Isivivinyo sohlobo lweMyers-Briggs esake sathandwa sihlukanisa abantu baba ingxubevange eyindida yezinhlobo zobuntu. Kokuthunyelwe kwangaphambilini, sixoxe ngakho umehluko phakathi kokuzwa nokuqonda . Okwamanje, sihlose ukubhekana namanye ama-dichotomies (aphume kwabangu-4): ukwahlulela futhi ukubona. Ukwazi ukuthi ungena kuphi phakathi kwalezi zinhlobo ezimbili zobuntu kungakunika umbono wokuthi usebenza kanjani futhi uxhumana kanjani nezwe elingaphandle.
Amagama amabili ngokushesha akhumbuza izinkolelo-ze ezithile - ukwahlulela kucatshangwa ukuthi kusho “ukwahlulela,” futhi ukuqonda kucatshangwa ukuthi kusho “ukuqonda,” kodwa, njengoba sizobona, lezi zikude kakhulu nezincazelo zangempela ze-Myers-Briggs.
Lezi zigaba ezimbili zivame ukudideka futhi zingaqondwa kahle. Zisho ukuthini ngempela, futhi ingabe enye ingcono kunenye?
J Okokwehlulela
Uma uzuze amaphuzu aphezulu, noma uncike ekubeni ngumuntu “Ohlulelayo”, ungalokothi wesabe lokho akusho ukuthi uyisilima esingesihle, nokwahlulela. Akusho ukuthi uyabanda noma uyabala futhi.
Abantu abanobuntu bokwahlulela bathambekele ekuhleleni, bafune ukuvalwa, bahleleke, abahleli, babe nesibopho, bathathe izinqumo, balawule, bathambekele ekwenzeni umsebenzi, futhi bafana nesakhiwo. Laba bantu bavame ukutholakala kulezi zindima ezilandelayo: umbonisi, umsekeli, induna, umhloli, umeluleki, umvikeli kanye nosomaqhinga.
Njengoba ukwazi ukubona, akukho lutho olubi ngokwemvelo lapha - abahluleli, bamane bakhetha ukusebenza ngaphakathi kokuhleleka okwengeziwe uma kukhulunywa ngokusebenzisana kwangaphandle.
Bachaza ngokusobala izidingo nezidingo zabo, futhi bathande ukuthi izindaba zilungiswe ngaphambi kokuqhubeka. Akubona abantu abacocekile abahlanzekile, abahlanzekile, abangenangqondo, nabacabanga ukuthi bangabantu abakholelwa ukuthi bangabo. Ngenkathi bengathambekela engxenyeni yokuzithiba ngokwengeziwe, futhi eqinile yobuningi bobuntu, akusho ukuthi bangamarobhothi amabi, aqinile, futhi aqhelelene.
ungamnaki ukuze athole ukunakwa kwakhe
Umuntu ohleliwe, ozikhuzayo, onokwethenjelwa othanda ukucaciseleka, uyisibusiso eqenjini lakho emsebenzini futhi uma kukhulunywa ngobudlelwano bomuntu siqu, uzohlala wazi ukuthi umi kuphi nabo. Lokho akukubi kangako manje, akunjalo?
P Kungukuqonda
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma uzuze amaphuzu aphezulu ekugcineni kokubona kwesivivinyo se-Myers-Briggs, lokhu akusho ukuthi uwuhlobo oluthile lwe-flake-washy, engaqondisi, noma ukuthi uyi-slob engahlelekile.
Abantu abakhombisa ubuntu obubonakalayo bathola umkhawulo wesakhiwo, njengokugcina izinketho zabo zivulekile, futhi bakwazisa ukuguquguquka. Benza izinqumo, kepha kuphela ngemuva kokukala wonke amathuba, futhi bakwenza lapho kufanele impela. Ziyakwazi ukuzivumelanisa nezimo, zikhululekile, zingenandaba, azithandi inqubo, ukujabulela ukuzenzekela , futhi sithanda ukuncela ulwazi.
Zivame ukutholakala kulezi zindima ezilandelayo: umsizi, umjabulisi, umculi, umsunguli, ingcweti, ummeli, unjiniyela nomphuphi, ukubala nje abambalwa.
Lolu hlobo lobuntu aluhlangene nakancane namakhono akho okubuka, okungukuthi, ukuthi 'ubona kanjani' umhlaba okuzungezile uthanda ukwahlulela, kuhlobene nokuthi ukhetha ukusebenzisana kanjani nezwe. Futhi, akuyona uhlobo 'olubi' noma 'oluhle' ngokwemvelo. Ababonisi akubona ngempela 'abahle' noma, 'i-messier,' bamane bakhetha ukugcina ukulawula ngokuba nezinketho eziningi abangazithola.
Umuntu obekezelela izinguquko nokwehluka, ovumelana nezimo, futhi ozenzekelayo, naye angaba yilungu leqembu elihle lomsebenzi. Ebudlelwaneni bomuntu siqu, bangaba yimithombo emikhulu yemibono emisha, futhi kube lula ukubhekana nabo ngoba bathambekele ekubeni nezimo futhi bavumelane ngokushesha noshintsho oluzumayo. Impilo ngeke ibe yisicefe ngesibonisi nxazonke.
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Kuthiwani Uma Ngingobabili?
Into ebalulekile okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi akukho kulezi zigaba eziphelele. Ungaba bobabili ukwahlulela nokubona. Ukuba ngaphezulu kokukodwa akukuvimbeli ekubeni ngomunye. Aziphikisani nakanjani. Ungaba nenhlanganisela yokwahlulela futhi ubone ukuthi ibhalansi ikulungele ngokuphelele.
kukhombisa ukuthi udlala ngothando nawe emsebenzini
Ungaba 50/50, 20/80, 30/70. Akekho umuntu oyedwa ongenawo wonke amakhono okwahlulela, noma ongenawo wonke amakhono abonayo esinawo ngamanani ahlukene, iningi lethu lincike kakhulu komunye noma komunye.
Isibonelo, ngithathe uhlobo olwehlisiwe lwe-Myers-Briggs test nje ngenxa yelukuluku lokubona ukuthi ngizofika kuphi, futhi kukhombisile ukuthi ngiyahlulela ama-52% futhi ama-48% abona - cishe ama-50/50. Yilapho-ke lapho engangizizwa ngiyoba khona, futhi ngiyabona ukuthi kubonakala ezindaweni lapho ngikhetha khona ukwakheka, nasezindaweni lapho ngakhetha khona ukuguquguquka empilweni yami.
Ukwahlulela : Ngiyathanda futhi ngidinga ukwakheka ngenxa yomsebenzi engiwenzayo, okungukuthi, ngiyasebenza futhi kudinga ukuzikhuza okuningi. Ngiyakujabulela futhi ukusebenzela ukufeza izinhloso ezibonakalayo, futhi ngiyindlovukazi yohlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe. Konke kubhalwe phansi kwahlolwa, futhi ngiyathanda ukwazi ukuthi umsebenzi usulungisiwe ngaphambi kokubhekana nolandelayo.
KODWA…
Ukuqonda : Ngiphila ngokuzimela ngoba ngiyazizonda isakhiwo sehhovisi esisemthethweni imvelo yendabuko eyi-9-5 ayikaze ibe kimi, ngiyithola icindezela kakhulu. Ngincamela ukuzenzela amahora ami, ngichaze imingcele yomsebenzi wami, ngigcine izinketho zami zivulekile kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi ongifikelayo, futhi ngifunde izinto ezintsha.
Ungayisebenzisa Kanjani Imiphumela Yakho
Ingabe ngizizwa ngihlukaniswe noma ngididekile ngemiphumela yami? Ngokuphambene nalokho, ngicabanga ukuthi ukuhlangana kwalaba bobabili kunengqondo ngokuphelele yokuthi ngihamba kanjani emhlabeni. Ezindabeni zami zansuku zonke, ngivame ukuncika kancane ekwahluleleni, kepha njengoba ubona, lokho akusho ukuthi nami angikwazi ukuba ngumuntu obonayo.
Ngenkathi imiphumela yakho izokutshela ukuthi ungubani, nokuthi usebenza kanjani ngaphandle, akufanele kuthathwe ngokuthi 'kuhle' noma 'kubi,' 'kulungile' noma 'akulungile.' Imiphumela inguwe ngokukhethekile, kufanele isetshenziswe njenge umhlahlandlela, hhayi imantra.
Imiphumela ye-Myers-Briggs ivame ukusetshenziswa ekuhlolweni kwendawo yokusebenza ngoba lezi zinhlobo zobuntu zinika abantu abasebenza nawe ukuqonda ukuthi ucabanga kanjani, uzizwa kanjani, futhi usebenza kanjani. Batshela abanye ukuthi uncamela ukubhekana kanjani nezimo, nokuthi uthanda ukuphathwa kanjani.
Okuwukuphela kwendaba ngalezi zivivinyo ukuthi ubeka engcupheni yokuthi imiphumela isetshenziswe njengezincazelo ezingaguquguquki ezingavumeli ukwehluka noma okuhlukile. Kuyohlale kunokuhlukile kulo mthetho ngoba abantu bayizidalwa ezixakile neziyinkimbinkimbi ezingabalwa kalula kangako.
Khumbula nje, akukho ukwakheka komuntu lapha, omunye akekho ongcono kunomunye, yiba umahluleli, noma obonayo zimane nje ziyizindlela ezihlukile zokuhamba empilweni nokuhlangabezana nezinselelo zako.
