… Noma, kunalokho, kungani engeyona into enhle njengokulindela kwakho, kepha ingaba ngcono kakhulu ekukhuleni kwakho komuntu siqu kanye nokomoya kunokuba ubona.
Lapho abantu abaningi becabanga ngabathandana nabo bomphefumulo, kungenzeka bacabange umuntu abangaba nobudlelwano obuhle naye, obungenangxabano ngokuphelele, ekugcineni buzoculwa ngama-troubadour emakhulwini eminyaka alandelayo. Konke kuhle futhi kuhle, kodwa uma uhlangane umuntu womphefumulo , empeleni akulona uhlobo lobudlelwano ozoba nabo.
Kungani kunjalo? Hhayi-ke, ngoba indima ye-soulmate akuyona ukugcwalisa impilo yakho ngamabhantshi angenalutho nezintaba ze-Fairy Floss. Indima yabo ukuthatha i-sledgehammer ku-ego yakho futhi uqede yonke imicabango onayo ngawe ukuze ukwazi ukuthuthuka ngokomoya ... futhi lokho kungalimaza i-LOT.
Bazokuklebhula
Isithandwa sakho somphefumulo senzelwe ukukuphonsela inselelo. Bazoba nezici ezicindezela izingcezu zamathenda ezingaphakathi kuwe obukade uzama ukuzibiyela nokuzivikela impilo yakho yonke. Ukuveza lezo zingcezu obala kubalulekile, njengoba lezo kuyizici zobuntu bakho ezidinga umsebenzi omkhulu, kepha oh uzothukuthelela umlingani wakho ngokwenza ubhekane nalezo zithunzi.
Lezi yizingxenye ezibekwe eceleni, zacindezelwa, zanganakwa, futhi zaze zenqatshwa iminyaka, kepha umphefumulo wakho womphefumulo ngeke akuvumele ukuthi ugcine lawo mabhokisi ekhabetheni abafuna ukulunguza kulo, futhi azochitha igazi elingenalutho lawo mabhokisi umbhede wakho futhi ukwenze ubukeke, BHEKA okuphakathi kwawo.
Ama-bastard.
Ukuziphendukela kwemvelo komuntu kanye nokukhula ngokomoya kulimaza njengesihogo. Sifisa ukunethezeka nokuvikeleka ngazo zonke izindlela, noma kubiza impilo yethu engokomzwelo, kepha into ngamagobolondo okuvikela ukuthi awagcini nje vikela izinto ezithambile nezixakile, bona vimbela ukukhula kwabo. Uma inyoni yengane ingagqabhuki igobolondo eliyivikele emhlabeni ngesikhathi ifukama, iyominyaniswa futhi ife.
Okufanayo kuya kubantu.
Imigede yethu esizenzele yona akuyona nje indawo efudumele, ethokomele lapho singafihla khona izingcezwana ezinesithunzi futhi sihlale siphephile - ziyizikhala ze-claustrophobic, ezinomswakama lapho amanxeba amadala fester ngoba akukho ukukhanya okuvunyelwe ukungena.
Umuntu wakho womphefumulo uzokhipha spelunking kuleyo mihume (hhayi isithuko, ngokwethembeka) futhi ukhanyise ithoshi kuzo zonke izindawo ofuna ukuzifihla. Bazokucindezela ukuthi ubhekane nalezo zingqinamba, ufunde kuzo, welaphe kuzo, futhi ube ngumuntu obehloselwe ukuba njalo…
… Futhi ungabazonda ngenxa yalokho.
Ungabacasukela, hlukana nabo izikhathi eziyishumi nambili zokukwenza ulimale, noma ngabe kukuthakazelisa kakhulu ukwenza kanjalo. Uzobacasukela ngenkani ngikudonsa ukhululeke endaweni yakho yokududuza futhi ubambe isibuko ngezingxenye zakho ongafuni nakancane ukusibuka, kodwa bayabona, futhi bayakuthanda, futhi bakudinga ukuthi usivume ukuze ukwazi ukuba NGUWE ngokuphelele.
wazi kanjani ukuthi uyasetshenziswa
Inkululeko Esengozini
Abaningi bethu bawuzonda ngokuphelele umuzwa wokuba sengozini. Sihlakulela izifihla-buso zethu futhi izihlangu kakhulu ngoba, ekugcineni, sifuna ukugwema ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka ngazo zonke izindlela.
Umuntu omphefumulo uzokhipha izimaski zethu ahlukanise izihlangu zethu futhi asiphoqe ukuba sizenze sengozini ukuze sibe ngokoqobo. UShivas oyiqiniso ezimpilweni zethu, bazosicasula futhi basikhuthaze ngokushintshana ukuze babhubhise imicabango engathi ngathi esiyitshalile. Lapho zonke lezo zisekelo sezibhidlikile zaba uthuli, zizosisiza ukuthi sakhe kabusha ngeqiniso nangeqiniso.
Ebungozini bethu, abalingani bethu bomphefumulo basisizile ukuthi sizithole. Kuyethusa lokho, akunjalo? Sikhishwe noma yisiphi isithiyo esivikelayo, izikhumba zancipha, izingxenye zethu ezithambile kakhulu zivezwe emibuthanweni engase isisike futhi isigwaze, sincishiswe sibe yizinto ezibalulekile zokuthi singobani kuma-cores ethu.
Kukhona inkululeko enkulu kulokho, noma ingahle yethuse ekuqaleni.
Ukuba sengozini kusho ukuthi sidalulwa futhi sivulekele umhlaba wonke wokulimala, ngoba lawo mathemba nezidingo kanye nezidingo kanye namaphupho esiwalahlile futhi sawacindezela isikhathi eside kangaka asakazeka phansi ngokuzumayo. Othile angazinyathela, futhi lokho kungavele kusibhubhise. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kuphephe kakhulu (futhi kulula) ukugcina lokho kugoqwe ezifubeni zethu kunokuzibeka engozini yokwephulwa, noma ngabe lokho kusho ukuthi asikaze sibanike ithuba lokuba ngokoqobo.
Bangase bahluleke, impela. Singahle sehluleke, kepha singaphumelela futhi, uma sizivumela ithuba lokwenza kanjalo. Umuntu womphefumulo nguyena osikhuthazayo noma osiphoqa ukuba silethe lawo maphupho ekukhanyeni bese siwalandela, noma ngabe kusho ukuthi singahluleka. Asazi neze ngaphandle kokuthi sizame, akunjalo? Futhi ohh, bazosenza sizame.
Umphefumulo wakho uzokuklabha, akhumule isikhumba emathanjeni akho bese usula izici zakho owesaba ukwamukela nokuzijabulisa ngempela, kepha uzoba kakhulu ngokwenza lokho kunalokho obengakucabanga.
Lokho kuwufanele kakhulu umthamo oqinile wokukhwabanisa, akunjalo?
Into okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi yize ubudlelwano obuningi bomphefumulo buhlala unomphela, eziningi zazo azenzi, futhi lokho akuyona into embi. Kubantu abaningi, i-soulmate umuntu oza empilweni yakhe isikhathi esithile ukuze enze lula ukukhula noshintsho, kepha akubona abalingani abakahle bohambo lokuphila.
Sakha ubudlelwano nabantu ngezindlela eziningi ezahlukahlukene, ngezizathu eziningi, futhi asazi ukuthi ukubambisana kuzohlala ubusuku obubodwa, unyaka, ishumi leminyaka, noma impilo yethu yonke.
Kungenzeka impela ukuthi uzohlangana nomuntu obaluleke kunabo bonke empilweni yakho ngqo lapho ubadinga ukukuchoboza ezintweni zakho ezibalulekile, kepha abadalelwanga ukunamathela: basebenzela inhloso, bese bedinga ukuqhubeka . Esimweni esinjengalesi, ukubambelela kumphefumulo wakho kungakuhlehlisa okuhle kakhulu abakudalile empilweni yakho, ngakho-ke kufanele ukwazi ukubadedela bahambe.
Uzokwazi ukuthi ngabe kunjalo uma kwenzeka, ngoba bazobe bekunikeze amathuluzi namakhono wokunquma okudingayo ngempela empilweni yakho . Bakunikeze isiqu sakho sangempela, futhi inqobo nje uma ubambelela kulokho, cwilisa ezifundweni ozifundile ngenkathi unabo, bese uhlonipha isipho abakunikeze sona.
Noma kubuhlungu ukufunda.
Ikakhulukazi uma kubuhlungu ukufunda.
Awuqinisekile ukuthi wenzeni ngobudlelwano bakho obuyinselele bomphefumulo? Xoxa ku-inthanethi kuchwepheshe wezobudlelwano ovela ku-Relationship Hero ongakusiza ukuthola izinto. Kalula.
Kunendlela eyodwa kuphela yokuba uvemvane,
futhi lokho kungukukhulisa izimpiko zakho.
Ungaba yisibungu nge-hang glider uma nje uthanda,
kodwa uzobe udlala ngawe kuphela.
Kepha yinye kuphela indlela yokukhulisa amaphiko akho,
futhi lokho kungenxa yomkhuhlane.
Kepha kungaba mnyama futhi kunesizungu lapho - kudinga isibindi.
Futhi-ke kukhona ukuqandula: ukukhasa uphume ulinde,
sengozini enkulu evulekile, elinde izimpiko zakho ukuthi zome.
Kepha iyiphi enye indlela oyoke ukwazi ngayo ukundiza?
- Lyrics to 'Thola Amaphiko Akho' by Qkumba Zoo
