Kuyaqapheleka ukuthi impumelelo isho izinto ezehlukene kubantu abehlukene. Kodwa-ke, ngaphandle kwalokhu, kunemikhuba ethile yendawo yonke ezokuvimba noma iyiphi impumelelo ibukeka kuwe .
Ukukhulisa isikhathi sakho nokwenza indawo enenjabulo, enempilo akuyona into ekhohlisayo njengoba kubonakala - nazi izindlela zokuchitha isikhathi ezijwayelekile kakhulu abantu abaphumelelayo abazidedelayo…
1. Ukuhlola Social Media
Ngokungapheli, futhi ingqondo kancane, ukuphenya ngokusebenzisa i-Facebook ne-Instagram kumosha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu kunendlela ongacabanga ngayo.
Yize lo kungumkhuba ojwayelekile kulezi zinsuku, akusenzi kahle kakhulu isikhathi sakho.
Kungaba lula kakhulu ukuhlala ubheke izimpilo zabanye abantu namavidiyo angahleliwe, futhi kuvame ukujabulisa kakhulu. Ukuze uphumelele, kufanele usebenzise isikhathi sakho ngokuhlakanipha futhi wenze izinqumo ezinengqondo mayelana nokuthi uzosebenza nini nokuthi uzodlala nini.
Noma yini ofuna ukuyenza ngempilo yakho, ukungenela ezweni elibonakalayo lemithombo yezokuxhumana kungaba yinkinga.
Uhlala phansi imizuzu emihlanu bese uzithola usanamathele ocingweni lwakho ngemuva kwamahora amabili, eminyakeni emithathu ekujuleni kwe-Instagram yentombi yakho yakudala. Sonke besikhona.
I-Facebook, i-Twitter, ne-Instagram kungaba izindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuxhumana nabantu, kanye nokwabelana ngezindaba zakho. Bangathatha futhi isikhathi esiningi okufanele ngempela zichithwa emsebenzini, ukubuyekezwa, noma ukulala!
ngibona sengathi ngidinga ukukhala kodwa angikwazi
Zama futhi unciphise ukuthi uyisebenzisa kangaki imithombo yezokuxhumana - uzomangala ukuthi ngabe kuningi kangakanani okwenzayo.
ezimbili. Ukuziqhathanisa Nabanye
Ezweni esiphila kulo, akumangalisi ukuthi uhhafu wethu unezinkinga zobunikazi nsuku zonke.
Njengoba kushiwo, imithombo yezokuxhumana ingaba isimanga, kepha futhi ingalimaza ngempela. Izithombe ezihleliwe kakhulu nezishintshiwe esizibona ku-inthanethi, maningi amathuba okuthi siziqhathanise nazo, cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi ngendlela engeyinhle.
Yize sinokwazisa okungacacile kwe-Photoshop nokuhlunga, sihlala sikhohlwa ukuthi izithombe esizibonayo azimele impilo yangempela.
Indlela esibona ngayo izimpilo zethu isiguquka ngokuzumayo, futhi asisalungile ngokwanele. Izindinganiso nezindlela esizikala ngazo izimpilo zethu ziyaxegiswa ngenxa yezinto esizibona ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
Ukudla esikudlayo, indlela izinwele zethu ezibukeka ngayo, futhi-ke, imizimba yethu iba izilinganiso zokulinganisa ezimpilweni zethu, futhi kunzima ukukala izinguqulo zangempela zethu kuzinhlobo ezihlelwe kakhulu zabanye.
Lokhu kuqhathaniswa okungapheli nokulindelwe okulindelekile ngeke kusize ngalutho maqondana nokuphumelela.
Ukuzethemba kwakho kungathatha ukungqongqoza okukhulu, futhi ungaqala ukuzingabaza wena namakhono akho ngemuva kwesikhathi esincane esiku-inthanethi. Lokhu kuzothinta kakhulu ukugqugquzela kwakho nokushayela kwakho, okuzothinta ukuthi uzophumelela kangakanani.
Okubi kakhulu, kungahle kushintshe incazelo yakho yempumelelo, futhi yini ebingakunelisa ngaphambi manje izizwe inganele.
3. Ukucindezelwa Ngemibono Yabanye
Ngenkathi kukhokhela ukuba nozwelo, umkhuba omubi ongena kuwo ukunakekela futhi okuningi ngemibono yabanye abantu.
Ukuphumelela kusho okuhlukile kuwo wonke umuntu, kepha kuvamise ukukhomba ukuzethemba kanye namandla okuba nokujaha, nezifiso. Lokhu kungaba nzima ukukwenza uma uhlala ukhathazeka ngokuthi abanye abantu bacabangani ngawe.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufunda ukuthi imicabango kabani ebaluleke ngempela, futhi wazi ukuthi kufanele uvumele nini izinto zihambe.
Elinye ithonya langaphandle lihlala lisiza futhi laziswa, kepha abanye abantu kungenzeka bazama ukukuhudulela phansi.
Enye indlela yokuphumelela ukulandela lokho ofuna ukukwenza, futhi ungakhathazeki ngabangaphandle ukwahlulela noma imibono engemihle.
izinto ongazenzela umuntu wakho ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa
Kulula ukusho kunokukwenza, kunjalo, kepha kufanelekile ukuzama.
4. Ukuhleba
Le ngenye indlela isikhathi esiyigugu esivame ukuchitheka ngayo! Ukuxoxa nokuhleba okungenzi lutho kungabonakala kumnandi ngaleso sikhathi, kepha akukho phuzu kangako kukho.
Kokunye, ukuthi abanye abantu bakhetha ukwenzani, bakhetha ukuthandana nobani njll, akuyona neze ibhizinisi lakho. Isikhathi esichithwe ukuhleba sisetshenziswe kangcono ukusebenza noma ukubuyekeza noma ukuhambisa ekufezeni izinhloso zakho.
Ukuphumelela kumayelana nokwenza lokho ohlose ukukwenza, kungaba ukuzivocavoca nge-yoga, ukuqeda umsebenzi othile, noma ukushaya ijimu.
Yeka ukuchitha isikhathi ngenhlebo engenangqondo bese uqala ukuyisebenzisa empeleni ukwenza noma yini ofuna ukuyenza.
Uzothola nokuthi indlela obheka ngayo abantu nezimo izoshintsha kakhulu uma wena yekani ukuhleba .
Zikhumbuze ukuthi ungahluleli futhi ube nozwelo ngangokunokwenzeka - lokhu kuzokusiza kahle kuzo zonke izici zempilo yakho.
Iyiphi indlela engcono yokukala impumelelo kunokuthokozela injabulo yakho nokuba nombono oqondile ngempilo?
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
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- Kungani Udinga Uhlelo Lokuzithuthukisa Lomuntu Siqu (Futhi Izinto Ezi-7 Okumele Unazo)
5. Zizungeze Abantu AbanoThoyizi
Kulezi zinsuku, i-intanethi ifulelwe ngemilayezo emayelana nokudedela izinto ezingasakusizi, futhi lesi seluleko sihlakaniphe kakhulu.
Impumelelo ayiphathelene nomsebenzi kuphela, ingaba futhi ngempilo yakho yengqondo nokukhula kwakho.
Ngeke uthole abantu abaphumelelayo belenga nalabo abababukela phansi, futhi uzobona ukuthi babo abangani abasondelene nawe kungenzeka zikhuthazwe futhi ziqhutshwe njengoba zinjalo.
Kungaba yinkohliso ukudedela abantu kwesinye isikhathi, kepha udinga ukuba nobugovu ubeke izidingo zakho kuqala. Uyomangala ukuthi ingqondo yakho ishintsha kangakanani, uzovuleleka kangakanani emibonweni emisha, nokuthi kungakanani kugxilwe futhi uzoba nethemba.
6. Ukuhlala Ezimweni Ezimbi
Futhi, lokhu kumayelana nokuyeka ukunganaki ngokuzungeza nabantu abakondlayo nabakugqugquzelayo, nabadala indawo enhle.
Abantu abaphumelelayo yilabo abavuma lokho abakufanele, futhi abangenamahloni okukujaha.
Uvumelekile ukushiya isimo esingakusizi ngalutho, kungaba ngumsebenzi noma indawo yokuhlala. Udinga isikhala ukuze ukhule, ube nobuciko, futhi uzihlole wena namakhono akho.
Ukuphumelela kuvela ekuzihleleleni impumelelo, ngakho-ke kwenze!
angibathandi abantu bebonke
7. Ukuqasha!
Kunezindlela eziningi kakhulu zokuchitha isikhathi sakho (ngithembe, ngike ngazama!) Futhi ukufafaza nxazonke kungenye yezinto ezivame kakhulu.
Isikhathi esingasetshenziselwa ukukhiqiza, ukuhlela, nokwenza izinto ngokuvamile sisetshenziselwa ukwenza izinto ezingenanjongo.
Esikhundleni salokho, zama ukuhlela kusengaphambili ukuze ukwazi ukwenza izinto ngokushesha nangempumelelo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Zibekele kusengaphambili - lungiselela ukudla kwakho, khetha ukuthi ufuna ukugqoka ini ngosuku olungaphambi komsebenzi noma umcimbi, bese unamathela ezinhlelweni zakho!
Uzomangala ukuthi uzenza masinyane kangakanani izinto uma nje uthatha imizuzu embalwa ukuhlala wenza uhlelo. Lokhu kuzokhulula isikhathi esengeziwe sokwenza umsebenzi othile, wenze olunye ucwaningo, noma uthathe isikhathi sokuphumula futhi uvuselele.
8.Ukuxuba Nokuvumelanisa
Kungaba nzima, kepha kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhathazeki ngokugqama!
Lapho usakhula, ukuzwana kungazwakala njengenye yezinhloso ezinkulu okufanele uzibekele zona. Kodwa-ke, ingxenye yokuphumelela ukujabula nokunethezeka esikhumbeni sakho, esiyiqiniso, futhi okuvela ngaphakathi, hhayi kusuka ekuvumelaniseni.
Akunasizathu sokuzama ngamandla ukulingana nesikhunta ongafuni nje ukuba kuso. Sebenzisa amandla akho ngendlela eyakhayo futhi wamukele izinto ngawe ongazithandi, noma okungenani usebenzele ukuzithuthukisa.
abangobani pat and jen
Lokhu kusebenza maqondana nokubukeka kwakho, ingqondo yakho, namakhono akho ajwayelekile.
Ungahle ungabi mkhulu ngezinombolo, futhi ungakuthola kukhungathekisa lokhu. Kuphakathi kokuthi thatha izifundo futhi usebenzise izinsiza kusebenza ukuze uthuthukise amakhono akho kule ndawo, noma vele wamukele ukuthi akuyona eyakho futhi ugxile kokunye esikhundleni salokho.
Kungaba yinkohliso lapho wonke umuntu okuzungezile eqeqeshelwa ukuba ngudokotela, noma esebenza kanzima njengothisha, kepha awudingi ukwenza noma yikuphi kwalokhu uma ungafuni.
Yamukela ukuthi awufani nabangane bakho bese ugcwalisa impilo yakho ngalokho okukusebenzela kangcono!
Sonke sihlukile futhi lokho kuyinto okufanele yamukelwe futhi yenziwe ziqhenye , angafihlwa ngamahloni. Ngemuva kwakho konke, impilo ibizoba yisicefe ukube besifana…
9. Ukugxila Emaphutheni Esikhathi Esedlule
Ukufunda ukuqhubekela phambili futhi dlulisa okwedlule kuyinto iningi lethu elingazuza kuyo.
Kulula kakhulu ukuzivumela sibanjelwe emuva ngamaphutha esiwenzile kanye nokwesaba ukuwaphinda. Ukuphumelela kaningi kusho ukuqhubekela phambili, ukuzivumelanisa nezimo, nokwenza ngcono.
Ukushiya ingxenye yethu esikhathini esedlule ngeke kusivumele ukuthi siqhubekele phambili ngokuphelele, okuyingozi empumelelweni ngazo zonke izindlela - ngokomzwelo, ngokomzimba, kwezezimali nakwezomsebenzi.
