Injabulo icishe isondele phezulu kohlu lwezifiso zabantu abaningi ngokuphila, kepha abaningi balwela ukuyigcina noma ibuphi ubude besikhathi ngenxa yezinkolelo ezithile ezibhubhisayo abanazo.
Kule ndatshana, sizosusa izinganekwane eziyi-9 ezivame kakhulu esizitshela zona, ukuze zingabe zisakugcina usesimweni sokungajabuli okungapheli.
Inganekwane # 1: Injabulo Yami Ixhomeke Kubantu Nemicimbi Engingayilawuli
Umbono oyiphutha owaziwa kabanzi ngenjabulo ukuthi uncike emazwini nasezenzweni zabanye abantu, nasezimweni ozithola ukuzo.
Ngenkathi ungahle uthokoze ukuhlangana nabanye noma uma imicimbi isihambile, ukusho ukuthi kungenzeka kuphela ngenxa yalezi zinto akulona neze iqiniso.
ubuhlobo buphela nini ngempela
Eqinisweni, ngenkathi abantu nemicimbi idlala indima yabo kokunika amandla nokuvikela injabulo, amandla ayisisekelo ahluke kakhulu. Siyajabula lapho izinkathazo zethu, ukukhathazeka, ukwesaba, kanye nokukhathazeka kuncibilika ku-solvent yendawo yonke yesikhathi samanje.
Njengoba izingqondo zethu zidedela yonke imithwalo yethu, isikhala sivulekela okunye - ukuthi okuthile kuvame ukujabulisa. Abantu nemicimbi kungasisiza ukuthi singene manje futhi sizihlanze kunoma yiziphi izinkinga esingase sibhekane nazo, noma zingasinikeza isizathu sokukhathazeka - kepha zingenza kuphela uma sizivumela.
Njengoba nje ungathola izikhathi zenjabulo ngezikhathi zesiyaluyalu esikhulu, ungahlushwa amafu amnyama engqondweni yakho yize kunokuthula okubonakalayo kwesimo okuso njengamanje.
Inganekwane # 2: Injabulo Yami Izofika Lapho Ekugcineni Nginayo [X]
Enye inkolelo ngenjabulo evame ukusivimbela ekuyizweni ukuthi sizoyithola ngokushesha nje lapho siphumelele noma siphethe okuthile.
Singazitshela ukuthi injabulo izobonakala ngokushesha nje lapho sithola lokho kukhushulwa, sithola imali ethe xaxa, sinobaba waleyo ndlu, sihamba kulolo hambo, sithole lowo muntu okhethekile, sifeze leyo nhloso, noma sibe nalowo mndeni.
Lokhu kuyinkinga ngoba asikwazi ukubikezela ngokunembile ukuthi ikusasa lingasigcinelani. Uma sivumela injabulo yethu incike kakhulu ekutholakaleni kwezinto ezithile, lapho-ke sizilungiselela ukudumala lapho zingenzeki.
Lokhu kuhlangana ngokusondelene kakhulu namaphoyinti enziwe enganekwaneni eyodwa silwela ukuthola izinhloso ezithile ukuze sizikhulule ebuhlungwini nasekungakhululekeni esizizwa ngakho, kepha injabulo yethu ayincikile futhi ayikwazi ukuthembela kokuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphandle nasesikhuthazweni.
Inganekwane # 3: Akukho Okuhle Okuke Kwenzeke Kimi
Abanye abantu bahlushwa inkolelo ecashile yokuthi badalelwe ukungajabuli ngokuthi izinto ezinhle azisoze zafika ezingqondweni zabo.
Ngeshwa, yilokhu ukucabanga kwesisulu lokho kuvimbela kaningi injabulo ekuqubukeni ngokuzenzekelayo ezimpilweni zabo. Uma uzitika ngale ndlela yokucabanga okungenathemba, kuthikameza ngendlela obona ngayo umhlaba okuzungezile. Kukushiya ungaboni kunoma yimuphi umthombo wenjabulo futhi kukwenza uzwele ngokweqile kuzo zonke izinto ozibona njengezingezinhle.
Ngempela ulahlekelwa injabulo ngoba uyaqiniseka ukuthi ayikho futhi ngoba umatasa kakhulu ufuna zonke izinto ezingamukeleki. Lokhu kugxila kukwenza ukholelwe enhlanhleni yakho embi nakwinhlanhla yabanye, noma ngabe ayinaso isisekelo empeleni.
Inganekwane # 4: Imicabango Emibi Noma Imizwa Yimbi
Ukungaqondi okujwayelekile ngenjabulo ukuthi kuyafa lapho imicabango emibi noma imizwa ivela, kanti empeleni, kungaba ngalezi zikhathi lapho kuhlwanyelwa khona imbewu yenjabulo.
Isizathu salokhu ukuthi lapho thina zwakalisa le micabango nemizwa , kuyingxenye yenqubo yokwelashwa efinyelela umvuthwandaba wethu ngokwamukela nokuqhubekela phambili sisuka kubo. Uma sizama ukucindezela le mizwa, asikwazi ukucubungula nokuxazulula imbangela yazo. Bese bakhula ngaphakathi kwe- izingqondo ezingazi lutho , usihudulela phansi njengezinsimbi entanyeni yethu.
Indlela enempilo yokuthola yonke imizwa - emihle nengalungile - ukuyivumela iqhume ngaphakathi futhi ibonakale ebusweni. Inqobo nje uma ungalimazi abanye, kulungile ukuzizwa udabukile, ulimele, noma ngisho uthukuthele noma wenza kanjalo, ingqondo yakho izoqala ukwamukela okwenzekile futhi ekugcineni kuzodlula.
ukubuyisela impilo yakho emgqeni
Umuzwa ovezwa, uxazululwe, futhi wamukelwa yilowo osheshe ufiphele bese lokho kuvumela injabulo ukuthi iphinde ivele. Ukubamba imizwa yakho kudala umgoqo wenjabulo.
Inganekwane # 5: Lokho Engikucabangayo Ngesimo Kulungile
Injabulo ivame ukuphulwa ngokubhekana nabanye abantu. Lokhu kwenzeka lapho imicabango yakho ngento ethile ingqubuzana neyomunye umuntu.
Le nkinga ilele kokwenqaba komuntu ukwamukela ukuthi lokho abakucabangayo kungenzeka kungabi yiqiniso eliphelele noma iqiniso. Noma nini lapho lokhu kwenzeka, kungenzeka ukuthi kube yisikhathi nje ngaphambi kokuthi kuvele ingxabano, ngokungenakugwemeka kuphazamisa ukuthula nenjabulo okungenzeka bekuyandulele.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, akudingeki nokuthi kube nokuphikisana ngokomzimba nomunye umuntu ngoba ukwazi nje imibono ephikisayo kungadala impikiswano yangaphakathi ngaphakathi kwengqondo. Ungahle ufunde, uzwe, noma ubuke eminye imibono ivezwa bese uzithola ususebenza kanzima ngayo.
Noma nini lapho ungakwazi ukwamukela ukuthi umbono wakho kungenzeka ukuthi awukuphela kombono, injabulo izokulwa kanzima ukukhula.
Okuthunyelwe okuhlobene (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
- Izici Ezijwayelekile ezingama-30 Zabantu Abajabulayo (Ongazilingisa)
- Ungaphinde Ujabule Futhi: Izeluleko eziyi-15 Zokuthola kabusha Injabulo
- Imikhuba Engama-22 Yabantu Abangajabule Ngokuphakade
- Ungakhululeka Kanjani Esikhunjeni Sakho
- Ungathathi Kanjani Amanye Amazwi Nezenzo Zabantu Ngokwakho
Inganekwane # 6: Ukwehluleka Kubi
Sivele sikhulume ngokuthi izehlakalo, izimpahla, kanye nokufeza akulilawuli kanjani izinga lakho lenjabulo, kepha kuningi okungashiwo ngokuzama nokuhlangabezana nezinto ezintsha.
Yi- isenzo sokwenza, ukuzama, nokufunda okunikeza izisekelo zenjabulo kunokuba uphumelele noma cha, kepha abaningi bethu banamathele enkolelweni yokuthi ukwehluleka kuyinto embi.
Uma u ukwesaba ukwehluleka , awunaki nokwenza umzamo futhi lokhu kukunikeza ithuba elincane lokujabulela isenzo sokwenza nokuzama. Kufana nokuya ebhishi ungakhi isandcastle ngoba uyazi ukuthi igagasi liyaligeza - uphuthelwa yibo bonke ubumnandi bokuba nesandla ekwakheni kwasekuqaleni.
Ukwamukela lokho kwehluleka akukubi ngokuphelele kukukhulula ejele lokungenzi lutho, okuvula isango lokuthola injabulo.
ungalunqaba kanjani usuku ngesizotha
Inganekwane # 7: Ukucela Usizo Kuyisibonakaliso Sobuthakathaka
Lapho silwa nenkinga ethile noma imizwa ethile, imvelo engaphakathi akuyona leyo injabulo ingaba khona kuyo. Ngakho-ke, lapho sikwazi ukubhekana nayo ngokushesha, singaphinde samukele injabulo ezimpilweni zethu.
Ungacabanga-ke, lokho ukucela usizo kwabanye bekungaba lula kithina ngoba besizokubona njengendlela yokuphuthumisa uhambo lwethu lokubuyela esimweni sengqondo esijabulisayo. Kodwa-ke, abantu abaningi babona ukucela usizo njengophawu lokuthi babuthakathaka noma abakwazi.
Le nkolelo yamanga iqhubekisela phambili ukuhlupheka kwethu ngokusivimba ekufuneni izixazululo ngaphandle kwezingqondo zethu. Nqoba la manga futhi uzosebenzisa isikhathi sakho esincane osichitha ngezinkinga nemizwa enenkinga, futhi, ekunika isikhathi esithe xaxa sokujabulela isimo senjabulo.
Inganekwane # 8: Umlando wami ungivimbela ekuthokozeni
Imvamisa, labo abalwela ukuthola injabulo ezimpilweni zabo bakwenza lokho ngenxa yokuhlukumezeka okuthile noma isehlakalo esedlule. Bakholelwa ukuthi izinto ezingezinhle ezize ngaphambili ziyabavimba ekutholeni injabulo okwamanje.
Ngenkathi izehlakalo ezedlule zingahlala engqondweni impilo yonke, imizwa ehambisana nazo akudingeki isho ukuphila okungenayo injabulo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, injabulo izwakala ngokweqiniso kuphela lapho ingqondo ikhona ngokugcwele kulesi simo, akukho zinkumbulo noma izifo ezedlule ezingangena.
Ngakho-ke, noma ngabe izenzakalo zesikhathi esedlule zingakucindezela kanjani, izinkumbulo nemizwa kungakha kuphela izithiyo zenjabulo uma uzivumela. Akukho ongakusho ukuthi abakwazi ukunqotshwa.
Inganekwane # 9: Awukwazi Ukufunda Injabulo
Abanye abantu bathule kakhulu kunabanye futhi yileyondlela okufanele ibe ngayo - noma okungenani, yilokhu abaningi abakholelwa kukho.
Empeleni, akukho okukuvimba ekwenzeni injabulo ibe yemvelo futhi ejwayelekile ukwedlula manje. Ucwaningo olwengeziwe luyakhombisa ukuthi a umbono oqondile , enye ekhuthaza iziphonso zenjabulo njalo, yinto engafundwa.
Kunezinto ongazenza ukufaka lesi simo sengqondo kuwe, kufaka phakathi, kepha kungagciniwe, ukuzivocavoca umzimba, ukudla, ukulamula, ukucabanga, ukubonga kanye ukuthola ibhalansi phakathi komsebenzi nokudlala.
