Singabantu abanamakhono kakhulu kuwo. Sisebenzisa isimo salo esiyinkimbinkimbi ukwedlula noma yiziphi ezinye izinhlobo. Futhi nokho… sivame ukutholakala sintula ngokudabukisayo kukho.
Ukuxhumana kungezinye zezizathu ezisemqoka zokuthi sisusele ekuzulazuleni, izidalwa ezihlala emigedeni siye emjahweni osezingeni eliphezulu kwezobuchwepheshe manje osugcwele izifunda eziningi eMhlabeni.
Ukulalela , ukukhuluma, ukuhambisa imicabango nemizwa yethu kwabanye: konke kuholela ekuqondeni kangcono ukuthi ngubani omunye nomunye nokuthi imiphi imisebenzi edinga ukwenziwa ukuqinisekisa ukuqhubeka kwethu kokuphila nokuchuma.
Noma okungenani, leyo mbono.
Eqinisweni, ngaphandle kwezilimi zethu eziningi eziyinkimbinkimbi nobuchopho obukhulu, ikhono lethu lokuqonda ngokunembile ukuthi omunye nomunye ucabangani, uzizwa kanjani, ufisa ini, futhi nezidingo zivame ukutholakala zintula.
Ukukusiza uthuthukise okwakho amakhono okuxhumana , nazi izingcaphuno ezikhanyisa ama-nuances amaningi wokudluliswa kolwazi ngempumelelo.
Ekulaleleni
Lalela ngokufuna ukwazi. Khuluma ngokwethembeka. Yenza ngobuqotho. Inkinga enkulu yokuxhumana asilaleli ukuqonda. Silalela ukuphendula. Lapho silalela ngokulangazelela, asilaleli ngenhloso yokuphendula. Silalela okungemuva kwamagama. - URoy T. Bennett
Ukulalela okujulile kuyisimangaliso kubo bobabili abalaleli nabakhulumayo. Lapho othile esamukela ngenhliziyo evulekile, angahluleli, ngokulalela okukhulu, imimoya yethu iyakhula. - Sue Thoele
Izwi elikhulunywayo lingengxenye yalowo okhulumayo, kanti ingxenye iye kulowo olalelayo. - Isaga sesiFulentshi
Ngizikhumbuza njalo ekuseni: Akukho engikushoyo namuhla okuzongifundisa noma yini. Ngakho-ke uma ngizofunda, kufanele ngikwenze ngokulalela. - ULarry King
Sinezindlebe ezimbili nomlomo owodwa ukuze sikwazi ukulalela okuphindwe kabili kunalokho esikukhulumayo. - U-Epictetus
Lapho abantu bekhuluma, lalela ngokuphelele. Abantu abaningi abakaze balalele. - U-Ernest Hemingway
Awukwazi ukulalela ngokweqiniso kunoma ngubani futhi wenze noma yini enye ngasikhathi sinye. - M. Scott Peck
Ama-monologue amabili awenzi inkhulumomphendvulwano. - UJeff Daly
Ngokukhuluma Kakhulu
Imizamo eminingi yokuxhumana ayenziwanga ngokusho okuningi. - URobert Greenleaf
Yiluphi ulwazi oludlayo olusobala kakhulu: ludla ukunakwa kwabemukeli balo. Ngakho-ke ingcebo yolwazi idala ubuphofu bokunakwa. - UHerbert A. Simon
Abantu abahlakaniphile bayakhuluma ngoba kunokuthile abakushoyo abayiziwula, ngoba kufanele basho okuthile. - imvamisa kuthiwa yenziwa nguPlato, kepha abukho ubufakazi balokhu
Thula lapho ungenalutho ongakusho lapho uthando lwangempela lukuhambisa, yisho lokho ozokusho, futhi ukusho kushise. - UDH Lawrence
Ungasho okuncane ngamagama amaningi kepha khuluma kakhulu ngamagama ambalwa. - IPythagoras
Namuhla, ukuxhumana uqobo kuyinkinga. Sibe umphakathi wokuqala oxhumana ngokweqile emhlabeni. Unyaka ngamunye sithumela okuningi futhi sithola okuncane. - Al Ries
Ukungasho lutho… kwesinye isikhathi kusho kakhulu. - U-Emily Dickinson
Khuluma kuphela uma kuthuthukisa ekuthuleni. - Mahatma Gandhi
On Ukuqondwa
Amagama amabili athi 'ulwazi' kanye 'nokuxhumana' avame ukusetshenziswa ngokungafani, kepha akhombisa izinto ezihluke kakhulu. Imininingwane inikezela ukuxhumana kuyaqhubeka. - USydney J. Harris
Ukuthi sikhulumisana kahle kangakanani akunqunywa ukuthi sikusho kahle kangakanani izinto, kodwa ukuthi siqondwa kanjani. - Andrew Grove
Ikhono lokuveza umqondo lisondele ngokubaluleka njengombono uqobo. - UBernard Baruch
unethezeke esikhunjeni sakho
Ukuxhumana okuhle akusho ukuthi kufanele ukhulume ngemisho nezigaba ezibunjwe kahle. Akukona ngokushelela. Okulula nokucacile kuhamba ibanga elide. - UJohn Kotter
Inkinga eyodwa enkulu kwezokuxhumana yinkohliso yokuthi yenzekile. - UWilliam H. Whyte
Ekuxhumaneni Okungaqondakali
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kwezokuxhumana ukuzwa okungashiwongo. - UPeter Drucker
Okwenzayo kukhulumela phezulu kangangokuthi angikuzwa okushoyo. - URalph Waldo Emerson
Ukubeka isibonelo esihle kuyindlela ephumelela kunazo zonke yokuxhumana. - UJan Carlzon
Ekuhlaziyweni kokugcina, lokho esiyikho kukhulumisana kahle kakhulu kunanoma yini esiyishoyo noma esiyenzayo. - UStephen Covey
Ukungajabuli okuningi sekuze emhlabeni ngenxa yokudideka nezinto ezingashiwongo. - UFyodor Dostoyevsky
Kuzo zonke izinto esizenzileyo zokuxhumana ngobuningi, izithombe zisakhuluma ulimi oluqondwa kakhulu emhlabeni wonke. - Walt Disney
Isithombe sidweba amagama ayinkulungwane. - Akwaziwa
Ungahle uthande (izingcaphuno ziyaqhubeka ngezansi):
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- Izilinganiso eziyi-7 Mayelana Nokuthula Kwangaphakathi Ukukusiza Ukuthola Okungokwakho
- Izilinganiso eziyi-15 Zokukhumbula Lapho Uzizwa Ulahlekile Ekuphileni
- Izilinganiso ezingama-30 Zokugubha Izethulo, Izimbali Zasemuva Nezimpisi Ezizodwa
- Izilinganiso eziyi-16 zokukusiza ukuthi udedele okwedlule
Ukuthi Ukhuluma Nobani
Ngikhuluma nawo wonke umuntu ngendlela efanayo, noma ngabe ungumuntu odoti noma umongameli wenyuvesi. - U-Albert Einstein
Isisekelo esiyisisekelo sezokuxhumana okuhle umuzwa wokuthi wonke umuntu uhlukile futhi unenani. - Akwaziwa
Ukuxhumana ngempumelelo, kufanele sazi ukuthi sonke sihlukile ngendlela esibona ngayo umhlaba futhi sisebenzisa lokhu kuqonda njengesiqondisi ekuxhumaneni kwethu nabanye. - UTony Robbins
Cabanga njengendoda ehlakaniphile kepha xhumana ngolimi lwabantu. - UWilliam Butler Yeats
Ekwazini Ukuthi Utheni Futhi Uzokusho Nini
Okokuqala funda incazelo yalokho okushoyo, bese ukhuluma. - U-Epictetus
Khuluma lapho uthukuthele futhi uzokwenza inkulumo enhle kakhulu ongazisola ngayo. - IGroucho Marx
Kufanele siqaphele amazwi ethu njengezenzo zethu. - UCicero
Amadoda amabili asendlini eshayo akumele ayeke ukuphikisana. - Isaga sase-Afrika
Ekuxoxeni Izindaba
Ababalisi bezindaba, ngaso kanye isenzo sokutshela, baxhumana ngemfundo eguqukayo eguqula izimpilo nezwe: ukuxoxa izindaba kuyindlela efinyeleleka emhlabeni wonke abantu abenza ngayo umqondo. - UChris Cavanaugh
Izethameli ziyakhohlwa amaqiniso, kepha ziyazikhumbula izindaba. Lapho usudlulile embukisweni, umhlaba wezinkampani ungumthombo ongapheli wezindaba ezithokozisayo. - U-Ian Griffin
Emandleni Okuxhumana
Inkulumo ifinyeleleka kalula kunazo zonke injabulo. Akubizi mali, konke kuyinzuzo, kuqeda imfundo yethu, kusungula futhi kukhuthaze ubungane bethu, futhi kungajatshulelwa kunoma yisiphi isikhathi futhi cishe kunoma isiphi isimo sempilo. - URobert Louis Stevenson
Abesilisa bavame ukuzondana ngoba besaba omunye nomunye bayasaba ngoba abazani abazani ngoba abakwazi ukuxhumana abakwazi ukuxhumana ngoba bahlukene. - UMartin Luther King, Jr.
Ekuthuthukiseni Kuyo
Ukuxhumana kuyikhono ongalifunda. Kufana nokuhamba ngebhayisikili noma ukuthayipha. Uma uzimisele ukusebenzela kukho, ungalithuthukisa ngokushesha ikhwalithi yengxenye enkulu yempilo yakho. - UBrian Tracy
Ukuxhumana kusebenza kulabo abasebenza kukho. - UJohn Powell
Nokunye
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Impendulo: impendulo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi impendulo ingenye yezinto ezibalulekile zokuxhumana okuhle. - Akwaziwa
Hlola okushiwoyo hhayi okhulumayo. - Isaga sama-Arab
Kunezindlela ezine, nezindlela ezine kuphela, lapho sixhumana khona nezwe. Sihlolisiswa futhi sihlukaniswe yilaba oxhumana nabo abane: esikwenzayo, indlela esibukeka ngayo, esikushoyo nokuthi sikusho kanjani. - UDale Carnegie
