Cishe wonke umuntu ujwayelene no-Alice eWonderland nguLewis Carroll: indaba yentombazane esencane egijimisa unogwaja omhlophe phansi emgodini yagcina isezweni lemilingo.
kungani ngibona sengathi angikufanele ukuthandwa
Ngaphandle kokuba yilokho okuzwakala njenge-akhawunti yohambo lwe-asidi olunamandla kakhulu lomlobi, inganekwane empeleni igcwele izifundo ezithile zempilo ezihle kakhulu, uma kodwa sizinika isikhathi sokuzinaka.
Ukuthatha Izingozi Kungaholela Ekuzijabuliseni Okumangalisayo
Akukho lutho olwavela, lutho olutholakele. Ukube u-Alice akazange akhethe ukweqa lowo mgodi wonogwaja, wayengeke ahlangane nabangane abahle kakhulu ayebathola eWonderland. Wayengeke akhothoze ukuhlakanipha kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe, athole ukuthi angaba nesibopho futhi oqinisayo lapho kwakudingeka abe khona, nokuthi yize ezinye izinto ezimangazayo zingenzeka empilweni, zivame ukuthi zilunge.
Ukungena endaweni engaziwa kuyethusa. Sonke siyakwazi lokho. Akukho okubonisa ukuthi yini okungenzeka ilele ngakolunye uhlangothi lomhubhe, kodwa asisoze sathola uma singahloli, akunjalo? Izindawo zokududuza zingazizwa 'ziphephile,' kepha akukho lutho olukhulayo kuzo.
'Sonke sidiniwe la'
Leli libheke kahle, kepha ngendlela enhle, futhi lingalandelwa “Ningababhikishi ngokuphelele. Kodwa ngizokutshela imfihlo. Bonke abantu abenza kahle kakhulu. ”
Iningi lethu lineziqu esiziqaphelayo ngazo, noma simane siziqhenye ngokuthi sizizwa ngathi sesiseduze kokuwa kanti wonke umuntu osizungezile ubonakala enakho konke ukulawula.
Uyazi yini? Akekho noyedwa umuntu ngaphandle lapho ongalwi ne-smorgasbord yangempela yezinkinga. Futhi lokho kulungile impela. Ama-idiosyncrasies ethu usenze sihluke futhi kuyesabeka, futhi nokwazi ukuthi sonke sihlanya kusinikeza ithuba lokukhula, futhi siguquke, futhi sisizane phakathi nohambo lwethu kuleplanethi encane yasendle.
'Akusizi ukubuyela emuva izolo, ngoba bengingumuntu ohlukile ngaleso sikhathi'
Awuyena lowo muntu owawuyimizuzu emihlanu eyedlule, ingasaphathwa eyayizolo, noma inyanga edlule, noma eminyakeni emihlanu edlule. Sonke sishintsha njalo futhi siyavela njengoba siqhubeka sikhula futhi sifunda, futhi kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso njengabo bonke abanye njengoba kunjalo ngawe.
Sifundile emaphutheni ethu, ekuzabalazeni kwethu, nakuzo zonke izinto esidlule kuzo, futhi konke lokho kuyasiguqula. Kubalulekile ukuthi uzithande futhi uzamukele kumuntu onguye manje, hhayi okungenzeka kwenzeke esikhathini esedlule: awuseyena lowo muntu.
“Ngizinika Iseluleko Esihle Kakhulu, Kodwa Angivamile Kangakanani Ukulandela”
Kukangaki wazi kahle ukulahlwa okufanele ukwenze esimweni esithile, kodwa ungakwenzi? Futhi zingaki izinto ezihambe zazehlela emuva ngokuphelele ngemuva kwetiakettle ngenxa yalokho?
Kungani singazethembi izeluleko zethu?
Ukuthumela umlayezo kumfana ngemuva kosuku lokuqala
Iningi labantu lisemathubeni amaningi okulalela izeluleko ezinikezwe abanye ngaphezu kwazo umuzwa wakho , kodwa yilowo mqondo wethu wesithupha okufanele siwulalele kaningi. Intuition ayivamisile ukukuqondisa ngokungalungile, kepha ungaqinisekisa ukuthi izinto zizohamba kabi uma ungalaleli isixwayiso sayo.
“Ubonakala eneme ngokwenama, Uzisakaze kanjani izinzipho zakhe, Futhi wamukela izinhlanzi ezincane, Ngemihlathi emamatheka kamnandi!”
Abezombusazwe, abathengisi nabathengisi banokuthile abafana ngakho: ukuthandeka okunamafutha, okukhohlisayo, futhi bavame ukukusebenzisa ukuphoqa abanye ukuba benze lokho abakufunayo. Lapho futhi uma uhlangana nomuntu onesinono esikhulu, esinamazinyo futhi esibonakala singenakulungiswa, qaphela: bangaba yingwenya ecwazimulayo ezokucwilisa amazinyo ngokushesha nje lapho uzongena lapho befinyelela khona.
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'Angicabangi ukuthi ...' ngakho-ke akufanele ukhulume, kusho uHatter. '
Lokhu kuhambisana nomqondo wokuthi kungcono ukuthula uthule ucatshangwe njengesilima, kunokuvula umlomo wakho ukufakazele ukuthi kunjalo. Kulesi sikhathi lapho abantu abaningi babonakala bethumela noma bethumela i-tweet noma yini eyenzeka emakhanda abo nganoma isiphi isikhathi, kuningi okushiwoyo ngokuthula. Kubaluleke nakakhulu ukwenza kanjalo lapho uzizwa uthukuthele noma uthukuthele (inqobo nje uma ingaphenduki ukungathuli ).
Lapho senza umxhwele, sivame ukuzisola ngezenzo zethu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ikakhulukazi ngoba ukucaciseleka kuza kuphela nokubheka emuva… bese sizizwa njengeziphukuphuku ezifanele. Imizwelo ephakanyisiwe ifiphaza imicabango yethu nokwahlulela kwethu, ngakho-ke lapho ulaka luvutha, kungcono ukuthula.
'Ngabe yenze ingane embi kabi kabi kodwa yenza ingulube ebukekayo, ngicabanga.'
Kuwe uqobo yiba yiqiniso, futhi awukwazi ukusiza kepha ukhanyisele isidalwa semilingo oyiso. Ngokwethembeka, esihogweni ngokugqoka izifihla-buso nokuzenza into ongeyona: ngeke uzizwe ukhululekile esikhunjeni sakho.
Abantu bajabule ngokungenakugwenywa futhi baneliseka ngokwengeziwe lapho belandela indlela yenhliziyo yabo eyiqiniso, ngakho-ke yenza lokho! Yiba yingulube yengulube.
'Ijaji lalibe nombono ohlukile isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokufundwa kwecala'
Kuphephile ukusho ukuthi ngamunye wethu uthathe okuthile ngomuntu noma ngesimo. Sivame ukwenza qeda izahlulelo ngaphambi kokuthola imininingwane, futhi leyo mibono ivela ekubandlululeni okuvela kokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu.
Kulula kakhulu ukudala ukulandisa okucatshangwayo okususelwa ezithombeni ezimbalwa ezikhethiwe noma izingcezane zolwazi, kodwa kuze kube yilapho sesibonile isithombe esikhulu sokuthi singamqonda kanjani omunye umuntu ngokweqiniso, noma okungenzeka ukuthi (noma kungenzeka) abakubonanga.
Kubaluleke ngendlela emangalisayo ukubuza esikhundleni sokucabanga, ngoba ukucabanga okususelwe emicabangweni kungaholela ekumangaleleni nasekuhlaselweni… bese kuthi kamuva, ukuzisola ngalokho okushiwoyo noma okwenziwe.
Futhi-ke sekwephuze kakhulu ukubuyisa noma yini.
'Yingakho bebizwa ngezifundo,' kusho uGryphon: 'ngoba ziyancipha usuku nosuku.'
Sivame ukufunda okuningi okwamanje, kepha lawo ma-epiphanies ayaphela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Lokhu yikho okwenza abantu abanomkhuba wokomoya bavame ukuphinde bavakashele izimfundiso, izizindlo, njll. Njalo: ngaphandle kokuthi sizikhumbuze izifundo esizifundile , zingaphela noma zithathelwe indawo ukuhlaselwa kolwazi esihlale sibhekene nakho.
“Bamba ulimi lwakho!’ Kusho iNdlovukazi, iphenduke yaba nsomi. ‘Ngeke!’ Kusho u-Alice. ”
Noma u-Alice wayesengcupheni yokunqunywa ikhanda yiNdlovukazi Yezinhliziyo eyayizimisele ngokweqile futhi ibambelele kakhulu, wayesazimela. Bangaki kithi abathula ezimeni lapho siphathwa kabi ngoba asifuni ukuphazamisa ukuthula, noma ukucasula labo abasizungezile? Yebo, khohlwa lokho.
yisiphi isikhathi esifanele sokusho ukuthi ngiyakuthanda ebudlelwaneni
Unamandla, futhi unolaka, futhi ufanele ukuhlonishwa, ngakho-ke uma uzithola usesimweni lapho uphathwa kabi khona, khumbula izwi lakho, bese ukhuluma. KUKHULU, uma kunesidingo, ukuze uzwakale.
'U-Alice wayeseqale ukucabanga ukuthi zimbalwa kakhulu izinto ezazingenakwenzeka ngempela.'
Ukufeza umgomo noma iphupho lempilo kungabonakala kunzima ekuqaleni, kodwa kuncane impela okuncane okungafinyelelwa ngokuzinikela nokusebenza kanzima. Impela, kungadingeka ukuthi unqobe izithiyo, futhi kungathatha umzamo omkhulu kakhulu kwesinye isikhathi, kodwa ngokuzinikela nangokuzimisela, uzomangala ngalokho ongakufeza.
Uma kwenzeka uzwa sengathi iphupho olilandelayo lingaphezu kwamandla akho, thatha imizuzu embalwa wenze ukusesha okuthile iwebhu ngabantu abanqobe izithiyo ezinkulu ukufeza izinhloso zabo. Uma usemncane Umuntu okhubazekile angathola iziqu zomthetho , futhi owesifazane ongaboni angadlula abagijimi abaningi abanamandla kuma-Olimpiki , cabanga ukuthi yini ongayizuza uma ubeka inhliziyo nomphefumulo wakho ekufezeni amaphupho akho.
