Okuwukuphela kwento engcono kunobudlelwano obuhle ucezu lukaphayi wamazambane olungena lolo ebudlelwaneni. Leli yiqiniso leqiniso elingenakuphikiswa. Futhi ubudlelwano obuhle buvela ngokwazi ukuthi bangahlangana kanjani nokuthi bashiye nini isihogo sodwa.
Ngamanye amagama: hloniphani ukuthi yize nibabili, nibe munye futhi nibe munye.
Cabanga ngobudlelwano beqola labaphangi abashushumbisayo, yilowo nalowo kini egwedla izingcezu zomkhumbi womunye nomunye, kodwa ukuhamba ngomkhumbi eduze kakhulu kungaba yisikebhe esisodwa. Kuzoba nezikhathi, noma kunjalo, lapho ukwehlukaniswa kokunakwa kubaluleke kakhulu njengokuhlukanisa impango yegolide uqobo.
Lokhu akuyona into ongeke ukwazi ukuyiphatha. Kungokwemvelo. Singazigijimisa ngokushesha futhi kalula ukuze ubuyele ebhuqwini elimnandi.
1. Umndeni
Into yokuqala okufanele uyenzele isikhala ku- noma yini ubudlelwano - futhi obubalulekile ukuthi sawubona kumphathi weposi onqenqemeni lomgwaqo, ukunqekuzisa ikhanda umabhalane ophumayo, ukushada ngemuva kweminyaka eyisishiyagalombili nisathandana - umndeni.
Umndeni omuhle, umndeni omubi, awunandaba. Igama elithi F likhona yonke indawo futhi lifinyelela konke. Ukuhlangana kabusha (noma ngabe uyafuna noma cha). Imibuthano yamaholide (noma ngabe uyagubha noma cha). Ama-stop-bys angahleliwe ngoba a: a) ayesendaweni b) kwakudingeka achame c) adinga imali noma d) ezwe ukuthi uyapheka.
Umndeni womuntu omthandayo uzofana nomkhomo onemikhono emnsalo womkhumbi: kwesinye isikhathi ubabazekayo, kwesinye isikhathi ube mkhulu ngokumangalisayo, ungabukeki, unuke futhi ube phezulu.
Othandekayo wakho kuzodingeka ajwayele lo mkhomo ngezikhathi ezithile. Uzokwenza okufanayo nangeyakho. Nobabili kufanele nibhekane nalokhu. Kufanele wamukele ukuthi umndeni kwesinye isikhathi uzongena phakathi kwakho, udlule kuwe, naphakathi kwakho.
2. Izingane
Akunandaba ukuthi bavelaphi. Kungaba owakho wedwa, kungaba owomlingani wakho, kungaba inkinga yenyunyana yakho, kungaba yingane yakwamakhelwane ekhukhumele.
umyeni akasanginaki
Izingane azibalekeki kule mpilo. Zidla isikhathi. Bazokudonsela kude imibono yenjabulo yothando ngangokunokwenzeka ukudonswa kuzo zonke izilwandle zomhlaba.
Uma ungakulungele ukwamukela ukuthi kunezikhathi othandekayo wakho azodinga ukubhekana nezimvume ezithile noma enye yengane (indodana, indodakazi, umshana, umshana, unkulunkulukazi, ikilasi, intandane engahleliwe), ngakho-ke awuzimisele ngobuhlobo.
Ngoba kunezikhathi, kufanele, lapho ingane kuthanda thatha isikhundla sakho konke okunye, kuze kufike futhi kufaka ukubhuka kwesidlo sakusihlwa kanye namathikithi kaStevie Nicks onethemba lokuthi uzokwenza ubusuku obuhle ngawo.
Bhekana nayo, hhayi ngokumelene nayo, futhi uzohlangabezana namazinga amasha okugcwaliseka ngaphakathi kobuhlobo bakho.
3. Abangane
Abangani bayinhlanganisela exakile yomndeni nezingane, ethatha indawo ephindwe kabili.
Yamukela ukuthi bazophuma emgodini wezimpahla nakuma-decks onke, lapho kufanele uzulazule khona ubenze ubazungeze futhi wenze kanjalo ngokumomotheka.
Kufanele wamukele ukuthi othandekayo wakho uzonyamalala, kwesinye isikhathi kube yizinsuku (okubizwa ngokuthi 'Uhambo lwabangane'). Akusikho okwakho ukwazi ukuthi kwenzekani ngale ntambama noma ebusuku ( abangane abahle ungavumeli abangane benze ekuseni). Uma usazi isimilo sothandekayo wakho nabangane babo, kufanele ube kahle ngokuphelele.
4. Izidingo Zedwa
Kuzoza isikhathi lapho othandekayo wakho eya esikebheni esiqhingini. Kuzohlala abantu. Lokhu akuyona into engaqondakali efuna ukuthi ubajoyine nge-tango enqunu olwandle.
ukuhlaselwa kohlu lokufa kwe-titan
Othandekayo wakho udinga isikhathi sakhe yedwa.
Ukuphinda: othandekayo wakho udinga isikhathi sedwa. Yenza isikhala sayo. Udinga isikhathi sodwa. Ukuba nesikhala sokuba khona ngokuphelele ngokwehlukana kubaluleke kakhulu njengokuhlangana ndawonye. Lokhu akusho ukuthi abakufuni noma abakudingi. Bayakwenza. Hhayi nje sonke isikhathi esinegazi.
Futhi, badinga ukuqhubeka nokuzithola, futhi imvamisa ingcebo yakho efihlekile itholakala ngezikhathi zokuhlukaniswa. Amagugu alolu hlobo ayinzuzo kini nobabili.
5. Imisebenzi
Kuyishwa ukuthi thanda abaphangi ayizi ne-401K. Othandekayo wakho kufanele asebenze. Kufanele usebenze. Umsebenzi ungahle uhlanganise ukuhlala sekwedlule isikhathi ngezikhathi ezithile, noma ngohambo lwangempelasonto oluya ehhovisi. Lokhu akusikho ukuphela komhlaba.
Yilapho uthola khona ukuthi ubasekele, mhlawumbe ubasize ngokwanele ukubasiza emsebenzini ukuze umsebenzi unciphise isikhathi sakho ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Ungabaphelezela lapho behamba baye ehhovisi bayokwenza amakhophi ngenkathi benza imisebenzi ebaluleke kakhulu.
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6. Izidingo
Ungaba umuntu wasekuseni. Bangadinga ukuthi uvale kuze kube ngaphambi kweshumi. Ungajabulela u-Adam Sandler kunoma yini ayenzayo. Bangase bafe kancane ngaphakathi uma bengafiki kuNdunankulu we-arthouse okungenani kanye ngenyanga.
ungenza kanjani usuku lusheshe
Ubudlelwano buwukuzulazula kwezidingo ezingahambisani ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ukwenza isikhala sezidingo zothandekayo wakho kusho ukwenza ukuyekethisa (i-movie ka-Adam Sandler ngeke ibabulale, futhi ungenza nge-expressionist cinema eyengeziwe empilweni yakho), wenze izinguquko (bheka esibukweni ugqoke okumnyama? Uhlala ugqoka zimnyama? Zigqokeni? Imibala egqamile? Umbala uyawondla umoya wazo. Gqoka ihembe elibomvu ngesinye isikhathi, ngenxa yobuhle!), Futhi ukwamukela nokuthi ungahle ungabi ukufeza izidingo zothandekayo wakho ngaso sonke isikhathi.
7. Ukudumala Nokungezwani
Yilapho ububula khona. Lolu usuku lwemvula, ukumuncwa okugcotshwe ngobuningi bobudlelwano. Akunakugwenywa njengomndeni, futhi ngokuqinisekile akukho okuzokhathaza ngokweqile.
Lezi yizikhathi lapho uvuma ukungavumelani futhi ubuyele emikhunjini yakho ehambisanayo ye-pirate ukuxhumana ngesiginali sentuthu uma kudingeka. Kepha xhumana nawe, ngoba uma kungenjalo isikhala phakathi kwakho sizokhula sisuke ebangeni elidingekayo siye esihosheni sasendle ukubuka kusuka kolunye uhlangothi lomhlaba.
Noma yibuphi ubudlelwano kufanele buzimisele ukuzinikeza umusa wokuphuma isikhathi ukuze bonke abathintekayo babone ukuthi bonke busebukhulu kunezingxenye ezihlukanisiwe.
8. Izinkolelo
Ungahle uhlanganyele izinkolelo, kepha ungahlangani, futhi naphakathi kwezinkolelo ezabiwe kukhona umehluko.
Ezinsukwini zakudala zokuhamba ngomkhumbi, kwakukhona labo ababecabanga ukuthi umhlaba uyisicaba, kanti uthando lwalusekhona phakathi kwabo kanye nokaputeni abanolwazi. Kufanele wenze isikhala sezinkolelo, phezulu, ezingabonakala zingakufaki wena.
Ekugcineni, uyabona ukuthi noma ngabe umhlaba uyisicaba, ndawonye nihamba ngomkhumbi ‘niyizungeze.
9. Izinkanuko Zangaphandle
Iqiniso lokuthi othandiweyo wakho 'ube nokuphila' kungenzeka ukuthi ngenye yezinto ezikudonsele kulo muntu. Sithanda umuzwa wobuntu nokuzimela kulabo esibamema ukuthi basondele kithi.
Manje, njengoba senindawonye, basathanda ukukhulisa isidleke segwababa, ukulwa ne-octopi, ithenisi ngoLwesine, nokufunda izilimi ezintsha uma kungengesinye isizathu ngaphandle kokunezela ekunikezeni kwabo amagama athukayo.
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Othandekayo wakho unentshisekelo ngaphandle kwakho, futhi kufanele uyenzele isikhala salokho.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele uyikhuthaze. Othandekayo onezintshisakalo uvame ukuba owenjabulo.
10. Ababili Benu
Umbhangqwana. Ubungani. Izibopho zomndeni. Noma ibuphi ubudlelwano kufanele benzele isikhala sobunye.
Onke amaqembu kufanele abone ukuthi iyunithi isebenza kahle kakhulu lapho likwazi ukuhlangana ngemuva kokuba izibopho zosuku sezihlangatsheziwe, kungaba ezobuchwepheshe noma ezijabulisayo, futhi zijabulela umqondo wamanzi okuhamba ngomkhumbi ndawonye.
Ngabe kufanele sifune ukunakwa okuhlukanisiwe kozakwethu ngaso sonke isikhathi? Vele akunjalo. Ngaphandle kokuthi singabantu abanika amandla abantu abalwa nokuzenyeza. Noma yibuphi ubudlelwano buyinhlanganisela yokuhlangana ndawonye nokuhlukaniswa, ukuhlonipha imingcele, izibopho, nenjabulo engokwemvelo yomuntu ngamunye ezinikela kubumbili.
Iyiphi indlela ye-hoity yokuthi imikhumbi emibili ebusuku inokuningi okumele ikhulume ngakho lapho ibona imikhomo kunomkhumbi owodwa ohamba wonke ulwandle luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Yo ho!
