Uzizwa sengathi ukhukhuleka olwandle olwesabekayo, olungajabulisi, oluyingqayizivele futhi awukwazi ukubona ugu lolwandle lwesiqhingi esiduduzayo, esanelisayo lapho i-raison d'être yakho (isizathu sakho sokuba khona) ikulindile.
Ungakhathazeki, awuwedwa. Eqinisweni, uyingxenye yeqembu elikhulu labantu kule planethi. Awazi ukuthi wenzeni ngempilo yakho futhi awazi nokuthi ungathola kanjani.
Into yokuqala okufanele uyiqonde ukuthi lokhu kungabantu abajwayelekile ngokuphelele abangazalwa bazi ukuthi indima yabo enkulu emphakathini izoba yini. Esikhundleni salokho, bazalwa benamathuba angapheli okuthola kuwo ubizo lwabo. Inkinga ukuthi ngenkathi ukukhetha kukhulu, ukukhetha kunzima kakhulu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, impilo ihlala igobhoza futhi ukukhetha okulungile kuyashintsha njengoba uhambo lwakho luyeqa. Akumangalisi ukuthi abaningi bethu bazithole benomuzwa ophikelelayo wokuthi kungahle kube nokuningi ngaphandle lapho uma singakufinyelela kuphela.
Uma ukhubekile kule ndatshana, kungenzeka ukuthi ungomunye walaba bantu. Unalokhu engqondweni, nazi izikhombisi-ndlela okufanele uzilandele okufanele zikuholele endleleni efanele ekugcineni uvule into (izinto) ofuna ukuyifeza empilweni.
Ikusasa Akuyona Eyethu Ukuyibona
'Ikusasa akuyona yethu ukubona' yizosha ezivela kwingoma edumile yeDoris Day futhi ziyiqiniso ngezinga elikhulu. Singase siqale ukucabanga ukuthi impilo isibekele ini futhi akufanele uwele ogibeni yokucabanga sidinga ukuhlela sonke isikhathi sokuphila kwethu.
Ngeke wazi ukuthi yini engase ibe khona ekhoneni lempilo yakho, isimo sakho somsebenzi, umndeni wakho, nomphakathi obanzi kungenzeka bonke babone ushintsho olukhulu futhi izinto eziningi azikwazi ukuhlelelwa.
izimpawu zokuthi umfana uyayifihla imizwa yakhe
Kodwa-ke, ungabheka phambili esikhathini esifushane bese uzama ukwenza izinto eziningi ezikulethela injabulo ngangokunokwenzeka. Noma ngabe lokhu kubandakanya umsebenzi wakho noma kumane kuyizinto ozithandayo, ngokujaha izikhathi ezinhle, okungenani singenza lolu hambo lube mnandi kakhulu.
Umkhiqizo ovela kule ndlela ukuthi unga thola amakhono afihlekile noma ufisa kuphela ngokufuna amathuba okuthola injabulo yangempela.
Futhi ngalezo zinto ongeke ukwazi ukuzibona kusengaphambili, ungazama kuphela ukuzigingqa ngezibhakela bese uzithatha njengoba ziza. Ukungaqiniseki akunakugwenywa futhi eminye imicimbi izoletha isiphithiphithi esikhulu enye indlela yokubhekana nakho ukuzama ukubuka konke okungalungile njengokulindela okuhle ukuthi kwenzeke - uma ukwenze kube munye.
Yamukela Ukungakhululeki Ukuze Uthole Injabulo
Indlela yokuphila ayivamisile ukuba bushelelezi, okusho ukuthi uzohlangabezana nezinselelo zokungakhululeki okukhulu. Noma ngabe lokho kungukuntuleka kwemali okukuvimbela ekwenzeni okuthile noma ukuzamazama komhlaba okungokomzwelo okuguqula umhlaba wakho ubheke phansi, kufanele wamukele ukuthi ukungqongqoza nokuqubuka akunakugwenywa ngokuphelele.
Njalo uma uhlangabezana nokungakhululeki okunje, uzofunda okwengeziwe ngawe nokuthi ziyini izifiso zakho ngekusasa. Uzothola ukuthi uyini futhi awuzimisele ukukhuthazelela futhi lokhu kuzokukhomba ukuthi ubheke ezindaweni ezifanele kakhulu ohambweni lwakho.
Isibonelo, ekuqaleni ungahle uthande ukuba ngummeli, kodwa uzithole usuneminyaka emi-3 ekuqeqeshweni kwakho neminyaka eminingi ngaphambi kwakho, cishe ungenamali, usebenza amasonto angama-70 futhi awuneme neze. Uke waba nesikhathi sokungakhululeki okukhulu, kepha ufunde ukuthi imikhawulo yakho ikuphi maqondana nokucindezela ingqondo nomzimba wakho ngenhloso yomsebenzi. Manje usungakwazi ukulungisa inkambo yakho futhi ufune amathuba ahlukile alingana kangcono nokubekezelelana kwakho ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba.
Khipha Iziphazamiso Ususe Ekuhlehliseni Izinto
Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuthi isikhathi asilindi muntu. Ungahle uthande ukuthola nokujaha iphupho, kepha ngeke ukwazi ukwenza njalo uma uqhubeka nokuhlehlisa okungenakugwemeka. Gcina izinto ozithandayo, isikhathi somndeni wakho nezinye izinto ozazisa ngempela, kodwa thatha sonke leso sikhathi esichithwe ngenye indlela wenze okuthile ngaso.
Ukwembula indlela yakho enhle empilweni akuyona ngaphandle komsebenzi wayo onzima nomzamo. Udinga ukusebenzisa ingqondo yakho ukuthi isebenze, uhlanganyele nomzimba wakho futhi usebenzise isikhathi onaso.
Izindlela zokucwaninga ezingaba khona zomsebenzi, khuluma nabantu abanolwazi emkhakheni, uze uvolontiye uma kungenzeka ukuthola umqondo wokuthi kukulungele yini noma cha. Awusoze watshela ngokuqinisekile ukuthi uzokujabulela kangakanani okuthile uze ungcolise izandla zakho ukukwenza isikhashana. Futhi ungakwenza lokho kuphela uma uyeka ukubeka izaba futhi uyeka ukuthola izindlela zokuchitha isikhathi sakho.
ungayenza kanjani intombi yakho ibe nothando ngokwengeziwe
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- Izizathu Ezi-5 Wonke Umuntu Okufanele Enze IBhodi Yokubuka
Buza imibuzo (Kokubili Okukhulu Nokuncane)
Awukwazi ukuthola ulwazi ngaphandle kokubuza imibuzo ethile, kepha uma ufuna inhloso yokushayela ukuqondisa ukunyakaza kwakho kwesikhathi esizayo empilweni, kuzodingeka ukuthi uzibuze hhayi abanye.
Kwesinye isikhathi uzothola imibuzo emikhulu ilusizo, njengokuthi uyini othanda kakhulu , lapho umi khona ezindabeni ezinkulu zokuziphatha, yini obungayibeka phambili uma imali nesikhathi bekungeyona into - leyo nto.
Ngezinye izikhathi, kungaba yimibuzo emincane ekusiza ukuthi uthuthukise inkomba yakho. Uyakuthanda ukusebenza endaweni yehhovisi? Ingabe ukhetha ukuhlala edolobheni, edolobheni, noma ezweni? Zingaki izinto zomphakathi ezanele wena? Ingabe isikhathi sokuphumula sibalulekile kuwe?
Lapho uhlola ngokwengeziwe le mibuzo neminye, usondela kakhudlwana ukuqonda ukuthi ungubani nokuthi ukubizwa kwakho okuhle kuyini empilweni (noma, okungenani, esigabeni sakho samanje sempilo).
Zimisele Ukwenza Imihlatshelo Ngesikhathi Esifushane
Njengamanje mhlawumbe uzizwe ulahlekile awazi ukuthi wenzeni ngempilo yakho futhi ufuna ukufinyelela endaweni oyenzayo. Kodwa-ke, phakathi kwalapho ukhona manje nalapho ufisa ukuba khona, kunendlela enzima yokuhamba.
Ukungakhululeki kuyinto esivele ishiwo, kepha okunye okungenzeka ukuthi ukujwayele ukuzidela.
Uyabona, sinesikhathi namandla amaningi esinakho futhi ngenkathi okwamanje ungathola izindlela zokusebenzisa zombili, uma ufuna ukuthatha lokho kweqa uye impilo yokwaneliseka okwengeziwe , cishe kuzofanele udele ezinye ze- izinto ozithatha njengamanje .
Mhlawumbe, ngemuva kokwenza ucwaningo lwakho nokuzibuza imibuzo efanele, unquma ukuthi ufuna ukuqala ibhizinisi. Kodwa awunayo imali edingekayo ukuze uyisuse phansi. Kungahle kudingeke ukuthi ufake amahora amaningi emsebenzini owenzayo njengamanje, ukonga kakhulu imali oyisebenzisayo, futhi uze uyeke nokunethezeka kwamanje njengezimoto ezikhanyayo namaholide angaphandle ukuze wenze iphupho lakho lifezeke.
Kufanele uzimisele ukudela phambili njengamanje ukuze uchume esikhathini esizayo, ngoba uma kungenjalo, uzolwela ukushintsha isimo sakho uhambe endleleni eya enjabulweni.
Knock Knock
Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele ubone amathuba eza ngokungqongqoza emnyango wakho futhi kufanele uzimisele ukuphendula ucingo lwabo. Khumbula, ukuzama okuthile kungenye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokuthola ukuthi ikulungele kangakanani, ngakho-ke lapho impilo ifuna ukukukhombisa indlela, ungayinaki - bambelela ngezandla zombili ubone ukuthi ikuthathaphi.
Ungahle ukhathazeke ngokuthi akusona isikhathi esifanele noma ithuba elifanele, kepha awusoze wazi ngaphandle kokuthi uthathe ukweqa uthole.
Ukuhlala ezandleni zakho ungenzi lutho kuyisinqumo, kepha yiyona ndlela ongazisola ngayo njengoba ukhula. Abantu abavamile ukuzisola ngokuzijabulisa kwabo, kepha bavame ukuzisola ngokungayi ndawo kwasekuqaleni.
Ngabe awunaso isiqiniseko sokwenza ngempilo yakho? Khuluma nomqeqeshi wempilo namuhla ongahamba nawe ngenqubo yokuthola. Mane uchofoze lapha ukuxhuma nenye.
