Kule ndatshana emfushane, ebukhali, esheshayo, sizohlola enye yezinhlangothi zokuphila ezingakhulunywa kakhulu njengomuntu ophilayo, ophefumulayo. Kuyiqiniso ‘elibi’ abantu abaningi abakhetha ukungalicabangi nokulicabanga, ingasaphathwa eyokubhekana nalo futhi balamukele.
Leli qiniso linakho konke ukukwenza ngokulinganisela kanye nemvelo yokuphila emaceleni amabili. Uyabona, sesingumphakathi ogxile ekufuneni zonke izinto ezinhle - injabulo , impilo, ukwaneliseka, uthando (kanye nezinto abantu abaningi abacabanga ukuthi zinhle - ingcebo, amandla, ubuhle). Lokhu, nokho, kusenza singafuni ukwamukela noma yini embi noma engathandeki.
Empeleni, izinto eziningi esizibheka njengezilungile zimane nje ukungabi nokuthile kwenjabulo embi ukungabi nalusizi, ukuthula ukungabi nodweshu, ukwaneliseka ukungabi nengcindezi, inkolelo ukungabi nokungabaza, njalonjalo .
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Ngaphezu kwalokho, kujwayele ukuba nomjikelezo wemvelo phakathi kwezinto ezinjalo obangelwe enye ngaphandle kokuhamba nokugeleza kwempilo. Injabulo ayinakuhlala unomphela ngoba ukudabuka kuyindlela yemvelo yokusabela ezenzakalweni ezithile. Ukuthula ekugcineni kuzongena esikhundleni sengxabano, njengoba nenkolelo ichithwa ukubuya kokungabaza.
Ngaphandle kokubona okungokomoya okuphelele nokukhuphukela ngaphezu kwakho konke okuxhumene nomzimba womuntu ngamunye, ukuguquguquka phakathi kokuhle nokubi kuzokwenzeka kuze kube sezinsukwini zethu zokufa.
Kusho ukuthini konke lokhu?
Kusho ukuthi asidingi ukuzama ukubaleka kuyo yonke imizwa yethu emibi nezimo ezingamukeleki ngoba ziyingxenye nje yomjikelezo omkhulu izimpilo zethu eziwulandelayo. Ukugeleza akuyona njalo i-oscillation noma ngabe amaza amade futhi amafushane wokuhle / okubi kungenzeka.
ungasiza kanjani umuntu ohlukanisayo
Ungahamba amasonto, izinyanga, noma ngisho neminyaka ngaphandle kokuba nokuningi kakhulu kokubi okukungenayo empilweni bese ubhekana nesikhathi eside - futhi okuphambene nalokho. Ukuzama ukulwa namagagasi ngokuvamile kuwukuzivocavoca okuyize.
Ngakho-ke kufanele ngithathe nje yonke into engiphonswa yimpilo?
Uhlobo lwe, kepha hhayi ngqo.
Izinto ezimbi zizokwehlela , kepha unamandla okukhetha ukusabela kwakho kunoma isiphi isimo. La mandla akuvumela ukuthi unciphise umfutho ozizwa ngawo futhi zwakalisa imizwa yakho . Ungabhekana nesikhathi esinzima ngokukhethekile futhi usazise ngakho konke lokhu - isahluko empilweni yakho esizophela.
Ukwazi ukuthi izinto ngolunye usuku kuzoba ngcono, kukodwa nje, kungukushintsha okunamandla kokucabanga kwakho, futhi okungakusiza ukuthi ubhekane nakho konke okusemandleni akho. Noma kunzima njengamanje, ungaba nethemba eli-100% lokuthi ikusasa liphethe okuthile okungcono kakhulu kuwe.
Lokhu kuqinisile esikhathini esifushane nesikhathi eside. Imizwelo ingafika idlule ngesikhashana nje okusho ukuthi noma usuku lwakho lungaqala kabi, kunethuba lokuthile okungcono okuzayo.
Futhi imvamisa, lona kanye ulwazi lokuthi okuhle kulandela okubi kukwenza uvulekele ngokwengeziwe ukubona okuhle futhi ukwamukele empilweni yakho.
Kepha ngokuqinisekile lokhu kusho ukuthi izikhathi ezimnandi kufanele ziphele?
Yebo, nakho lokhu kuyiqiniso.
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Lapho ujabulela isikhathi esinokuthula nesimnandi empilweni yakho, yazi ukuthi sizophela. Ungase ucabange ukuthi lolu lwazi lungenza izikhathi ezinjalo zingabi mnandi kangako, kepha zicabange njengocingo lokuvuka ukuze wamukele wonke umzuzu ongenamkhawulo okwamanje.
Ukuqonda ukuthi okubi kuzolandela okuhle empeleni kuyisibusiso, hhayi isiqalekiso. Uma uhlala ekwenqabeni futhi unganaki ukubheka ukugeleza okungokwemvelo kwempilo, uzokuthatha okuhle kube lula.
Uma wamukela ukudluliselwa kokuhle kokubi, okuphambene kuyiqiniso. Uma usephepheni eliphezulu, uzolithanda njalo isekhondi elilodwa lalo wazi ukuthi kufanele liphele. Kuzokuphoqa ukuthi ungene kumzuzu wamanje ukuthi uhlanganyele nezwe ngendlela enjalo indlela eqotho nevulekile .
Ngabe ushintsho lube ngcono nje iphupho ngaleso sikhathi?
Hhayi njalo.
ukuzwa ukuxhumana ngokomoya nomuntu
Kwezinye izimo silungile xosha abantu abathile noma ukuziphatha kusuka ezimpilweni zethu lapho sinawo amandla anjalo. Ukuzithuthukisa kungenzeka kuwo wonke umuntu futhi kuyiqiniso kwabaningi. Singenza izinguquko ngenhloso yokuthola okuningi kukho konke okuhle, ngenkathi sifunda ukubhekana nokuphatha ngalezo zikhathi ezimbi.
Lokhu ngeke nakanjani kube nomthelela wokuthi amagagasi ashintsha nini futhi kanjani (yize kungenzeka), kodwa kuzosenza siwazise amagagasi nakakhulu.
Impilo, phela, inguquko ayinakugwenywa. Njengabantu, asikaphelele, kepha sinamandla okuthuthukisa izimo zethu ngamandla engqondo kuphela.
Sonke sizowenza amaphutha, sonke sizokwehluleka ngokudabukisayo kokuthile, sonke sizobhekana nezikhathi zosizi olukhulu. Kepha sonke singavuka sibuyele emuva, sonke singafunda emicimbini, futhi sonke singakwazi zikhule futhi zivumelane nabantu abangcono .
Khumbula lokhu: kwesinye isikhathi empilweni ungaba ngumshayeli, futhi kwesinye isikhathi kufanele ube umgibeli. Noma ngabe ukuphi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi esithile, yazi ukuthi isimo sakho sengqondo senza umehluko omkhulu ekutheni uluthola kanjani lonke lolu hambo.
