Izindlela eziyi-17 Zokuyeka Ukunamathela Nokuswela Ebudlelwaneni

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Ukuziphatha kwe-Clingy kungalimaza ubudlelwano bakho uma umlingani wakho engakwazi ukubuphatha. Kungasho nokuthi ulahlekelwa ukuzimela kwakho. Uyakhohlwa ngekhono lakho lokuma ngezinyawo zakho bese uphuma lapho wenze izinto.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungasho ukuthi ukugxila kwakho kuncike entweni oyithandayo futhi bonke obunye ubudlelwano empilweni yakho buqala ukuhlupheka.



Ngakho-ke, ngicabanga ukuthi sonke singavuma ukuthi oyedwa noma bobabili abalingani ukubambelela nokuswela akuyona into enhle kunoma ibuphi ubuhlobo.

Kodwa ukushintsha lokho kuziphatha, uma sekufundwe, kulula ukusho kunokukwenza.

Mina, ngokwami, ngiphakamisela izandla zami kwesinye isikhathi ukuziphatha ngendlela engazi kahle ukuthi ayinampilo ebudlelwaneni bami nakimi. Ngiyazi ukuthi bekungafanele ngabe ngiziphatha ngaleyo ndlela yize ngenza kanjalo, kodwa nje kubonakala ngathi angikwazi ukuzisiza.

Ngenhlanhla, nokho, kunamaqhinga amaningi ongawadlala ebuchosheni bakho ukuwayekela ekuqhubekiseni isimilo esibi.

Konke kumayelana nokwakha imikhuba emisha nokusabela okuzenzakalelayo. Kufanele uzigcine umatasa futhi ujatshuliswe ngokwanele ukumisa imicabango yakho ekuhlaleni kumlingani wakho kakhulu kunempilo nemvelo.

Uma utshelwe ukuthi unamathele ngokweqile noma wazi nje ekujuleni kwenhliziyo yakho, nazi izeluleko ezimbalwa zokwehlisa amazinga akho okudingeka abe nokulawuleka, noma ngisho engekho.

1. Vuma kuwe

Uma usaqhubeka nokuphika ngokubambelela kwakho, futhi ufunda lokhu ngeveli lokungabaza, awusoze wasithuthukisa isimo, futhi ubudlelwane bakho buzobhekana nobunzima.

Isinyathelo sokuqala ukwamukela ukuthi uyabambelela nokuthi kuyinkinga. Uma usulucubungulile lolo lwazi, uzokwazi ukuthola izinyathelo zokushintsha indlela oziphatha ngayo.

2. Zibeke wena kuqala

Lapho konke esingacabanga ngakho kuyinto esiyithandayo, kaningi, ngokungazi, sibeka izidingo zabo ngaphambi kwezethu.

Siyeka ukwenza izinto esifuna ngokweqiniso ukuzenza ngoba simagange ukuchitha isikhathi nesithandwa sethu.

Asinaso isibindi sokutshela omunye umuntu lokho esikudingayo kubo, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi bazoba njalo ithi cha .

Angisho nakancane ukuthi indawo yonke kufanele izungeze wena, kodwa mina am ukusho ukuthi indawo yakho yonke akumele igxile ngokuphelele komunye umuntu.

Qiniseka ukuthi awudeli izidingo zakho ngenxa yabo, njengoba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi lokho kuzodala intukuthelo ngasohlangothini lwakho, futhi kugubungele ezabo.

3. Hlonipha imingcele yabo

Abanye abantu bathanda ukuxhumana njalo ngendlela yokwangana, ukuqabulana, nokuphulunyiswa, kepha abanye abantu abakuthandi nje.

Uma umlingani wakho ekutshele, noma ulimi lomzimba wakhe likubeke kwacaca ukuthi abaphatheki ngenani le- uthando lomzimba obanikeza zona, kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele kakhulu indlela oziphatha ngayo nenhlonipho yakho imingcele yabo .

Khumbula, ngoba nje azithintanga njengawe, akusho ukuthi zikuthanda kancane - zinendlela ehlukile yokuzibonisa.

4. Zigcine umatasa

Uma uthambekele ekubambeleleni, khona-ke ukuba nesikhathi esiningi ezandleni zakho kuzokwenza inkinga ibe yimbi kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma umlingani wakho ematasa kakhulu kunawe.

Uma okwamanje ungahlelile ubusuku obuningi ngesonto futhi banekhalenda eligcwele lomphakathi, yisikhathi sokuba matasa.

Qiniseka ukuthi unezinhlelo okungenani zokuhlwa okuthathu ngesonto ukuze ngokomzimba ungabi nesikhathi sokuhlala uzilahlekile noma uzithumele imiyalezo njalo.

5. Shayela abangane bakho

Wake waba nomsele okukujuba ubudlelwano? Uyakhumbula ukuthi lokho kubi kangakanani? Ungabi yilowo muntu.

Khulisa ngokucophelela ubungane obubalulekile empilweni yakho bese ubeka eceleni isikhathi sokuzinikela kubo, njengoba wenza nomlingani wakho. Khuthaza umlingani wakho ukuthi enze okufanayo.

6. Chitha isikhathi nomndeni wakho

Abantu bavame ukulahla imindeni yabo kanye nabangane babo lapho behlangana nomuntu omusha.

Wagcina nini ukubiza umama wakho? Mnikeze ucingo, futhi, uma ufuna, mtshele ngobudlelwano bakho. Ungase umcele namathiphu ambalwa okuthi ungaswela kanjani kakhulu. Omama bazi kangcono.

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Bese ukhuluma ngezinye izinto. Njengoba kungabonakala kunje ngezinye izikhathi, ubudlelwano bakho abuyona into ebaluleke kunazo zonke eyenzekayo kulomhlaba, futhi udinga ukuzikhumbuza ngalokho.

7. Sebenzela izindaba zakho zokuthembana

Kwabanye abantu, ukunamathela kusekelwe ekungathembekini. Cabanga ukuthi zikuphi lezo izindaba zokuthembela kuqhamuke, nokuthi yini ongayenza ukuzilungisa… noma okungenani uthuthukise kuzo.

Ngenkathi umlingani ongathembela kuye eyisizo elihle lokunqoba lezi zinkinga, nguwe okufanele wenze umsebenzi, hhayi bona.

8. Funa izeluleko nokuholwa ngumchwepheshe.

Ukushintsha kokuziphatha kungenzeka kuwo wonke umuntu, kepha lolo shintsho luvame ukwenzeka kalula futhi ngokushesha okukhulu lapho kukhona uchwepheshe othintekayo. Esimweni sakho, udinga ukuphatha isimilo sakho sokubambelela ngenkathi usebenza ukuthola futhi ubhekane nezimbangela zako.

Ngalokhu, sincoma izinsizakalo zokwelulekwa kusuka ku-. Ungaxhuma futhi ukhulume nesazi esibhekana nezimo ezinjengezakho ngaso sonke isikhathi. Bazokwazi ukukuqondisa, banikeze izeluleko ezithile nezindlela zokuzama, futhi bakusize uqhubeke lapho kubonakala sengathi kuwumzabalazo. Ungakhuluma nothile ku-inthanethi ungakhululekile ekhaya lakho.

Uma lokhu kuzwakala kuyinto ongahle uyithande ngokuzama, ukukhuluma nothile noma ukuhlela iseshini.

9. Ungacabangi ngokuthi 'kuzokwenzekani uma'

Wake wazithola wehla umgodi omnyama othi 'kuzokwenzekani uma usahleli ekhaya kanti umlingani wakho uyophuza nabangane?

Uqala ukuzibuza, 'kuthiwani uma ehlangana nenye intombazane?' noma, 'kuthiwani uma ethatha isinqumo sokuthi akasangifuni…?'

Ukukhuluma ngokusobala impela, noma yini ingenzeka, futhi awukwazi ukulawula ikusasa, kodwa alikho nhlobo iphuzu lokuba lusizi ngezinto zokucabanga ezingenakwenzeka ukuthi zenzeke.

Ungakhathazeka ngabo uma bekwenza futhi nini, kepha okwamanje, gxila futhi ujabulele izinto ezinhle ebudlelwaneni bakho.

10. Qala umdlalo wokuzilibazisa omusha

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Emahoreni amathathu ngihlala ekilasini lami lobumba ifoni yami igcinwe ngokuphepha futhi angicabangi nokuyibheka, ngigxile kakhulu kulokho engikwenzayo ngezandla zami (ingasaphathwa-ke inkinga engaba khona ).

11. Iya eholidini

Amaholide nomlingani wakho angaphupha, kepha amaholide nabangane noma, ngalokho, amaholide uwedwa nawo amnandi.

Kungokuhlangenwe nakho okuhluke kakhulu, kepha ungathola ukuthi empeleni ubona indawo engaphezulu lapho ungasongelwanga kumlingani wakho.

Ukuhamba ngempelasonto ende noma ngisho namasonto ambalwa kuyindlela enhle yokuthola isikhala esincane komunye nomunye futhi ujabule ngokubonana futhi.

Ukungabikho, inqobo nje uma kungeqisi, kuyayenza inhliziyo ikhule ithanda.

12. Zindla

Uma wazi ukuthi uyaswela, kepha awukwazi ukuzibamba, udinga ukuzivocavoca kwengqondo ukukusiza ulawule imicabango nokuziphatha kwakho.

Cabanga ngokuzindla okufana nokuzivocavoca kwengqondo yakho. Uma ufuna ukwenza izinguquko endleleni ocabanga ngayo, kuzofanele uzijwayeze ukulawula.

Kunezinhlelo zokusebenza eziningi ongazama noma ukuthola nje ukuzindla okuqondisiwe ku-YouTube. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukusula ingqondo yakho futhi kubeke izinto ngendlela efanele, futhi uzinikeze amandla wokungazinikeli ekuziphatheni okubambelelayo.

13. Yenza izinhlelo bese unamathela kuzo

Noma yini oyenzayo, ungalahli noma yimaphi amacebo owenze nabangani noma nomndeni uma umlingani wakho ephakamisa ukwenza okuthile.

Ukuzama ngangokunokwenzeka, ukushiyela konke umlingani wakho kubathumelela umyalezo ongafanele, futhi ngeke kumjabulise umuntu omshiya ephezulu futhi womile.

14. Ungathembeli kumlingani wakho ngakho konke

Umbono wokuthi umlingani wethu othandana naye kufanele abe enye ingxenye yethu noma umdlalo wethu ophelele uvame ukukhuthaza ukunamathela. Sifundiswa ukuthi umlingani wethu kufanele ‘asiqedele,’ okusikhuthaza ukuthi sithembele kubo ngokuphelele.

Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi, umlingani wethu akufanele ahlangabezane nazo zonke izidingo zethu, futhi akekho noyedwa ozoba ophelele kuzo zonke izindlela.

Ungahle ube nezintshisekelo ezithile enifana ngazo, kepha mhlawumbe uzoba nokuningi okuhlukahlukene futhi. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi akathandi ukuya embukisweni wobuciko nawe uyakwenza, akusho ukuthi kufanele uyeke ukuya.

Gcina inethiwekhi yakho yomndeni nabangane ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi unabantu abahlukahlukene ongaphendukela kubo ngezizathu ezihlukile, futhi ungalindeli ukuthi umlingani wakho abe yiyo yonke into yakho.

15. Nciphisa isikhathi sefoni

Iqiniso ukuthi, kulula kakhulu ukubambelela kulezi zinsuku. Esikhathini esedlule, besingakwazi ukuxhumana ngokomzimba njalo. Sasivalelisa ekuseni bese sibuya ndawonye ebusuku, sigcwele izindaba zosuku sokwabelana ngazo.

Noma, bekufanele sincike ezingcingweni ezivela ocingweni lwasendlini noma silinde incwadi… ngakho-ke bekufanele siqhubeke nempilo futhi singachithi isikhathi sethu sikhathazekile.

Ukufika kwemiyalezo ebhaliwe neWhatsapp ngaleyo imikhaza eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ngeshwa, kuthumele amazinga okuqina ophahleni.

Ukuthi singaxhumana usuku lonke nsuku zonke, akusho ukuthi kufanele sibe njalo.

Futhi nakanjani akumele simoshe isikhathi sethu sikhathazeka lapho singatholi impendulo esheshayo, noma ithoni yempendulo izwakala ingalungile.

Zibekele imithetho ezokusiza ugcine isikhathi osichitha ocingweni lwakho sisezingeni eliphansi, futhi amazinga akho oxinzelelo kufanele anciphe kanye nesikhathi sakho sesikrini.

16. Khulisa ukuzethemba kwakho

Abanye abantu banamathela, ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba, ngoba ababoni ukuzihlonipha kwabo. Bahlushwa yi ukukhathazeka kobuhlobo futhi bayaqiniseka ukuthi umlingani wabo angaphakama futhi ahambe nganoma yimuphi umzuzu.

Yenza izinto ukukhulisa ukuzethemba kwakho. Zijwayeze ukuzinakekela, noma ngabe lokho kukuhlobisa ngaphandle noma kuthuthukisa ingqondo yakho.

17. Yenza isikhathi sodwa into oyilangazelelayo

Isikhathi sedwa kufanele sibe yinto oyithandayo, futhi usisebenzise ngokugcwele.

Yidla ukudla umlingani wakho akayena umlandeli wakho, khuphula umculo, geza, ukhanyise amakhandlela ambalwa… yenza noma yini ongeke ukwazi ukuyenza uma beseduze, futhi uzijabulise!

18. Khulumani ngayo, nisebenze ngayo ndawonye

Uma ubonile ukuthi unamathele kakhulu, kungenzeka ukuthi umlingani wakho uyazi kahle ngakho.

Khetha isikhathi esihle, lapho nobabili senisuthi futhi niphumule kahle, nezingqondo ezicacile, ukuze nixoxe ngokuthi nicabanga ukuthi isidingo senu sivelaphi nokuthi nihlela ukusisebenzela kanjani futhi nisinqobe.

Ngabe awunaso isiqiniseko sokwenza ngokuziphatha kwakho okunamathelayo? Xoxa ku-inthanethi kuchwepheshe wezobudlelwano ovela ku-Relationship Hero ongakusiza ukuthola izinto. Kalula.

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