Izeluleko Ezi-7 Ezilula Zokujabula Emshadweni Ongenayo Injabulo

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Ukuba nobudlelwano noma ubungani nanoma ngubani kuzoletha izikhathi ezinzima nezibuhlungu ngoba uthando lumayelana nokungaphezu kokuzethemba nenjabulo.



Imayelana nokuthi umi eceleni nokuthi ngubani omi eceleni kwakho lapho izinto zimbi.

Kulula ukuthanda umuntu lapho izikhathi zimnandi. Yilapho izinto zingezinhle kangako lapho sithola khona ukubona ukujula namandla othando.



Futhi yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi ukwazi ukuzigcina ujabule lapho usezikhathini ezinezinkinga emshadweni.

Yonke imishado nobudlelwano besikhathi eside kuzoba nezikhathi ezinzima, ezinzima lapho abalingani bazodinga ukuzulazula ndawonye.

Ukuthi ubudlelwano abujabule manje, akusho ukuthi buzohlala njalo, ikakhulukazi uma bobabili abalingani bezinikele ekubusebenziseni.

Ngakho-ke kungaba ukuhlakanipha ukudela umshado wakho ngoba nje ungajabule njengamanje.

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Ngingahlala kanjani ngijabule emshadweni wami ongeneme?

Indlela engcono kakhulu yokwengeza injabulo yakho ukugxila ezintweni ezibalulekile kuwe kepha ezingalimazi ebudlelwaneni obusunamadwala vele.

Ngokugxila ekuzithuthukiseni nasekugcwaliseni imisebenzi yakho, ungasiza ekuqiniseni ukuzimisela kwakho nenhlalakahle yakho, ezodlulela ebudlelwaneni bakho.

1. Hlanganyela emisebenzini eyedwa oyithola ijabulisa.

Ingabe unezinto ozilibazisa wedwa? Ngabe kukhona ukuzilibazisa wedwa obukade ufuna ukukuzama kodwa ungakaze uthole ithuba elifanele lokwenza kanjalo?

Manje yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokungena kuzo futhi uzinike isikhathi esithile kude nengcindezi yomshado ongajabule.

Lawo ma-break amancane lapho ungagxila kokunye, ufunde okuthile okusha, futhi uthole ukuphumula ekucindezelekeni kungakusiza ukuthi uhlale endaweni ejabule ngokwengqondo.

2. Zibandakanye ekuzithuthukiseni nasekuzivocavoca umzimba.

Ukuzithuthukisa kuyindlela enhle yokwakha ukuzethemba kwakho nenjabulo yakho.

Thola inqubo yokuzivocavoca esebenza kahle kuwe futhi uyenze ibe yingxenye yempilo ejwayelekile.

Funda ukuthi ungazindla kanjani futhi ulandele ezinye izizindlo eziqondisiwe.

Sebenzela ukulungisa izinkinga zomuntu siqu okukuvimbela ukuthi uphile impilo ejabulisayo.

Kunezinto okungenzeka ukuthi ufuna ukusebenzela kuzo umlingani wakho angakwazi ukubamba iqhaza kuzo, futhi lesi yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokwamukela lezo ezizokuyisa ezingeni elilandelayo.

3. Zijwayeze ukubonga ngalokho onakho empilweni yakho.

Ukubonga kuyithuluzi elinamandla kangaka lokuthuthukisa injabulo yomuntu siqu.

Kaningi kakhulu, sizithola sigxila kulokho esingenakho, izimpilo zethu ezishodayo, kanye nokuthi yini esikufunayo kakhulu.

Inkinga yalokho kuhlale kunokunye okungaphezulu kokufuna.

Kuyindlela yokunyathela yaphakade futhi kufanele senze ukukhetha okuqondayo ukuyisusa uma sifuna ukuthola ukuthula kwangaphakathi nenjabulo.

Lapho uthola imicabango yakho izulazula ezinkingeni zakho nokuthi yini ongenayo, phazamisa leyo micabango ngokubonga buthule ngalokho onakho.

Mhlawumbe kungumsebenzi wakho, zingane, uphahla phezu kwekhanda lakho, ukuba nokudla etafuleni lakho, impilo yakho, noma ikhono lokuqhubeka nokwakha impilo yakho ibe yinto ebaluleke kakhulu.

Thola ezinye izici ze- umlingani wakho ukubonga futhi.

Mhlawumbe bangumzali omkhulu, banakekele ikhaya, noma banezinye izimfanelo ezinhle ngabo ozibongayo.

Kukhona ngokungangabazeki ezinye izinto selokhu ukhethe ukuzishada!

4. Yeka ukulwa ngezinto ezifanayo.

Kunezikhathi lapho okuthile kuphuka ebudlelwaneni obuthatha isikhathi eside ukukuhlanganisa.

Ungazithola ulwa nomlingani wakho emibuthanweni ngento ethile, futhi leyo mpikiswano ayibonakali iya ndawo.

Esikhathini esithile, kufanele unqume ukuthi kufanele yini ukulwa okuthile noma cha.

Izimpikiswano eziyindilinga ezingapheli ziqeda amandla angokomzwelo abalulekile nenjabulo.

Lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele uvumele konke kushelele, ikakhulukazi uma kunenkinga enkulu okufanele ilungiswe.

It enza kusho ukufunda ukuthola ukuthi ingxabano iyakhiqiza noma cha.

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5. Phuma endlini kaningi.

Ibanga elincane kungaba yinto enhle.

Udinga ikhefu empilweni yasekhaya eliba ngumthombo oqhubekayo wengcindezi nokukhathazeka.

Phuma endlini wenze ezinye izinto.

Iya ekuhambeni, thola itoho uma ungenayo, yenza umsebenzi wokuzithandela omncane ukubeka okuhle emhlabeni ongaziqhenya ngakho.

Zama ukungahlali ndawonye endlini yakho ukuze ugxile kungxabano onayo manje emshadweni wakho.

Izokwakha intukuthelo nentukuthelo, ezodala izimpikiswano ezingadingekile, ezizolimaza injabulo yakho.

6. Thuthukisa impilo yakho yomphakathi.

Impilo imatasa uma kuningi okwenzekayo ngomshado wakho, umsebenzi, izingane, kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo ejwayelekile yempilo.

Kulula ukuzithola uthena imisebenzi engabalulekile ukuzama ukwenza isikhathi sakho konke okudingeka ukwenze.

Iphutha elenziwa ngabantu abaningi ebudlelwaneni besikhathi eside ukuthi abakubeki phambili ukugcina impilo yabo yezenhlalo iqinile.

Umlingani wakho akayona indawo efanelekayo yokuba nobunye ubudlelwane bezenhlalo.

Abantu izidalwa zomphakathi. Badinga abanye abangane nabantu abazobambisana nabo.

Isizungu yisifo esikhohlisayo esiqeda injabulo kancane kancane, ngisho nakubantu abangenisa izethulo.

Futhi kungenzeka unesizungu emshadweni .

7. Gcina okulindelwe okufanele enjabulweni yakho.

Umshado ukuzibophezela okukhulu okuzothatha ingxenye enkulu yengqondo yakho nemizwelo yakho.

Kunengqondo ukuthi ungajabuli ngokuthi umshado wakho awuthokozi.

Yize ungenza izinto ukukusiza ugcine injabulo nokuthula kwengqondo ngenkathi usebenza ngezikhathi ezinzima, kubalulekile ukuthi ungangeni enkambisweni yokugwema ukulungisa ubuhlobo.

Kulula ukuphazamisa futhi uzinake kakhulu ekulimaleni komshado nokuzibophezela.

Izinkinga ngeke zixazululwe ngokuziba nje. Zizokhula futhi ekugcineni zibuyele ngaphezulu, zibuhlungu kakhulu futhi zinzima kunakuqala.

Lolu hlobo lokuzinakekela nokulondolozwa kwenjabulo yomuntu lukhulu ngokulinganisela. Kepha kuzoba nomsebenzi ongathandeki wokusebenza ngezingqinamba umshado wakho obhekene nazo.

Uma ungazizwa ukuthi uhamba phambili nozakwenu, kungaba umqondo omuhle ukuvakashela umeluleki womshado (noma) ongakuqondisa kangcono kunqubo yokulungisa ubudlelwano nokuvuselela okukuhlanganise okokuqala indawo.

Into eyodwa okufanele uyikhumbule yilokho okulindelwe okungenangqondo komshado ophelele, ojabulisayo kungakwenza ungajabuli kakhulu kunalokho okudingeka ube.

Ukwamukela ukuthi kuzohlala kunezingcosana ezincane kungakusiza ukuthi uthole ukuthula neqiniso, kunokuzama ukulwisana nakho.

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Akuyona yonke imishado engajabulisi okufanele iqedwe. Kepha kunezikhathi lapho izinto kunzima kakhulu ukuzilungisa.

Uma ushade usemncane, ungathola ukuthi wena nomlingani wakho nikhule ningabantu abehlukene, ngezindlela ezimbili ezihlukene.

Ungathola ukuthi indawo enivumelana ngayo ekuhlanganiseni akusekho - futhi lokho kulungile. Lokho kwesinye isikhathi kuyenzeka.

Bese kuba khona ezinye izindaba ezingaphula umshado ngokungenakulungiswa. Ukuhlukumeza nokungathembeki kubangela ukulimala okushiya izilonda ezijulile okungenakwenzeka ukuthi zisebenze noma zelaphe njengezithandani.

Kuleso simo, inketho engcono kungaba isehlukaniso. Uma kubucayi kangako, kungaba ngumqondo omuhle ukukhuluma nomeluleki ngesimo ngaphambi kokuthatha izinqumo zokugcina.

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