Ufuna ukuphumelela, akunjalo? Impela, umbono wakho wempumelelo ungabukeka wehlukile kumuntu olandelayo, kepha unephupho, umgomo, indawo ongathanda ukufika kuyo empilweni yakho.
Kepha impumelelo ayizi lula - okungenani yilokho esitshelwa khona. Ukuze uphumelele, kufanele uqale wenze izinto ezithile, ulandele indlela ethile, futhi ube ngumuntu omusha.
Kuthiwani uma lokho kungamanga? Kuthiwani uma impumelelo kungeyona eyokwenza izinto noma ukuzuza izinto, kodwa okuningi ngokunikela ngezinto esezikhona empilweni yakho? Kuthiwani uma impumelelo ingaveli ngokwengeza empilweni yakho, kodwa ngokususa kuyo?
Kuyaphikisana, akunjalo? Ungaphumelela kanjani ngokumane uyeke ukubambelela ezintweni zempilo osunayo? Njengoba sizoxoxa kule ndatshana, lapho unikela ngokuthile futhi ukuyeka, empeleni kwakha isikhala sokunye okusha. Kwakha isikhala lapho impumelelo imuncwa khona.
Ingabe usukulungele ukunikela ngendlela yakho empumelelweni? Asiqale…
eyodwa. Nikela Okulindele Kwakho
Esinye sezithiyo ezinkulu empumelelweni yakho wona kanye umbono onawo ekhanda lakho wokuthi kufanele ubukeke kanjani. Ukulindela kwakho empilweni kwenza kube nzima kuwe ukubona amathuba angahle adlule phambi kwamehlo akho. Uma ukuvulwa okunjalo kungalingani kahle necebo lakho eliqinile, kulahlekile. Lokhu kungaguquguquki kuyinto esizobuyela kuyo futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Esikhundleni salokho, lapho uyeka inkolelo engaguquki yokuthi iyini impumelelo nokuthi uzoyifinyelela kanjani, uyaqaphela ukuthi kungenzeka izindlela ezahlukahlukene. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uqhubeke ushintshe usuka entweni eyodwa uye kwenye - empeleni, lokho mhlawumbe akuwona umqondo omuhle - kepha kusho ukuthi kufanele ubone lapho enye indlela (futhi ethembisa ngokweqiniso) indlela eya empumelelweni iziveza khona.
2. Nikela Izinkolelo Zakho Ezilinganiselwe
Impumelelo, ngezinga elikhulu, izalwa engqondweni. Yebo, kudingeka ukusebenza kanzima nokuzikhandla, kepha umthombo walokhu kanye nezinye izithako zempumelelo ziqala lapho esikhaleni esiphakathi kwezindlebe zakho. Impumelelo ibuye ikhawulelwe ngendlela efanayo uma ungakholelwa emandleni akho okuphumelela, amathuba okuthi wenze njalo azokhula abe mabi kakhulu.
Isikhathi wena dedela lezi zinkolelo ezinomkhawulo yisikhathi lapho uvulela khona amathuba angempela okuphumelela kwakho. Ukuzikhulula emaketangeni entambo ozibekele yona, ongakwazi ukuya kuyo, kuyisihluthulelo sokufinyelela ezinhlwini eziphakeme ophupha ngazo.
3. Ukuzinikela Ku-80%
Cishe uke wezwa ngePareto Principle noma, ukuyinika igama layo elijwayeleke kakhulu, umthetho we-80/20. Kuyaziwa nangokuthi 'umthetho wabambalwa ababalulekile' futhi lokhu kukhomba enye into ebalulekile yempumelelo yakho yesikhathi esizayo.
KuPhoyinti # 1, sikhulume ngokungaguquguquki ukusuka kokunye uye kokunye sonke isikhathi sokungayeki indlela eyodwa ngoba nje kukhona okunye okubambe iso lakho (ngaphandle kokuthi uthatha isinqumo esizwakalayo kuso). Okufanayo kuya ohlelweni lwakho lwansuku zonke - kungcono ungagxili isikhathi sakho nomzamo wakho 'kwabambalwa ababalulekile' kunokuba uzame ukulinganisa yonke into. Umthetho ka-80/20 uphakamisa ukuthi kufanele usebenzise isikhathi sakho ku-20% wezinto izokulethela imiphumela engama-80%.
kusayina ukuthi abangani bakho abakuhloniphi
Uma unesikhathi sezinye izinto uma i-20% isinakekelwe, ngakho-ke ngazo zonke izindlela bamba, kepha qiniseka ukuthi wenze yonke imisebenzi ebalulekile kuqala.
4. Nikela Izaba Zakho
Ugibe abantu abaningi abangena kulo ohambweni lwabo ngempilo yilolo lokubeka izaba zokuthi kungani bengenzanga okuthile noma ukuthi kungani bekwenzile futhi akuzange kuvele njengokufisa kwabo.
Izaba izigaba zokuphuma zokuzama. Angamazwi angenamsebenzi amosha amazwi amosha achithwa anencazelo encane kakhulu. Uma ufuna ngempela ukwenza okuthile, uzokwenza. Uma ungakwenzi, ngeke. Izaba yindlela yokwenza sengathi ufuna ukwenza okuthile, kepha uvinjelwe ukwenza njalo ngemicimbi engaphandle kwamandla akho.
Yebo, ezinye izaba zivumelekile, njengoba uzame ukufika emakilasini kusihlwa ukuze ufunde ikhono elisha, kepha wahlushwa yimpilo ebucayi. Lokho kuyamukeleka - ukwenzile kubekwe eqhulwini umsebenzi obalulekile (ukuzinakekela) ngaphezu kokuzikhethela. Okungabekezeleleki kakhulu lapho uthi ufuna ukuthatha amakilasi, kepha awuthandi umqondo wohambo lwamabhasi lwemizuzu engama-30 lapho nokubuyela emuva. Kufanele uvume nje ukuthi awukhathali kangako kangako ngokuthatha amakilasi ofuna abantu bacabange ukuthi uyakwenza.
5. Nikela Isikhathi Sakho Esifushane
Sonke sinecala lokuvumela isilingo njalo futhi lokho akuyona into embi nakancane. Okuzoqeda amathemba akho okuphumelela kuyindlela yesikhashana yokucabanga ebeka phambili ukuthokozela kwakho kwamanje ngaphezu kwamandla akho esikhathi esizayo.
Uma ungayeka isidingo sokwanelisa ngokushesha bese ufunda ukukubambezela lapho izinzuzo zokwenza kanjalo zicacile, uzozibeka ethubeni lokuvuna izinzuzo. Noma ngabe lokhu kuza ngendlela yokonga imali, ukugwema imikhuba engenampilo, noma ukuthatha iziqu eziningi ngokuhehwa ngumsebenzi okhokhelwayo, umbono wesikhathi eside uzokunika ithuba elikhulu lokufeza amaphupho akho.
6.Nikela Ukungaguquguquki Kwakho
Phambilini sikhulume ngokuthi ukuba nokulindelwe okuthile kungangena kanjani empumelelweni. Ukungaguquguquki kwezinto akugcini kulokho okulindelwe, noma kunjalo, futhi kungakukhubekisa kwezinye izindawo eziningi zempilo yakho.
Mhlawumbe lokho okucabanga njengempumelelo kudinga ukuthi uthuthele kwelinye idolobha noma izwe elihlukile. Mhlawumbe kufanele ufunde ikhono elisha, wakhe ubudlelwane nabantu abathile, uthole ulwazi olusha. Noma ngabe kungathini, kufanele uhlale uvumelana nezinkinga obhekene nazo. Ungazami ukulingana isikhonkwane esiyisikwele emgodini oyindilinga - zimisele ukujwayela isimo sakho ukuze sivumelane nezidingo zethuba ngalinye.
7. Nikela Ngesidingo Sakho Ukujabulisa Abanye
Njengoba sishilo ekuqaleni kwalesi sihloko, umqondo wempumelelo uyehluka kumuntu nomuntu akuyona into ehleliwe umphakathi ovumelana ngayo. Umbono wakho oyingqayizivele wokuthi impumelelo isho ukuthini kuwe yisizathu esiqondile sokuthi kungani udinga ukuyeka isifiso sakho sokwenza abanye bajabule.
Uma ugcizelela kakhulu ukujabulisa abanye, nakanjani uzobhekana nengxabano yangaphakathi phakathi kokulungele wena nokuhle kakhulu kubo. Khumbula, ukuthandwa ngabantu abaningi akuyona njalo indlela engcono yokwenza amaphupho akho abe yiqiniso.
Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele ube nobugovu obuncane. Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele ubeke izidingo zakho phambili. Lokhu akuyona into embi kuwumqondo ovamile. Vele, ukuba nomusa nokuba nomusa yizimfanelo ezinhle ongafanele uzilahle ngokuphelele, kodwa khetha izikhathi zakho futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi indlela oziphatha ngayo nawe ibalulekile, futhi.
8. Nikela Ukwesaba Kwakho Ukwehluleka
Ukwehluleka akuyona into ephambene nempumelelo, kuyingxenye yempumelelo. Qonda futhi wamukele leli qiniso futhi ungakunqoba ukwesaba kwakho ukwehluleka. Uma ungakaze wehluleke, kusho ukuthi awusoze wazama. Futhi uma ungalokothi uzame, awusoze waphumelela.
Okwakho ukwesaba ukwehluleka inezimpande eziningi, enye yazo isifiso sokujabulisa abanye okukhulunywe ngabo ngenhla. Sicabanga ukuthi ukwehluleka kokunye kuzodumaza abanye abantu, ukuthi ngandlela thile bazosithanda kancane uma singezona izidalwa eziphelele. Akukho okungaba kude neqiniso, noma kunjalo. Abantu bathanda umuntu ozimisele ukubeka intamo yabo kulayini ukuze bajahe amaphupho abo.
Khumbula lokhu futhi ungazilwela ulwe ne-ego ingxenye yakho engakwazi ukuthwala ithemba lokuthotshiswa emphakathini, nengxenye yakho esebenza njenge-brake ukukubamba ekuzameni noma yini kwasekuqaleni.
9. Nikela Ngokuphelela Kwakho
Sisanda kukhuluma ngenkohliso yezidalwa eziphelele futhi lokhu kuya kwelinye igxathu ekufuneni kwakho ukuphumelela. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isifiso sokuthuthuka kuwe futhi ucije amakhono akho ingenye okufanele sithathe isinyathelo ngayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isidingo sokuphelela kuyo yonke imikhakha yempilo yakho sinamathuba amaningi okuthi sikubambezele.
Kubila kokubalulekile futhi okungekho lapho kuhlose ukupheleliswa kuwusizo, futhi lapho kuyisithiyo khona. Uma ufuna ukuba yi-ballerina esezingeni lomhlaba, ngakho-ke ukuzijwayeza zonke izinyathelo nokubamba kuwufanele umzamo. Kepha ukufuna ukuba nekhaya eligcinwe ngokungenasici, ama-imeyili abhalwe amagama aphelele, nokuqonda okungenaphutha kwazo zonke izihloko ezaziwa ngumuntu kuwukuchitha imithombo yakho yengqondo nengokwenyama. Kwesinye isikhathi, okuhle ngokwanele yikho konke esingakuthemba.
10. Nikela Ukuzithemba Kwakho
Okuthile okusondelene kakhulu nezinkolelo ezinomkhawulo esikhulume ngazo phambilini ukuzithemba iningi lethu elikuthwala ngaphakathi kwamakhanda ethu. Lokhu kungabaza akwenzi nje kuphela isisekelo saleyo mingcele yengqondo, kusivimbela ekusebenzeni ngokuqonda kwethu, ukushayela kwethu, kanye nesifiso sethu.
Ukungazithembi yibhola neketango ezungeze iqakala lethu, okusivimba ekuqhubekeni siye phambili nganoma yisiphi isivinini esikhulu. Susa lokhu ku-equation futhi ngokuzumayo uzothola umfutho okuqhubela ezintweni ezinkulu kunalokho owake wacabanga ukuthi kungenzeka.
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11. Nikela Ngokuntula Isineke
‘Ngikufuna konke, futhi sengikufuna manje!’ Iculo eliqhamuka kwenye yezingoma ezishisa izikhotha zeNdlovukazi, kodwa empeleni akuvamile ukuthi noma ubani ahlangabezane nempumelelo yobusuku obubodwa. Iningi lethu kufanele lifake emahoreni ukuzakhela impumelelo, futhi lokhu kungaba nzima uma unesineke ngokwemvelo.
Ukulinda lowo mzuzu lapho ungazithatha njengempumelelo kufana nokuba yingane ehleli esihlalweni esingemuva emotweni umemeza uthi ‘ingabe sisakhona namanje?’ Kaninginingi. Esikhundleni salokho, zama ukubona impumelelo yakho hhayi njengendawo yokuphela, kodwa njengohambo oluzojatshulelwa. Uma kusiza, setha imigomo eminingi emincane ukuze ube ngamaphoyinti wezindlela ukuze ube nokuthile okuzokubungaza njalo. Ngiyacela, Iba nesineke futhi khumbula ukuthi izinto ezinhle ziza kulabo abalindayo, futhi abazisebenzele kanzima.
12. Nikela Ngokulawula Kwakho
Umhlaba uqhubeka ujikeleza futhi umhlaba uqhubeka usebenza ngaphandle kokufaka okuvela kuwe - khumbula lokho. Kubalulekile ukwamukela iqiniso langempela ukuthi akuyona yonke into engaphansi kolawulo lwakho futhi nawe akufanele uzame ukukwenza kube njalo.
Ukulawula kaningi kuyinkohliso esikujabulelayo ukuhambisana nayo ngoba kuyasiduduza futhi kwehlise ukukhathazeka kwethu. Iqiniso ukuthi izinto ziyenzeka ezisizungezile nakithi esingenalo ithonya ngqo kuzo. Manje, ngezinga elithile, impumelelo yakho isezandleni zakho, kepha okuningi kuya ngokuthi usabela kanjani ezimweni ezikuzungezile - lawula, yebo, kodwa ngempendulo yakho kuqala. Khumbula ukuguquguquka esikhulume ngakho phambilini, nokuthi kukhokha kanjani ukulungisa inkambo yakho kuya ngokuthi umoya owuzungezile ushaya ngakuphi uhlangothi.
ungancoma kanjani umuntu ngokubukeka kwakhe
Uma usebhizinisini, ukunikela ngokulawula kwakho kusho nokuthi ukwazi ukudlulisela imisebenzi kwabanye abantu nokubethemba ukuthi bazokwenza izinto ezingeni ojabule ngalo. Lokhu kukuvumela ukuthi unikele isikhathi sakho ekucabangeni ngamasu amaningi.
13. Nikela Imikhuba Yakho Yokusebenza Ngokuzithandela
Ayikho impumelelo ekusebenzeni kweminwe yakho ethanjeni 24/7. Ngemuva kwakho konke, impumelelo ingako ngokwazi ukujabulela izithelo zomsebenzi wakho njengoba kumayelana nempumelelo ethile.
Ngakho-ke, yize kuzodingeka umsebenzi onzima, ungazenzeli ekukholweni ukuthi amahora amade asho impumelelo esheshayo. Okusemqoka wukuqinisekisa ukuthi uma usebenza, ukhiqiza kahle ngangokunokwenzeka (khumbula ukunikela ngama-80% ebesikhuluma ngawo phambilini). Kunomehluko omkhulu phakathi kokuba matasa nokuba nomkhiqizo futhi akufanele udidanise omunye nomunye.
Funda ukujabulela ngokugcwele isikhathi sakho sokuphumula ngokukhipha okuxhunywe kunoma yikuphi 'umsebenzi' okushoyo encazelweni yakho yempumelelo. Ingqondo yakho equlekile izohlala isebenza, ngakho-ke ungakhululeka ingqondo yakho futhi uhlangabezane nezikhathi empilweni ezitholakala kuphela emndenini, kubangani, emvelweni nasekuzilibaziseni. Imvamisa la makhefu emcabangweni ayilokho okudingayo ukukuvuselela futhi akuvumele ukuthi ucindezele kanzima lapho sekuyisikhathi somsebenzi futhi.
14. Nikela Ngeyakho Ukwesaba Okungaziwa
Imfuneko eyodwa ecishe ibe yimpumelelo emhlabeni wonke ukuzimisela ukungena ngekusasa elingaziwa futhi ulamukele. Okunye ongakwenza ukukugcina endaweni yakho yokududuza futhi ungalokothi ukhule ngaphezu kwayo. Yebo, kuyethusa ukuzikhandla lapho ungazange uzame khona phambilini, kodwa futhi kuyajabulisa futhi kuvula amehlo. Mane nje ngokudlulela ngale kwe-bubble yakho ejwayelekile, uzohlangana nezinto ezokuvivinya futhi zikuklomelise ngokulingana. Laba kungaba ngabantu, izindawo, amasiko, noma yiluphi uhlobo lwesipiliyoni ongajwayelene nalo.
Ukwesaba kungokwemvelo futhi ukwesaba kuhle kukugcina ezinzwaneni zakho futhi kukulungiselela okungalindelekile. Ukukhula okuya empumelelweni kuyohlale kukuholela ezindleleni ezintsha nezintsha, ngakho-ke yamukela ukwesaba kwakho, kodwa ungakuvumeli kukuvimbe ekuthatheni iqhubu uye kokungaziwa.
15. Ukunikela Kusasa
Lapho sihlehlisa kuze kube kusasa ukuthi yini esingayenza namuhla, siyenqaba ukwamukela ithuba elilethwa namuhla. Ngokweqiniso, kusasa yisikhathi sokucabanga ngoba singabakhona engqondweni yakho ngokushesha nje lapho kusasa kufika, akusekho kusasa nakancane.
Kuze kube manje, kufanele ubheke ukuthi yini ongayenza namuhla engaba nomthelela empumelelweni yakho yesikhathi esizayo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi akukho ukuhlehlisa izinto, akukho ubuvila, noma iziphazamiso. Sikhulume ngenhla ngokubaluleka kokukhiqiza ngesikhathi sakho lapho usebenzela izinhloso zakho, futhi ungavumeli imisebenzi ukuthi iwele unomphela yingakho kufanele ulahle imibono yakho yekusasa engasoze yafika. Kwenze manje.
16. Nikela Ngokuncipha Kwakho
Ngesinye isikhathi ohambweni lwakho oluya empumelelweni, ungahle ubheke emuva kulokho osukuzuzile kuze kube manje futhi ube nobuhle ngakho. Mhlawumbe ube nokuwina okuthile obekuzwakala kukuhle futhi uzenzela wena uqobo nangokwezimali. Ngalesi sikhathi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kunengozi enkulu empumelelweni yakho eqhubekayo kusuka esimweni sokunganaki.
Yebo, kungenzeka ukuthi usufinyelele izinga elithile lempumelelo ngokushesha kunokulindelekile, kepha azikho iziqinisekiso zokuthi lizohlala linje. Izwe liguquka njalo futhi amazinga ahlala enyuka, ngakho-ke noma yini osuyizuzile kuze kube manje, kufanele uqhubeke ucindezela imvilophu ngokwamandla akho okuthuthuka. Uma ungakwenzi, ungathola impumelelo yakho incipha kanye nokuyijabulela kwakho. Awukwazi ukudla njalo ngempumelelo ngaphandle kokugcina leyo mpumelelo iqhubeka.
17.Nikela Izinkulumo Ezincane Nokuhleba
Isikhathi sakho siyigugu - sesivele sikutholile lokho - ngakho-ke ukuthi ukhetha ukusisebenzisa kanjani kubaluleke kakhulu. Into eyodwa ongeke ubone abantu abaphumelelayo bekwenza kungxoxo ezincane noma inhlebo. Kungumsebenzi ongenalo inani elengeziwe maqondana nempilo yakho nendlela yakho eya empumelelweni.
Kodwa-ke, njengomphakathi, kubukeka sengathi sisendleleni ebheke ekuzithobeni okungatheni nasezingxoxweni zangaphakathi. Kufanele ukusike lokhu empilweni yakho ukuqala manje, ngaphambi kokuthi kukuchithe isikhathi, amandla, nokuvuselelwa kwengqondo. Khuluma ngezinto ezinkulu, imibuzo ejulile , izihloko ezinengqondo futhi eziqinisa ubudlelwano… nanoma yini ngaphandle kwenhlebo yokunyundela kanye nengxoxo ye-chit engenangqondo.
18. Nikela Abangane Bakho 'Ngezikhathi Ezithile'
Sonke sinabanye: abangane esingajwayele ukubabona ngokuzikhethela, kepha esizama ukugcina ubuhlobo nabo noma kunjalo. Bangabangane ‘bezikhathi ezithile’ esingasenabo ubuhlobo obuqinile (uma besake saba nabo) futhi nobungani babo ebesingabuphuthelwa kakhulu uma bengaphela.
Lezi ngezinye zezinhlobo zabangane kufanele ucabangele ukusika impilo yakho - ngisho nasezinkundleni zokuxhumana ukube ubungeke uzikhathalele ngalokho abakwenzayo. Amandla owasebenzisayo ukuzama ukunweba ubungani amandla angasetshenziswa kangcono kwezinye izinto ezingakushukumisela empumelelweni ophuphe ngayo. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngalolu hlobo lokugcinwa kwendlu yomuntu siqu futhi akufanele uzizwe kabi ngakho.
19. Ukunikela Ngokuziphatha Okunobuthi Nabantu
Bangu izinhlobo eziningi zokuziphatha okunobuthi futhi konke kuvimbela impumelelo yakho ngandlela thile. Noma ngabe lokhu kuziphatha kungaphakathi kuwe noma kwabanye abantu, udinga ukuzama ukuwaxosha empilweni yakho unomphela. Lokhu kuzodinga ukuzimisela ukubakhomba futhi kunganciphisa ubuhlobo nalowo muntu noma usebenze ngokuziqeda kubo, kuya ngomthombo.
uneminyaka emingaki i-trish stratus
Ukuziphatha okunjalo kubizwa ngokuthi kunobuthi ngesizathu esizwakalayo kushabalalisa okuhle bese kusabalalisa okungekuhle. Bazovimba inqubekelaphambili yakho ebheke empumelelweni futhi bakuvimbele nokuthi uyifinyelele.
20. Ukunikela Amagqubu Akho
Sesivele sixoxe ngezinto eziningi ezingakusiza ngamandla akho empilo engqondo nangokomzimba, futhi nansi eyokugcina ongayekela uma ufuna ukunambitha impumelelo empilweni yakho. Ukubambela umuntu igqubu akuyona indlela ephumelelayo yokubhekana nemizwa yakho yentukuthelo nokulimaza kubo. Uma uchitha noma yisiphi isikhathi ucabanga ngazo noma uzama ukwenza ukuziphindisela kwakho, isikhathi sichithekile.
Esikhundleni salokho, nje zithethelele ukuzwa ubuhlungu. Yazi ukuthi bekungukusabela okungokwemvelo, kepha manje usufuna ukuqhubeka nempilo yakho. Isika izintambo eziqanjiwe ezikuxhumanisa nale mizwa ebuhlungu futhi zisike umuntu obadalile empilweni yakho, noma ubathethelele bese uvula ikhasi elisha ebudlelwaneni bakho (kuya ngokuthi ubuxabisa kangakanani lobu budlelwano).
Impumelelo yinqubo - engasheshiswa noma yehliswe kuye ngemicabango nezenzo zakho. Zonke izinto okuxoxwe ngazo ngenhla zifana nezisindo ezithikameza intuthuko yakho, ngakho-ke ngokwengeziwe kokuzinikela kwakho, ngokushesha uzofinyelela iphuzu lapho impumelelo iphenduka iphupho ibe yinto engokoqobo.
