Mhlawumbe unaye umngane ongasebenza kancane ubambekile ngezinye izikhathi. Mhlawumbe bahlala bekhuluma ngendlu yabo enhle, imoto entsha, noma ukuthenga kwamuva nje.
Zingakwenza uzizwe uphansi, noma zenze sengathi zingaphezu kwawo wonke umuntu.
Uma ungenasiqiniseko sokuthi lokhu kuqhamukaphi, kungenzeka ukuthi umngani wakho uyisidlakela.
Nazi izici ze-12 ze-snobs ukuze ukwazi ukubona ukuthi ubhekene nani.
Sithole nezeluleko ezinhle zokubhekana ne-snob ukuze ukwazi ukudlula kulesi sigaba esingajwayelekile ebunganeni bakho.
Izici eziyi-12 ze-Snob
1. Bacabanga ukuthi bangcono kunawe.
Ngokwencazelo, ama-snobs acabanga ukuthi angaphezulu kwawo wonke umuntu ukuthi angcono kakhulu laphaya. Bacabanga ukuthi banokunambitheka okuhle kakhulu, isitayela esihle kakhulu, indlela yokuphila engcono kakhulu.
Ngenkathi ukuzethemba nokuziqhenya kukuhle, lokhu kusithatha kakhulu.
Ungahle uqaphele ukuthi benza sengathi bangaphezulu noma bathola izindlela zokuziphakamisa futhi babonakale bengcono kunalokho abayikho ngempela.
Ama-Snobs nawo kungenzeka abe nelungelo - bacabanga ukuthi bafanelwe okungcono kakhulu, futhi bafuna wonke umuntu akwazi.
2. Banamahloni ngezinketho zakho.
Ungahle uqaphele ukuthi isigaxa empilweni yakho sikhuluma kabi ngezinqumo zakho.
Bangakubiza ngokuthi ‘okuyisisekelo’ ngokuya kwa-Starbucks ngoba bacabanga ukuthi indawo yekhofi ezimele abayitholile ingcono kakhulu.
Kungenzeka babe nobudlova ngokuthi ukhetha ukugqoka kanjani, uhlanganyela nobani, uthandana nobani - ngokuyisisekelo, noma yini abangabeka amazwana kuyo, bazoyenza.
3. Baqhosha ngokukhetha kwabo.
Ngokufanayo nokubeka phansi izinqumo zakho, ama-snobs akhuluma kakhulu ngokuthi makhulu kangakanani bona kukhona.
Bangase bahambe beziqhayisa ngokuthi ukunambitheka kwabo kukhulu kangakanani, noma ukuthi indawo yokudlela abayitholile imangalisa kangakanani.
kusho ukuthini ukubekelwa
Yize kukuhle ukwabelana izinto uyathanda, ama-snobs aphuma endleleni yawo ukufakazela lokho bona bangaphezu kwawo wonke umuntu.
4. Azikho phezulu noma mbumbulu.
Ama-Snobs ajwayele ukugxila ekubukekeni, ngakho-ke angalengiswa kakhulu ngokuba nelebuli 'efanele' ezingutsheni zabo.
Bangase bahlangane nenkohliso enkulu ngoba bazama kanzima ukulingana isikhunta sokuphelela abazenzele sona.
Bahlale befuna ukubonwa njengomuntu ongcono kakhulu onempilo engcono, ngakho-ke bangaphezulu futhi benza kahle ngaso sonke isikhathi.
5. Basakaza izimpilo zabo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
Ama-Snobs azimisele ngokusakaza lokho akwenzayo. Yini iphuzu lokuba isimanga uma ungenamuntu ozokufakaza, ngemuva kwakho konke?
Ama-Snobs angazibheka kakhulu, okusho ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi wonke umuntu obazungezile ukhathazekile ngabo futhi uyafa ukuthola okuningi ngabo.
Ngakho-ke, babhala izimpilo zabo ku-Instagram ukwenza abantu bazizwe bephansi kepha futhi bathakazekile…
6. Bayazifela ngamalebula.
Futhi, ukubukeka kuyikho konke kuma-snobs amaningi. Bafuna wazi ukuthi ingubo yabo ibibiza kakhulu, nokuthi ikhaya labo lihlotshiswe ngempahla ebiza kakhulu evela ezitolo ezipholile kunazo zonke edolobheni, nokuthi imoto yabo uhlobo olufanele lwemoto.
Bafuna ukulingana nohlobo oluthile lobuhle, futhi bafuna ukubonwa njengabacebile nabaphumelelayo - yingakho ukukhombisa amalebula athile nezimpahla zabaklami kubaluleke kakhulu kuma-snobs.
7. Bakhuluma ngemali kakhulu.
Isisekelo sokuba yi-snob singcono kunabanye abantu - futhi imali ingasiza impela ngalokho.
Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi badinga ukuziqhayisa ngokuphumelela nokuba nemali eningi, njengoba becabanga ukuthi kubenza bathande kakhulu futhi babe nentshisekelo.
Ama-Snobs ajwayele ukucabanga ukuthi abantu bazobathanda kakhulu uma bekhombisa ukuthi banambitheka kakhulu futhi bahlala begijimela ekwenzeni izinto ezijabulisayo, ezibizayo.
8. Bacabanga ukuthi babaluleke ngaphezu kwabo.
Abantu abaningi abanamahloni bakholelwa ngokweqiniso ukuthi bangcono kunabanye abantu abaningi.
Bazibona besezingeni eliphansi futhi bacabanga ukuthi 'okujwayelekile' okuzungezile bakhathazekile ngabo bazizwa njengosaziwayo, cishe.
Ngakho-ke, bacabanga ukuthi konke abakwenzayo kuyathakazelisa.
kungani ngibhorekile ngaso sonke isikhathi
9. Abanabo ubungane kakhulu.
Ngokudabukisayo, abantu abaningi abayizigaxa banezici zokungafinyeleleki ngempela.
Yize bengaba abangane abathandekayo, abathembekile ngaphansi kwakho konke, bazakhele olungaphambili lwesonto kangangokuthi babonakala nje bengamanga mbumbulu futhi bengenabo ubungani.
Ungahle ungazizwa ukhululekile ukuxoxa nomuntu oshayayo ngoba ukhathazeka ngokuthi ukubukela phansi.
Kukhishwe ngempela futhi kuyisizathu sokuthi ama-snobs amaningi awavami ukuba nobungane obuningi beqiniso.
Esikhundleni salokho, zizungeza ezinye izingcungcu ezingabheka bonke abanye abantu phansi ndawonye, ziphephile ngokwazi ukuthi ziyingxenye ‘yezicukuthwane.’
10. Bayizidina.
Wonke umuntu ufuna ukuthandwa futhi abonwe njengothokozisayo futhi okhangayo, kepha ama-snobs angakusa kude kakhulu.
Bazicabangela bona ngokwabo futhi babe yizidlamlilo, bangene empilweni yomphefumulo abazidalele yona.
Ama-Snobs acabanga ukuthi angabo bonke abanye abantu akhuluma ngabo, ngoba bonke bona Cabanga ngayo.
Ngokuvamile bangakhathazeka ngokweqile ngendlela ababukeka ngayo nokuthi bahlangana kanjani, futhi babanjwe yibo uqobo.
Lokhu kungasho ukuthi baba kude kakhulu ebunganeni, ngoba bamatasa kakhulu bazikhathaza ngabo noma basebenzisa isikhathi sabo bezincoma futhi benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuthi bahlale bezizwa bengcono kunabo bonke abanye abantu.
11. Bazama ukuphoqelela amazinga abo.
Ama-Snobs angazama ukusabalalisa izindinganiso zawo ngaphakathi kwamaqembu abo obungani.
Ungahle uqaphele ukuthi ubusuku obubodwa manje buyazungeza kubo bezama ukukukholisa nonke ukuthi niye endaweni yokudlela ebizayo, ebizayo esikhundleni sendawo yokuzijabulisa ejwayelekile eniyithandayo nonke.
Mhlawumbe bazama ukukuphoqa ukuthi udle nabo ezindaweni zokudlela eziphakeme ezisophahleni nabo lapho ukwazi ukuthenga into eshibhile kuphela.
Bangazama ukukufaka ingcindezi yokuthi uphile ngezindinganiso abazibambele zona, ezingabucindezela ngempela ubungane.
12. Bakubeka phansi.
Njengasesimweni esingenhla, umngani wakho oshayayo angazama ukukuphoqa ukuba uhlanganyele nabo ‘ i indawo ezobonwa, ’ngenxa yokuthi bafuna ukubonwa… ukubonwa lapho!
Lokhu kungadlulela kwelinye igxathu futhi kuholele ekutheni bagxeke ukunambitheka kwakho noma bakubeke phansi ngokufuna ukuya ezindaweni ezijwayelekile, noma ezishibhile, izinkantini noma amakhofi anobungani.
Mhlawumbe bakutshela ukuthi udabukile noma uhlulekile ngokufuna ukuya endaweni yokudlela engabizi kakhulu, noma bakubeke phansi ngokungafuni ukubonwa endaweni kanokusho edolobheni.
Ungabhekana Kanjani Ne-Snob
Ngakho-ke, usungule ukuthi umuntu omaziyo uyisinothi. Yini elandelayo?
Batshele ukuthi ukuziphatha kwabo kukwenza uzizwe kanjani.
Ama-snobs amaningi awakuqapheli ngokugcwele akwenzayo, ingasaphathwa eyokuthi kungenzeka ikwenze uzizwe kanjani.
Babambeka kakhulu ‘ekuphileni impilo yabo engcono’ kangangokuthi bacabanga ukuthi wonke umuntu wenza okufanayo.
Akukho okuzoshintsha ngaphandle kokuthi baqonde ukuthi ukuziphatha kwabo kukuthinta kanjani. Ngendlela epholile, bazise ukuthi kuyakucasula uma bekubeka phansi noma benza sengathi bangcono kunawe.
Batshele ukuthi uyaqonda ukuthi unokuthanda okuhlukile kwezinye izinto, kepha ukuthi usafuna ukuzihlalela futhi uqhubeke nokwenza izinto enizithandayo nobabili.
isoka lami linokuzethemba okuphansi
Gwema ukubahlasela noma uzithele ngabandayo, kodwa ubatshele ukuthi ubazisa kakhulu ubungane bakho nabo futhi ufuna ukuthembeka ukuze niqhubekele phambili - ndawonye.
Lawula ukuziphatha kwabo ngokukhawulela izingxoxo.
Uma wazi ukuthi izihloko ezithile zizodala isimilo esithile - zigweme!
Mhlawumbe uyazi ukuthi umngane wakho unemibono eqonde kakhulu ekhofi yobuciko noma kuma-bakery artisanal. Esikhundleni sokupheka ibhere ngokukhuluma nge-Starbucks, vele ugweme lesi sihloko sonke.
Kuyacasula ukuthi udinga ukuziqapha noma ukuzihlola uzungeze umngani wakho, kepha kufanele kukhokhele ekuhambeni kwesikhathi lapho bephuma kulesi sigaba esimangazayo futhi ubungani bakho bungabuyela kokujwayelekile!
Qinisa ngokuziphatha okuhle.
Esikhundleni sokugxeka umuntu oshayayo lapho enza izinto ngendlela engathandeki, yiba nesimo sengqondo esihle lapho bekhombisa isimo sengqondo sokuguquguquka.
Uma bezonda izindawo zokudlela kodwa beza kokunye nawe kanye, bazise ukuthi kusho ukuthini kuwe. Batshele ukuthi uyabazisa ukuthi benza ukuvumelana ukuze bavumelane nebhajethi yakho, nokuthi uyathanda ukuthi benze umzamo, yize wazi ukuthi kuphambene nezintandokazi zabo.
Lokhu kuzobenza bazizwe bengabangane abahle futhi kuzobenza babe sethubeni lokuphola nawe futhi kanjena kunokuthi uma ukhomba abakwenzayo ‘okungalungile’ njalo!
Zama ukukudlula ungakunaki.
Yixoshe - akulula kodwa ungazama ukuchitha isikhathi esithile wenza sengathi akwenzeki ngempela.
Ukwenqaba nokugwema akuwona amasu amahle okubhekana nesikhathi eside, kepha kufanelekile ukuthi unikeze ithuba uma lokhu kutotosa kungukuthuthuka okusha.
Umngani wakho kungenzeka ukuthi unenkinga futhi uzama ukuziqinisekisa ukuthi bakhulu futhi bayamangalisa ngoba banokudipha ngokuzethemba, futhi bakuplasta kuyo yonke imithombo yezokuxhumana ngoba badinga ukunakwa nokuqinisekiswa.
Ngokulinganayo, kungenzeka ukuthi bayalingisa ngoba bacindezelekile noma bezizwa bekhathazekile ngokuthile.
Zama ukukushaya indiva lokhu kuziphatha isikhashana bese ubona ukuthi kwenzekani - uma sebebonile ukuthi awuyikunakekeli ngokunakekela indlela abaziphethe ngayo, kungenzeka ukuthi bayeke ukukwenza futhi babuyele ekubeni ngumngane omkhulu omaziyo nothanda…
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