Akekho othanda ukuzwa ukuthi ziyasetshenziswa.
Lapho umuntu omthandayo noma omkhathalela ngokujulile, kungaba kwezothando noma njengomngane, kubonakala sengathi uhlala njalo futhi engabuyiseli ngendlela ejwayelekile, kungakudicilela phansi futhi kululaze ukuzihlonipha kwakho.
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Kungenzeka ukuthi othile ucela izinzuzo ezimbalwa kakhulu, kepha nokho 'umatasa kakhulu' ukukusiza.
Kungenzeka ukuthi bakuthwalise kanzima ngayo yonke i-c ** p yabo futhi balindele ukwesekwa kwakho nezeluleko zakho ngo-24/7, kepha lapho unenkinga, akukho lapho bangabonakala khona noma bangakhombisi intshisekelo yangempela ezinkingeni zakho.
Noma kungenzeka ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi uyingxenye yombhangqwana onothando, kanti umlingani wakho ubonakala enentshisekelo kwezocansi kunokuzihlalela nje nokujabulela ubudlelwano bomunye nomunye.
Konke lokhu kuyizinkomba ezinkulu ezithi unobudlelwano nomsebenzisi.
Uma ubudlelwano bakho buzizwa buhlangene, zikhumbuze ukuthi ubungani nobudlelwano bothando, buyizindlela ezimbili, zigcwele ukupha nokuthatha nokuxhasana.
Lokho kusekelwa kunikezwa ngokukhululeka, ebusuku noma emini, ngaphandle kwe-ajenda efihliwe, futhi kuyabuyiselwa ngaphandle komcabango wesibili.
Uma ungaqiniseki, kodwa vele uzwe ukuthi kukhona ukungalingani ebudlelwaneni bakho, kunezindlela ezithile zokuziphatha okufanele ubhekele okufanele phakamisa ifulegi elibomvu bese wenza i-radar yakho yomsebenzisi.
Izimpawu zokuxwaya ziyehluka phakathi kobungani noma ubudlelwano nabantu ohlala nabo ngokungafani nobudlelwano bezothando, yize ezinye zisebenza kuzo zombili.
Ake sibheke ezinye izibonelo zokuziphatha okujwayelekile komsebenzisi ukukunikeza amathuluzi wokuhlaziya ubuhlobo bakho ngezimpawu zokuthi uyasetshenziswa…
1. Zigxile kubo kuphela.
Okubaluleke kakhulu kuye ngumsebenzisi uqobo.
Bazibona njengesikhungo sendawo yonke eyaziwayo, lapho konke okunye kujikeleza.
Konke kumayelana nemisebenzi yabo, izinkinga zabo, impumelelo yabo, imindeni yabo.
Futhi kumayelana nalokho abakufunayo, abakudingayo, nokuthi yini (nabanye) ongabenzela yona.
Uma bamatasa bagxila kubo konke ukunaka kwabo, ngeke babe nentshisekelo kulokho okwenzekayo empilweni yakho.
Bazolindela ukuthi unikele ngesikhathi esiningi ukulalela i-monologue yabo yokuzikhethela, noma kunjalo.
Izidingo zakho azisoze zabhekelwa kakhulu.
2. Abakulaleli.
Njengoba umsebenzisi ekugcineni enesifiso sokunakekela inombolo eyodwa, imininingwane yokungena nokuphuma kwempilo yomndeni wakho, abangani bakho, nokuphila kwakho kwansuku zonke kuzoqondana ngqo namakhanda abo.
Ngeke bakwazi ukugcina imininingwane owabelana ngayo mayelana nomphathi wakho onzima noma abazali bakho abagulayo ngoba ayisho lutho kubo.
Kulula ngokwanele ukubuza imibuzo ethile ukuthola ukuthi angaki amaqiniso abalulekile empilweni yakho abawakhumbulayo.
Iqiniso lokuthi abanantshisekelo eyanele yokugcina lolu lwazi emakhanda abo liyinkomba eqinile yokuthi abayena umngane / umlingani weqiniso futhi basebenzisa ubungani / ubudlelwane bakho ukwanelisa esinye isidingo (sokuzenzela).
3. Bafuna ukuboleka imali.
Sonke sidinga ukusizwa ngezimali ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi akukaze kube yinkinga ukusiza umngani ukuphuma kanye noma kabili.
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Uma kunezicelo eziphindaphindwayo zokusiza, noma ngabe kungamadola ambalwa lapha noma laphaya noma izizumbulu ezinkulu, kufanele impela uqaphele.
Kufanele futhi ugcine amathebhu wokuthi uvama kangakanani ukufinyelela isikhwama sakho semali, ukumboza isidlo sakusihlwa, amatekisi, nezinye izindleko uma niphuma ndawonye.
Uma uhlala ucelwa ukuthi ukhokhe indlela yabo noma ubolekise imali, futhi babonakala bethembele kuwe njengomthombo wezimali, lokho akukhona ukuziphatha okujwayelekile.
Kukhombisa ukuthi inani lakho kubo lixhumene kakhulu nokugeleza kwemali kusuka esikhwameni sakho semali kuye kweyabo.
4. Izintandokazi 'ziyalayishwa.'
Abasebenzisi banekhono lokuzidweba njengabasiza kakhulu.
Bakwenza lokhu ngokwenza umusa omncane kakhulu kuwe, kepha bakufaka ezintweni ezinkulu, begcizelela ukuthi ubakweleta isikhathi esikhulu futhi uzizwe unecala lokuthi ucele.
Uma bekucela umusa omkhulu kunalokho, uzokhunjuzwa ukuthi bangakanani abakwenzele kona kakade futhi udlale ngecala abaselitshale engqondweni yakho, likwenza uzizwe ubakweleta.
5. Zimnandi kuphela uma zivumelana nazo.
Abasebenzisi banamaqhinga ngokwanele ukwazi ukuthi kufanele babe bahle ukuze bathole abakufunayo.
Bangaba mnandi kakhulu futhi bacabange kahle lapho bedinga usizo, usizo oluthile, noma ukuboleka okuthile.
Kodwa uzothola ukuthi bazokunikeza isifinyezo esifushane uma sebephumelele ekutholeni noma ngabe kuyini.
Bazovala intelezi lapho bengasafuni okuthile.
6. Abalokothi benze noma yimuphi umzamo.
TO ubudlelwano obuseceleni , lapho uwena kuphela obonakala wenza izinhlelo, ukuthenga izipho, ukuba nemibono, noma ukufaka umzamo, empeleni akusibo ubudlelwano nakancane.
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Ubudlelwano obuhle yibo obulinganiselayo ukuze izinhlangothi zombili zishintshane ukuhlela zombili izinto ezimnandi nokusingatha okubalulekile kwansuku zonke.
Akufanele kube nguwe wedwa owenza ukugijima.
7. Bathintana kuphela lapho bezizwa bedangele.
Sonke sizwile ngomngani wesimo sezulu esikahle onentshisekelo kuphela yokuchitha isikhathi nawe lapho konke kukhanya futhi kumnandi kepha ukude nomsekeli othembekile lapho isimo siba nzima.
Lolu hlobo, noma kunjalo, ngandlela-thile luphikisana nomngane wesimo sezulu esikahle. Bafuna ukuhlanganyela nawe kuphela lapho bephansi futhi benenkinga enzima.
Lapho sebephezulu komhlaba futhi konke kuhamba kahle kubo, awubaboni ngothuli.
Udinga ukubona ukuthi usetshenziswa njengengubo yabo yezokuphepha, ukuze ulahlwe lapho isidingo sosekelo lwakho sesidlulile.
8. Bayakulahlekisa ukuze ungeke uthi cha.
Abasebenzisi bangamakhosi ekuphatheni abanye babe sesikhundleni lapho uzizwa khona ukuthi ngeke ubaphike.
Luhlobo oluthile lokudlala ngamandla okuxakile, nazo zidonsa izintambo bese wena udansa kushuni wazo.
Uma othile ekufaka ingcindezi yokuthi wenze ngokuthi ukuphika isicelo sakhe kungasho ukuphela komhlaba kuye, uyasetshenziswa.
Kungaba usongo lokungabi nabungani noma ukulahlwa okwenza ukuthi uzizwe unamandla okumelana nakho, kepha amaqhinga anjalo okwesaba kufanele aboniswe ukuthi ayini: uhlobo lokuhlukumeza ngokomzwelo .
9. Bafona ebusuku kuphela.
Lokhu kuziphatha okuvamile komsebenzisi. Uma umlingani wakho othandana naye ekubiza kuphela noma ebhalela imibhalo ebsuku ebusuku ephakamisa ukuxhumeka, kusho ukuthi kuwuphawu lokuthi uyisinqumo sokugcina lapho kungekho lutho olungcono olunikezwayo.
10. Bafona kuphela uma abanye abangane babo bematasa.
Abanye abangane babo bamatasa futhi abafuni ukuba bodwa, ngakho-ke bakucela ukuba uvale isikhala.
Uma uzwa ukuthi le yindima yakho, amathuba ukuthi bakubona kuphela njengonqenqemeni lombuthano wabo wobungani, ukulungele ukubagcina benenkampani lapho kuvumelana nabo, kepha kungenjalo kungalawuleka.
Bheka okuthunyelwe kwabo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Uma kusobala ku-Insta ukuthi umngani wakho uba nomkhomo wesikhathi nabanye lapho ungamenyiwe, sekuyisikhathi sokubheka futhi ebudlelwaneni bakho.
11. Bonke bayakhuluma futhi akukho senzo.
Abasebenzisi bavame ukufihla i-ajenda yabo yangempela ngokuthi bazokwenza okuthile, kepha bayehluleka ukuletha kaninginingi.
Ngokuvamile, isithembiso sabo sincike ekutheni ubenzele okuthile. Ugcina uhlangothi lwakho lwentengiselwano, kepha behluleka ukugcina olwabo.
Le ndlela yokuziphatha ekugcineni ilulaza ukwethenjwa komunye umuntu nasebudlelwaneni.
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12. Zephula izethembiso.
Njengokuziphatha okungenhla, abasebenzisi bavame ukwephula izethembiso.
Ngaso sonke isikhathi bakhetha ukubeka umuntu noma okuthile ngaphambi kwakho.
Awubonwa njengeseqhulwini futhi bakubheka njengokuphusha kancane, ongeke wenze inkinga noma ngabe uhlala uphoxekile ngokwephula kwabo ukwethembana.
Uma imizwa yakho ebuhlungu lapho ubhekene nokudumazeka okuphindaphindiwe ingabalulekile kangako kubo, kukhona okungahambi kahle futhi uyasetshenziswa.
13. Zikwenza uzizwe unenzondo.
Akumangazi ukuthi wonke ama ukukhubeka kwecala , umusa, izidingo zokunakwa nokungabikho kwanoma yikuphi ukubuyisela kuholela ekwakheni inzondo.
Ebudlelwaneni obunempilo, obulinganiselayo lapho izidingo zombili zabantu zihlangatshezwa ngokulinganayo nomoya wokupha nokunakekelwa kwangempela nokukhathazeka, asikho isizathu sokuzonda.
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14. Kukwenza uzizwe unamahloni noma ungakhululeki.
Ubudlelwano, noma bungobothando noma beplaton, kufanele bukwenze uzizwe ukhululekile futhi unethezekile.
Kodwa-ke, iqiniso ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi zingakwenza uzizwe uhluke ngokuphelele.
Kungaba nenqwaba yezizathu zalokhu, kunjalo, kepha lokhu kuxabana kuvame ukubangelwa umuzwa wakho wokuzalwa wokuthi kukhona okungalingani ngobudlelwano.
Uma usetshenziswa, ngokwemvelo uyazi ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle, futhi lokhu kukushiya uzizwa ungakhululekile.
Kungenzeka ukuthi inhlanganisela yezinye izindlela zokuziphatha ezingenhla ezibangele ukusabela kwakho esiswini.
Lalela imizwa yakho yemvelo futhi uqhubekele phambili ngokuchitha isikhathi nabantu obazizwa ukhululekile futhi benelisekile enkampanini yabo.
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Into yokugcina engiyishoyo ukuthi kufanele uzizwe unenzondo ngokwenza umusa kumngane, oshade naye, noma omunye obalulekile.
Uma umuntu omthandayo noma omkhathalelayo edinga umlenze wesikhathi esithile ngezezimali, usizo oluthile, noma afonele amahora angajwayelekile ngoba edangele, lezo izinto esizenzela abangane bethu, umndeni, nabathandekayo ngaphandle kokucabanga kabili .
Engikushoyo ukuthi kufanele unake lawa mafulegi abomvu njengoba anda ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Uma uzizwa ukuthi ibhalansi yobudlelwano igudluzele kude kakhulu esiqondisweni somngani / umlingani wakho futhi nguwe owenza konke ukusebenza, ngokuqinisekile yisikhathi sokubuka konke bese uhlaziya kabusha ukuthi umi kuphi.
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