Lapho uhlala ufuna into ehamba phambili elandelayo, awukwazi ukubonga onakho okuphambi kwakho.
Ezweni lapho noma yini oyifunayo ivame ukuchofoza kanye nje bese uzithola ushaywa izingcindezi zempilo yansuku zonke, uyeka ukubona zonke izikhathi zenjabulo ezitholakala kumzuzu ngamunye.
Ukuba nokwenza okuningi ngeke kukusize ekutholeni ukwaneliseka. Ngokuxhuma kabusha nawe, uzothola ukuthi usuvele unakho konke okudingayo okuzungezile ukuze ujabule… uma nje ufunde ukukuthokozela.
Funda ezinye izeluleko zokuthi ungakusebenzisa kanjani ngokugcwele lokho onakho njengamanje.
1. Qala iphephabhuku lokubonga.
Ukuzinika isikhathi sokubhala izinto phansi kukunikeza ithuba lokucubungula imicabango nemizwa yakho.
Ukuqala iphephabhuku lokubonga kuzokusiza wakhe umkhuba wokubeka eceleni isikhathi usuku ngalunye ukuze ucabange ngezinto ozibongayo.
Awudingi ukubhala okuningi, mhlawumbe imicabango emithathu kuphela. Kepha ukucabanga emuva ukuthola izikhathi ezinhle osukwini lwakho, noma ngabe awuzange uziqaphele ngaleso sikhathi, kuzokukhombisa ukuthi sihlala sizungezwe izinto okufanele sizibonge.
Ukubhala phansi imicabango yakho kusho ukuthi ungazivakashela kabusha uma kwenzeka udinga ukukhuthazwa kwemizwa. Uzokwazi ukubona ukuthi, ngisho nasezinsukwini zakho ezimbi kakhulu, kunezinto ongathola ukuthi ungajabula ngazo.
Maduze uzozithola ungena osukwini ngalunye olusha ngesimo esikahle futhi esinokwazisa futhi uqale ngokubonakalayo ukubona okuningi okuzungezile ongakubonga ngakho.
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2. Volontiya.
Ukuzinikela ukusiza labo abadinga usizo kuzobuyisela izinto ngokushesha lapho uzizwa sengathi ulahlekelwe eyakho.
Ukubona ukuthi abantu bahlala kanjani benethemba lapho bebhekene nobunzima kuzokwenza ubone ukuthi ukwazisa kangakanani konke onakho.
Kungumuzwa othobisayo ukubona ukusebenza kanzima kwabasebenzi besisa kanye nokuzibophezela kwabo ekusizeni abanye ngenkathi bengaceli lutho. Uyabona ukuthi okubaluleke kakhulu empilweni akuzona izinto ezibonakalayo, kepha ukuxhumana kwabantu, ububele nokuxhaswa.
Akukona nje ukusiza labo abaswele noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuzithandela kungaba yithuba lokusebenzisa onakho ngendlela enhle yokubuyisa, noma ngabe ukunikela ngesikhathi sakho, amakhono akho, noma izinto onazo.
Izokwenza ukuthi ubone ukuthi uthatha malini futhi kukusize uphinde uhlole ukuthi yini oyidingayo empilweni ukuze ujabule.
3. Yeka ukuziqhathanisa nabanye.
Ukuziqhathanisa nomunye umuntu ngeke kwenze impilo yakho ibe ngcono. Eqinisweni, ngokuziqhathanisa nabanye abantu, ucabanga kuphela ngalokho ongenakho kunakho konke okwenzayo.
Unekhono lokwenza izinqumo futhi ulolonge ikusasa lakho libe yinoma yini oyifunayo uma ugxile kulokho kuphela.
Ukuziqhathanisa nabanye abantu kungukuchitha isikhathi namandla akho ayigugu. Yibonge imicabango yakho, imizwa yakho, namakhono akho, bese usebenzisa amandla akho ekuwanwebeni.
Akekho umuntu ophelele ngendlela abukeka ngayo, ngakho-ke zithokozele izipho zamakhono akho ahlukile futhi ubone ukuthi zingakuthatha zikubeke kude kangakanani empilweni yakho kunokuba ubambeke komunye umuntu.
4. Kusebenzise ngokugcwele lokho osunakho kakade.
Wake wadlula ekhabethe lakho bese uhlangabezana nento oyigqokile okhohlwe ngokuphelele ukuthi unayo?
Kwesinye isikhathi akudingeki ukuthi sihambe siyothenga okuthile okusha kumele nje sijwayelane nalokho esinakho vele.
Phinda ubheke incwadi endala eshalofini ongayifundi iminyaka, noma wenze umzamo wokugqoka izingubo ngemuva kwedilowa lakho. Bamba amabhola ebhola lezinyawo namathenisi kusuka egalaji noma ama-albhamu wezithombe wakudala kusuka eluphahleni.
Imvamisa, sinakho konke esikudingayo nokuningi ukuzijabulisa thina sikhohlwa ukuzisebenzisa ngokugcwele.
I-Upcycling kungenye indlela yokwenza okuthile okuzizwa kukusha ezintweni osunayo.
Noma ngabe kuyizingubo noma okuthile kwendlu, uzokwazisa ucezu lokugcina kakhulu ngokwengeziwe ngokuthola ukwaneliseka kokuzenzela ngokwakho kunokuluthenga.
Awudingi okwengeziwe ukujabula, udinga nje ukubona amandla akho konke okuphambi kwakho.
5. Cabanga impilo ingekho.
Asikaze siyazise ngokugcwele into ize ihambe. Awusoze wacabanga nge-boiler noma nge-switch switch kuze kubande amanzi noma kuphele ugesi.
Uma uzizwa unganeliseki, zama ukubheka into oyithatha kalula futhi ucabange impilo ngaphandle kwayo.
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Zihlole kanye ngesinye isikhathi ngokuhamba ngaphandle kokuthile okuyingxenye yansuku zonke yakho futhi kungekudala uzobona ukuthi zingaki izinto esingazithandi njengoba kufanele.
Izokukhombisa ukuthi yini oyikhumbula kakhulu nokuthi yini ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Uzoqaphela ukuthi ubonga kangakanani ngezinto ezincane empilweni ezenza usuku ngalunye lube lula futhi lukhanye.
6. Chitha isikhathi esincane ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
Ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kungaba yindlela esheshayo yokwenza uzizwe unganelisekile ngalokho onakho.
Lapho konke okuthunyelwe kungumuntu ozijabulisayo, eholidini, noma ocela okuthile okubizayo, kugqamisa kuphela konke ongakwenzi noma ongenakho.
Imithombo yezokuxhumana akuyona impilo yangempela. Asigcini ngokubhekisisa ukuhlela nokuhlunga okwenza lokhu okuthunyelwe kubukeke kangcono izikhathi eziyikhulu kunalokho okuyikho empeleni.
Okuthunyelwe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kuyisifinyezo ngesikhathi. Okwesibili kuthathe ukuthumela, yonke into ingahle ibonakale iphelele, kepha asazi nakancane ngeqiniso lesimo.
Imithombo yezokuxhumana ithwebula kuphela lokho umuntu afuna ukukubona futhi awazi ukuthi singakanani lesi ‘sithombe esiphelele’ esihlelwe ngempela.
Le ngcindezi yokwenza isithombe esifanele ingakuvimba ekuhlangabezaneni nempilo yokuthi iyini. Ukungena ekukhathazekeni ngokuthola i-engeli noma isihlungi esifanele nokuqhamuka namagama-ncazo amahle kungakuyeka ukuthi ubonge umuzwa wangempela ophambi kwakho njengoba uphila impilo ngokusebenzisa isikrini sakho sefoni.
Imithombo yezokuxhumana ikukhuthaza ukuthi unakekele ukuthi wonke umuntu ucabangani nokuthi wahlulele abanye. Uzothola impilo yanelisa kakhulu uma uyamukela ngokunaka kwakho okuphelele futhi ubonga umzuzu ngamunye ngesikhathi sangempela.
7. Khetha ukuqinisekiswa okuhle kwansuku zonke.
Imizwa yethu yokuqala ekuseni inomthelela omkhulu endleleni esizizwa ngayo usuku lonke. Asikwazi ukulawula njalo ukuthi sivuka kanjani, kepha singangenisa amasu okusibeka esimweni esihle somqondo esiya phambili.
Ukukhetha iziqinisekiso zansuku zonke ongazisho kuwe ngokushesha lapho uvuka kungaba yindlela elula kepha ephumelelayo yokwengeza ukuzethemba kwakho futhi uqale usuku lwakho ngesimo sokwamukela nokubonga.
Zingaba ngumuntu siqu kuwe, kodwa zama ukuzikhethela imantra oyiphindaphindayo lapho uvuka ezokusiza ukugxilisa ingqondo yakho kulokho okubalulekile.
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Noma yini okhetha ukuyisho, qiniseka ukuthi kuyinto ethile ezwakalayo futhi ekugcwalise ngomuzwa wenjabulo nokuthula ongakuphatha osukwini.
Ukuqala kahle usuku kuzokusiza ukuthi uqhubeke nemisebenzi yakho ngomqondo wokubonga futhi ube nokwazisa kakhulu nganoma yini osinikezwa usuku lwakho.
8. Zijwayeze ukuzinakekela.
Kwenze kube yinto ejwayelekile ukuzelapha ngenye indlela elula.
Yenza itiye enkomishini oyikhonzile, funda incwadi, uzivocavoca umzimba, uzibandakanye nomshini - noma yini oyithandayo, yenze ibe yingxenye yenjwayelo yakho.
Lapho ulwela ukuhambisana nejubane lempilo ematasa, kulula ukukhohlwa ukuthi usazisa kangakanani ucezu lwesikhathi sami lapho ungadingi ukukhathazeka noma ucabange nganoma yini enye.
Akubona ubugovu ukuchitha isikhathi ngokwakho, kubalulekile ukukusiza ubeke izinto ngendlela efanele uma uzizwa ulahlekile kulindelo lwempilo yansuku zonke.
Kwenze umkhuba ukuzibonisa uthando oluthile. Yazisa ingqondo yakho nomzimba wakho nenjabulo okuyoyikhona ngokuphila.
9. Hlala ubekhona ngokomqondo.
Lapho uhlala ucabanga ngokulandelayo, ulahlekelwa yikho konke okwenzekayo okwamanje.
Ungahle ukhathazeke ngekusasa esikhundleni sokujabulela ukudla okumnandi okuphekwe ngumlingani wakho. Ungajabula kakhulu ngeholide elizayo futhi awuboni ukuthi lusuku oluhle kanjani ngaphandle.
Awuphuthelwa injabulo kuphela ezikhathini onazo phambi kwakho uma uxakeke kakhulu ngezinye izinto, ugcina ngokufisela impilo yakho kude ngokugxila kuphela kokungaphambili.
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Ukuzihlola ukuze ubone ukuthi ukhona ngokwengqondo yini kuyindlela enhle yokuxhumana futhi nesikhathi futhi uzikhumbuze ukuthi ukwazisa kakhulu konke onakho njengamanje.
10. Tshela umuntu ukuthi uyamthanda.
Ukuthatha isikhashana ukufinyelela kumngani noma umndeni kungaba yinto ethobekile futhi edingekayo.
Chitha isikhathi ucabanga ngempela ukuthi lowo muntu usho ukuthini kuwe futhi uzobona ukuthi ubonga kangakanani ukuthi unabo nokuthi impilo ibingaba yize kanjani ukube bebengekho.
Thatha ithuba ukubuyisa olunye uthando nenjabulo abakulethele yona ngokubatshela ukuthi babaluleke kangakanani kuwe.
Ukwabelana ngothando nalabo obakhathalelayo kuyisipho esikhulu kunazo zonke esingasinikeza. Ukungena nje kothile ukuze ubone ukuthi unjani kungenza umehluko omkhulu osukwini lwabo.
Labo esibathandayo sibathatha kalula ngoba bahlala bekhona, kepha laba ngabantu okufanele sibabonge kakhulu. Ubungeke ube yilokho oyikho ngaphandle kwabo.
Kukhona injabulo enkulu etholakala nxazonke zethu uma nje sithatha isikhathi sokuyibona.
Akudingeki ukuthi sithenge okuningi noma sifeze okuningi ukuze sijabule, hhayi uma sibona ukuthi sesivele sinakho konke esikudingayo ukuze saneliseke.
Lapho uqala ukuvula amehlo akho futhi ubonge umhlaba okuzungezile, awusoze waphelelwa izinto okufanele ubonge ngazo.
Ushintsho olulula esimweni sengqondo olungashintsha impilo yakho yonke.
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