Ulale nomfana, futhi umthanda ngokwanele ukuthi ufuna ukulandela izinto ngokuqhubekayo.
Kodwa mhlawumbe ukhathazekile ngokuthi akakuboni ngaleyo ndlela, noma uhlehla emuva ngemuva kokwenza itayitela futhi awuqiniseki ukuthi kungani.
Kule ndatshana, sizobe sihlola ukuthi kwenzekani ngempela emiqondweni yamadoda ngemuva kokulala nabo, nokuthi kungani iningi labo liguqula indlela eliziphatha ngayo ngemuva kwalokho.
Uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi ungamgcina kanjani enentshisekelo futhi ufuna ukumenza aqhubeke nokukujaha, funda ku…
1. Cabanga ngemicabango yakhe.
Abanye abafana bajaha amantombazane ngento eyodwa - ucansi. Uma sebekutholile, bavame ukulungela ukuqhubeka.
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Lezi zinhlobo zabafana azenzi ukuxhumana okuqinile ngokomzwelo kozakwabo abenza nabo ucansi njengoba kwenza abesifazane abaningi.
Lapho sebethole abakufunayo, bayakujabulela ukulandela umuntu olandelayo.
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi iningi labafana libukeka kakhulu, ngakho-ke kuzolandela abesifazane ababathola beheha ngokomzimba. Bangase bangasizwa isidingo sokwazi abantu besifazane abalele nabo konke lokho, njengoba besanda kulandela okuthile okwesikhashana nokungajwayelekile.
Amadoda amaningi aneminyaka engama-20 nengama-30 abheke ukuhlala phansi - ngemuva kwakho konke, kungani kufanele? Bangalala, bajabule, futhi benze noma yini abayifunayo ngaphandle kokuzibophezela noma izibopho.
Yingakho ukuziphatha kwabo kungashintsha kungazelelwe uma usulele nabo.
2. Qonda ‘ukushintsha.’
Kwabanye abafana, ekuseni ngemuva kokuxhuma kusho into eyodwa - ukuphuma. Bathole abakufunayo futhi abafuni lutho olubucayi, ngakho-ke kungani uzihlupha ngokuhlala uzungeze?
Uma umfana omthandayo enza ngokungafani manje njengoba senilele ndawonye, angahle akhathazeke ngokuthi nizozama ukumphoqa ukuba abe nobuhlobo nawe.
Kungazwakala kuyisilima, kepha iningi labafana likhathazekile ngokuthi ukuzibophezela kunoma yini enye ngaphandle kokuma kobusuku obubodwa noma ukushaywa okungajwayelekile kusho ukuthi baboshelwe impilo yabo yonke.
Bangase baqale ukwethuka ukuthi uzobamema ukuthi bahlangane nabazali bakho, noma ngokuzumayo balindele ukuthi baphakamise noma bazohlala nawe.
3. Yigcine ikhululekile!
Ungahle uthande ukukuyisa ezingeni elilandelayo, kodwa kungcono ukugweme ukusho lokhu okwamanje!
Ngemuva nje kokuba ulale nomuntu akusona isikhathi esihle ngaso sonke isikhathi sokuveza iqiniso lokuthi ulandela okuthile okubucayi.
Lokhu kuvame ukuba ngenye yezinto evala abafana ngempela noma ibaxoshe, ngakho-ke yigcine ikhululekile okwamanje.
Ungahle uzizwe kakhulu njengamanje, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi umwele kakhulu nangokwengeziwe selokhu wabelana ngento esondelene kangaka, kepha udinga ukuthatha izinto kancane.
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Ungakhuluma ngokuthandana kakhulu kamuva. Ungamjahi noma umcindezele kunoma yini futhi uzoza kuwe ngesikhathi sakhe.
4. Gxila kuwe.
Okuthile okwenziwa abesifazane abaningi ngemuva kokulala nomfana ukubanaka konke. Kuyalinga, ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ukuthi unemizwa ngabo.
Ngokucasulayo, ‘ukubaphatha kusho ukubenza babukeke’ kunganemba kahle - lapho uzijikijela kakhudlwana kothile, lapho eba nentshisekelo enkulu, futhi ngokufanayo.
Ngokuzibamba kancane, uzodala umoya wemfihlakalo ozungezile futhi bazoqala ukukuxosha futhi.
Angase futhi akuthande ngempela, kodwa lapho utshengisa kakhulu intshisekelo, maningi amathuba okuthi abuyele emuva noma kunjalo.
Akunangqondo, siyazi, kodwa ake eze kuwe - ngaphandle kwalokho, noma ngabe ukuthanda kangakanani, uzozwa sengathi uboshelwe kusenesikhathi futhi uzokucasukela ngakho.
5. Hlanganisa.
Abanye abantu bakhathazeka ngokuthi uma sebeke balala nothile, ukuphela kwendawo esele ukuthi bazibophezele ukuzibophezela.
Ukuze ugcine umfana enentshisekelo, hlanganisa izinto! Zijabulise futhi udlale nxazonke - ubabonise ukuthi awulona iponi eliyiqhinga elilodwa, lokufuna ibinzana elingcono.
Yiba ngowesifazane omnandi, onothando othanda ukuchitha isikhathi naye futhi umgcine eqagela ukuthi uzokwenzani ngokulandelayo.
Lokho kungaba segumbini lokulala, kunjalo, kepha kungaba futhi lapho uhlangana khona, yiziphi izinto ezimnandi ovuka kuzo, nokuthi wenza kanjani lapho umzungezile.
Dala impicabadala kuwe ngenkathi umvumela ukuthi abone uhlangothi oludlalayo ebuntwini bakho.
6. Yiba okuzenzakalelayo.
Futhi, abanye abantu bakhathazeka ngokuthi ngokuzumayo ukuba yindoda yowesifazane oyedwa kusho ukuthi impilo izoba yinto ejwayelekile futhi enesidina.
Kungenzeka ukuthi sebevele bezizwa sengathi baboshelwe phansi - sonke siyazi ukuthi imicibisholo ezungeze abesifazane ekubeni ‘yibhola neketanga’ ayinalo iqiniso ngokuphelele, kodwa amanye amadoda asakhathazeka ukuthi impilo yawo isizokhawulelwa kakhulu.
Ukuze ulwe nale nkolelo futhi ugcine unentshisekelo, yiba mnandi futhi uzenzele!
Mtshengise ukuthi ungowesifazane othokozisayo, onentshisakalo ofaka okuthile okukhethekile empilweni yakhe - hhayi umuntu ozomshayela njalo uma ephuma nabangane noma efuna ukuchitha isikhathi eyedwa!
7. Qiniseka - noma okungenani uyikhohlise!
Abafana abathandi ukubuzwa ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi nakanjani abathandi abantu abaphikelela ngokuthi banamanga.
Ngakho-ke, kunokuba uhlale ungena naye ukuze uqiniseke noma umsole ngokungathembeki ngokuthi uzizwa kanjani ngawe, vele ube nokuzethemba okukhulu.
Siyazi, senza kuzwakale sengathi kuyinto elula! Kungakho kungani ukuzenzisa ukuzethemba nakho kufanelekile ukuzama…
Lapho ubonakala uvikeleke ngokwengeziwe futhi uthola ukuzethemba okukhulu ngokwengeziwe, kulapho ezokwaziswa kakhulu ngaye.
Ufuna ukuchitha isikhathi nomuntu okwaziyo ukuzijabulisa futhi azi ukuthi banesimo esihle kanjani - ngakho-ke thintana nalolo hlangothi lwakho, ulikhohlise uze ulwenze uma udinga, futhi ubheke ukuthi ukusukela kanjani ngokushesha okukhulu!
8. Kugcine kumnandi.
Vele, uma uhlela ukuthandana nalo mfana noma uze ucabange ukuqhubeka nobudlelwano naye, kuzodingeka umazi ezingeni elijulile!
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Okwamanje, kulungile, ukugcina izinto zithandeka.
Mteketise ngemilayezo enamahloni, umazise ukuthi ucabanga ngobumnandi obenabo ndawonye egumbini lokulala, futhi mhlawumbe uphakamise okuthile okujabulisayo ukuzama ngokuzayo.
Le yindlela enhle yokubonisa ukuthi uyathandeka kuye futhi unentshisekelo kuye ngaphandle kokuthi ikhathaze kakhulu noma inamathele ngokushesha.
Kuyindlela enhle yokumgcina enesithakazelo kuwe, futhi - uzokhumbula ukuthi wayekuthanda kangakanani ukuhlanganyela nawe futhi uzokujabulela ukukubona futhi.
Njengoba isikhathi siqhubeka, ngokwemvelo uzosondela futhi uzoqala ukubophela ngaphezu kwezinto ezingekho ngokomzimba!
9. Landela.
Ngakho-ke, uyidlala ipholile futhi uyiyo ukumnika isikhala , konke ngenkathi kukhombisa ukuthi umnandi futhi unothando!
Ungesabi ukumshiyela umbhalo ukuze umazise ukuthi ukujabulele kangakanani ukuchitha isikhathi naye. Akudingeki ukuveza imizwa yakho ngendlela enempilo, elinganisiwe, ngemuva kwakho konke.
Thumela okuthile okujabulisayo nokuthokozisayo - uzozizwa emuhle futhi ekhanga kusuka ekuncomeni, futhi uzozizwa kahle ngokulala nawe. Izosebenza futhi njengesikhumbuzo esincane sobukhona bakho futhi izokugcina kwi-radar yakhe.
10. Yiba phambili.
Uma izinto zingahambi ngendlela obuyethemba, angahle angawutholi umyalezo ozama ukuwuthumela.
Uma uke waba ukudlala kanzima ukuthola kepha ukhomba ngokufuna okuthile okwengeziwe, noma ubulokhu unethemba lokuthi ekugcineni uzokuqonda ukuthi ufuna okuningi, sekuyisikhathi sengxoxo ethile eqotho.
Thembeka kuye - ukujabulele ukulala naye, kepha ufuna okungaphezulu. Kulula kanjalo.
Awudingi ukungena emininingwaneni eminingi futhi uhlelele iminyaka engama-20 ezayo yezimpilo zenu ndawonye, kodwa ungasho ukuthi ungathanda athandane naye kuphela .
Kulungile ukusetha okulindelwe, kepha ungazami ukuphakama kakhulu ngokushesha okukhulu!
Akekho kini onezikweledu nganoma yini ngoba nje nilale ndawonye, futhi ngeke nakanjani acabange ngezindlela ezifanayo ngqo enizenzayo - noma abangane bakho, noma owedlule, noma omunye wabafana abakwi-TV akubonisa bukela yenza!
Makabe nesikhathi nesikhathi sokuthola ukuthi kusho ukuthini kuye.
11. Gwema ukumfaka ingcindezi.
Khumbula ukuthi ukuya ocansini kungasho into ehluke kakhulu komunye nomunye wakho, bese uzama ukuzibamba ungagijimeli kunoma yini.
Mazise nje ukuthi uyakujabulela ukuchitha isikhathi naye futhi ufuna ukukwenza ngokwengeziwe.
Lokhu akubambeleli noma kuswele, noma amanye amagama amabi abesifazane abavame ukubekwa uphawu ngawo, ukuthembeka nje nokuvuthwa.
Kuyakusiza futhi ukuphatha ukuphatha okulindele futhi kuzokusiza ugweme noma yikuphi ukuphoxeka okungadingekile uma engafuni into efanayo.
Asithambekele ekukhuthazeni ama-ultimatums, ngoba angahle adideke futhi ahlangane nabaswele nabakhohlisayo, kepha ungamazisa ukuthi uzizwa kanjani nokuthi ufunani.
Thembeka ngendlela ozizwa ngayo futhi umvumele azenzele isinqumo. Kuzosheshe kucace ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngawe futhi uzozizwa kangcono kakhulu ngokwazi ukuthi umi kuphi, noma yikuphi lapho kugcina ngokuba khona.
12. Yazi ukuthi ulubiza nini ngosuku.
Ngakho-ke, ube yimfihlakalo, ube ngowesifazane wakhe wamaphupho futhi ubulokhu uzama ukuba nenhliziyo elula futhi ube mnandi ngangokunokwenzeka.
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Uma namanje ungasondeli ekutholeni lokho okufunayo futhi umtshele ngokusobala ukuthi ufuna okuthile okubucayi, sekuyisikhathi sokuthi ukubize.
Kunzima ukwamukela ukuthi izinto azisebenzi nomuntu uma unemizwa ngaye, kodwa kungcono ukukwenza ngokushesha kunakamuva, sethembe.
Uma engakwazi ukukunikeza okufunayo, futhi empeleni umnikeze ithuba lokuba nawe ngokwemibandela yakho noma ukungabi nawe nhlobo, udinga ukuqhubeka.
Kunzima futhi kungalimaza ngempela , kepha udinga ukubeka wena nezidingo / nezifiso zakho kuqala.
Uzothola omunye umuntu ohamba ngejubane elifanayo nawe futhi angakunika lokho okufunayo ngempela.
Khumbula ukuthi injabulo yakho ibaluleke kakhulu, ngakho-ke beka phambili imizwa yakho bese ugcina ikhanda lakho liphakeme!
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