Uma unamathela emibonweni ehambisana nezici ze-Alpha, i-Beta, njll. Kubo bobabili ubuntu besilisa nowesifazane, kungenzeka ukuthi ukhonjelwe ekukholweni ukuthi i-alpha female ikhombisa izindlela ezithile zokucindezela nezokuhlukumeza.
Abesifazane be-Alpha bachazwe njengabaphathi, abakhohlisayo, abahlukumezayo ngokocansi, abazithobayo, nabathenayo, kodwa lezo yizici ezivame ukuboniswa ngabantu abafuna ukulawula, kodwa kungenjalo.
TO kwangempela U-Alpha wesifazane angaba ne- ubuntu obuqinile , kepha okumenza abe ngumholi, okukhuthaza inkuthalo nokuqina kwakhe, umqondo oqinile wokuzethemba, nenjongo.
1. Uletha abantu ndawonye.
Owesifazane u-Alpha angaba “yisikhungo” esiphakathi kumbuthano wakhe wezenhlalo, futhi uyathanda ukuxhumana nabantu. Esimweni seqembu, njengephathi noma ingqungquthela yomsebenzi, uzoqhuba isixuku esimzungezile njenge-orchestra. Kunoma yisiphi isimo, angathola indawo abavumelana ngayo, angathulisa ukungezwani, avuselele ingxoxo emnandi, abeke nalabo abaseduze naye ngokukhululeka.
Uzokwazi ukubona i-Alpha yangempela kunoma iyiphi indawo yokuxhumana nomphakathi, njengoba wonke umuntu omzungezile ezolokhu ebheke ngakuye ukuthola izinkomba zokuxhumana nabantu.
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2. Uyakumela lokho akholelwa kukho.
Abantu abaningi bazama ukuthulisa abesifazane abanamandla ngokubathuka noma ngokubasabisa, futhi le ntokazi ngeke ibe Nakho Kulokho. Akayena uhlobo lokuzikhukhumeza noma umuntu ongakwazi ukubekezelela, kodwa, kunalokho, unomuzwa oqinile wobulungiswa nomthwalo wemfanelo, futhi ngeke abambe ulimi lwakhe lapho ebhekene nokungabi nabulungisa.
Lokhu kungenzeka kudale ukuthi abanye bambheke 'njengonzima,' kodwa empeleni ukuthi akayona imvu enesibindi, engenangqondo, elalelayo ejabule ukulandela wonke umhlambi. Uyayazi eyakhe ingqondo, uzifundisile ngezihloko ezibalulekile kuye, futhi uzosebenza ngezinkinga ezigcina umlilo wakhe wangaphakathi uvutha.
Imvamisa uzothola abesifazane be-Alpha ezinhlelweni zokufinyelela emphakathini, noma izinhlangano ezahlukahlukene ezingenzi nzuzo ezisebenzela okuhle kakhulu.
3. Uyakwazi ukubekezela.
Impilo ibingahle imkhahlele phansi amahlandla ambalwa, kepha ubuyisile indlela yakhe yokuphuma kunoma yisiphi isimo azithola ekuso. Kungenzeka ukuthi wabhekana nokugula, ukungabi nabulungiswa, izimo ezihlukumezayo, ubumpofu, noma esinye isibalo sezingqinamba ezinkulu, kepha yena ukhuthazelele ngakho, futhi uzophinda futhi, uma kudingeka. Kukho konke, uzogcina umuzwa wenjongo - ngisho nethemba - futhi yena. kuthanda. hhayi. nika. phezulu.
4. Uthembekile esizweni sakhe.
Uma uzuze uthando nokwethembeka kowesifazane we-Alpha, ungaqiniseka ukuthi ukubheka lokho njengongcwele. Uzoba yisivikelo kuwe, ame eceleni kwakho lapho umdinga, futhi uzoba lapho ngawe ebunzimeni nasebubini. Uma enza isithembiso kuwe, okuwukuphela kwezizathu zokuthi kungani ephule leso sifungo uma kungenzeka ukuthi akakwazi ukusebenza, noma ushonile.
Angaba nabantu abajwayelene nabo abaningi, kepha owesifazana ojwayelekile we-Alpha unabangani abambalwa kakhulu abaseduze aye wabavumela bangena ngaphakathi, okungukuthi. Yize engakha ubudlelwano cishe nanoma ngubani, njengoba ephatha nxazonke zakhe ngenhlonipho nangesizotha, akathembi kalula. Lapho othile ezuze ukwethenjwa kwakhe, uzobathatha “njengomndeni” futhi uzobenzela noma yini.
Ngokufana nowesifazane we-alpha wolf, uzizwa enomuzwa oqinile wokuzibophezela kulabo abasephaketheni lakhe. Uzokwenza okudingekayo ukuze abagcine beqinile, bephilile, futhi bephephile.
5. Uyazethemba yena namakhono akhe.
Umbono wenkolelo ye-Alphas ukuthi bangamaqhude futhi kancane ozikhukhumezayo , kodwa akunjalo.
Owesifazane wethu we-Alpha uyazethemba ukuthi ungubani nokuthi uyakwazi yini, kodwa akazigabisi noma afune ukunconywa nokunakwa ngakho.
Esikhundleni salokho, uhamba ngokuthula ngempilo yakhe nohlobo lokuzethemba olumnika amandla angaphakathi nokuthula kwangaphakathi. Ukungabaza akuhlali isikhathi eside emqondweni wakhe lapho ezikhumbuza ukuthi yini angayenza.
6. Uyazihlonipha futhi unesithunzi.
Uma owesifazane we-Alpha weqiniso ezithola esesimweni lapho kuyodingeka abeke eceleni izimiso zakhe ukuze enze abanye abantu bajabule, ungaqiniseka ukuthi uzobeka eceleni lokho okulindelwe ukuze agcine ukuzihlonipha kwakhe. Ngeke ayekethise ezimisweni zakhe.
Ngokufanayo, uzoziphatha ngendlela ethile yesithunzi nomusa. Uma eneminyaka yobudala obuthile, mancane amathuba okuthi agqoke izingubo zendodakazi yakhe ngomzamo wokunamathela ebusheni, kodwa kunalokho uzogqoka izingubo ezimenza azizwe emuhle futhi enamandla.
Lona ngumuntu wesifazane ongeke afike ezindleleni ezingenangqondo zokunaka ukunakwa komunye umuntu: uma kuthiwa umuntu akafaki isikhathi noma umzamo wokumazi, makube njalo. Bangase bazisole ngokukhetha kwabo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, bangahle banga… kepha noma kanjani, uzibeke yena phambili. Njengoba kufanele kube njalo.
7. Ufuna ukukhula futhi afunde.
Ukuzethemba kwakhe kuvumela owesifazane we-Alpha ukuthi akwazi ukubhekana nazo zonke izinhlobo zezinselelo, futhi unesifiso sokufanisa amakhono akhe.
Uhlala njalo efuna isifundo ezintweni futhi ulwela ukuba ngcono futhi enze kangcono. Yize enelisekile ngomuntu anguye, uyazi ukuthi kunenjabulo etholakala ekuzithuthukiseni kunokuma ndawonye.
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Uhlala onqenqemeni lomsebenzi wakhe, ufunda izifundo eziningi, futhi ubuka ama-documentary amaningi. Konke lokhu kusiza ekubumbeni kwakhe futhi kumnikeze lokho akudingayo ukuze akhule.
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8. Uphila ngeqiniso lakhe.
Lona wesifazane angaphila impilo engavumelani nabanye abangase bangayiqondi, futhi kulungile impela ngalokho. Abanye abantu bangahlebeza ngaye ngemuva kwakhe, bamgxeke ngokungathathi izinqumo ezifanayo nezempilo, abenza inhlekisa ngokukhetha kwakhe imfashini, futhi ngokuvamile abaqondi nje ukuthi angaphila kanjani ngendlela aphila ngayo… kepha imibono yabo ayibalulekile. Iqiniso lakhe ngelakhe. Ukuphela kwe-.
9. Akabeki abanye abantu besifazane phansi.
Abanye besifazane ababizwa ngo “Alphas” banegama lokuba nonya kwabanye ababazungezile, ikakhulukazi abanye besifazane. Bavezwa njengamakati, ukwahlulela izidalwa ezizoklolodela abanye abesifazane abakhetha imfashini futhi zilulaze abangaphansi kwazo ehhovisi ukuze nje zifakazele ukuthi zingumphathi.
I-Alpha yangempela ayinakusetshenziselwa lokho engajulile umbhedo.
Uyazi ukuthi ungubani nokuthi ufike kanjani lapho, futhi maningi amathuba okuba akhuthaze labo abona ukuthi banamandla. Uzokhuphuka isitebhisi maduze, futhi lapho enza kanjalo, angathanda abesifazane abanekhono, abazethembayo ukulandela ezinyathelweni zakhe.
Wazi kahle kabi ukuthi ukuphela kwesikhathi lapho ezobukela phansi umuntu kulapho ebanikeza isandla sokumsiza, futhi akanasidingo sokuqinisa ukuzethemba kwakhe ngokuzama ukuchoboza okwomunye umuntu.
10. Uyasebenza.
Lo wesifazane uthatha inkunzi ngezimpondo zayo futhi uqinisa ithonya lakhe empilweni.
Akalindi ukuthi izinto zenzeke, yena kwenza ziyenzeka. Ungumenzi, wenza izinhlelo futhi azilandele, uzibekela imigomo futhi asebenze ukuyiguqula ibe ngokoqobo.
Uvame ukuba ngumuntu oshayelayo eqenjini labantu, ehlela imicimbi, ephakamisa imibono, eqinisekisa ukuthi izinto ziyenzeka.
11. Uyenqaba ukudlala imidlalo.
Lokhu kuhambisana nokuthi uzokhuluma umqondo wakhe futhi aveze lokho akudingayo: akanalo nhlobo usizo lwemidlalo, futhi uzokwenqaba ukuyidlala.
Akanaso isineke sokwenza into eyodwa phakathi kwabangane bakhe, imidlalo yamandla ehhovisi, noma inhlebo, ikakhulukazi uma inobungozi. Uma othile ezama ukudlala kanzima ukungena ebudlelwaneni ukuze amjahe, kungenzeka athi 'f * ck lokho,' athathe ukukhishwa, bese echitha ubusuku ezitotosa.
Ngeke ahlanganyele ebudloveni bokungenzi lutho, noma azame ukwenza omunye umuntu abe nomona uma ezwa ukuthi akatholi ukunakwa okwanele. Akenalo uvalo ngokuvuleleka kakhulu nangokukhulumisana ngokuthi uzizwa kanjani nokuthi yini ayidingayo, futhi ulindele ukuthi abanye baziphathe ngezinga elifanayo lokuvuthwa.
Kubambiswano - kungaba ngebhizinisi noma olwakhe - udinga olinganayo. Hhayi umuntu ozozama ukunciphisa amalangabi akhe, noma umuntu ofuna ukuba ngumama. Kungenzeka ukuthi usevele wagijima lawo ma-gauntlets, wafunda kuwo, futhi wathi 'angiphinde futhi.'
12. Uhola ngaphakathi kweqembu.
Ngaphandle kokucabanga kwabantu abaningi, owesifazane we-Alpha akaholeli ngaphambili, uhola ngaphakathi.
Ukhuthaza ilungu ngalinye leqembu ukuthi lifeze amandla alo futhi uqinisekise ukuthi abantu basebenza ngokubambisana ukuqedela umsebenzi.
Impela, uyathumela, kepha akakwemi umthwalo futhi anga - futhi azonamathela kunoma yini edinga ukwenziwa. Ozakwabo noma asebenza nabo bayamthanda ngalokhu futhi banesifiso sokunyusa umdlalo wabo ukuze bahambisane nomzamo wakhe.
13. Uthobekile.
Akekho ongenaphutha. Akekho umuntu ophelele. Sonke siyawenza amaphutha, u-Alpha noma cha.
Kepha u-Alpha weqiniso akakubalekeli ukwehluleka kwakhe. Akazami ukusola noma ngubani noma yini enye uma kungokwakhe ngempela.
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Angavuma lapho enza iphutha noma lapho ehlulekile ukufeza okulindelwe okuphezulu kwakhe.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuzizwa kwakhe enamandla kusho ukuthi akanamahloni okukhubeka nokuwa ngoba uyazi ukuthi angavuka, azisule uthuli, aphinde azame.
14. Akesatshiswa abesilisa.
Owesifazane u-Alpha ubheka owesilisa njengomunye nje umuntu futhi akazizwa ephansi noma esatshiswa.
Angazibambela yena egumbini eligcwele abesilisa uma kudingeka, futhi akuyona into engavamile ukumbona engena ezizindeni zabesilisa ezinomdlandla emsebenzini nakwezemidlalo.
Uphatha amadoda ngenhlonipho, kepha ufuna lelo zinga elifanayo lenhlonipho libuyele kubo.
15. Uzohamba uma kudingeka.
Owesifazane we-Alpha othembekile kuye kanye nezidingo zomphefumulo wakhe uyabona ukuthi uyi-maelstrom kuye, nokuthi angakwazi ukusuka kunoma yini uma edinga. Isimo, ezothando, idolobha… uma ephathwa kabi noma engahlonishwa, akananhliziyo yokuyifaka ngaphakathi bese ehamba ukuze athembeke kuye.
Angaba ngumuntu onamandla kakhulu, ozethembayo, futhi onamandla, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi akazwelanga noma unonya. Ukuba i-Alfa kuyibhalansi yemvelo / yokondla: abanye besifazane bazalwa benalezi zimfanelo, kanti abanye bayabathuthukisa phakathi nempilo yabo.
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Kodwa-ke owesifazane uguquke waba ngowesifazane weqiniso we-Alpha, qiniseka ngalokhu: angahle abe nesineke futhi abekezelele isikhashana, kepha uma umdudulela kude kakhulu, ngeke ahambe kuphela: uzoqinisekisa ukuthi ayikho indlela isihogo sokuthi uzomlandela lapho eya khona.
Uma owesifazane enamawala, ecindezela, efuna ngenkani, noma enonya kwabanye, maningi amathuba okuthi akayona i-Alfa yangempela. Kungenzeka ukuthi ungumuntu ongavikelekile ngokumangazayo olimaza amazinga amaningi, futhi izindaba zakhe ezijulile zibonakala ekuziphatheni okunolaka nokungahloniphi, kunokuzethemba okuyiqiniso.
Khumbula ukuthi izinja ezincane ziyagquma futhi zilume futhi zikhonkothe kulabo ababazungezile ngoba zinezakhiwo eziphansi kakhulu.
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