Kungani Udinga Uhlelo Lokuzithuthukisa Lomuntu Siqu (Futhi Izinto Ezi-7 Okumele Unazo)

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Kulungile, ngibona izandla eziningi ziphakeme.

Uyazi ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani?



Cha? Kulungile, kanjalo nabantu abaningi. Eqinisweni, uhamba phambili kubantu abaningi ngoba ngandlela thile ufikile kuleli khasi. Kwenzeka lokhu nje ukuthi sesizohlola ithuluzi elinamandla elizokusiza ukuthi wenze ushintsho oluhle futhi oluqhubekayo empilweni yakho.

Ibizwa ngokuthi yiPersonal Development Plan (PDP) futhi ingakusiza ekuqhubekiseleni phambili ezinhlosweni zakho ngokushesha okukhulu kunalokho uma ungafinyelela kuzo ngaphandle kweyodwa.

ngihlala ngimthumelela imiyalezo kuqala kodwa uhlala ephendula

Ngaphambi kokungena emininingwaneni eminingi mayelana nokuthi yini okudingeka uyifake ku-PDP ukuze isebenze kahle, ake siqale ngokubheka izizathu zokuthi kungani kufanele uyibhale.

Inikeza Ukucaca

Njengamanje mhlawumbe uyazi ukuthi ufuna ukufeza ini… cishe ... uhlobo lwe . Le nansi inkinga i-PDP engayixazulula: isusa imiphetho emibi futhi ibeke izinto ngefomethi ecwebezelayo ukuze ukwazi ukugxila ngqo kulokho okufunayo.

Inikeza Umgwaqo

Ukwazi ukuthi ufuna ukufika kuphi kuyinto eyodwa, ukwazi ukuthi ungafika kanjani kunendaba ehluke ngokuphelele. Kufana nokushayela amakhulu amakhilomitha usuka ku-A uye ku-B ngaphandle kwemephu futhi ungakaze wenze uhambo ngaphambi kokulahleka ukuqiniseka okuseduze. I-PDP ikunikeza lelo mephu futhi ikuqondise ngemayela ngemayela ukufinyelela lapho uya khona.

Iqokomisa Izithiyo / Izinselelo

Awukho umgwaqo ongenazo izigaxa zawo, futhi alukho uhambo oluza ngaphandle kwezithiyo. Ukwazi ukuthi kungaba yini ngaphambi kokusetha lokhu kukunika ithuba lokuzilungiselela futhi uthole izindlela zokuzinqoba. Ngale ndlela awutholi ukwethuka lapho umuntu ewela indlela yakho.

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Kungaba Isikhuthazi Esihle

Ukungazi kahle ukuthi ungawaguqula kanjani amaphupho akho agcwaliseke kungakudumaza kakhulu. Ungawubona ngeso lengqondo umphumela wakho omuhle, kepha uma ungakwazi ukubona indlela yokwenza ugcwaliseke, amathuba okuthi uke uzame ancipha kakhulu. Ukubeka uhlelo ndawonye futhi ubhekise kulo njalo kungakunika amandla nomdlandla owudingayo ukuze wenze inqubekela phambili yangempela.

Ludinga Kanjani Uhlelo Oluthuthukisayo Lokuthuthuka Komuntu

Ukubamba isiqeshana sephepha bese ubhala noma yini endala efika ekhanda lakho akuyona indlela esebenza ngayo iPDP. Kudinga ukuqukatha izinto ezithile ezibalulekile uma kuzobonakala kusebenza kahle ekuqhubeleni phambili.

Kunjalo…

1. Imigomo Echazwe Ngokucacile

Ngazo zonke izindlela ongazisebenzisa empilweni, uma ungenawo umbono ocacile wokuthi indawo oya kuyo ilele kuphi, ngeke wazi ukuthi iyiphi okufanele uyithathe. Yingakho isici esibaluleke kunazo zonke zanoma yiluphi uhlelo lokuthuthukiswa komuntu kuyinjongo echazwe ngokucacile.

Okungcono kakhulu kunencazelo kuyinjongo elinganiseka ngokwemigomo ethile. Ngale ndlela akudingeki ukuthi uthembele ekutolikweni kwamagama nje uwodwa. Isibonelo, inhloso 'yokuqala ibhizinisi lami eliphumelelayo' ivulekile ukuphikisana ngenhloso yegama elithi ukuphumelela, kanti 'ukuqala ibhizinisi lami elizongenisa imali engama- $ 50,000 ngonyaka' kunikeza ukucaca okuphelele ngalokho ofisa ukukufeza .

Uma ubambelela kulesi sinyathelo sokuqala, funda i-athikili yethu esikusizayo thola okufunayo empilweni .

2. A Kungani

Ukubeka umgomo kungenye into, kepha ukwazi ukuthi kungani kusho lukhulu kuwe kungenye into ngokuphelele.

'Ngifuna ukuqedela imarathon' umgomo ocacile ngokwanele (yize isikhathi esibekiwe sizosiza njengoba sizoxoxa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi), kepha asisho lutho ukuthi kungani ufuna ukwenza njalo.

“Ngifuna ukuqeda umncintiswano wokukhumbula ugogo wami ongasekho ukuze ngiqoqe imali yehosisi elalimnakekele kahle lapho esegugile” isitatimende esinamandla kakhulu.

Ngokushesha nje lapho unamathisela u-'kungani' ezinhlosweni zakho, uzinikeza ngencazelo ebikade ingenakho. Awusafuni nje iphuzu lokugcina elingenangqondo, usuzikhumbuza ngenhloso yemizamo yakho.

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3. Indawo Yokuqala

Lapho usukwazi ukuthi uyaphi nokuthi kungani, kufanele wazi ukuthi ukuphi manje. Ngemuva kwakho konke, awukwazi ukusuka ku-A kuye ku-B uma ungazi ukuthi u-A ukuphi emephini.

Ake sithathe impilo yakho yangasese njengesibonelo. Usho ngokusobala imigomo yokufuna ukufinyelela isisindo esisha, esinempilo esingamakhilogremu ayi-170 futhi wehlise izinga loshukela egazini lakho elizila ngaphansi kuka-100 mg / dL. Okwakho kungani kufanele ugweme ukutholakala unesifo sikashukela soHlobo 2 kanye nezingozi ezihambisana naso. Mhlawumbe unelungu lomndeni onesifo sikashukela futhi wazi ngokuphelele ngezinkinga okuholela kuzo.

Kuze kube manje kuhle kakhulu, kepha yiziphi lezo zilinganiso ezimbili manje? Siyini isisindo sakho? Lithini izinga lakho likashukela egazini? Usufike kude kangakanani nesikhundla sakho samanje ukufinyelela kumphumela owuthandayo?

Ukwazi ukuthi ukuphi nokuthi uphokophelephi ukuphela kwendlela yokwakha into ebalulekile yohlelo lokuthuthuka komuntu siqu…

4. Imigomo Ephakathi

Cabanga ngokuthi kungani sisebenzisa amamephu noma amasistimu we-GPS lapho sishayela izindawo esingazijwayele. Ngaphandle kwabo, besingeke sazi ukuthi sizocisha nini futhi kuphi komgwaqo sidlulele komunye. Lokhu kuphenduka kubalulekile ngoba ngakunye kuyindlela yokuhamba ohambweni lwethu ushintsho lwendlela edingekayo ukufinyelela lapho siya khona ekugcineni.

Ngethemba ukuthi manje amaphuzu ethu okugcina acacile ezingqondweni zethu futhi siyazi ukuthi sikuphi okwamanje. Manje sidinga ukwakha uhlelo olunzima lokuthi sisuka kanjani siye kolunye. Yilapho kusebenza khona imigomo emaphakathi. Lokhu kudiliza okungaba luhambo olude kakhulu kube izingxenye ezingalawuleka kakhudlwana.

Mhlawumbe unomgomo wokuthenga indlu enamakamelo okulala ama-3 endaweni ethile (inhloso yakho) esendaweni yokubamba ezinye izikole ezinhle (kungani wakho). Yiziphi izinyathelo okudingeka uzithathe ukwenza lokhu kube ngokoqobo? Ngabe udinga ukugcina imali oyibekile? Malini? Ngabe udinga ukuthengisa ikhaya lakho lamanje? Uma kunjalo, ingabe udinga umsebenzi wokulungisa ukuze ukhulise inani lawo ngaphambi kokuya emakethe?

Ungakwazi ukubalula kancane uma kukhulunywa ngezinhloso ezithile eziphakathi, ikakhulukazi lapho kusebenza khona izinto ezingaphansi kokhonkolo. Isibonelo, ungahle ubeke imigomo yokufunda ikhono elisha, wenze / uphule umkhuba othile, noma ushintshe izinkolelo / izimo ezithile zengqondo. Lokhu kwesinye isikhathi kungaba nzima ukukuchaza ngokucacile okucacile, kepha kuhlala kubalulekile yize kunjalo.

Kwi-PDP, usayizi walezi zinhloso eziphakathi nakho kubalulekile futhi kukhulu kakhulu futhi kuhlala kuthusa kakhulu futhi ubeka engcupheni yokulahlekelwa ukuthintana nesithombe sonke. Khumbula, unga - futhi kufanele - wephule ngayinye yalezi zinhloso ngokuqhubekayo ukukusiza ukuyifinyelela, kepha wenze lokhu ngaphandle kohlelo lwakho oluyinhloko njengoba kudingeka.

Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):

5. Izikhathi ezibekiwe

Umgomo wakho oyinhloko ochazwe ngokucacile (noma izinhloso) nohlu lwamagoli aphakathi nendawo konke kubekwe ngokucacile ephepheni - umsebenzi omuhle. Kepha-ke leso siqephu sephepha sihlala ediloweni noma sihlala siphiniwe ebhodini lakho lezaziso infinitum (ingunaphakade).

Phuthelwa lesi sinyathelo esibalulekile futhi yilokho okuzokwenzeka. Ngethembe.

Umyeni akangithandi kodwa ufuna ukuhlala ndawonye

Zonke izinhlelo ozenzile azisho lutho ngaphandle kokuthi uzisebenzise, ​​futhi indlela enhle yokuqala ukusebenza ngendlela yakho ukusetha ukhonkolo - kodwa ubhekane namaqiniso - Izikhathi ezibekiwe. Ngokushesha nje lapho usetha umnqamulajuqu engxenyeni ngayinye ye-PDP yakho yonke, ugxila ekugxileni ezintweni odinga ukuzenza manje ukuze kuhlangatshezwane nalezo zikhathi zokugcina.

Mhlawumbe enye yezinjongo zakho eziyinhloko ukufunda ukukhuluma isiJapane futhi 'kungani' wakho kungenxa yokuthi ubulokhu uthathekile yisiko laseJapan futhi ungathanda ukuvakashela eJapan. Kuhle. Nini?

Ngabe uzovakashela iJapan ngesikhathi esithile esingaziwa ngokuzayo? Akunjalo uma uhlelo lokuthuthukisa umuntu lwenziwe kahle! Kufanele usethe isikhathi esithile lapho ufuna ukuvakashela khona - mhlawumbe izinyanga eziyi-18 kusuka manje - bese uhlela ukuthi ungalufunda kanjani ulimi kusukela manje kuze kube manje. Mhlawumbe uzinika inyanga noma ezimbili ukuqonda kahle imishwana eyisisekelo ezinyangeni eziyi-6 kusukela manje, ungahle uthande ukwazi ukuba nezingxoxo ezilula futhi ngemuva konyaka ungathanda ukushelela. Izinyanga eziyisithupha zokugcina kungaba ukuzijwayeza nokucija amakhono akho ngaphambi kohambo lwakho.

Ngokuziphoqa ukuthi ucabange ukuthi ungathanda ukufeza nini izinhloso ezithile, ungaqala lapho beka phambili imisebenzi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uhlangabezana nesikhathi osinqunyelwe esinqunyiwe. Uma unezinhloso eziningi eziyinhloko maqondana nempilo yakho, ingcebo, ubudlelwano nomsebenzi wakho, uzoba nobunzima bokwazi ukuthi ungaqala kuphi uma i-PDP yakho ingenazo izikhathi ezibekiwe. Lokhu kuthatha okungahle kube luhlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe bese bekuhlukanisa kube yizinqamu ezilawulekayo. Ngakho-ke musa ukweqa lesi sinyathelo esibalulekile.

6. Irekhodi Lempumelelo

Lapho ukwazi ukufaka umaki kuhlelo lwakho lokuthuthuka komuntu siqu, kufanelekile ukugubha. Isenzo esilula sokuqopha inqubekelaphambili yakho siyindlela yomlilo yokuzikhuthaza ukuthi uqhubeke uphokophele esinyathelweni esilandelayo ohambweni lwakho.

Ungaba nesikhala esingenalutho ongabhala kuso konke okufezile, noma ungafometha i-PDP yakho ukuze ube namabhokisi wokuthikha eduze kwenhloso yakho ngayinye. Kodwa-ke ukhetha ukukwenza, ukugubha ukunqoba kwakho kufanele uma ufuna gcina ukugxila , ukuzimisela, namandla.

7. Umjikelezo Wokucwengisiswa

Azikho izinhloso noma amaphupho ahlala emile futhi nohlelo lwakho lokuthuthuka akufanele lube njalo. Kufanele kuvele njalo ukuhlangabezana nezinguquko ezimeni zakho nokukhombisa izinyathelo osuvele uzithathile.

izindlela zokutshela intombazane ukuthi yinhle

Kanye ngonyaka, hlala phansi ne-PDP yakho bese uhamba kuyo ngomugqa. Bhala amanothi, gqamisa amaphuzu athile, unqamule abanye benze izibuyekezo ezidingekayo ukuze kubonakale kangcono ukuthi ukuphi manje nokuthi ufuna ukufinyelela kuphi ngokuzayo.

Ezinye izinhloso zakho zizohlala zinjalo - futhi lokho kuyinto enhle ngoba ukusika nokushintsha kaningi kuyindlela eqinisekisiwe yokungafiki ndawo - kepha ungafisa ukufakela ezinye, ukushintsha ngokuphelele / ukususa ezinye, bese ungeza izinto ezintsha ohlwini , futhi.

Le nqubo ikunikeza nethuba loku-oda kabusha izinto ozibeka phambili bese ulungisa izikhathi ozobekelwa zona ukuze ubheke konke okwenzekile ezinyangeni eziyi-12 ezedlule. Mhlawumbe uzuze okuningi futhi ungaletha ezinye zezinhloso zakho eziphakathi phambili, noma mhlawumbe izehlakalo ezingalindelekile ziphonse ispani emisebenzini futhi zisho ukuthi kufanele uqhubekele isikhathi esinqunyiwe uye phambili ngokuzayo. Kunoma ikuphi, izikhathi zakho ezibekiwe kufanele zibonise iqiniso lakho elisha.

Ukuyigoqa

Uhlelo lokuzithuthukisa luyithuluzi elibalulekile lokuthatha amaphupho akho nokwenza umgwaqo ocacile wokuwenza afezeke. Kungakho uzovame ukuthola amabhizinisi asebenzisa uhlobo lwawo nabasebenzi ukuthuthukisa amakhono abo nethalente: ayasebenza, alula futhi alula.

Khumbula nje ukuthi ngayinye yalezi zinto iyadingeka ukuze uhlelo lonke lusebenze kahle: imigomo echazwe ngokucacile, kungani, isiqalo sakho, isethi yezinhloso eziphakathi, izikhathi ezibekiwe ezingokoqobo, irekhodi lezimpumelelo zakho, nenqubo ejwayelekile yokulungiswa.