Ngemuva kokuzichofoza kule ndatshana, okungenani ingxenye ethile yakho ekugcineni kufanele yamukele ukuthi ukufuna ukuphelela akuyona into enhle ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Kungasuselwa esifisweni sokuzibekela izindinganiso eziphakeme, kepha kusithatha isinyathelo esisodwa kude kakhulu.
Ukuphelela okunobuthi kwenzeka lapho izinga eliphakeme lokulwa liphenduka izinga lokulindela okungenampilo.
Futhi-ke, uma sibheka ngaphandle, abaningi bethu babheka ukuphelela njengento enhle…
Sivame ukucabanga ngobuhlakani ukuthi impilo yethu ibingaba yinhle kangakanani ukube besingakwazi ukwenza enye imayela ukwenza izinto 'zinjalo nje.'
Imvamisa sizobiza abangani bethu noma amalungu omndeni njengabantu abaphelelisi ngoba nje beqhubeka benza okungaphezulu kwalokho ebesingakwenza esimweni esifanayo.
Asikuboni ukwehla. Sikubona nje njengomzamo woku…
‘Yenza Okusemandleni Akho’
Ngemuva kwalokho, yindlela esihlelwe ngayo sonke isikhathi sobuntwana bethu, akunjalo?
'Lwela ukuba ngongcono kakhulu ongaba yikho futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi yenza okusemandleni akho' kwakuwumyalezo owashiselwa ezingqondweni zethu.
Futhi lokho kuhle futhi kuyisifiso njengokufisa, kepha iqiniso ukuthi iningi lethu alikuthathi ngokoqobo.
Sijabulela impilo yonke ngokwenza izinto ngokulingene kahle… futhi isikhathi esiningi ziba kahle.
Nokho, kumuntu ofuna ukuphelela ngokweqiniso, ukuphishekela ubuhle kuzo zonke izinto kungaba okweqile.
Njengoba ngokusobala kungenzeki ukufeza nokugcina ukusebenza okuphelele kuzo zonke izinto ngaso sonke isikhathi, bathwele umthwalo wokuhlala bedumele.
Abaphelelisi bakholelwa ukuthi inani labo ukuphela kwempumelelo yabo noma lokho abakwenzela abanye abantu. Bavame ukukhungathekiswa umuzwa wokuziyeka (nabanye) badangele.
Kuleli qophelo lokufuna ukuphelela, ukufuna ukuthola okungcono kakhulu kukho konke empeleni kuba nomkhawulo omangalisayo.
Okuningi Kuncane
Lo mkhawulo empeleni ungathatha umuntu ofuna ukuphelela aze afike eqophelweni lokukhubazeka - akukho okwenziwayo nhlobo ukwesaba ukwehluleka .
Ukuthambekela kwabo ekucabangeni ngokweqile kuholela ekukhathazekeni ukuthi umphumela ngeke uhlangabezane nenqubo yabo eqondile.
… Ekugcineni, lokhu kungazithemba okuyikho kuzovimbela noma isiphi isenzo.
Okungabonwa ngabantu abaphelele ukuthi amaphutha empeleni asiza abantu ukuthi bakhule futhi bathuthuke ngokomsebenzi kanye / noma uqobo.
Impela, kungaba nzima ngempela ukuthatha futhi kuvame ukuba buhlungu ngaleso sikhathi, kepha, cishe njalo, ekucabangeni kukhona okuhle okufanele kukhishwe kulesi simo.
Lapho umgomo womuntu kungukuthi angalokothi enze iphutha, kunokuthambekela kokubambeka 'ekukhubazekeni kokuhlaziya,' okubangelwa ukucabanga ngokweqile ngesimo ngenxa yokwesaba ukwehluleka.
Njengoba umbhali wezamabhizinisi nokukhuthaza uMichael Hyatt ekubeka:
Ukuphelela kungumama wokuhlehlisa izinto.
Ngakho-ke, kude nokufeza okungaphezu kwethu okwenziwa ngabantu abajwayelekile, okuyilokho ongakucabanga, umuntu ofuna ukuphelela uvame ukuzuza okuncane - ukuphikisana okuyinqaba impela!
Ama-Ripples Edamini
Akuyona nje inkinga ekhawulelwe ekupheleleni ngokwabo okulindelwe okungenangqondo zabanye nazo ziyinkinga, ngakho-ke umphumela usakazeka njalo uye ngaphandle.
Cishe ngokungenakugwenywa, ubudlelwano nabangane, ophathina, amalungu omndeni, kanye nozakwabo emsebenzini buzobekwa ngaphansi kwengcindezi enkulu lapho kulindeleke okukhulu kakhulu kubo.
Ngisho nalabo abanokuthambekela kokufuna ukuphelela okuncane kunakho konke bangathola ukuthi kuthinta ikhwalithi yabo yonke yokuphila, okunomthelela emsebenzini, esikoleni, nasebudlelwaneni bomuntu siqu.
Ngakho-ke, njengoba sibonile, ukuphelela akusona isisusa esinempilo ongasicabanga.
Akukona nje kuphela ukudala izinkinga zobudlelwano, iqiniso ukuthi kungadala izingqinamba zangempela zempilo yengqondo : ukudana, ukuphazamiseka kokudla, ukukhathazeka, ukuzilimaza.
Ziyini Izimbangela Zokufuna Ukuphelela?
Njengezinkinga eziningi ezingokwengqondo, izimbangela zivame ukuba nzima ukuzinciphisa.
Cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi, kuyisibonelo sokuziphatha okufundiwe ngenxa yezici zangaphandle. Futhi kuvame ukususelwa ebuntwaneni.
Ngokuphikisana nalokho okulindele, abazali nothisha abaphikelela ezinganeni ezilwela ukuphelela - futhi ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu zijezisa labo abangaphansi kwalezi zindinganiso eziqinile - empeleni, banomthelela emicabangweni nasekuziphatheni okungenampilo.
Ukuthambekela kokufuna ukuphelela kuvame ukuqiniswa yindawo yokupheka ingcindezi yezilungiselelo zezifundo.
Isidingo sokuvelela senziwa abafundi futhi usongo lwemiphumela yokwehluleka empilweni yabo yesikhathi esizayo luphindaphindwa kaningi.
Kepha akugcini nje esikoleni nasekolishi - abantu abasha bavame ukuphoqwa ukuba bazuze ngokweqile kwezemidlalo, futhi.
Ithonya lalabo bazali abaphoqayo nabaqeqeshi abazimisele abagxile kakhulu empumelelweni, okungahlekisayo, ekugcineni lingaphazamisa ikhono lomuntu osemusha lokukufeza.
Nguwe lo?
Kungenzeka ukuthi awunaso isiqiniseko sokuthi ukuphelela kwakho kuyinkinga noma uze uqaphele ukuthi indlela osebenza ngayo inezimpawu zale ndlela yokuziphatha.
Ukukusiza ukuthi ubone izindlela zokuziphatha ezenza uphawu lokuphelela, nazi ezinye zezimpawu:
- Ukuzizwa njengokwehluleka kukho konke naphezu kwemizamo yokuphumelela.
- Ukuqaphela ngemithetho, uhlu, nezinkinga zomsebenzi.
- Unenkinga yokuphumula.
- Ukulwa nokwabelana ngemizwa nemicabango.
- Ukuhlehlisa izinto lapho ubhekene nomsebenzi ngenxa yezinkathazo ezingeke zikwazi ukuwuqedela ngokuphelele.
- Ukulawula ngokweqile ebudlelwaneni nomndeni kanye / noma abangani kanye / noma osebenza nabo.
- Ukwenqena ukuzama ngisho umsebenzi ngenxa yokwesaba ukwehluleka.
Uma amanye noma wonke lawa maphuzu ehambisana nempilo yakho, ungahle ukwazi ukuthi ukuphishekela kwakho ukuphelela kukuthinta kangakanani.
Njenganoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuziphatha, isifiso sokuphelela silele kububanzi kusuka kobumnene kuya kokubi.
Ngakho-ke, kungani kungenjalo thatha lokhu kuhlolwa ukukhomba ukuthi iziphi izingxenye zempilo yakho ezithintekayo nokuthi zikuleliphi izinga.
Uma usunebenchmark, uzokwazi ukuthatha izinyathelo ezithile ukunqoba ukuthanda kwakho ukuphelela.
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
- I-Wabi-Sabi: Ukuthi AmaJapan Akuthokozela Kanjani Ukungapheleli
- Kungani Ukuyekisa Okulindelekile Kuzoholela Enjabulweni Enkulu
- Izibonelo eziyi-12 Zokuziphatha Okufuna Ukuvunyelwa (+ Ungasilahla Kanjani Isidingo Sakho Sokuqinisekiswa)
- Ungakuyeka Kanjani Ukuzizwa Unecala Ngamaphutha Esidlule
- Izindlela Ezi-8 Abantu Abagxile Ngokuningiliziwe Bahlukile Kokubanye
- Ungajabula Kanjani Nokwaneliseka Ngalokho Onakho Empilweni
Izindlela Ezi-8 Zokunqoba Ukuthambekela Kwakho Kokuphelela
Njengoba sibonile, indlela engenalutho yokufuna ukuphelela ayinakho kuphela ukukhawulela impumelelo yangempela, kodwa futhi iyacindezela futhi iyakhathala.
Le miphumela engemihle neze ingeze ekupheleleni, akunjalo?
Uma ukhathele wonke lo mzamo owengeziwe nengcindezi engadingekile futhi uzizwa ufaka ingcindezi engafanele kulabo abaseduze kwakho, ungahle uthande ukucabanga ngezindlela zokulungisa okulindelekile kwakho futhi unqobe ukuphelela kwakho.
Nazi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa zezindlela ongahle uhlele kabusha indlela oziphatha ngayo ukuze udlulele ngalé kokulwela kwakho ukuphelela…
Linga Nge-80%
Ungahle wesabe imiphumela yokufeza okungaphansi kokuphelela.
Ungazama ukuzama ukungapheleli - mhlawumbe uhlose ama-80% esikhundleni se-100% - futhi uhlole umphumela wokugcina.
Mhlawumbe uzothola ukuthi labo abaseduze kwakho ngeke baze bawubone umehluko kodwa-ke uzobe uzinikeze ukuphumula ekufuneni kwakho okuhle.
Cabanga Ngamaphutha Esikhathi Esidlule
Zinike isikhathi sokubhala phansi amanye amaphutha angalibaleki owenze esikhathini esedlule. Ngokungenakugwenywa, impendulo yokuziphendulela ezenzekelayo kulawa maphutha izoba ukuzisola.
Kodwa-ke, uma ubheka le micimbi ngokucophelela, kufanele ukwazi ukubona imiphumela emihle.
Mhlawumbe ufunde okuthile noma iphutha lasho ukuthi ukwazile ukuthatha elinye ithuba elize ngemuva kwephutha lakho.
Inqubo ye- ukugxila kokuhle Umphumela wamaphutha ungakusiza ukuthi uwamukele futhi uzinikeze ikhefu ekuzijeziseni uma kwenzeka ngokungagwemeki.
Yiba Nobubele Kuwe
Amathuba ukuthi ikhanda lakho ligcwele ukukhuluma okungekuhle, okulethwa ngumgxeki wangaphakathi owahlulela ukusebenza kwakho kanzima.
Zama ukulinganisa lobo bunzima ngezwi elizwelana kakhudlwana.
Zitshele ukuthi kulungile ukuthi 'ulunge ngokwanele' bese uzama ukuziphatha ngomusa uma wenza amaphutha.
Ukulalela izwi elingaphakathi elibi bese uzishaya ngamaphutha kuzomeleza kuphela umphumela wazo engqondweni yakho.
Bheka Okwenziwa Abanye
Akuvamile ukuthi seluleke abantu ukuba baziqhathanise nabanye lapha ku-A Conscious Rethink, kodwa kulesi simo esikhethekile kunengqondo…
ungasishisi kanjani isoka lakho
… Uma kwenziwa ngendlela efanele.
Bheka nxazonke zakho kubo bonke abantu abangalweli ukuphelela. Labo bantu abazinzile 'ngokwanele.'
Zibonakala kanjani kuwe? Ngabe bonke badabukile futhi abakagcwaliseki ngoba abahlale behamba phambili entweni ethile?
Cha.
Eqinisweni, kungenzeka ukuthi bajabule kakhulu kunawe. Okuningi kwabo isimo esikhululekile ivumela ukuthi bamukele lapho izinto zingahle zingalungi.
Banamazinga angokoqobo, bazivumelanisa nanoma imuphi umphumela abawutholayo, baya phambili, futhi abazishayi.
Manje zibuze: lokhu kungifundisani ngokufuna kwami ukuphelela? Ngabe kuphelele konke okuqhekekile ukuba kube yikho?
Khetha Into Eyodwa Ku-Excel At
Ukupheleliswa kuvame ukugcwala kuwo wonke amakhona empilo yomuntu. Kodwa-ke akekho umuntu ongaba ophumelele kakhulu kukho konke abakwenzayo.
Ngakho-ke, esikhundleni salokho, khetha into eyodwa oyazisa kakhulu empilweni yakho. Ngemuva kwalokho gxilisa ukunaka kwakho namandla akho kulokho ukuze ukwazi ukuvelela kukho.
Lokhu akusho ukususa iso lakho ebholeni kwezinye izindawo zempilo yakho kusamele ugcine izinto zithikameza endaweni 'enhle ngokwanele'.
Kepha le ndlela izokunikeza indawo yokuthambekela kwakho ekupheleleni - noma ngabe ulwela ukuthuthuka okuqhubekayo hhayi indinganiso engenaphutha.
Ngakho-ke ungazuza ibhande elimnyama kubuciko obukhethiwe bempi, kodwa ungacabangi ngomzuzwana owodwa ukuthi uzoba phambili emhlabeni, ingasaphathwa eyekilasi lakho.
Noma ungaphuma uhambe kahle ukuze udlale ipiyano ezingeni lekhonsathi, kodwa ungakhathazeki ngenothi elilodwa elingalungile ngesikhathi sokudlala.
Inkohliso Iphutha
Lokhu kubuyela emuva ekuhlosweni kwama-80% esikhundleni se-100% futhi kuyindlela yokwelashwa okuchayeka.
Uma ufuna ngempela ukubona ukuthi umhlaba usaphenduka yize ungaphelele, yenza amaphutha owaziyo obuwagwema empeleni.
… Kodwa zenze zibe zincane okwamanje.
Ngakho qamba i-imeyili bese ufaka i-typo. Bhaka ngokweqile leyo brownie oyenzayo. Shiya ikona elilodwa lekamelo lakho lokulala ungcolile isonto lonke!
Izulu ngeke liwe. Impilo izoqhubeka. Qaphela futhi ufunde kulokhu.
Dala Ubuciko Obungaphelele
Ukwenza umsebenzi wobuciko kungaphumuza ngokumangazayo. Kungakugcina unamathele kumzuzu wamanje njengoba usebenzisa amandla akho okudala.
Futhi into enhle ngobuciko ukuthi ayidingi ukuphelela. Ubuhle bobuciko busesweni lombukeli. Akunasici sobuciko esingabizwa siphelele.
Ngakho-ke thenga indwangu kanye nopende kawoyela noma ubumba oluthile lokumodela bese ubona ukuthi ungaqhamuka nani.
Uma ukhetha ukudweba noma ukupenda, mhlawumbe zama i-cubism noma i-impressionism njengoba lezi zitayela zingathembeli emphumeleni ekubeni ukufana kwangempela kwalokhu ozama ukukuveza.
Futhi izitsha zobumba noma ezibaziwe zizohlala ziqukethe amaphutha nezinsimbi ezinamathelayo, ngakho-ke akudingeki ukhathazeke ngazo.
Uma usuqedile, ziqhenye walokho okudalile kanye nesimo sayo esingaphelele.
Phula Izinto Phansi
Lezi zinguquko ezilula zendlela zingakusiza ukuthi unqobe ukuthambekela kwakho ekupheleleni isinyathelo ngesinyathelo:
- Zibekele imigomo enengqondo, ongayifinyelela.
- Hlukanisa imisebenzi engahle ibe nzima ibe yizinyathelo ezilawulekayo.
- Gxila emsebenzini owodwa ngesikhathi .
- Vuma ukuthi kungumuntu kuphela ukwenza amaphutha.
- Yazi ukuthi amaphutha amaningi empeleni asiza ngokufunda nokukhula.
- Hlala unengqondo ngemiphumela engaba khona ngokubhekana nokwesaba ukwehluleka.
Okusemqoka
Njengoba, njengoba sibonile, le ndlela yokuziphatha iye yaba yisikhathi eside isenziwa, ngeke kube ukulungiswa okusheshayo.
Ngiyethemba, ngokwamukela ezinye zeziphakamiso ezingenhla, kungekudala uzokwazi ukusuka kule ndlela yokuphila engenalutho noma engenalutho.
Kuzodingeka uzikhumbuze njalo ukuthi KULUNGILE ukungapheleli futhi uzinikeze imvume yokwehlisa amehlo akho esiqongweni sokuphelela owawubona njengowukuphela komgomo ofanele.
Umbhali uHarriet B. Braiker wafingqa ngobunono umphumela ongemuhle wokufuna ukuphelela:
Ukulwela ukwenza okuhle kukushukumisela ukuthi ulwele ukuphelela kunciphisa amandla akho.
