Kukhona okulindelwe ngokujwayelekile - ikakhulukazi emibuthanweni eqaphelayo, eyazi ngokomoya - ukuthi ngokushesha nje lapho sihamba endleleni yethu eyiqiniso, indawo yonke izosivulela yonke iminyango futhi sizokwazi ukuhamba sizikhandle lapho siya khona. Njengotshani obukhula kalula, kanjalo nokuziphendukela kwethu maqondana nokuphila okungcono kulindeleke ukuthi kubushelelezi futhi kuqonde. Kepha ngabe lokhu kulindela kuvumelekile futhi kuyasizakala?
Ukulindelwa kobuthakathaka kususelwa entweni ebhekwe kahle, yokuthi indlela yethu eyiqiniso ibhalwe uphawu ngu ukuvumelanisa . Ukufundwa kwalezi 'zenzakalo eziqondakalayo' kubuyela kudokotela wezifo zengqondo waseSwitzerland, uCarl Jung. Ngolunye usuku, ngenkathi isiguli esinengqondo kakhulu sisitshela ngephupho lapho sanikezwa khona isikhumba segolide, isinambuzane esifanayo sathintwa efasiteleni. UJung uthathe lesi sinambuzane wasinika intokazi: 'Nasi isikhafu sakho,' esho. Lokhu kuqondana okumangazayo kwaba nomuzwa ojulile kakhulu kuye kangangokuthi “kwagqobhoza imbobo ayeyifisa kwaba ukucabanga kwakhe okuhle.”
Lesi simo sitholakale sisebenza hhayi kuphela ngabadokotela bezengqondo, kepha abafuna ngokomoya bazo zonke izinhlobo. Lapho nje sesiqala ukuthola indlela yethu, sihlangabezana nalezi zenzakalo zemilingo, ezingasho lutho kuphela, kepha eziwusizo. 'Ngokungahleliwe' sithola ifayela le- incwadi noma i-athikili ephendula eyethu imibuzo , “ngengozi” sishayisana nomuntu ozosisiza ukufeza inhloso yethu, noma sithola uphawu oluthile luvela okusiholela endlini efanele, umuntu ofanele, uhlobo olufanele lomsebenzi.
anginayo intshisekelo empilweni
Umthetho wokuchasisa ongachazwanga nokho ongokoqobo uyasebenza lapha, oxhuma umhlaba wethu wangaphakathi nokuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphandle. Lapho siqondana ngokwengeziwe, kulapho sikhona “ekugelezeni,” kulapho sivame ukuzwa khona ukuvumelanisa.
Ngabe lokhu, noma kunjalo, kusho ukuthi ukukhula komuntu kuhlale kulula njengokuhamba ngendlela egandayiwe kahle? Ngabe lokhu kusho ukuthi sizozizwa kahle futhi sisekelwa kuyo yonke indlela ngenkathi siphumelela impilo engcono? Ngabe lokhu kusho ukuthi noma nini lapho sihlangabezana nezithiyo nobunzima, sisendleleni engafanele?
okufanele ukwenze ngemuva kwengxabano
Ukuze siphendule le mibuzo, kufanele siqonde okuthile okubalulekile ngesimo sokuphila uqobo. Maphakathi nekhulu lama-20, isazi sezinganekwane uJoseph Campbell wafunda izinganekwane, izinganekwane nezinganekwane ezivela kuwo wonke umhlaba, futhi wafinyelela esiphethweni esimangazayo: zonke izindaba emhlabeni zabelana ngesakhiwo esifanayo, asinika igama elithi 'Uhambo lweqhawe.' (Njengombalisi uqobo lwami, empeleni ngazama ukwakha indaba eyayingalingani nayo. Ukuzama ukuba ngummeli kasathane, ngangingeke ngikwazi! Njalo lapho ngiqhamuka nokuthile okwakungaphandle kohlelo lweCampbellian, kwehluleka ukuba Kwakuyincwadi nje “yocingo.” Yayingenamandla ashukumisayo.)
Lesi sakhiwo esiyisisekelo sendaba, uCampbell asithola, sigxile ngokujulile ekuzileni kwethu, okubonakala kunjalo i amapulani, hhayi nje wezindaba eziqanjiwe, kodwa ngempilo uqobo. Ngamanye amagama, impilo yethu uqobo ilingana nohlelo lweCampbellian!
Ngikhumbula ingxoxo ehehayo noDkt. Raymond Moody, ongubaba wezifundo eziseduze nokufa, waveza ukuthi yilokhu futhi okwashiwo abantu asebeke babhekana nokushona emtholampilo: “Ngesikhathi sokufa, impilo iyaphela ukuba yindaba.” Impilo yindaba, efinyelela esiphethweni ngesikhathi sokufa, lapho imicabango yesikhathi nendawo idilika futhi kwenzeka okuhluke ngokuphelele.
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
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Uma nje sisaphila, izimpilo zethu ziyizindaba, esinohlelo lwazo: Uhambo Lweqhawe.
Njenge iqhawe lanoma iyiphi indaba , lapho silandela olwethu ubizo lokuzijabulisa empilweni, sihlangana nabangane abasizayo. Kepha sihlangabezana nezitha, kanye nokubhekana nokuvivinywa okuningi nokulingwa. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, ngeke sibe namandla futhi asikwazi ukuguquka.
ukutshela kanjani uma sekuphelile
Cabanga ngakho njengokuqeqesha ukumelana. Uma sifuna ukuhlakulela imisipha eqinile, kufanele sibanikeze ukumelana okuthile okumele sikuphoqe noma siphakamise izinsimbi ezingaphandle kwendawo yethu yokunethezeka, noma kufanele senze ukuphindaphinda okuningi noma izikhathi ezinde kunalezo esivele sizijwayele. Onke amandla endalo anamandla aphikisayo. Uma sibeka inhloso enamandla yokwenza ushintsho olunamandla ezimpilweni zethu, singalindela usizo, kodwa futhi ukumelana! Ukukhuluma ngokwengqondo, ukuhlangabezana nokuphikiswa empeleni kungasiza ngezindlela eziningi. Kusikhombisa lapho i- uvalo nobuthakathaka bukhona, nokuthi yini okudingeka siyifunde ukuze sikhulele ezingeni elisha lokuba khona.
Ngakho-ke, akumele siyeke futhi sikholwe ukuthi sisendleleni engafanele, ngoba nje sihlangabezana nokuphikiswa okuthile futhi sibhekana nezikhathi ezinzima! Nginomngane othanda kakhulu izinto zokomoya, okholelwa ukuthi noma nini lapho esendleleni efanele, izinto kufanele zenzeke ngamandla. Isibonelo, waqala ukutshala imifino engadini yakhe, ngoba wezwa ubizo lokuphila impilo yemvelo. Kodwa-ke, lapho ama-slugs edla umkhiqizo wakhe wokuqala, wayeka ukuthi 'bekungafanele kube njalo.' Lokhu akukhona ukucabanga okunamasu. Esikhundleni salokho, ubengasungula enye indlela ephilayo futhi enobungane yezilwane ukuvikela imifino kuma-slugs futhi ahlanganyele lokho akutholile nabanye abasebenza engadini.
Kulungile, ungabuza, kepha singahlukanisa kanjani phakathi “kokumelana okujwayelekile” ebesihloselwe ukukuhlula, kusuka kwizimpawu zokuthi sisendleleni engafanele ngempela? Lo ngumbuzo osemthethweni futhi obaluleke kakhulu. Impendulo ilele ekubhekeni sonke isimo ngokuphelele. Uma umgwaqo esesingene kuwo awuzwanga muhle kusukela ekuqaleni, uma singazange sizizwe sikubiza ngokukhethekile, noma sathola ukuvumelanisa okuwusizo, lokho kubonakala kuyindlela okungeyona.
idwala lena impilo yakho
Kodwa-ke, uma sizizwe sinenjabulo futhi sizizwa sinenhloso yokuqala futhi sahlangabezana nosizo endleleni, kodwa futhi saqala ukubhekana nobunzima nokumelana, singaphatha zonke izinto ezimbi ezibonakala njengezilo ezinganekwaneni - lezi yizithiyo senzelwe ukunqoba. Indlela enjalo izosenza sibe namandla futhi sihlakaniphe ekugcineni.
Vele, kunesitha esisodwa sasendulo esinamandla kakhulu esingasenza sizizwe sibi noma ngabe impilo isiphokophele kokuhle kakhulu. Leso sitha sinjalo uvalo . Sibekelwe ukuhlala ngaphakathi kwezithiyo zezimo ezaziwayo, njengabantu nakanjani sizobhekana nokungakhululeki lapho impilo iguquka, noma ngabe kungcono noma kubi. Ngakho-ke, bopha futhi uyeke ukwesaba esikubhekise ezikhathini ezithile ezinesiphithiphithi, kepha kungenziwa kanjani ukuthi omusha azalwe uma, okokuqala, singavumeli ukuqaqa okudala…
