'Angilungile Nganoma Yini' - Kungani Lokhu Kungamanga AMAKHULU

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Angilungile kunoma yini…



Uma lokhu kuyinto obukade uzisho kuwe muva nje, yima.

Yimise njengamanje ngoba ingumthwalo wobucayi.



Ubuwazi ukuthi ngaphandle kwama-narcissists avuthayo kanye nama-sociopaths, cishe wonke umuntu laphaya uhlushwa imposter syndrome ?

Wonke umuntu oyedwa emhlabeni unenkinga ethile yokuzihlonipha noma enye.

… Kodwa bambalwa abazoke bavume.

andrew idayisi unkosikazi unkosikazi eleanor

Imithombo yezokuxhumana inokusetshenziswa okuningi, kepha futhi ingalimaza kabi labo abajabulela impumelelo ebonakalayo yabanye abantu.

Iningi labantu lehluleka ukubona ukuthi lokho okuthunyelwe okuphelele kwe-Instagram ne-Pinterest kanye nokuziqhenya kwe-Facebook kukhethwe kakhulu.

Kuwo wonke amakhekhe (ahlakaniphile) ahlotshiswe ngokuphelele abonisiwe, okungenani kunedazini ebukeka sengathi amaphuzu wezingelosi ahlanze isithwathwa kuwo wonke.

Isithombe sengane ejabule, ilele sathathwa ngesikhathi sekhefu lemizuzu emihlanu ngemuva kwesonto lokumemeza okungapheli nokungalali ebusuku.

Abantu abafuni nje ukuvuma ukwehluleka kwabo nobuthakathaka babo ngoba sonke sizama kakhulu igazi ukuze siphumelele kokuthile, noma yini, umzuzwana nje.

Konke esikwaziyo ngabanye abantu yilokho abakhetha ukwabelana ngakho.

… Futhi lokho akulona iqiniso lokuthi bangobani ngempela, ingabe manje?

Umuntu ocabanga ukuthi unekhono kunabo bonke owake wahlangana nabo kungenzeka ulwa nokugula okunzima noma izinkinga ezinkulu zezezimali.

Labo obathandayo baziqhathanisa nabanye futhi, futhi banokungabaza kwabo futhi imizwa yokungabi yilutho futhi…

Ngakho-ke uma ukwazi, ngicela uzame ukwehla kulelo sondo bese uqeda lowo mzungezo omubi.

Sonke Silungile ku- Okuthile

Uma uthatha isikhashana uhlale endaweni ethulile futhi uthule futhi uthembeke ngempela kuwe, ngaphandle kokungabaza, uzothola okuthile okuhle kakhulu okwazi kahle.

uyibeka kanjani imizwa yakho ngamazwi

Kungase kungabi yinto ongathatha isithombe sayo ukuze uthole 'ukuthandwa' kuphrofayela ethile yomphakathi noma kwenye - kungaba ithalenta elincane noma ikhono abanye abambalwa abangalazi.

… Kepha kuyinto wena kuphela bayakwazi ukwenza.

Ungakwazi ukubhaka i-quiche ephelele? Ngabe unekhono lokuthulisa izilwane ezikhuthaziwe lapho zesaba? Izitshalo ze-cocoa zikhule enhlabathini eyonakele Fletch imicibisholo?

Mhlawumbe unekhono lezilimi, noma uyakwazi ukuzwa imizwa yabanye abantu ngamandla ngokwanele ukuze ubakhombise uzwela lwangempela noma uzwelo.

Thembeka kuwe uqobo, bese uzama ukuphuma emzimbeni wakho ubone ukuthi abanye bangakubona kanjani umzuzwana.

Ungakholelwa Konke Okucabangayo

Izingqondo zethu zingaba yizitha zethu ezimbi kakhulu, ikakhulukazi lapho sidlula ezindaweni ezilukhuni.

Ukukhungatheka, izingqinamba zomuntu siqu noma zomsebenzi, nobunzima bobudlelwano konke kungasiphonsa phansi Imiklamo yokuzenyeza nokukhuza.

Kepha yilezi zikhathi lapho sidinga ukuba nesihawu kakhulu kithi.

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Iningi lethu linamathemba angenangqondo kithina ebesingasoze saphupha ukuba nawo kwabanye abantu, kodwa kulula kakhulu ukuba nozwelo nobumnene kwabathandekayo bethu kunokukhombisa ubumnene obufanayo nomusa kithina.

Uyazi ukuthi yini okuwusizo ngempela ngezikhathi ezifana nalezi?

Ukuphendukela kulabo abakuthandayo ukuze uthole ukuqiniswa okuhle.

Qala idokhumende elingenalutho bese unamathisela kulo zonke izinto ezinhle ezishiwo abangane bakho kuwe ukuze uphinde ufunde lezo zingcezu zobuhle nezikhuthazo noma nini lapho uzidinga.

Uma ukhululekile ukwenza njalo, ungahamba ibanga elide futhi uthembeke kakhulu kulabo osondelene nabo mayelana nokuthi uzizwa kanjani, futhi ubacele bakwazise ngento abayithandayo noma abayithandayo ngawe.

Akungabazeki ukuthi uzomangala kamnandi (uma kungenjalo ukhungathekile futhi uqhuqha, yize kunjalo ngendlela enhle) ngokuthi ucatshangelwa kangakanani emibuthanweni yakho yezenhlalo.

Ingxenye enhle kakhulu yokwenza okuthile okufana nalokhu ukuthi ungaphindisela.

Yazi ngaphandle kokungabaza ukuthi abanye abantu abakuzungezile bazizwa ngendlela efanayo naleyo owenza ngayo ukuze usho okuthile okunomusa noma okukhuthazayo kungasiza ukubakhipha enkingeni yabo.

Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):

Ukwenza Okuthandayo Kubaluleke Kakhulu Kunokupheleliswa

Uma ungakawazi umqondo we Wabi Sabi , kuhlole. Kungumqondo waseJapan osuselwe ebuhleni obukhona ngokungapheleli kanye nokungapheli.

Lokho esikuthandayo nesikwazisayo akudingeki ukuthi kube “okuphelele” ukuze kube kuhle, kube kuhle, futhi kubongwe.

Kungenzeka ukuthi uzibambele ezingeni eliphakeme elihlekisayo lokuphelela ngokwezinto othanda ukuzenza, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ulahlekelwe yinjabulo yokuzenza.

Zama ukugqashula kulokhu futhi ubonge ukwenziwa okwamanje, kunokuba umphumela wokugcina.

Uma uthanda ukudweba, noma ukupenda, noma ukuluka, noma ukubhala, akunandaba ukuthi ugcina ngomsebenzi wobuciko ongabeka iCaravaggio ehlazweni, noma inoveli enkulu kunazo zonke ezake zabhalwa.

… Okubalulekile ukuthi wenza into oyithandayo, futhi lokho kukwenza uzizwe ujabulile.

Uyazi ukuthi kwenzekani lapho uthela isikhathi nomzamo into oyithandayo ?

Uba ngcono kuwo.

Noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuzijwayeza luzokusiza ukuthi uthuthukise amakhono akho, futhi lokho kuzokuqinisa ukuzethemba kwakho endabeni.

umehluko phakathi kothando nezingcaphuno zothando

Uma ngabe ubukade unenkinga yokufunda ulimi, zama ukubukela ifilimu ngalolo limi - ungamangala kamnandi ukuthola ukuthi uyawaqonda amagama amaningi kunalokho okungenzeka uzinikeze isikweletu ngakho.

Ngabe uye wangena ekubazeni wenza i-wonky bird feeder ngaphandle kwe-angle eyodwa eqondile? Yilengise ngaphandle noma kunjalo, futhi ulungele ukumamatheka uze ufike engxenyeni yakho yangempela lapho zonke izinhlobo zabangane ezinezimpaphe zimi ngokudla okuthile, zigcwele ukwazisa ukuthi othile unakekele ngokwanele ukubanikeza imbewu.

Yiba Nengxoxo Ethembekile Nawe

Ungahle ufise ukuhlala phansi futhi uthembeke kakhulu ngalokho ozama ukukufeza, nokuthi kungani uzikhandla kangaka kuwe.

Ngabe uhlose ukufeza inhloso ethile ngesikhathi esibekiwe futhi uzizwe ukuthi uyasilela kulokho?

Uma kunjalo, kungaba umqondo omuhle ukuthi ubhekane namaqiniso ngokutholakala, futhi usakaze lowo mugqa wesikhathi ngokuningana.

Ngabe uzizwa muhle kakhulu ngakho konke?

Kungenzeka ukuthi ulwa nokudangala noma ukuntuleka kwamavithamini ukukhuluma nomhlinzeki wakho wezokunakekelwa kwempilo kungasiza ekuxazululeni isisombululo sokukukhipha kuleyo funk.

Enye into okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi awukakutholi lokho okuhle kakhulu okwamanje.

Uma ukhungathekile ngemizamo ehlukahlukene ocwiliswe kuyo, zama ukuhamba ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele bese uzama okuthile okusha ngokuphelele.

Zama isigaba sokupheka, ukudansa, ukudweba, ukwenza ingadi… noma ngabe yini okuphambene nalokho okuso.

izindawo ongaya kuzo uma unesizungu

Kwesinye isikhathi ukukhungatheka kokungagqwali esihlokweni kususelwa ennui.

Umama uTheresa ubenamagama ahlakaniphile angawasho ngobukhulu, futhi yize umongo ungahle wehluke kulokho esixoxa ngakho, umuzwa uzwakala uyiqiniso:

Akuthina sonke esingenza izinto ezinkulu. Kepha singenza izinto ezincane ngothando olukhulu.

Uma wenza lokho okuthandayo, futhi kuletha injabulo kuwe (futhi mhlawumbe nabanye), khona-ke kwanele.

WENELE.