Okuwukuphela kwakhe Uhlelo lokutakula ukuhlukunyezwa uzodinga njalo.
Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde kabanzi.
ngibona sengathi angisoze ngaluthola uthando
Noma ngabe iyini imbangela yokuziphatha kwabo, umuntu othanda izidakamizwa uzobangela ukuhlupheka okukhulu kulabo abahlukumezayo.
Bangabahlukumezi bomoya abathatha umuntu futhi babalawule, babadide, futhi babahlukumeze ngezikhali eziningi ezethusayo zomlomo nezomzimba ukuze nje banelise ingqondo yabo enganeliseki, yokuzazisa.
Lapho ebalekela lobu buntu obunobuthi, kungathatha osindile isikhathi esiningi ukuphinda athole ukufana okuthile kobuntu bakhe bangaphambili, kepha abasoze bafana nomuntu ababenguye ngaphambili.
Ngaphandle kwalokhu, ekugcineni bazofinyelela endaweni lapho bekwazi khona ukubheka emuva kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo ezandleni zombhali wezinto ezithile nabathile okuncane inani lokwamukelwa.
Abasoze baqonda ngokuphelele ukuthi kungani kwakudingeka bakhuthazelele ukuhlupheka okunje, kepha ngeke besaboshwa yithonya elisalele lomqaphi wabo.
Yize kunconywa ukuthi umuntu oke wahlangabezana nobunzima obunjalo angaphinde axhumane nalowo muntu okukhulunywa ngaye, kunezinto ezimbalwa abaningi abangathanda ukukwazi ukuzisho kumhlukumezi wakhe.
Nazi izitatimende ezine ezinjalo ezingashiwo.
1. Awuzange Ungiphule
Ungizwisa ubuhlungu ngezindlela ongeke neze uziqonde.
Kwesinye isikhathi, impilo nawe wazizwa uyindlela yokuhlukunyezwa ngokwengqondo njengoba ungisondeza eduze komngcele wakwalasha.
Ungithathile, wangihlafuna, waphinda wangikhafula.
Ungiguqule unomphela ngezindlela engisazovumelana nazo.
Ungibuke njengethuluzi futhi wangisebenzisa kanjalo nje.
Awuzange ungikhathalele konke obukufuna kimi kwakuwukudunyiswa nokunakwa okufisayo.
Ngifuna wazi ukuthi awungiphulanga.
Kungenzeka ukuthi umoya wami ulimele, kepha selokhu ngikushiye ngemuva, usuphinde waqhakaza futhi wachuma.
Naphezu kwayo yonke imizamo yakho yokwehlisa isithunzi nokungicekela phansi, wehlulekile.
Ngimi lapha namuhla ngidelela wena nakho konke okwenze kimi.
2. Awusenayo Indawo Enhliziyweni Yami (Futhi Lokho Ukulahlekelwa Kwakho)
Isikhathi eside, inhliziyo yami bekungeyakho.
Ubunothando lwami, ukunakekelwa kwami, nokuzinikela kwami, kepha ukuchithile manje akusekho.
Akusekho ndawo yakho enhliziyweni yami futhi ngifuna wazi ukuthi ngeke kuphinde kube khona.
Lokho owawunakho kwakuyilungelo nodumo, kepha awazi nhlonipho ngezinto ezinjalo.
Ungacabanga ukuthi unokuningi empilweni yakho, kepha uthando lwami - nothando lwabo bonke abakushiye ngemuva - kuyinto ozoba mpofu kakhulu ngaphandle kwakho.
Ukufunda okubaluleke kakhulu kwe-narcissist (i-athikili iyaqhubeka ngezansi):
- Izindlela Zokubhekana Nesimo Lapho Ushiya Umlingani We-Narcissistic Ngemuva
- Ungayilimaza Kanjani i-Narcissist
- Ukuzwela Ukuzwela KwamaNarcissist: Izimpikiswano Ngokuphikisana Nalokho
- Ukuthi Ukukhohlakala Kobukhulu BamaNarcissist Kubavimba Kanjani Ekukuthandeni
- Ukuqinisekiswa Kwempilo Kwezisulu Zokuhlukunyezwa KwamaNarcissistic
- Izingwegwe ezi-5 Ezisetshenziswa AmaNarcissist Ukugcina Ubuya
3. Ungifundisile Isifundo Ebengidinga Ukuthi Ngisifunde
Ungahle ukholelwe ukuthi ube nokuhleka kokugcina ebudlelwaneni bethu, ukuthi akukho engingakuthatha ngesikhathi engichithe nawe.
Ake ngikutshele manje ukuthi unephutha.
Kungenzeka ukuthi wangisebenzisa ngaphandle kokucabanga okwesibili ngenhlalakahle yami, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi awunandaba nokuthi nginjani manje, kepha kufanele wazi ukuthi lokhu okwenze kimi kungifundise inani elikhulu kakhulu.
Wena nokuziphatha kwakho okunenzondo bekuyizifundo zempilo engikubongayo.
Angikubongi ngalokhu ngiyazibonga ngokwazi ukubona incazelo ngezindlela zakho ezimbi nokufunda kubo lokho ebengikudinga ukukufunda.
4. Ngiyakudabukela
Ukuphela komuzwa engikushiyele wona manje owokuzwela.
Kuyadabukisa ukucabanga ukuthi awusoze wazi ukuthi kunjani ukuthanda, ukuzwa ububele, noma ukuzizwa usondelene ngempela nomunye umuntu ophilayo.
Ngifisa sengathi ngabe uyakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi yini oyintulayo, kepha ngiyangabaza ukuthi uzoze ukwazi.
Akulona nje uthando lwabanye, kodwa lokho okuzwayo kuwe futhi angicabangi ukuthi ukuzwa lokhu.
Angikwazi ukucabanga umhlaba ongenalo uthando, kepha yilokhu okufanele ngabe uhlala kukho.
Ngenkathi abanye bengakukhombisa uthando, awukwazi ukuzwa imiphumela yalo, futhi awuthokozi ngemfudumalo nobuhle balo.
Kukho konke lokhu, ngingavele ngikudabukele.
izingcaphuno zika-winnie-the-pooh
Bheka lokhu inkambo eku-inthanethi yakhelwe ukusiza othile welapha ekuhlukunyezweni ngokweqile .
Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde kabanzi.
Leli khasi liqukethe izixhumanisi ezihambisanayo. Ngithola ikhomishini encane uma ukhetha ukuthenga noma yini ngemuva kokuchofoza kuzo.
