Enye yama-dichotomies ama-4 we-Myers-Briggs Type Inventory ukuthi phakathi kokuzwa nokuzwa. Uma amamodeli elungile, khona-ke iningi labantu lizoncika kakhulu kokunye noma kwezinye zalezi zimfanelo zobuntu.
Banikela nge-S (yokuzwa) noma i-N (ye-intuition) kwizifinyezo zezinhlamvu ezi-4 zohlobo ngalunye lobuntu be-Myers-Briggs. Ngamanye amagama, uyi-XSXX noma i-XNXX lapho i-X ngayinye nayo ingenye yezinhlamvu ezimbili (esingeke singene lapha).
Kodwa uyini umehluko phakathi kwalezi zici ezimbili? Yini ekwenza ube inzwa uma uyiqhathanisa nenembile? Ake sihlole, ngokuningiliziwe, izindlela uhlobo ngalunye oluxhumana ngazo nezwe elibazungezile.
I-S Yenzelwe Ukuzwa
Labo abanobuntu obulawulwa yindlela yokuzwa baziwa njengezinzwa.
Baphila izimpilo zabo phakathi kweqiniso, ukhonkolo nokuqinisekile, basebenzisa izinzwa zabo eziyisi-5 ukuthola ukuthi isimo sabo sikuphi nokuthi bangasabela kanjani kuso. Bazi kahle ngokuzungezile ukubonga kwabo, ngokwengxenye, ekuqondeni kwabo kwengqondo okwamanje. Bamunca ngokoqobo yonke into ebazungezile ukuze banikeze ipulatifomu enhle kakhulu lapho bengathatha khona isinyathelo sabo esilandelayo.
Babeka inani elikhulu kakhulu kulwazi futhi bafuna ukuthola okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka ngaphambi kokwenza izinqumo. Basebenzisa lawa maqiniso nemininingwane ukubala isenzo esisebenzayo kunazo zonke.
Izinzwa nazo zigcizelela ukubaluleka kwesipiliyoni nolwazi. Kubo, okwedlule kungumlando ogcwele izifundo ezifundiwe kanye nokuhlakanipha abangathola kukho.
Zonke lezi zinto zifakwa enqubweni yazo yokwenza izinqumo evame ukuhambisana kakhulu ekwakhiweni kwayo. Bakhetha ukuguquka kwesinyathelo ngesinyathelo kusuka endaweni eyodwa kuya kwenye ngendlela enganyakazi kakhulu yokuhamba. Zilingana nephazili le-join-the-dots, elisebenza lisuka kwelinye iphuzu liya kwelilandelayo, ukuze kubhekwane nenkinga.
shada nendoda ekuthanda kakhulu
Izinzwa ziphumelela ekukhumbuleni amaqiniso amaningi nezibalo okuvame ukuzisiza ukuthi ziphumelele kusayensi esikoleni. Isidingo sabo sokuhleleka yinto evame ukuqashelwa lapho bengena emhlabeni womsebenzi futhi kubenza babe ngamalungu eqembu abaluleke kakhulu.
Abaqashi bazokuthokozela nokuzimisela kwabo ukuthatha isinyathelo ngokushesha nangokunganqumi.
I-N Yenzelwe Intuition
Labo abahlala ngokuqinile ekugcineni komqondo we-spectrum baziwa njenge-intuitives.
Izingqondo zabo zikhetha umhlaba wezinto ezingabonakali, eziphelele, nezingaqinisekile. Ngenkathi nabo, bathola imininingwane ezingqondweni zabo, bavame ukungazithathi ngokwezibalo. Esikhundleni salokho, babheka lokhu okufakwayo ukuze bahlole incazelo yabo ebalulekile kanye nokubaluleka kwabo futhi 'bazizwe' ukuthi indawo yabo izama ukuthini.
Kubo, okubaluleke kakhulu isithombe esikhulu futhi ngeke bavumele imininingwane emincane iphazamise umbono wabo omuhle wekusasa. Ngekusasa lapho izingqondo zabo zichitha khona isikhathi sabo esiningi - bayaphupha, bayakha, futhi bacabanga ngamathuba amaningi angaphambili.
Lapho kudingeka bathathe isinqumo, bazozama ukuhoxa baye lapho bangabona khona okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka (ukukhuluma ngengqondo). Ukusuka lapha bazozama ukuthola ukuhlangana kwazo zonke izingcezu ezihambayo futhi basebenzise ithalente labo lokubona amaphethini ukusiza ukuqondisa umuzwa wabo wamathumbu. Akuwona amajoyinti, kepha aqonde ngqo kusuka ku-A kuye ku-Z.
Ama-Intuitives alungile ekutholeni ukuxhumana phakathi kwemibono noma imiqondo emibili ebonakala ihlukene futhi uwahlanganise ukuze akhe izindlela ezintsha zokucabanga. Lokhu kubenza babe nobuciko obukhulukazi, abantu abavame ukuba nobuciko abanothando lwenoveli nombono.
Ulec baldwin unezingane ezingaki
Le ndlela yokucabanga yasekuqaleni ibanikeza amakhono amahle kakhulu okusombulula izinkinga futhi bavame ukubizwa ngaleli khono phakathi neminyaka yabo yokufunda esikoleni nalapho besemsebenzini. Ukukwazi kwabo ukubona ukuthambekela kusenesikhathi kubenza babe yigugu kakhulu ezimbonini ezithile lapho ukuhambisana nonqenqemeni olusemqoka kubalulekile.
Ama-Intuitives kwesinye isikhathi adinga isikhathi sokuzindla ngaphambi kokuba athathe isinyathelo, kepha ukuthanda kwabo ukucabanga kubanikeza umcabango ongalawulwa oba usizo lapho kudingeka izinto ezintsha.
Okuthunyelwe okuhlobene (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
- Ngabe Uhlobo Lobuntu 'Lokwahlulela' Noma 'Lokuqonda'?
- Ingabe Uhlobo Lobuntu ‘Obucabangayo’ Noma ‘Obuzwayo’?
- Izici Ezesabekayo Ezi-13 Zabantu Abaziqonda Kakhulu
- Izindlela eziyi-14 zokulalela kangcono i-Intuition yakho
- Izimpawu ze-4 Ungu-Empath enembile (Hhayi I-Empath Yodwa)
- Izilinganiso ezingama-22 ku-Intuition Ukusiza Ukugcina Uxhumana Nabakho
Lapho uSs noNs behlangana
Manje njengoba sesibheke izindlela izinzwa nezinzwa ezahlukahlukene, ake sibhekise ukunaka kwethu kulokho okwenzekayo lapho behlangana.
Kungaba nokungqubuzana okusobala kobuntu lapho laba ababili behlangana ubuso nobuso. Isibonelo, lapho izinzwa zibona ukuthi izinzwa zihlala ezweni lamafu-cuckoo, izinzwa zibona izinzwa njengezintula emcabangweni.
Lapho inzwa ibheka enembile, ibona izifiso ezingenangqondo, isitayela sokusebenza esiyinkimbinkimbi ngokweqile, kanye ne-fluff theory engakwazi ukusetshenziswa.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, imibono enembile ibona inzwa ingaguquki, ishesha ukwenza, futhi ikhathazeka ngamaqiniso kunemizwa.
Ama-Intuitives angazizwa enomuzwa wokuphakama ngaphezu kozakwabo bezinzwa ngoba bayakwazi ukwephula umhlabathi ngendlela okwenziwa ngayo izinto. Babona ukucabanga kwabo okungaphandle kwebhokisi njengethalente labo eliphakeme nelibaluleke kakhulu kunanoma yini inzwa engayinikeza.
Izinzwa zingasho ukuthi yize kukuhle ukuba nayo yonke le mibono, ama-intuitives awanaso isisekelo sokufaka iningi lawo esenzweni. Bazothi lapho izinto zidinga ukwenziwa, ama-intuitives awanakubonwa ndawo, nokuthi ukube bekungekho ngabo, umhlaba ubuzoguquka ume.
ukugibela indiza kusuka esihogweni
Ungabhekana Kanjani Nabaphikisana Nakho
Ngenkathi izinombolo ezahlukahlukene zinikezwe ukwehlukaniswa phakathi kwezinzwa nezinzwa, akunakuphikwa ukuthi umhlaba uqukethe izinombolo ezinkulu zombili. Lokhu kuphakamisa umbuzo-ke wokuthi usebenza kanjani ngokuxhumana nomuntu ohlukile.
Kungahle kube yinkohliso ukukwenza, kepha impendulo iyinto esobala impela: uma ufuna ukuthola okungcono kakhulu (noma kunalokho okudingayo) kokuphambene nawe, kufanele wethule izinto ngendlela abazoziqonda ngayo.
Ngamanye amagama, njengoba kungenakusiza njengoba kungabonakala kuwe, zama ukucabanga ukuthi inzwa yakho noma uzakwethu enembile angaphendula kanjani kangcono esicelweni esithile. Biyela amaphuzu ozama ukuwenza ngendlela azowaqonda kalula futhi akwazi ukuwacubungula. Kuzozwakala kungajwayelekile ekuqaleni, kepha uma ufuna ukuthi babone izinto njengawe, kufanele uhumushe ulimi lwakho olimini lwabo.
Isibonelo, ama-intuitives angazama ukuhlobanisa imicabango yawo nemibono ethe xaxa ephelele ngokufafazwa kwamaqiniso nangokuqhubeka.
ngithanda abafana ababili ngiyikhetha kanjani imibuzo
Izinzwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, zingazama ukuxoxa ngalokho ezikwenzayo ngokuya ngemiphumela yazo esithombeni esibanzi kunokungena emininingwaneni.
Ngokuyisisekelo, kufanele usebenze ngamandla akho lapho uwedwa (noma nabanye bohlobo olufanayo), bese uzama ukusebenza ngamandla abo lapho uphikisana nalokho okuhlukile.
Yikuphi Okungcono?
Impendulo emfushane ayikho. Eqinisweni, umhlaba usebenza njengeyunithi ehlangene, iqoqo lezitayela nezindlela ezihlangana nomphakathi oqhubekayo, kodwa osebenzayo esihlala kuwo.
Awukho umjaho phakathi kwezinzwa nezinzwa, kepha kunalokho umdlalo weqembu lapho abawinile kuyilabo abangasebenza ndawonye, yize behlukile, ukufeza izinto ezinkulu.
Futhi yize kungukuphikisana, sonke sinezici zombili zokuzwa nokuqonda ngaphakathi kithi, futhi sithembele kuzo kuzindlela ezahlukahlukene kuye ngokuthi senzani, sikanye nobani, nokuthi yisiphi isigaba sempilo yethu baphakathi.
Ngakho-ke kufanele ugone ngamunye njengokungathi yizipho ezimbili eziyigugu ozinikiwe.
Ngabe ukhomba kakhulu njengenzwa noma enembile? Shiya imibono yakho ngezansi bese wabelana ngolwazi lwakho nabanye bazo zonke izinhlobo.
