Ukuba nothando olungenathemba yinto iningi lethu elingenakukuvuma, kepha ngasese kunjalo!
Uma uzithola uphupha ngokuthi ziyoba zinhle kanjani izingane zakho lapho ekugcineni uzoshada 'nenhle yesitolo sekhofi # 3,' kunethuba elihle impela lokuthi ube yinhloko phezu komqondo wothando.
Nazi ezinye izimpawu eziyishumi ozifunayo njalo (uma buthule) umphefumulo wakho ...
Uxoxa Ngomshado Wakho Ngokuningiliziwe, Noma Ungashadile
Ngicabanga (futhi ngiyethemba) ukuthi angingedwa ekuvumeni ukuthi amabhodi ami e-Pinterest afihliwe agcwele ukuhlelwa kwembali kanye ne-DIY bunting yosuku olukhulu. Impela, angishadile, kodwa lokho akungivimbi ekuphupheni ngosuku engithi ngalo 'ngenza' othandweni lwami lweqiniso.
Akukwenzi ‘uhlanye’ noma ukuzithandisa njengokuthanda ukucabanga ukuthi ekugcineni kuzokwenzeka nini. Ukukhombisa la mabhodi kothile osukwini lwakho lokuqala kukude kakhulu, kodwa kulungile ukuba namaphupho. Umqondo wokuthola ifayela lakho le- uthando lwangempela , ukushada, nokuhlala ekhaya lamaphupho nakanjani kuhlu lwakho lokuhlola impilo. Uzithola uphupha ngokufanelana nezingubo zokugqoka zezimpelesi kubo bonke abangane bakho, futhi usesho lwakho lwakamuva lwe-Instagram lubandakanya i- #dreamwedding, #Bahamaswedding, ne- #Isaidyes.
Uma uzithola uhlela ukuthi ungaphendula kanjani esiphakamisweni somphefumulo wakho, kuyaqinisekiswa: uyisithandwa esingenathemba.
Ungene Kakhulu Kwezenzo Ezinkulu Zomzimba
Amabhayisikobho abe nomthelela omkhulu endleleni esizizwa ngayo ngezothando, kuze kufike ezingeni lapho noma yiluphi uhambo oluya esikhumulweni sezindiza luletha isasasa elincane lokuthi uthando lwakho lweqiniso luzofika, ukujuluka, ukubamba isixha, nokubambezela indiza yakho ngenkathi umemezela uthando lwabo kuwe.
Izenzo zomzimba ezinkulu ziyindlela yokugcina yokufakazela uthando lwakho kothile, futhi usuvele uphuphe izehlakalo eziningana ezizomisa inhliziyo yakho. Umuntu wakho womphefumulo kungenzeka abe uhlobo lomuntu oqasha ibhaluni lomoya oshisayo okokuqala lapho befika ithi 'Ngiyakuthanda.' Bangalandelela indandatho kagogo wakho omkhulu futhi bakuphakamise ngayo lapho kushona ilanga lapho wahlangana khona okokuqala.
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Kunoma ikuphi, uthandana ngokuphelele nomqondo wesenzo esikhulu esikhombisa ukuthi uzakwenu ukukhathalela kangakanani, futhi umane ubala izinsuku kuze kube kwenzeka ...
Izinto Ezincane Zibala Futhi
Vele, i- Izinto ezincane zenza umehluko omkhulu futhi . Uzithola udangele njalo uma umlingani wakho efaka ifriji nge-yogurt oyithandayo, bese uncibilika uma bekhumbula kahle i-oda lakho lekhofi. Uma ungashadile, uphupha iphupho losuku lapho uthando lwakho lweqiniso luye khona ukukulethela izimbali lapho ziya emsebenzini, okwenza wonke umuntu osehhovisi abe nomona.
Izinto ezincane zikhombisa ukuthi umlingani wakho ukunakile, nokuthi bafuna ukwenza izinto ezizokujabulisa. Ukukhumbula imininingwane emincane ngawe kusho lukhulu, futhi kukusiza kuphela ekujuleni othandweni nabo.
AmaRomcom YiBhayibheli Lakho
Ah, ama-romcom, konke ukuthanda kothando okungenathemba. Lawa ma-movie asiqinisekisa ukuthi thina kuthanda thola uthando, noma ezimeni ezingalindelekile. Njengalokhu, ukulungele ngokuphelele ukuba semathandweni kuzo zonke izitolo ezidayisa izincwadi, ikhefi nezimakethe zabalimi ohambela kuzo. Uqinisekile ukuthi lawa mabhayisikobho azogqugquzela impilo yakho, futhi ukuwabuka kukwenza uzimisele kakhulu ukuthola ‘eyodwa.’
Ngemuva kwawo wonke amadethi amabi noma ubusuku obunesizungu, uzithola uphendukela kuzinto zakudala. ‘I-Notebook’ ikunikeza ukukholwa ukuthi umuntu owake wathandana naye eminyakeni eyedlule kuthanda vela futhi empilweni yakho, unomphela ngalesi sikhathi. 'Abangane abanezinzuzo' bayakuqinisekisa ukuthi kulungile ukungashadi futhi ube nempilo yocansi edidayo - uthando lweqiniso lusazokuthola. Futhi, uma konke okunye kwehluleka, uBridget Jones ukukhumbuza ukuthi ngeke ube wedwa unomphela.
Ungahle uthande (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
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- Ungayibhala Kanjani Incwadi Yothando Ezobenza Bakhale Izinyembezi Ezijabulisayo
- Umhlahlandlela Womuntu Ongaqondakali Komphakathi Wokuphola
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- Ngayeka Ukufuna Uthando Futhi Lwafika Langiluma E-Ass
Ubiza Abangane Bakho Ngemuva Kosuku Zonke
Usanda kuba kudethi yokuqala, futhi kalula unayo ukwabelana ngemininingwane yonke. Ngakho ushayela umama wakho umtshele izindaba ezimnandi bese ugcwalisa ingxoxo yeqembu ngama-anecdotes amahle nezithombe zobuqili ozithathile zosuku lwakho. Ngethemba ukuthi ukhumbule ukucisha i-flash.
Usuku ngalunye olusha ukuqala kwento engakholeki, ekhanda lakho, okungenani. Ukwabelana ngakho konke nabangani bakho kuyindlela engcono yokwenza umqondo wakho konke okwenzekile - ngabe wayeqonde ukuthinta umlenze wakho? Ngabe bekuthusa ukubuza igama labo le-Instagram? Ngabe wayehlola oweta? Kuningi ongakuthatha futhi udinga ukuhlanganyela yonke imininingwane. Vele, ubuyile kuPinterest uconsa amathe kuma-gown omshado. Bakhokhele i-latte yakho, ngakho-ke uyashada ngokusobala, akunjalo?
Ulinde 'Ukuhlangana' kwakho
I-Meet-cutes yiphupho lothando olungenathemba. Ngabe ikhona indaba ebabazekayo ongayixoxa ngosuku lwakho lomshado kunendlela nobabili enifinyelele ngayo ikhophi yokugcina yencwadi oyithandayo esitolo? Izandla zakho zahlangana nenhlansi kagesi, futhi ukusuka lapho, naningabomunye nomunye. Phakade. Ukuvakasha ngakunye emtatsheni wezincwadi, i-IKEA, noma ikuphi, empeleni, kukunika lowo muzwa 'Wezinsuku Eziyi-500 Zasehlobo', futhi awukwazi ukuwusiza.
Uqinisekile ukuthi uzohlangana nomphefumulo womphefumulo wakho ngendlela ebukhali, neceke kakhulu. Uzithola uphuma endleleni yakho yokuya emakilasini e-yoga (mhlawumbe amehlo akho azohlangana ngenkathi wenza inja eyehla?) Bese uchitha isikhathi esingenampilo ulinde i-dreamboat ezothatha ikhofi lakho lokuthatha esikhundleni sakhe (okungenani uyazi ukuthi igama manje - uthola ama-baristas ukuthi abhale igama lakho eligcwele enkomishini, uma nje efuna ukukucindezela ku-Facebook ngokuhamba kwesikhathi).
Uhlola Ukuhambisana Kwesibonakaliso Sakho Senkanyezi. Ngemuva Kosuku Lokuqala.
Ubuza ngobuqili ukuthi usuku lwabo lokuzalwa lungaphambi kokufutheka Googling uphawu lwabo lwenkanyezi lapho ufika ekhaya. Ingabe niyahambisana ?! Ukhomba konke lapho umhlaba unikela khona, ufuna impendulo. Yimuphi unyaka waseChina abazalelwa ngaphansi kwawo, inyanga yayikuphi lapho wahlangana okokuqala, futhi lokhu kusho ukuthini konke ngezingane zakho ezizayo?
Ukuthintana namandla aphakeme ukubona ukuthi i-crush yakho entsha ingaba yini 'eyodwa' kuwuphawu oluqinisekile lokuthi ungumuntu ongenathemba. Ubeka ukholo lwakho ezandleni zezinkanyezi, futhi uzitholele ukulanda uhlelo lokusebenza ukuze ukwazi ukuzihlolela kokubili usuku ngalunye.
Uphuma endleleni yakho ukuyobabona
Kungenzeka ukuthi usuthandane ngokungenathemba, bese uthola izindlela zokubona ukuthatheka kwakho. Impela, ukudlula umsebenzi wabo kungeza imizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu ohambweni lwakho lokuya ekhaya, kepha une- umuzwa ukuthi namuhla usuku abazokuqaphela ngalo.
Impumelelo Yokujola Kwabangane Bakho Yimpumelelo Yakho Nakho
Noma nini lapho umngane eqhubeka nosuku oluhle noma ehlanganyela izindaba zezikhathi zokuthi 'Ngiyakuthanda', uzithola ujabula ngabo. Impela, ungahle ube njalo umona omncane , futhi, kodwa lokho kulungile. Ungumuntu okholelwa othandweni lweqiniso ukuthi ujabule kakhulu ukubona umuntu ehlangabezana nakho.
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Wonke Umuntu “Unguye”
Uthandana nomqondo wothando kangangokuba uyaqiniseka ukuthi wonke umuntu ‘uyilo.’ Usuku kungenzeka ukuthi belungamangali, awunakho okuningi enifana ngakho, kodwa ungavele uzizwe ukuthi izinto zehlukile. Ufunda kukho konke abakushoyo nabakwenzayo, uqinisekile ukuthi konke kusho ngasese ukuthi “Ngiyakuthanda.”
Uthumelela abangane bakho imilayezo yokubatshela konke ngomuntu omusha oseke wahlangana naye, nokuthi bababazekayo. Uphupha ngokubazisa emndenini wakho, futhi uphupha ngeziteketiso ezinhle abazokubiza ngazo.
Uma izinto zingasebenzi, bekungafanele nje kube njalo. Usuvele uthandana nomuntu owaxhumana naye emehlweni esitimeleni, noma kunjalo…
