Uma uzithola njalo utshela umuntu ukuthi umthanda kangakanani, ungazizwa sengathi leli gama lilahlekelwa yincazelo yalo.
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Uma utshela umuntu ukuthi uyamthanda, ufuna ukuthi azi ukuthi usho ukuthini, kepha uma eqhubeka nokukuzwa, kungaqala ukuzizwa… ephoqelekile, engathembekile, ephindaphindayo.
Sithole ezinye izindlela ezithandekayo egameni elithi 'uthando' ukuze ukwazi ukuxuba izinto - noma ngabe kukhona nomlingani wakho, umngane, noma ilungu lomndeni.
Lawa magama asathola iphuzu lokuthi ukhathalela ngokujulile, kepha ungakusho nje ngezindlela ezintsha ukuze incazelo izwakale iyiqiniso njalo…
1. Ukuzinikela - Ngizinikele kuwe.
Lokhu kudlula nje ukuthanda omunye umuntu futhi kukhombisa ukuthi unikela ngakho konke onakho kulo muntu.
Iphakamisa umuzwa wesikhathi eside futhi ikhombisa ukuthi utshale imali ebudlelwaneni bakho, noma ngabe uzakwethu noma ilungu lomndeni - noma umngani.
Ukukhombisa ukuthi uzibophezele kangakanani ebudlelwaneni kubonisa izinga elijulile lothando nokunakekela lowo muntu.
Ukwazisa othile ukuthi uzinikele kuye kuzomsiza azizwe ephephile futhi evikelekile, futhi eziswa kakhulu empilweni yakho.
2. Ukunikezela - Ngizinikele ebunganeni bethu.
Ukusho ukuthi uzinikele kothile kukhombisa ukuthi ubabeka eqhulwini futhi ubenze into ebalulekile empilweni yakho.
Kusho ukuthi uzomcabangela lo muntu lapho uthatha izinqumo, nokuthi uyamamukela empilweni yakho futhi ushintsha izinto ukuvumela lokhu kuzibophezela kubo ukuthi kuqhubeke kuchuma.
Wonke amaqanda akho asemabhasikidini abo okokufanekisa!
3. Ukholo - nginokholo kuwe.
Ukutshela umuntu ukuthi uyakholelwa kubo kuyindlela enhle, enamandla futhi yokudlula lapho uthi ‘uyabathanda’.
Kukhombisa ukuthi ukholelwa ngokweqiniso kulokho abakwenzayo nokuthi uzibophezela odabeni lwabo, noma ngabe kuyini. Nikholelwa ngokweqiniso kulokho abazama ukukufeza, futhi nobabili ninentshisekelo futhi nitshale imali kukho.
Kubantu abaningi abangokomoya noma abakholwayo, lokhu futhi kunencazelo ejulile ngalowo mqondo - futhi, ukhombisa ukuthi uzibophezele ekukholweni kubo nasekunikeleni ngezinto ezithile zempilo yakho kubo nasezinkolelweni nasezenzweni zabo.
4. Ukuzibophezela - ngizinikele kuwe.
Uma ufuna enye indlela esikhundleni ‘sothando,’ leli igama elingaveza imizwa yakho ngomlingani othandana naye, umngane, noma ilungu lomndeni.
Kukhombisa ukuthi uyabacabangela empilweni yakho, nokuthi babaluleke ngempela kuwe.
Uyabazisa ukuthi ubabheka nsuku zonke nasezenzweni ozenzayo - ziyasiza ukuhlela izinqumo zakho futhi uzibona ziyinsika empilweni yakho ukwakha konke okunye okuzungezile.
Ukuzibophezela kothile kukhombisa nezinga lokuvikeleka - ucabanga isikhathi eside futhi uzimisele ngokuthi uzizwa kanjani.
5. Ngiyaziqhenya - ngiyaziqhenya ngawe.
Ukutshela umuntu ukuthi ukwenze waziqhenya ngesinye sezipho ezinhle kakhulu ongamnika zona.
Kukhombisa ukuthi utshale imali kulokho abakwenzayo nokuthi unaka abakuzuzayo.
Kuhle futhi ukwazisa umuntu ukuthi ujabulile ukumbona ephumelela futhi ufuna ukugubha lokhu kanye naye.
6. Yazisa - Ngiyasazisa isikhathi sami nawe.
Lokhu kunamandla kunegama elithi ‘uthando’ ngoba kukhombisa ukuthi usazisa kangakanani isikhathi sakho nabo.
Kubenza bazi ukuthi ukujabulela ngempela ukuba nabo futhi ubheke phambili ekubaboneni. Ukutshela umuntu ukuthi uyamazisa kuyindlela enhle yokubazisa ukuthi babaluleke kangakanani kuwe.
Kumnandi kakhulu ukuzwa umuntu esho lokhu kuwe, futhi kuzokwenza obathandayo bazizwe bebaluleke ngempela futhi bacatshangelwe ekukhetheni kwakho empilweni nakusasa.
7. Inhlonipho - Ngiyayihlonipha imibono yakho.
Ukwazisa othile ukuthi uyabahlonipha kukhombisa ukuthi unentshisekelo yangempela kulokho abakushoyo futhi uyayazisa indlela abacabanga nabazizwa ngayo.
Kubenza bazizwe bebonwa futhi bezwakala, futhi kuzobanikeza ukuzethemba kokuqhubeka ngokuthembeka kuwe.
Lokhu kusiza ukwakha ukuxhumana okuqinile, okujulile njengoba kunesikhala sokwenza amaphutha futhi sikhule, sazi ukuthi niyahloniphana.
Kubonisa nezinga lokuthembana - uyazihlonipha izinqumo zabo futhi uyethemba ukuthi benza okuhle!
8. Inkanuko - Ngiyakulangazelela.
Lokhu kungenye yabalingani bezothando! Ukutshela umlingani wakho ukuthi uzizwa unenkanuko ngabo kuzobenza bazizwe befunwa ngempela futhi be-sexy.
Kuyindlela enhle yokukhulisa ukuzethemba kwabo futhi ubakhumbuze ukuthi bangabantu bezocansi.
Kungasiza ekwakheni ukuxhumana okuqinile phakathi kwenu nobabili, futhi kudlulele ngale kwesifiso somzimba nje.
Zama ukutshela umlingani wakho ukuthi kungani ubakhanukela - ingabe kuyingubo yabo, ukuhleka kwabo, ukubenyezela emehlweni abo?
9. Thanda - Ngiyakuthanda.
Leli gama liyindlela enhle ehlukile kunothando ‘futhi icacisa ngokusobala ukuthi ukhathazekile (ngendlela enempilo!) Nalo muntu.
Kusho ukuthi ucabanga nje ukuthi konke ngabo kuyamangalisa futhi ubathanda ngempela, kunokuba ubathande nje.
Ukuthanda umuntu kufana nokuthatheka, kepha kuyajula kunalokho. Cishe ukugijimisa imizwa okunjengengane okukwenza uzizwe udidekile futhi ujabule - futhi iyiphi indlela engcono yokwazisa othile ukuthi uyamthanda kunalokho?
10. Igugu - Ngiyasazisa isikhathi nawe.
Ukutshela umuntu ukuthi uyamazisa noma isikhathi osichitha naye kuyinto enhle ongayisho.
Kubakhumbuza ukuthi ubathanda kakhulu kuwe, nokuthi ubona ukubaluleka okukhulu kubo nasenkampanini yabo.
Lokhu kudlula ukuthanda umuntu futhi kumqinisekisa impela ukuthi asho lukhulu kangakanani kuwe.
Igugu liyaziwa ngokusobala ukuthi libaluleke ngendlela emangalisayo, lenani eliphakeme futhi lifunwa kakhulu futhi alivamile. Yini engcono kunokukhulunywa ngendlela efanayo?
11. Ukusondelana - ngiyakuthanda ukusondelana kwethu ngokomzwelo.
Lokhu kungenye yozakwethu othandana naye, futhi kungasetshenziselwa ukuveza ukuthi uzizwa usondele kangakanani kubo.
Uthando kwesinye isikhathi lungabonakala lukhomba ekuthathekeni noma enkanukweni, kepha ukusondelana kujula kakhulu kunalokho.
Ukusondelana kumayelana neqiniso ebona nomunye futhi nokwabelana ngaphesheya ezingeni ebusweni. Ukuba nokusondelana ngokomzwelo nothile kukhombisa ukuxhumana kwangempela.
12. Thembela - ngikwethemba ngenhliziyo yami.
Ukwethenjwa akubukelwa phansi kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bazo zonke izinhlobo.
Abaningi bethu bazizwa sengathi ukuthembela ebudlelwaneni kumayelana nokwethemba umlingani wakho ukuthi angakukhohlisi. Kodwa-ke, kudlula lapho!
Ukuba nothile, ukuba sengozini futhi uthembeke ngendlela ozizwa ngayo, kumayelana nokwethembana.
Awumyeki umqaphi wakho noma ngubani, ngakho-ke ukutshela umuntu ukuthi uyamethemba kusho ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi kunokuxhumana okuqinile ngokwanele lapho ongazicwilisa kubo futhi ubenze babe yingxenye yomhlaba wakho.
Lowo kungaba ngumngani omethembayo ngemfihlo, umlingani omethembayo ngenhliziyo yakho kanye nokuba sengozini kwakho, noma ilungu lomndeni omethembayo futhi othululela kuye isifuba.
Kunoma ikuphi, ukutshela umuntu ukuthi uyamethemba ukuncoma okukhulu futhi kudlulela ngalé kokumthanda nje.
13. Ally - Ngiyilungu lakho empilweni.
Kungazwakala kushubile, kepha ukwenza isethembiso kothile kubatshela ukuthi uyabathanda futhi ufuna ukuzibophezela kubo.
Kubakhombisa ukuthi useceleni kwabo nokuthi uyakholelwa kubo. Ukuba ngumngane womuntu kumayelana nokubamela nokubasekela imibono, izinkolelo, nezenzo zabo.
Ukutshela othile ukuthi ungumngane wabo kubazisa ukuthi usohlangothini lwabo futhi unemhlane wabo - iyiphi indlela engcono yokuveza uthando oluqhubekayo, olungenamibandela?
14. Inani - ngiyayazisa inkampani yakho.
Ukutshela umuntu ukuthi uyamazisa noma inkampani yakhe kungenye indlela enhle yegama elithi uthando, futhi kunencazelo ejulile.
Kukhombisa ukuthi zibaluleke kangakanani kuwe, nokuthi ukujabulela kangakanani ukuba phakathi kwazo.
Umuntu obona ukubaluleka kuwe kungumuzwa omuhle, ojulile futhi ngokuqinisekile kuyinto esingancoma ukuthi sabelane nabathandekayo bakho.
15. Uyajabula - Uyangijabulisa.
Lokhu kuyintandokazi yomuntu siqu! Ukuzwa umuntu akutshele ukuthi uyamjabulisa kufanele kube umuzwa omuhle kakhulu emhlabeni.
Impela, sonke sizama ukuzijabulisa kunokuba sethembele komunye umuntu ukuthi akwenzele lokho, kodwa… kusengumqondo omuhle kangaka!
Ukutshela umuntu ukuthi akwenze umomotheke futhi uhleke, ukuthi kukwenza uzizwe ungathandeki futhi ujabulile, ukuthi kukwenza ufune ukudansa uzungeze uhlanya kuyinto enhle kakhulu ongayitshela umuntu!
Ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kudlula ukuthi 'Ngiyakuthanda' ngoba kukhombisa ukuthi banomthelela ongakanani emizweni yakho.
Mhlawumbe sonke sichaza 'uthando' ngokuhlukile, futhi sonke sike sabhekana nezinhlobo ezahlukene zothando nabalingani abahlukene nabangane.
Injabulo, nokho, umuzwa wenjabulo wendawo yonke - futhi leso yisipho esihle kunazo zonke ongasinikeza umuntu.
Ukutshela umuntu ukuthi bakwenza ujabule kuyindlela enhle ehlukile kunegama lothando, futhi kujula ngokwengeziwe ngokubatshela ukuthi bakwenza kanjani uzizwe ngendlela edlula amagama…
Ngakho-ke, amagama ayi-15 anamandla kunothando - lapho unawo. Inombolo 15 iyintandokazi yethu, yini eyakho? Zizame, ubone ukuthi yini ekusebenzelayo, futhi ungesabi ukutshela abantu obathandayo ukuthi uzizwa kanjani…
Ungahle uthande:
- Izindlela Ezinhle Zokuphendula 'Ngiyakuthanda' - Ongakusho Emuva
- Ngisiphi Isikhathi Esifanele Sokuthi 'Ngiyakuthanda' Ebudlelwaneni?
- Ungayibhala Kanjani Incwadi Ephelele Yothando Ukuze Ukhale Umlingani Wakho
- Ungamtshela kanjani umuntu omthandayo (futhi UNGABONI ubungane)
- Umehluko obalulekile phakathi kokuthanda umuntu nokuba sothandweni
