Kwesinye isikhathi, ezinye izinsuku, kubukeka sengathi akukho okuhamba kahle.
Kungaba uhlelo olubekiwe kahle oluqhekeka phakathi kwezigaba ngenxa yobuncane obungenamsebenzi. Mhlawumbe akuyona nje into esebenza ngendlela obucabanga ukuthi kuzoba ngayo.
Kunezikhathi lapho kubonakala sengathi yonke indawo kungenzeka ukuthi yakhela uzungu lokukunika isikhathi esinzima.
Hawu! Uwise inkomishi yekhofi!
ngingawushintsha kanjani umhlaba
Kungani ngikhohliwe ukucindezela inkinobho yokuqala yesomisi sami??
Yini engisanda kungenelela !? Mhlawumbe uma ngingabheki phansi, kuzosuka…
Vele, ngigijima sekwedlule imizuzu eyishumi! Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi umphathi uzokujabulela lokho.
Lo mhlangano uyisicefe kakhulu. Nginomsebenzi omningi okumelwe ngiwenze!
Qhubeka, uqhubeke, futhi uqhubeke uze ufinyelele lapho ufuna khona ukumemeza ngokukhungatheka.
Kulungile! Sonke sinazo lezo zinsuku. Okubalulekile ukuthi sibuyele emgqeni bese sizama ukungakuvumeli konakalise okungaba wusuku oluhle!
Ukwenza kanjani lokho?
1. Misa kancane.
Sonke sivame ukuba nalo mbono ezingqondweni zethu zokuthi sicabanga ukuthi isimo kufanele sihambe kanjani. Futhi uma kungahambi ngendlela esasihlele ngayo, kubiza imizwa efana nentukuthelo nokukhungatheka.
Okwamanje lapho okuthile kungahambi kahle, kufanele simise isikhashana, siphefumule kancane, bese senza isinqumo sokungagxili kuleyo mizwa emibi.
Impendulo engokomzwelo ingeza njengokujwayelekile, noma ngabe awuthukutheli empeleni noma awukhungathekile. Ungabhekana nesimo esikhungathekisayo, oqondayo ngengqondo akuyona into enkulu futhi usagxumela ngqo entukuthelweni ngoba yilokho nje ojwayele ukukwenza. Kuzwakala njengesinyathelo esilandelayo semvelo ekubhekaneni nokukhungatheka, kepha akudingeki kube njalo.
Mhlawumbe akulula kangako kuwe. Mhlawumbe unentukuthelo eguquguqukayo nemizwelo ejulile kunabantu abaningi. Ukumisa isikhashana kungakusiza nawe. Kungathatha isikhathi esithe xaxa nokusebenza ukuthola amandla akho nesikhungo lapho ubhekene nesimo esikhungathekisayo. Kulula, kepha akulula.
2. Cabanga ngokubaluleka kokukhungatheka.
Kulula kakhulu ukusetshenzelwa ngaphezulu ngento kunalokho okudingeka ngempela. Ngemuva kokuma kancane, cabanga ngokwenzekile. Ngabe lokhu kudinga noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuphendula okunzima ngokomzwelo?
Ukulahla ikomishi lekhofi kuyakhathaza. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzishise kancane. Manje sekunama-shards enkomishi yekhofi kuyo yonke indawo phansi, okulindele ukuthi nakanjani unyathele isitilili ngisho nangemva kokushanela phansi kathathu.
Futhi kufanele uzinike isikhathi sokuhlanza ukungcola. Ngubani onesikhathi salokho? Kusadingeka ukhiphele izingane esikoleni, uqede ukugqoka, futhi ulungele ukusebenza!
Cabanga ngokubaluleka kwalesi simo. Ngabe lokhu kuzodingeka ngemizuzu emihlanu? Amahora amahlanu? Izinyanga ezinhlanu? Iminyaka emihlanu?
Impela, kungathatha mhlawumbe imizuzu eyishumi noma eyishumi nanhlanu ukuhlanza ukungcola okunjalo. Bese kuthiwani? Bese uqhubeka nosuku lwakho, uqhubeke nempilo yakho, futhi ngokuphelele isibuko sakho sokubuka emuva. Akuyona into okufanele ukhathazeke ngayo.
3. Lahla ukukhungatheka.
Manje, sekuyisikhathi sokulahla ukukhungatheka, njengezicucu eziningi kangaka eziphukile zekhifi lekhofi eliwile.
Ukunciphisa izimo ezikhungathekisayo zisuka nje kuzobagcina ekufumaneni futhi kukusindise.
Yinye into engahambi kahle: kulungile, kuyenzeka. Into yesibili iyahamba kabi: ugh, kumele nje ngibe nosuku olubi. Futhi ngesikhathi into yeshumi isizungeza ngokungahambi kahle, kulula kakhulu ukukhungatheka nentukuthelo yokuthi akukho okungahambi njengoba kuhlelwe.
Yingakho kufanele uphazamise intukuthelo nokukhungatheka kusenesikhathi, ukuze bangabi nethuba lokukhuphuka. Uma isanda, kuba nzima kakhulu ukubhekana nayo.
Le ndlela ingabonakala njengenqubo eyenziwe lula ngokweqile. Futhi, kulula, kepha akulula.
Kepha kuyinto eba lula lapho uyenza ngokwengeziwe. Lapho unganciphisa ukucasula okuncane nokukhungatheka impilo ekuphonsa kuwe, kuba lula kakhulu ukugcina ukuthula nenjabulo yakho.
Kepha kuthiwani uma ukukhungatheka kwakho kukhulu kakhulu kunalokho? Kuthiwani uma kungashiyi kakhulu inkomishi yekhofi bese kusebenza emuva kwesikhathi, nokuningi kulayini wezinhlelo ezibalulekile kungasebenzi?
siyini isibonelo sokukhanyisa ngegesi?
Ubudlelwano abuphumeleli, isikole asihambi ngendlela obekuhleliwe ngayo, nempilo nje ayihambi ngendlela ofuna ukuthi ihambe ngayo.
Yebo, le nqubo encane ingasiza, kepha ezinye izinto ezingeziwe zingenza uhambo lonke lube lula kakhulu.
4. Zilungiselele ngaphambi kwesikhathi ngenxa yokukhungatheka.
Inkinga yokuphumelela ukuthi kuyaqabukela kulayini oqondile. Lapho sibona impumelelo, sihlala sibona umuntu omomothekayo, ojabulayo ekugcineni kohambo olude lwezikhathi, amahla-ndla, izilingo nezinsizi, ukwehluleka, nokuzama futhi. Bambalwa kakhulu abantu abenza icebo futhi baqonde ngqo empumelelweni ngaphandle kwezingqinamba noma iziphazamiso endleleni.
Hlela ngakho!
Yazi ukuthi lapho uhlela indlela entsha ozohlangabezana nayo nezingqinamba. Yazi ukuthi lapho konke kungabonakali kuhamba kahle, ungaba njalo vula indlela elungile.
Zilungiselele ngokwengqondo kulezi zimo ngokuqonda ukuthi ukwehluleka kuyingxenye yenqubo. Yindlela obheka futhi usebenzise ukuhluleka okunquma ukuthi uyaphumelela noma cha.
Ukwehluleka kuyithuluzi lokufunda elinamandla. Kukukhombisa okungasebenzi futhi kukufundise izinto ongazazi. Ngemuva kwalokho ungathatha lolo lwazi bese ubheka enye indlela eya phambili.
5. Bheka iphivothi.
Kwesinye isikhathi, izinto ezingahambi kahle zikhomba uhlelo olungasebenzi. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubunemininingwane emibi ngaphambi kokuthi uhambe. Kunzima ukwazi ukuthi yini ongayazi kuze kube yilapho lokho kuhlakanipha kukushaya ebusweni.
Yilapho i-pivot ingena khona. Ungathola ukuthi ukukhungatheka kwakho nesipiliyoni sakho sizama ukukutshela okuthile okuhle. Kungaba ukugqamisa elinye ithuba obungakwazanga ukulibona phambilini.
Funa indawo yokuzungeza.
Yini ongayenza ukuze wenze lokhu kukhungatheka kukhiqize? Ungakwazi yini ukwenza ngcono uhlelo lwakho? Ngabe ikhona enye indlela okungenzeka ukuthi ivulekele ukukunikeza ithuba? Ngabe udinga ukushintsha indlela ukuze usondele enhlosweni yakho? Lokhu kukhungatheka kungasebenza kanjani njengetshe lokunyukela kokunye okungcono?
6. Thatha ikhefu.
Impilo iyakhathaza. Izinto azihambi kahle. Ukuhlelwa kwepulani kuyawela. Konke ukucasuka okuncane kugcina sekwakha inhlekelele ebanga ukufutheka yokukhungatheka nenhlamba ebuhlungu nje ukubila.
Isikhathi sekhefu elincane nokuzinakekela okuthile.
Ikhefu 'elincane' empeleni lizoya ngosayizi wenkinga obhekene nayo. Mhlawumbe udinga nje imizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu ukuze ungacabangi ngokucasulwa kosuku okunqwabelana. Noma, mhlawumbe udinga ukuthatha impelasonto ukuze uphumule, uhlale nawe, futhi unciphise ukucindezela kokukhungatheka kokuphila okukufaka.
Nomaphi lapho ungayithola khona, thatha ikhefu kancane.
udlala kanjani kanzima ukuze uthole nomfana
Kunzima ukubona iqiniso lendaba noma ukuthatha izinqumo ezinhle uma uthukuthele. Ungathola ukuthi udaba olukhungathekisayo obukade ubhekene nalo alulutho neze uma usuthole ithuba lokwehlisa umoya futhi ubuyele kulo. Ungabheka lesi simo ngamehlo amasha futhi mhlawumbe uthole isisombululo esisobala obungeke usibone ngenkathi uthukuthele.
Kulungile. Kujwayelekile impela.
7. Thola usizo uma izinto ziba ziningi kakhulu.
Kwesinye isikhathi ukucasuka okuncane nokukhungatheka kuyakheka, noma kwenzeka uchungechunge lwezehlakalo ezingezinhle ezikwenza uzizwe sengathi akukho lutho oluzohamba kahle.
Uma ulwa ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba, akukho hlazo ekutholeni usizo nokusekelwa. Eqinisweni, kuyisinqumo esinesibindi nesinengqondo ukuthola umuntu oncika kuye lapho izikhathi zimanzonzo.
Lokho kungasho ukucela usizo kubangani noma kumalungu omndeni, kepha wazi nje ukuthi kungenzeka bangakwazi njalo ukunikeza izeluleko ezisebenzayo noma ezingakhethi. Bangase basho kahle, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi banqunyelwe ukubhekana nazo zonke izinto obhekene nazo.
Inketho ehlakaniphile ingahle ifune usizo lochwepheshe ngendlela yomeluleki oqeqeshwe ukukulalela ngokucophelela ngaphambi kokunikeza indlela ebhekwe kahle yokuphuma enkingeni obhekene nayo. Bazokwazi ukukululeka ngezindlela ezingokoqobo nangesimo sakho somphefumulo lapho kungekho lutho olubonakala luhamba kahle.
Ungachofoza lapha ukuthola umeluleki oseduze nawe, noma ozokwazi ukusebenza nabakude bakho ngezikhathi ze-inthanethi.
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