Izimpawu Ezingu-9 Unobuntu Obuhlanya Obuhlanya Kepha Zibukeka Zibuhle Ngempela

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Kepha eceleni kwala mandla, kukhona olunye uhlangothi kuwe olungumphefumulo obucayi olungiselelwe kahle ukudlidlizela okunikezwa abanye abantu.

Kuyingxubevange exakile ukuba nayo, kodwa lokho nguwe nokho okuyimpicabadala, ukuphikisana, inhlanganisela ephikisanayo eqinile futhi ethambile.



Ngakho-ke yiziphi izici ezikwehlukanisa? Yini eyenza umuntu oqinile, ozwelayo?

1. Usakhungatheka ngezikhathi ezithile.

Izinzwa zakho zihambelana kakhulu futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi ukukhuthazwa okungapheli komhlaba wanamuhla kwesinye isikhathi kungakugubuzela. Noma kunjalo, naphezu kwalokhu, unamandla angapheli okulwa noma ungavumeli noma yini ikumise endleleni yakho ngoba uyawabona amandla onawo okwenza impilo ibe yinoma yini oyifunayo.

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2. Udinga isikhashana sokuthula ukuze uvuselele amabhethri akho.

Ngenkathi ungumuntu ophumayo futhi onobungane, awutholi amandla kwabanye, kepha, esikhundleni salokho, nika amandla akho amaningi abantu ochitha isikhathi sakho nabo njenge isingeniso ngabe.

Ngakho-ke, ngenkathi abanye bengalindela ukuthi ube khona kuwo wonke amaphathi noma umcimbi ekhalendeni lezenhlalo, empeleni udinga isikhathi esilinganayo osichitha wedwa. Lesi sikhathi sokuthula yindlela oqaqa ngayo uphinde uvuselele amabhethri akho futhi futhi yindlela olahla ngayo noma yikuphi ukucasuka noma ukunganaki okungenzeka ukuthi ukuthathile.

3. Awudingi ukuba yisikhungo sokunakwa.

Akuvamile ukuthi uzithole usemaphakathi nezinto, kodwa akukaze kube njalo inhloso yakho ukugcina lapho. Ngenxa yobuntu bakho obunamandla namandla oqobo wemvelo, abanye bazithola bedonswa kuwe njengenundu elangabini.

Ngaphandle kwalokhu, i-ego yakho igcinwe kahle futhi igcinwe kahle futhi usebenzisa isikhathi sakho esiningi uqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu ulungile futhi uzijabulisa. Awusoze wasizwa isidingo sokubukisa ngokweqile futhi ulwela ukuqonda labo bantu abakwenzayo.

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4. Ufisa izingxoxo ezijulile.

Ukhetha kakhulu izingxoxo zomuntu siqu, ezinengqondo, nezingokomoya kunezingxoxo ezincane, ozithola zibuhlungu ngokushesha.

Ungabona futhi lapho othile ebamba imizwa yakhe yangempela noma ngisho ukuqamba amanga kuwe futhi kukuhlupha kakhulu ngoba uyazi ukuthi ubuzobekwa kangcono ukusiza ukube bebethembekile. Lokhu kungaholela ekutheni uchithe isikhathi esiningi namandla uzama ukuthola ukuthi zingaba yini izinkinga zalowo muntu.

5. Ungumlaleli omuhle.

Uyakuthanda ukukhuluma, kodwa wazi kahle isikhathi esifanele sokuvala umlomo ulalele. Ukwazi ukukhululeka okungavela ngokuvulela umuntu othile, uyakwazi ukuba yilowo abangane bakho nabathandekayo bakho abathembela kuye.

Ulalelisisa futhi unakekele ngokujulile futhi ungasho njalo lapho umuntu efisa ukuthi unikeze iseluleko futhi lapho edinga nje indawo yokuvezela imizwa yakhe.

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6. Awesabi ukubiza abantu, kepha hlala unezinhloso ezinhle.

Uyawazwela amanga futhi awukuthandi nakancane noma ikuphi ukuziphatha okulimaza noma okulimaza abanye abantu, futhi ngenxa yamandla akho obuntu, awumi eceleni.

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Noma ngabe nguwe noma umuntu omkhathalelayo ngokungahlonishwa, uyakhuluma futhi kwenze kwaziwe ukuthi lokho kuziphatha akwamukeleki futhi ngeke kubekezelelwe.

Ngaso sonke isikhathi nenza njalo, ngenhloso yokukhuthaza ukuthula nokubuyisana anibandakanyi ukuqala impi noma ukugqugquzela udweshu.

7. Awukwazi ukuzibamba kodwa ubhikishele izenzo zezilima.

Kungabukeka sengathi uyakuthokozela ukuhlabela ngabantu, kepha iqiniso ukuthi uyazwela ezinkingeni zabanye nasezindabeni ezinkulu ezibhekene nomphakathi. Unalokhu engqondweni, awukwazi ukuvele ulume ulimi lwakho lapho ubona noma uzwa izinto eziyiziphukuphuku - futhi kunezimilo eziningi kakhulu kuleli zwe ongazithanda.

8. Uyazikhethela ukuthi uthandana nobani.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu oyifunayo kumlingani ongaba naye yikhono lokuba eyiqiniso nethembekile kusukela ngesikhathi ohlangana ngaso. Uthola ukukhuluma okuncane kungadingeki ngokuphelele futhi ukhetha ukufunda ngomuntu ngokuqhubeka kwemvelo kwengxoxo yangempela nokuhlangenwe nakho okwabiwe.

Ngenxa yokuzwela kwakho nokuzwela kwakho lapho othile ebeka phambili, ukuthola kunzima ukuthandana nabantu ngomqondo wendabuko futhi maningi amathuba okuthi bakhubeke nosuku emhlabeni wangempela kunakuwebhusayithi noma kuhlelo lokusebenza lweselula.

9. Kwesinye isikhathi uya “kwimodi ethulile” uzungeze abantu abathile.

Awunandaba nokwabelana ngamandla akho nabantu ababalulekile empilweni yakho - abangani bakho nomndeni wakho - kepha uma uhlangana nomuntu ongatholi uhlobo olufanele lwe-vibe kuye, uqala ukuzibandakanya kuwe ukuze ugcine lezo zitolo zamandla .

Amandla akho asekhona futhi uhlala uqaphile nge-BS noma ukungahloniphi, kepha uthatha iqhaza elibonakalayo lokufunda kabanzi ngabo ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo sokuthi afanele yini amandla akho.