelene nathi masinyane: sikhululeka masinyane phambi kwabo, futhi ukuchitha isikhathi nabo kusenza sizizwe sijabule.

Lokhu kungaba ngumngane omusha, isithandwa esisha, noma ngisho umuntu osebenza naye omangalisayo emsebenzini omusha.

Noma ngabe ngubani, thina nje yazi ezingeni elijulile esingahle singazi ukuthi sizichaze kanjani.

Singazithola sinqekuzisa ikhanda kanye nakho konke abakushoyo, kubukeka njengama-sycophantic imbeciles yize sizihlanganisa ngokuphelele kuwo wonke amazinga.

Ukuqedela imisho yomunye nomunye akuyona into engavamile, futhi futhi nokuthola ukuthi siphila impilo efanayo ngandlela thile.

Kunamandla amakhulu, abhibhayo kuma-cores ethu nje okumele amukelwe njengakhethekile.

Manje kungani sinayo le mizwa?

Bangobani laba bantu bemilingo, futhi yiziphi izindima okufanele bazibambe ezimpilweni zethu?

Kunemibono eminingi eyehlukene yokuthi zingasho ukuthini lezi zibopho zokomoya.

Ake sibheke ezimbalwa zazo, bese sibona ukuthi singakwazi yini ukuthola ukuthi iyiphi obhekene nayo.

1. Kungenzeka ukuthi wahlangana nengxenye yomndeni wakho womphefumulo.

Sonke sike sabhekana nobukhona ngaphezu kwezikhathi eziningi zokuphila, futhi ngenxa yalokho, sibe yingxenye yamandla ahlukile omndeni kaninginingi.

Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ngokwemvelo sithambekele kumalungu 'omndeni womphefumulo' kukho konke ukuzalwa komzimba, ngakho-ke lapho uhlangana nomuntu futhi uzizwe ngokushesha ukuthi ubekade ubazi ngaphambili, kungenzeka ukuthi ubazi!

Lo muntu kungenzeka ukuthi abe ngumzali wakho, ingane yakini, umalumekazi / umalume, ugogo noma umkhulu noma ingane yakho esikhathini esidlule sokuphila.

Hheyi, kungenzeka ukuthi nichithe isikhathi ndawonye izikhathi ezingenakubalwa, ngakho-ke akumangazi ukuthi seniphinde nathola omunye nomunye.

Ngendlela efanayo lapho uzokwazi ukuthola umngani oseduze esixukwini ngoba nje ukwazi ukubabona, kanjalo namalungu omndeni womphefumulo angaphinde atholane, noma ngabe esezinhlangothini eziphambene zomhlaba.

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2. Esinye isikweletu se-karmic noma ibhalansi kungenzeka ihleleke.

Ungahle uhlangane futhi ukuze ulinganise izikali ezithile ezimpilweni zangaphambilini.

Ake sithi uhlangana nomuntu okuvikela ngendlela eyisimanga, futhi ogcina esindisa impilo yakho, noma ekunakekela ngokugula okunzima.

Kungenzeka ubasindise esikhathini esidlule sokuphila , noma mhlawumbe bahlulekile ukukuvikela ekulimaleni okokugcina, futhi kulokhu banethuba lokuphumelela kulokho.

Ngenye indlela, kungenzeka nina nobabili none okokugcina nxazonke , futhi manje unethuba lokulungisa izinto.

Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka ebudlelwaneni bomzali / nengane. Ungaba nobuhlobo obungokomoya obukhulu nomzali wakho, ngaphandle kokuthi unobudlelwano obunzima nabo.

Esimweni esinjengalesi, kungaba yisimo lapho ubukade ungumzali okokugcina, futhi manje usuguqule izindima ukuze nizwane kangcono (kanye nani) kangcono.

Ngemuva kwakho konke, asivamile ukuqonda umbono womunye umuntu kuze kube yilapho sesihlala ezicathulweni zabo isikhashana, akunjalo?

Sijwayele ukuqhubeka siphinda amaphutha afanayo kulokhu kuphila size sikwazi ukuzilungisa futhi sigxume umsele ukuze wephule umjikelezo.

Ngokufanayo, singadinga izikhathi ezimbalwa zokuphila ukuze sigqashule ekuphindaphindeni imijikelezo yokuziphatha ezinamandla kakhulu.

Ngiyethemba ukuthi nobabili nizothola izinto ngalesi sikhathi!

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3. Lokhu kungaba ngomunye wabalingani bakho bomphefumulo .

Kukhona isisho esijwayelekile sokuthi abantu bangena ezimpilweni zethu ngesizathu, inkathi, noma impilo yonke.

Ubudlelwano beSoulmate benzeka lapho sidinga ukuzwa okuthile okuyisikhumbuzo ekukhuleni kwethu siqu nentuthuko , futhi zingahlala noma kuphi kusuka emahoreni ambalwa kuye emashumini ambalwa eminyaka.

Lokhu kuxhuma kunamandla, izibopho ezinamandla, futhi kungaba ngeplato noma zothando.

Abanye abantu bangadideka ngempela ngenxa yobudlelwano bomphefumulo, ngoba isibopho singaba nohlobo lwamandla esijwayele ukuhlangabezana nawo ebudlelwaneni bezocansi, kuphela ngaphandle kwalezo zap zokukhanga okusondelene.

Ungazithola uzibuza ukuthi kungani ukhangwa kangaka kulo muntu kungani kubonakala sengathi uyakwazi ukuzwa lokho akuzwayo, ngisho nakulo lonke idolobha (noma izwe), kodwa awufuni ngempela ukulala nabo.

Sibekelwe isimo esilinganisa ukuheha okuqinile nesifiso sobulili kangangokuba kaningi sinenkinga yokucubungula umqondo wokuthi singamthanda umuntu kakhulu ngaphandle kokudinga ukumlalisa.

Ubudlelwano bomphefumulo obusekelwe ebunganeni bungaqina ngaphezu kwanoma yisiphi isibopho sezelamani, noma bungagcwaliswa yizinselelo nokungavumelani. Noma zombili.

Kuxhomeke ngokuphelele kulokho nina nobabili okufanele nifundisane kona - lokho ohlose ukukuvusela omunye nomunye ukukhula komphefumulo wakho.

Lezi zinhlobo zobudlelwano ngokuvamile azihloselwe ukuba zihlale isikhathi eside futhi zivumelane. Esikhundleni salokho, bazosinyakazisa sikhululeke kunoma yimaphi ama-quagmires esifakwe kuwo ukuze siqhubeke nohambo lwethu.

Singahle singene ezimpilweni zomunye nomunye kaningana kule minyaka edlule, noma lokhu kungaba ukuma kancane nje endleleni yethu.

Kodwa-ke kuyadlala, qiniseka ukuthi kungenxa yesizathu esihle esilahlekile, ngakho-ke naka!

4. Wena nelangabi lewele nixhume kabusha.

Lokhu kwehlukile ebudlelwaneni bomphefumulo, ngoba imvamisa buyindlela emnene, yokubhanqa kwethenda kunale engenhla.

Ama-soulmate enzelwe ukuphonsela inselelo omunye nomunye, ngenkathi amalangabi amawele asekela, anakekele futhi avumelanise.

Kungenzeka nina nobabili nabalingani ngandlela-thile kaningi.

Lokhu kwehlukile emndenini wakho womphefumulo, okuvame ukwenziwa ukuxhumana kwabazali / izingane zakini, futhi esikhundleni salokho kuyisibopho sothando esenzeka kaninginingi emakhulwini eminyaka.

Kungenzeka ukuthi uphuphe ngalo muntu ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene, ukhumbula izikhathi ezahlukahlukene zokuphila enabelana ngazo njengabalingani.

Manje isikhathi silungile nobabili ukuthi niphinde nithole omunye nomunye, futhi niphinde nixhumane ngezinga lezothando.

Lokhu kungadideka, ikakhulukazi uma usuvele ukulobudlelwano nomunye umuntu (noma okuphambene nalokho), noma uma lo muntu kungubulili ongahehelwanga ngocansi ngokwejwayelekile.

Okuningi kwe ukusesha umphefumulo kuyadingeka kulolu hlobo lwesibopho esingokomoya, njengoba ngokungangabazeki kuzoba obunye bobudlelwano obukhulu kakhulu oyoze ube nabo.

Uma ukulungele, kungaba kuhle ngokungakholeki.

Uma ungekho, kungahle kube yinhlekelele.

Vele uthembeke kuwe nakulowo ozoba umlingani wakho, bese ugeleza ngezinto ngangokunokwenzeka.

5. Nihlanganisiwe ukuze niqondane ngokweqiniso.

Eminye imiphefumulo iyakhanga lapho yabelane ngokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo.

Kukhona nje okuthile kumasiginesha ethu wamandla okubiza labo abanomqondo / umoya ofanayo, kusuka ezithakazelweni ezabiwe kanye nezintshisekelo kuya ezihlukumezweni ezedlule.

Okwabantu abanayo babehlala bezizwa bebodwa kakhulu ezintweni abazithandayo nangokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo , lolu hlobo lokuxhumeka lungaqinisekiswa ngendlela emangalisayo.

Ngokungazelelwe, esikhundleni sokuzizwa njengezimvu ezimnyama zomndeni / zomphakathi, kukhona omunye umuntu ovele ukunambitheka wena ngokuphelele!

Awudingi ukuchazela lo muntu ukuthi kungani amantongomane nebhotela lamaswidi likwenza uthokoze kakhulu, noma ukuthi kungani uthanda ukupenda ama-landscapes ngenkathi ubuka ama-documentary obugebengu beqiniso.

Bamane nje “bayayithola.”

Leyo yinto engajwayelekile, enhle, futhi ingaba elinye lamathuba okuqala enibe nobabili ngawo iqondwe futhi yamukelwe ngaphandle kwemibandela.

Zijabulise, zithandwa: ufanelwe ubuhle obunjalo.

Khumbula ukuthi izibopho ezingokomoya azigcini kubantu.

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi okuningi kwalokhu kuxhumana okungokomoya kungenzeka phakathi kwezidalwa zezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene.

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Isibonelo, abantu abasondelene kakhulu nabangane babo bezilwane bavame ukuzwa umuzwa ongazelelwe we-intuition kubo, nje 'bazi' ukuthi umngani wabo ubesosizini, ngisho nakude kakhulu.

Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi umoya awunqunyelwe ifomu lomzimba.

Lapho sinesibopho esingokomoya esiqinile nesilwane, kungenxa yokuthi imiphefumulo yethu ibona okuthile okukhethekile nokungcwele komunye nomunye.

Okuthile okudlula izinhlobo zezinto eziphilayo, imizimba yenyama, kanye nanoma iyiphi enye into enomkhawulo wobukhona bomzimba.

Njengomuntu, lesi silwane kungenzeka singene empilweni yakho ngesikhathi obudinga ngaso.

Kungenzeka kube ukukufundisa isifundo, noma ngoba ubungabanika abakudingayo ekukhuleni komphefumulo wabo.

Kungaba yisimo sesilwane esidlulile kudala esinquma ukuthi singathanda ukuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nawe, ngaleyo ndlela sizalwe kabusha ukuze siphinde sibe ngumlingani wakho.

Ngaphandle kwalokho, wawungaba njalo yabo isilwane kwesinye isikhathi sokuphila, futhi manje yithuba lokuba nobabili nibe nokuhlehliswa kwendima.

Kunoma ikuphi, manje unethuba lokujabulela inkampani yomunye nomunye futhi.

Yigubhe ngokuqukethwe yinhliziyo yakho, futhi unganaki abantu abangase bahlekise ngesibopho esikhethekile ongokomoya onaso.

Ukuthi isidalwa akusiyena umuntu akusho ukuthi asikwazi ukuthanda uthando olujulile nobungani, futhi nokuxhumana kwakho okungokomoya akusavumelekile kangako ngoba bakwimo ehlukile.

Lokho kubaluleke ngokumangazayo ukukhumbula emphakathini wethu okhulayo wabantu.

Okunye okubalulekile ukuthi akekho omunye umuntu onquma ukuthi unokuxhumana okungokomoya okujulile nomuntu noma cha.

Uma uzizwa - noma wazi phansi ekujuleni - ukuthi uyakholelwa, kwethembele kulokho.

I-intuition yakho ingelinye lamathuluzi anamandla kakhulu onawo. Ungavumeli noma imaphi ama-naysayers akushenxise eQinisweni lakho.