Impilo ayilula. Sonke sizalelwe kulo mhlaba sinamakhono namakhono angokwemvelo, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi ngeke sikwazi ukufunda nokufunda amanye amakhono amaningi empilo sisendleleni…
… Amakhono azoshelelisa indlela yethu.
… Amakhono angavula zonke izinhlobo zeminyango.
Ngeshwa, impumelelo ngeke izenzele phansi phambi kwethu ngenkathi sihleli kusofa.
Impumelelo ifika kulabo abayilwelayo. Iza kulabo abazibukayo, nezwe elibazungezile, bese babheka ukuthi bangakhula kanjani futhi bakhule ngokufanele ukuze bachume.
Impumelelo isho izinto ezehlukene kubantu abehlukene. Akuyona into elingana nosayizi ofanayo.
Kwabanye abantu, umbono wakudala wendlu enocingo olumhlophe lwamaphenathi, umlingani ophelele, kanye nokuxakaniseka kwezingane kungaba yincazelo yokugcina yempumelelo.
Abanye abantu bangazizwa sengathi bakwenzile ngempela uma bemi ehhovisi labo lengilazi ngaphezulu kwesakhiwo esikhulu, bebiza izibhamu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umbono wabanye abantu wempumelelo ungahle ugxile kwezikamoya.
Abanye bangazizwa sengathi bakwenzile lapho bengabaphathi babo, kanti abanye abantu kungenzeka ukuthi bahlasela ngezibhamu ukuze baphawule wonke amazwe emhlabeni ohlwini lwabo ngaphambi kokuba bafe.
Kepha noma ngabe iyiphi inhloso noma imigomo onayo engqondweni, noma noma ungaqiniseki ngempela ukuthi yini oyifunayo empilweni, kunamakhono athile umuntu angawathuthukisa azobasiza ukuthi bafike lapho.
Noma ngabe impilo inzima kanjani, kuhlala kukhona ongakwenza futhi uphumelele kukho. - UStephen Hawking
1. Ukugxila
Ukuntuleka kwamandla okugxila emsebenzini othile kungaba yisithiyo esikhulu empumelelweni.
Uma ungakwazi ukuzibandakanya kokuthize ngaphezu kwemizuzu embalwa ngesikhathi futhi ulwela ukuvimba iziphazamiso, cishe ngeke ukwazi ukuzuza noma yikuphi imigomo ozibekela yona , noma ngabe bangaba yini.
2. Ukuphathwa kwesikhathi
Ukukwazi ukusebenzisa isikhathi ngendlela efanelekile nokuthola okungcono kakhulu nsuku zonke kuzokwenza impumelelo ifinyeleleke kakhulu.
Kuzosho nokuthi ifika ngokushesha okukhulu kunangaphambili.
Ngenkathi ukuthintwa kokuhlehliswa kaninginingi kunokusetshenziswa kwayo - njengoba kungavumela ubuchopho bethu ukucubungula ulwazi - uma ukuhlehlisa izinto kuba yinto yethu ezenzakalelayo futhi singayisebenzisi kahle imizuzu eyigugu esiyinikiwe, izinsuku neminyaka kungashibilika ngaphandle kokuthi sifeze izinhloso zethu…
… Futhi kungekudala noma isikhathi sizophela.
3. Ukwenza izinqumo
Leli yikhono ezilwa nazo zonke izinhlobo zabantu. Abanye bethu bathola izinqumo ezinkulu, eziphathelene nemisebenzi noma ubudlelwano, okunzima kakhulu, futhi lokho kuyaqondakala ngokuphelele.
Abanye abantu bathola izinto ezinkulu zilula, kepha balwa nezinto ezincane njengokukhetha kwimenyu noma ukukhetha umbala wepende, bakholelwa ukuthi bazozisola ngesinqumo sabo.
Futhi abanye bethu abakwazi ukuphatha noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuthatha izinqumo nhlobo, bancamela ukugqiba amakhanda ethu esihlabathini futhi badedele abanye abantu bathathe izintambo.
Nomaphi lapho uwela khona ezingeni lokuthatha izinqumo, ukuziqeqesha ukuthi uzenzele izinqumo, ulalele inhliziyo yakho kanye nekhanda lakho, kungavula zonke izinhlobo zeminyango.
Ukwenza izinqumo ngenhliziyo ephelele futhi ungakhathazeki ngokuthi 'kuthiwani uma' kusho ukuthi ungaziphonsa ezintweni, enhliziyweni nasemphefumulweni, futhi wenze noma yini isinqumo sakho sisebenze.
4. Ukuthi Cha
Abanye abantu banalo leli khono ngokwemvelo, kepha iningi lethu, ikakhulukazi abesifazane emphakathini wethu wezinzalamizi, sinenkinga yokuthi cha lapho izinto ziceliwe kithi, noma sesivele selulelwe emandleni.
Uma sifuna ukuba nesikhathi sokukwazi ukudala impilo yamaphupho ethu, asikwazi ukuchitha amahora ethu ayigugu senza izinto esingafuni ngempela ukuzenza noma izinhliziyo zethu ezingekho ngempela kuzo.
Ukufunda ukuthi cha lapho kudingeka khona isinyathelo esikhulu sokuzikhulula futhi uzibeke endleleni eya empumelelweni.
5. Ukubekezela
Kukhona into enjengokubekezela ngokweqile, futhi sonke kudingeka sazi ukuthi lowo layini ulelephi, kodwa umthamo ophilile wokubekezela ubaluleke ngendlela emangalisayo kule mpilo.
Noma ngabe iyiphi indlela esihamba kuyo, sonke sizohlangabezana nezingqinamba, noma ngabe zisesimweni sabantu noma izimo.
Yize ukufuthelana nalezo zingqinamba nokushaywa kwale minyango kwesinye isikhathi kungaba yimpendulo, kaningi kunalokho, i-smidgen yokubekezela ingaxazulula zonke izinhlobo zezinkinga.
Izinto ezinhle ziyenzeka ngempela kulabo abalindayo.
6. Ukuhambisana
Ukubaluleka kokukwazi ukuveza imizwa yakho ngokusobala kuvame ukubekelwa phansi.
lapho umfana esaba imizwa yakhe ngawe
Ukukwazi ukudlulisa lokho esikufunayo noma esikudingayo kwabanye ngendlela ecacile, ngaphandle kokushaya ngamahlathi noma ukudala ukungezwani, kuyikhono sonke esingalisebenzela.
Yinto engasisiza ukuthi sakhe ubudlelwano obunempilo, kungaba obomuntu noma bomsebenzi, futhi siphumelele.
7. Ukuqonda
Akekho umuntu ophelele. Awusuye, futhi nabantu abaseduze kwakho abekho. Lokho kusho ukuthi, kungekudala noma nini, abantu bazokonakala.
Bona ngokwabo bangenza okuthile okungalungile, noma kungenzeka kungenxa yezimo ezingaphezu kwamandla abo, kodwa noma ngabe inkinga engakanani engakubangela yona, kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi sonke singabantu, futhi sonke siyawenza amaphutha.
Ukwazi ukukuqonda lokho, futhi uthethelele futhi ukhohlwe kunokuthukuthela futhi esola abanye ingasebenza izimangaliso kuzo zonke izingxenye zempilo yakho.
8. Ukuzethemba
Uma ungazethembi, kunzima ukulindela ukuthi abanye bakuthembe.
Ukuzethemba kubalulekile empumelelweni, ngoba impumelelo kunoma iluphi uhlobo noma ifomu ihlale ihilela ukuzibeka lapho ngandlela thile.
Uma ungazethembi, akunakwenzeka ukuthi ube nesibindi esanele sokunamathisela ikhanda lakho ngaphezu kompheme.
Ukubekezela, ukuphikelela nomjuluko kwenza inhlanganisela engehlulwa yimpumelelo. - INapoleon Hill
9. Ilukuluku / Isifiso Sokufunda
Isisho esithi 'ilukuluku labulala ikati' kusobala ukuthi sasungulwa ngumuntu owayefuna ukugcina abanye abantu beqinile emabhokisini abo.
Ngenkathi ilukuluku eliningi kakhulu lingakufaka ezimeni ezinamathelayo kaninginingi, isilinganiso salo sempilo sisho ukuthi uhlala ukulungele ukuqhubeka nokufunda.
Kukushayela ukuthi uthole okuningi ngomhlaba okuzungezile, ngabantu bakho, nangakho uqobo.
Noma ngabe uyini umbono wakho wempumelelo, impilo egculisayo isho ukuthi awulokothi ume ungalokothi uyeke ukunweba ingqondo yakho, uzibuze ukuthi yini elinde ekhoneni elilandelayo.
10. Ukuzimisela
Impumelelo ayenzeki ngobusuku obubodwa. Kuthatha isikhathi, futhi kuthatha ukuqina nokuzibophezela.
Uma uyeka ekuqaleni kwesithiyo noma lapho izinto zingenzeki ngokushesha okulindelekile, awusoze wafika lapho ufuna ukuya khona.
11. Ukuzimisela Ukuthatha Izingozi
Impilo iqala emaphethelweni endawo yakho yokududuza . Uma umbono wakho wempumelelo wehlukile kunendlela impilo yakho ebukeka ngayo manje, okuwukuphela kwendlela yokufika lapho ukuzibeka lapho futhi uzame inhlanhla yakho.
Azikho iziqinisekiso kulokhu kuphila, futhi uma unamathela emhlabathini ophephile, akunakwenzeka ukuthi uye ndawo ngokushesha.
12. Ukuncintisana
Lokhu kungenye futhi engathathwa iqedwe uma ungaqaphile. Uma ukushaya abanye kuba ukugxila kwakho okuyinhloko, kungenzeka ulahle umkhondo wezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Kodwa-ke, umugqa wokuncintisana okunobungane ulungele thina sonke. Kungaba ngumshayeli nomgqugquzeli omkhulu. Kuhle kakhulu uma ungangenela umncintiswano omncane ngesakho esidlule.
Ukwazi ukugijima amamitha ambalwa ukudlula lolo olwedlule, yiba nebhizinisi lakho elenza kangcono kangcono kunangonyaka owedlule, noma uzibeke lapho usesimweni senhlalo ngendlela obungeke ulokothe uyenze emcimbini wokugcina owawukuyo yonke imincintiswano oyidingayo ukuze uqhubeke ukhula njengomuntu.
13. Umuzwa Wamahlaya
Ukuhlekisa kubalulekile ukuze usinde kulo mhlaba, futhi kubaluleke kakhulu uma ufuna ukuphumelela.
Izinto azihambi kahle futhi abantu bayaxakaniseka, futhi kufanele ukwazi ukubheka uhlangothi lwezinto ezihlekisayo lapho zenzeka.
14. Intshiseko
Uma ungenakho ukukhanya emehlweni akho nomlilo omncane esiswini sakho futhi ujabule ngamaphrojekthi osebenza kuwo noma ngezinto ochitha isikhathi sakho kuzo, uzolwela ukuthola isisusa sokuthola noma kuphi.
Umdlandla wento yonke, kusuka kuphrojekthi entsha ngoMsombuluko ekuseni kuya ekuzijabuliseni ngempelasonto, kungakusunduza uqhubeke futhi kwenze umhlaba ubukeke ukhanya kabi kakhulu.
15. Ukuzethemba
Ngenkathi kunesikhathi nendawo yokuvumelana, sonke kufanele sazi ukuthi kufanele sizinikele nini futhi hhayi ukuwohloka.
Ukufika noma yikuphi kule mpilo, kufanele sikulungele ukucela futhi sitshele abanye abantu lokho esikufunayo.
16. Ukucatshangelwa
Yize kunabantu abaningi laphaya abakwenze kwaba kukhulu ngokunyathela abanye, bajabulela kuphela uhlobo oluthile lwempumelelo.
Noma ngubani omqondo wakhe wempumelelo awubandakanyi ukusika abanye abantu phansi ukuze kukhuphuke isitebhisi, ukucatshangelwa kwabantu abasizungezile kubalulekile.
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
- Izinto Ezi-7 Abantu Abaphumelelayo Abalokothi Bahlehle Phambili
- Imikhuba Emincane Abantu Abaphumelelayo Abangachithi Isikhathi Sabo Kuqhubeke
- Nikela Ngezinto Eziyi-20 Uma Ufuna Ukuphumelela Empilweni
17. Isimo Sokuziphatha
Ukuhlonipha iplanethi yethu nabo bonke abahlali bayo bekuhlale kuyimpawu yempumelelo ezincwadini zabantu abaningi, kodwa kulolu suku nakulesi sikhathi, kungcono kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili.
kufanele ngimnike ithuba lesibili
Ukubheka njalo izidingo zabo bonke abantu, izilwane, kanye neplanethi esiphila kuyo kusho ukuthi impumelelo izoba eyenelisa kakhulu futhi enakekela kakhulu.
Ukusebenzisana
Akekho owesilisa noma owesifazane oyisiqhingi, futhi ngeke ufike ndawo uwedwa. Zonke izici zempilo yakho zakhiwe inethiwekhi enkulu yabantu, ebonakalayo nengabonakali
Ukwazisa lokho kuzokusiza wamukele ukuthi awusoze wakwenza wedwa ngempela.
Ukuze uphumelele, udinga ukwazi ukwethemba nokusebenza nabanye abantu. Udinga ukwazi ukubhidliza imibono yakho kubo, bese uthatha imibono yabo uyibuyisele kubo.
Phakathi kwakho, ungakha izinto ongakaze uziphuphe.
19. Ubuholi
Ekugcineni, ukuphumelela kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo kuzohlala kufaka ubuholi bencazelo ethile noma enye.
Ukufunda ukuba ngumholi okhuthaza futhi ondle kunokuba wesabe futhi afune ikhono elibaluleke kakhulu.
Ithalente lokukhuthaza abanye abantu ukuthi bafune ukulandela lapho uhola khona liyigugu okufanele usebenze kulo.
20. Umoya Weqembu
Lokhu kufana nesizathu. Okubaluleke njengokukwazi ukuhola iqembu ukukwazi ukungena ngaphakathi futhi ungcolise izandla zakho njengengxenye yeqembu, ulalele iziphakamiso zabanye abantu futhi usebenze ngokubambisana ukuze ufinyelele umgomo ofanayo.
21. Ukuxoxisana
Abanye abantu abanenhlanhla bazalwa benalo leli khono, kanti kwabanye bethu, ukuxoxisana kuyinselelo enkulu. Ngenhlanhla, nokho, labo bethu abawela eqenjini lokugcina bangasebenza kalula kulo.
Ukukwazi ukuxoxisana kubalulekile ngoba, njengoba ngineqiniso lokuthi uyazi kahle, akuyona yonke into empilweni esiyinikwa ngepuleti. Kwesinye isikhathi kuthatha kancane emuva naphambili ukuthola izinto ozifunayo noma ozidingayo.
Kunamaqhinga athile sonke esingafunda ukuwasebenzisa uma sixoxisana ngamadili ukuqinisekisa ukuthi zonke izinhlaka ezithintekayo zithola imiphumela emihle.
22. Ukuxhumana
Ngikhuluma ngenethiwekhi yangempela lapha. Hhayi uhlobo lapho uncela abantu ababalulekile ngenhloso yokuncela kubo nokuthola umfutho womsebenzi.
Ukuxhumana kufanele kube ngokwakha ukuxhumana kwangempela nabantu abathanda ukwenza izinto ezifana nezakho, ukuze nonke nisizane.
Uma lokho kuletha umsebenzi noma amathuba ngendlela yakho, kuyamangalisa, kodwa lokho akufanele kube umgomo oyinhloko, njengoba abantu bezokwazi ukutshela imayela elilodwa uma uvele ulikhohlisa.
23. Izingxoxo
Sonke singena ezimweni ezikhohlisayo ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi kuzohlale kunezikhathi lapho kudingeka ukuthintana kwezokuxhumana kudingeke.
Noma ngabe udinga ukuphatha isimo phakathi kwakho nomunye umuntu noma abanye ababili, ukwazi ukubona izinhlangothi zombili zempikiswano bese nithola isixazululo ngenkathi ukugcina wonke umuntu ejabule kungasiza ukuhlelemba indlela yakho eya empumelelweni.
Faka inhliziyo, ingqondo nomphefumulo wakho nasezenzweni zakho ezincane kakhulu. Le yimfihlo yempumelelo. - Swami Sivananda
24. Ubuciko
Ukudala kungasho izinto eziningi ezahlukahlukene. Akukhona nje ngokuba muhle ngebhulashi lokupenda noma ngesondo lombumbi, yize ukuveza ubuhlakani bakho ngobuciko kungaba ukwelashwa ngokweqile kanye ne-cathartic.
Ubuciko buqala ukusebenza kuzo zonke izingxenye zempilo, njengoba ecabanga ngaphandle kwebhokisi ingakusiza bobabili ngokomsebenzi nangokomuntu uqobo.
25. Intuition
Uyazi ukuthi umuzwa kwesinye isikhathi ungena emgodini wesisu sakho, noma lowo mcabango ophikisanayo uzama ukuzenza uzwakale ndawo thize engxenyeni yobuchopho bakho?
Abanye bethu banembile kakhulu kunabanye , kodwa kuyikhono sonke esingasebenzela kulo. Uma sifunda ukuyilalela, umuzwa wethu ungasixwayisa ngaphambi kwesikhathi lapho okuthile sekuzokonakala noma kulungile, okusho ukuthi singenza ngokufanele.
26. Uzwela
Ukukwazi ukuzwelana nabanye futhi sizibeke ezicathulweni zabo kuyinto yokuziphatha komuntu eyisisekelo ...
… Kepha kulula ukuzisonga thina kanye nezinkinga zethu bese sikhohlwa ukuthi sizihlanganisa kanjani nokukhathazeka kwabanye abantu.
Ubudlelwano babantu buyimigwaqo enhlangothi zombili, ngakho-ke lapho uzwela ngokwengeziwe kwabanye, kulapho kungenzeka babe nozwela olukhulu kuwe, bakunike isandla noma bakunikeze usizo lapho ubhekene nesikhathi esinzima.
27. Ukubeka Izinhloso
Ngaphandle kwenhloso yokuhlose, kunzima ukuthola umdlandla wokuqhubeka uye phambili. Ukuze uvuke embhedeni njalo ekuseni futhi unikeze usuku konke, kufanele ube nomgomo engqondweni.
Kubalulekile ukusetha yonke into kusuka kwezinkulu, ezesabekayo, izinjongo zempilo ejwayelekile kuya kwezincane, ezithile, imigomo efinyeleleka ngokushesha ukuze uhlale uyifinyelela.
28. Ukunikezwa amandla
Ingabe leli yizwi olithola lithusa? Kungithathe isikhathi eside ukwazisa ukubaluleka kokuthunyelwa, futhi ngisho nesikhathi eside ukuqala ukukwenza.
Kepha kukhona amahora amaningi kuphela ngosuku, ngakho-ke noma ngabe zinjani izimo zakho, ukudluliswa kwamandla kubalulekile njalo.
Kwesinye isikhathi, kuzofanele uphathise abanye ngoba uyabona ukuthi awunaso nje isikhathi sokwenza izinto ngokwakho. Ngezinye izikhathi, kuzoba yindaba yokwazi ukuthi omunye umuntu onamakhono ehlukile angawenza kangcono kakhulu noma asheshe.
Isibonelo, asikho isidingo sokuchitha amahora wesikhathi sakho esiyigugu ulwa nentela yebhizinisi lakho lapho uchwepheshe engahle ahlele konke ngokuphazima kweso.
Kuyindaba yokwazi ukuthi yini amandla akho futhi ungesabi ukucela abanye abantu ukuthi bakwenzele izinto.
29. Ukuphathwa Kwezingcindezi
Ingcindezi ngeshwa, iyingxenye enhle kakhulu cishe yempilo yawo wonke umuntu yalolu suku.
Ngakho-ke, ngokunengqondo, ukufunda ukubhekana nakho ngendlela ewusizo nephumelelayo kuhle kakhulu kuwe ukuze uhlale ujabule futhi unempilo enhle ngokomqondo nangokomzimba.
30. Ukunakwa Ngemininingwane
Yimininingwane emincane engaphenduka ibe yizinkinga ezinkulu impela uma uphikelela ungayinaki. Ukuzinika isikhathi sokuthola ama-I’s nokuwela o-T kunokugxila nje ezintweni ezinkulu kungakhokha ngempela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ngokufanayo, ukunaka izinto ezincane kungakuhlukanisa futhi kukusize ugqame phakathi kontanga yakho noma izimbangi zebhizinisi.
31. Ukulalela
Kuwo wonke amakhono akulolu hlu, lena yiyona okungenzeka ukuthi ibukelwa phansi kakhulu. Siyathanda ukukhuluma, futhi sikhohlwe ukulalela. Ukulalela kubalulekile ngezizathu ezimbili eziyinhloko.
Okokuqala, kholwa noma ungakukholwa, singafunda isamba esikhulu kakhulu uma sikunaka ngobuqotho okushiwo ngabantu abasizungezile. Lokhu kungasisiza ukuthi sikhule ngezindlela ebesingazicabangi.
Okwesibili, ngokulalela abanye abantu ngokweqiniso, sikhombisa ukuthi siyabathanda njengomuntu kanye nemibono yabo, okusho ukuthi umbono wabo ngathi kungenzeka ukhuphuke. Ngokulandelayo, bazokwazi ukusilalela lapho sibadinga, noma basinikeze ukusekelwa kwabo.
ukuthi ungabushiya kanjani ubudlelwano obudonsayo
32. Ukuthonya
Okokugcina yikhono lokukholisa. Uma ufuna ukuphumelela empilweni, kuzoba nezikhathi eziningi lapho uzodinga ukukholisa abanye abantu ukuthi unombono ofanele, ukuthola ukwesekwa noma usizo lwabo.
Kuzodingeka futhi ukuthi uzincenge… uzincenge ukuze uvuke embhedeni ekuseni, uye kulowo mcimbi wokuxhumana, uqale ingxoxo nalowo muntu, futhi ngokujwayelekile uthathe impilo ngezimpondo, nsuku zonke zonyaka .
Ukuphela kwendawo impumelelo eza ngaphambi kokusebenza kusichazamazwi. - UVince Lombardi
