Uyawazi lowo muzwa lapho ufika endaweni ongakaze uyivakashele ngaphambili futhi kubonakala ngandlela thile ujwayelekile kuwe?
Noma kwenzeka okuthile futhi ufunga into efanayo naleyo eyake yenzeka phambilini.
Yebo, lokho sekuvele, futhi akuyona into esikhuluma ngayo lapha.
Eqinisweni, akukaze kubonwe okuphambene ngokuphelele ne-déjà vu.
Kungumuzwa owutholayo lapho uya kwenye indawo noma uhlangabezana nokuthile osuvele ujwayelene nakho, kodwa ngalowo mzuzu, kusha ngokuphelele kuwe - sengathi kungokokuqala ngqa.
Abanye abantu bakubonile lokhu lapho besho igama abalike balisho izikhathi eziyizigidi ngaphambili, kepha ngokuzumayo bacabanga ukuthi yinto ezwakala iyinqaba kakhulu. Yisho “isigqi” ngokuzwakalayo izikhathi ezimbalwa bese ucabanga ukuthi kuzwakala kuxaka kanjani, ngokungathi sína.
Abanye bavale ngokuphelele izinombolo zabo zamaphini ngemuva kokuzisebenzisa nsuku zonke iminyaka eyishumi, noma bakhohlwe ukuthi iyiphi iphaseji abazoyithatha emsebenzini noma esikoleni.
Okomzuzwana nje, kufana nokuthi isileti sesuliwe futhi lelo phaseji liyindawo engatholakali.
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Kunini futhi uma uke waba sesimweni lapho uhlangabezana khona ne-jamais vu, esikhundleni sokuxakeka ngoba kufanele 'kufanele' uqaphele imvelo yakho (noma isitsha osidlayo, noma yini enye yalolo hlobo), thatha umoya futhi ube khona.
Manje usunethuba lokuzwa okuthile okokuqala ngqa - futhi - futhi ngokunokwenzeka wenze izinkumbulo ezintsha, ezikhethekile, kunokuba uzikhanyisele.
Uma uvakashela indawo futhi ngokungazelelwe kuzwakala sengathi awukaze ube lapho ngaphambili, zama ukungadangali! Esikhundleni salokho, zinike isikhathi sokubheka nxazonke bese ucwila kuyo yonke imininingwane.
Ngabe wake wavakashela indawo entsha ngenkathi useholidini futhi wapheshulwa ngubuhle bayo kangangokuthi ngokweqiniso awuzange uqonde ukuthi kungani abantu bendawo bengahambi ngokwesaba futhi bazibuze ngabo bonke ubuhle obubazungezile?
Abantu abahlala ezindaweni ezinjengeFlorence, iPrague, neParis bajwayele ukwakha, ukubaza, njll. Azintsha noma zipholile noma zihle: zikhona nje, futhi ziyazibona njalo lapho ziphumela ngaphandle.
Izivakashi zipheshulwa yibo bonke ubuhle, futhi zingena kuyo yonke imininingwane yokwakha ezakhiweni, kuwo wonke umthombo oqoshiwe, kuyo yonke imibhede yensimu etshalwe ngokucophelela.
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
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IJamais vu isanda kukwenza isivakashi egcekeni lakho, ikuvumela ukuthi uzwe indawo efana nokuthi yintsha ngokuphelele kuwe.
Ungaba nomzuzwana ojabulayo wesimangaliso esifana nengane njengoba uqalaza bese ubona - BHEKA ngempela - konke okuzungezile.
Akunjalo ukuthatha noma yini kancane , hhayi nje ukucwebezela noma ukuhamba uhamba amehlo akho ethe njo efonini yakho. Mingaki imininingwane ongayinaka ngokuphelele?
Into efanayo iya esimweni lapho unambitha khona isidlo salokho okubonakala kungokokuqala, noma ngabe kuthiwa yintandokazi endala.
Abantu abaningi kubonakala sengathi bakhohliwe ukuthi bangakunambitha kanjani ngempela ukudla. Sifaka ukudla emilonyeni yethu ngenkathi sibuka i-TV, noma sinqamula futhi sihlafuna ngaphandle kokunaka lutho.
Thatha isikhathi sakho.
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Jabulela ngempela leyo ndebe (noma ingilazi) yanoma yini oyiphuzayo. Phefumula ngephunga laso, phuthuma isiphuzo uzungeze umlomo wakho bese ubona ukuthi ungawabona yini amanothi e-flavour ahlukile.
Uma udla ukudla, vala amehlo akho bese ugxila kakhulu ekulungeni ngakunye. Qaphela ukwakheka okuhlukile, amazinga okushisa, ukuthi izithako zidlala kanjani. Akukho ukulunywa okubili okufanayo: unambitha ini kulokhu? Kuthiwani ngokulandelayo?
Kungenzeka impela - mhlawumbe, ngisho - nokuthi inkumbulo yakho ngendawo noma ngesidlo noma yini engeke ibuye maduze, kepha umzuzwana nje, ungathatha ithuba lokuthola okujwayelekileyo kube sengathi okokuqala ngqa.
Leso yisipho esingajwayelekile futhi esihle, futhi uma ungakwazi ukudlula ebunzimeni besikhashana futhi uzicwilise kulokho okwenzekile, ungathola ubuhle obusha obusha kulokho obukade ukuthathile.
Njengenothi elincane eliseceleni: IJamais vu ngezikhathi ezithile ingaxhunyaniswa nezinhlobo zesifo sokuwa kanye ne-amnesia. Uma uthola ukuthi ubhekana nakho kaningi kunokukhululeka kwakho, bekungeke kube ngumqondo omubi ukukhuluma nomhlinzeki wezokunakekelwa kwezempilo nganoma yikuphi ukukhathazeka.
Wake wahlangabezana nejamais vu ngaphambili? Kwenzeke nini futhi bekuzwakala kanjani? Shiya amazwana ngezansi ukuze wabelane nabanye.
